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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Evening peeps. Just got back from my kickboxing class and being relatively new to it some girl asked me to spar. She has been doing it a while and I have done boxing before, but never properly sparred with a woman before. She kept trying to unload her shots and long range kicks, yet I couldn't help restraining quite a lot and taking what she threw at me.

So I ask you in another situation, where a woman was hitting you. Could you hit her back?

I was tempted to smash her tbh, but refrained.

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Depends if she asks nicely or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would

Yes I have

And if you had unloaded there's a good chance she would have battered you if she's been doing it longer.

If I spar with a newbie who's done other stuff I often try very fast combos first but without any weight behind them, just to see what level I need to go down or up too.

Also if you are naturally using a different guard to everyone else I can learn off how to best get around it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i would and i have. I take self defense extremely seriously?. If a woman punches me, i will hit back twice as hard. Equality ladies, you asked for it.

Don't want to get hit, then don't think you got the balls to hit me. I don't hit anyone but if i did, I'd expect to be beaten to a bloody pulp or even killed.

I don't believe in letting go women off. As for sparring, to honour a fellow combatant, i would fight to the best of my ability to honour the battle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only on the ass

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only on the ass "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no. I said something in an unfavorable light against a woman. Now comes the beta orbiters, neumales and harpies decrying me for believing in self defense.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

As a woman who boxes i hate it when sparring with guys who won't fight properly.

Yes, i'm a woman and yes, i'm probably the same age as their mum but i'm there for a tear up. If i just wanted to throw punches and have none come back at me i would stick to the bags

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh no. I said something in an unfavorable light against a woman. Now comes the beta orbiters, neumales and harpies decrying me for believing in self defense."

Hardly, I have seen videos where women get sat down by blokes in a scrap. I agree with what you are saying. At the end of the day an attacker is an attacker, regardless of sex. I had just never sparred with a woman before. So it was new to me. Kind of didn't know if I should hit her in the boob or not.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Oh no. I said something in an unfavorable light against a woman. Now comes the beta orbiters, neumales and harpies decrying me for believing in self defense."

first thing women get told in self defense is to run away from your attacker if you can. if that helps you understand why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to hit the person u spar with or there is no point sparring, it's about learning technique so u shouldn't really be unloading on someone anyway, I fought in full contact Thai boxing and at a high level in judo and some of the girls in my club were more dangerous than the guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people are told to run away. Don't make that advice a female only thing as it's not.

What is your second point? I gather there is more since you started with firstly

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Most people are told to run away. Don't make that advice a female only thing as it's not.

What is your second point? I gather there is more since you started with firstly"

i said first, it's the first thing we are taught. run away so as not to endanger yourself further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% agree in the street and faced with violence or danger.. take to your heels..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people are told to run away. Don't make that advice a female only thing as it's not.

What is your second point? I gather there is more since you started with firstly"

'first thing..'

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

In the right context yes. If I'm attacked I will defend or attack back, no difference man or woman tbh.

In a Domme sub scene if someone is playing up and responds to nothing else I will take them down, as I did with a woman at HDZ in march - this is within agreed limits and boundaries but those watching were not aware of that so I think it shocked a few people.

I've done kickboxing, various take down, control and restraint and self defence classes so a lot of it is automatic now. My kickboxing trainer was a woman and she actively encouraged me to hit her for real. I liked it

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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go on then seeing as you wanted more stuff...

we're then taught how to stay safe, as in defend ourself. we're told to never attack someone who has the potential to overpower us. our priority is to get away safely.

we're taught how to get out of holds so we can escape.

what body parts to protect so we are less likely to die.

and how to disable an attacker, this last one is sometimes by attacking them but in ways where it enables us to escape.

even in a court you can only use certain things/actions as self defense.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Only on the ass "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she was a ninja and wanted to jump me for my boaby as I was walking home alone one dark night I'd allow her to have her wicked way with me, then open a can of whoop ass afterwards fs.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I'd rather not but if she was some crazed thing who hit me first I'd have a good go back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all or would break a promise to my old grandpa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100% agree in the street and faced with violence or danger.. take to your heels.."

I can run faster if I take them off

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"100% agree in the street and faced with violence or danger.. take to your heels..

I can run faster if I take them off "

throw them at your attacker to slow them down too. i've seen this in films.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100% agree in the street and faced with violence or danger.. take to your heels..

I can run faster if I take them off

throw them at your attacker to slow them down too. i've seen this in films. "

Stiletto in the eye! Perfect defense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100% agree in the street and faced with violence or danger.. take to your heels..

I can run faster if I take them off

throw them at your attacker to slow them down too. i've seen this in films. "

That's considered as foreplay in some countries fs.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

NO, but if a life or death situation probably more willing too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know this isn't exactly a self defence thread, but as well as turning tail and running you should try and make as much noise as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well in my opinion if they are there for kickboxing boxing etc then I would say yes it's ok me myself would have been the same though holding back, but for me in any other scenario it's never right to hit a woman and no excuse for it but that may be just the way I was bought up....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't, I also would try to avoid hitting a man in a fight situation.

C&R are far more effective than punching, and you can escalate then pain without causing actual harm.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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so men, new question now is would you hit a woman in heels?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so men, new question now is would you hit a woman in heels? "

Yeh, but I wouldn't be able to drop my weight and get my stance or step through quite right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so men, new question now is would you hit a woman in heels?

Yeh, but I wouldn't be able to drop my weight and get my stance or step through quite right. "

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"so men, new question now is would you hit a woman in heels?

Yeh, but I wouldn't be able to drop my weight and get my stance or step through quite right. "

i feel bad turning a violence topic into a funny one but that was funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe in violence per se, ideally one should try to subdue the other rather than mirror their violent behaviour and seek to inflict assault or injury.

Bouncers are trained to combat attempted blows, subdue and restrain the attacker .. that's a good approach if possible.

Perhaps it's permissible in extraordinary circumstances but beyond those.. not convinced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100% agree in the street and faced with violence or danger.. take to your heels..

I can run faster if I take them off "

I struggle to run in my heels to be honest hence how I had to learn to fight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this isn't exactly a self defence thread, but as well as turning tail and running you should try and make as much noise as possible. "

I'd doubt if the average woman could out run an average male.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I know this isn't exactly a self defence thread, but as well as turning tail and running you should try and make as much noise as possible.

I'd doubt if the average woman could out run an average male."

i can but only for short distances as my knees aren't great and won't last long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been punched in the face during a fist fight.

Because I don't look back while I'm running.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dated a kickboxer 4 maybe 5 years ago and she would knock me out stone cold.

When she used to train, she used to punch the air, you could hear her punches actually collide with the air and make a "pop" sound.

I've seen her take brutal punches off blokes sparring...case in point...I've also seen her knowck more than a few spark out aswell.

She was extremely fit aswell, by fit I mean health wise, although she was hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this isn't exactly a self defence thread, but as well as turning tail and running you should try and make as much noise as possible.

I'd doubt if the average woman could out run an average male.

i can but only for short distances as my knees aren't great and won't last long."

Thats the problem who knows how long you'd have to run for in & in what type of shoes.

I agree with trying to run whilst shouting but I think you'd have to have a Plan B in mind for bracing yourself for an attack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why wouldn't a man hit back in self defence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why wouldn't a man hit back in self defence."

Because in majority of the cases such action is not necessary and would only make you feel like shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I no exactly what you mean I was same in sparring.

In sparring yes I have would I everyday life never and this is coming from bloke who got slapped a lot by a women and and hit with a heel of a stilletoe from my ex.

If certain circumstance but would need to be life threatening that is only time.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Oh no. I said something in an unfavorable light against a woman. Now comes the beta orbiters, neumales and harpies decrying me for believing in self defense."

Gotta love self pitying predictions that don't come true.

Especially when they come with a side of Internet men's rights nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Kickboxing' covers a lot of ground, from bounce on your back leg tippy tappy toe ballet through to full contact including knees and elbows.

Legally the law regarding self defence allows you to

'Use as much force as is nessicary and reasonable in the circumstance'

Then later a judge decided

'To create a window of opportunity to escape'

Then another one came out with

'A preemptive strike may be used if you are certain it's the only way to prevent an attack'

Then some Home Secretary said some thing like

'Giving a twat a kicking if he invades the old englishmans castle is not in the public interest unless ya go way over board. Eg shooting pikey kids in the back with an illegally owned shot gun while they are trying to run away'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why wouldn't a man hit back in self defence."

I'd rather put my fist through a wall than hit a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why wouldn't a man hit back in self defence.

Because in majority of the cases such action is not necessary and would only make you feel like shit."

But if it was necessary as in the woman was beating the shite outta you, then surely you would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why wouldn't a man hit back in self defence.

Because in majority of the cases such action is not necessary and would only make you feel like shit.

But if it was necessary as in the woman was beating the shite outta you, then surely you would."

If she was beating the shite out of me, she would probably be skilled enough to do it regardless of my input.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regarding the gent saying about bouncers being trained to restrain .... yeh ok I did that course

Now ask the prison service how to do it and see the difference between the experts and a bunch of dicks in hi viz.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why wouldn't a man hit back in self defence.

Because in majority of the cases such action is not necessary and would only make you feel like shit.

But if it was necessary as in the woman was beating the shite outta you, then surely you would.

If she was beating the shite out of me, she would probably be skilled enough to do it regardless of my input."

I don't get why you wouldn't try & defend yourself by hitting back.

Each to their own though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good push, on the centre of gravity with all your weight behind it, is better than any punch.

Especially if it's delivered battering ram style with arms protecting the head like a bunker.

Then run off.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I know this isn't exactly a self defence thread, but as well as turning tail and running you should try and make as much noise as possible.

I'd doubt if the average woman could out run an average male.

i can but only for short distances as my knees aren't great and won't last long.

Thats the problem who knows how long you'd have to run for in & in what type of shoes.

I agree with trying to run whilst shouting but I think you'd have to have a Plan B in mind for bracing yourself for an attack.

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i barefoot run and would be fine if i could get to a nearby house, but yeah middle of somewhere secluded and i'd be fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regarding the gent saying about bouncers being trained to restrain .... yeh ok I did that course

Now ask the prison service how to do it and see the difference between the experts and a bunch of dicks in hi viz.

"

Prison Officers primary weapon is their mouth, then is the drawing of the bat which compels 95% of the prisoners to comply to instructions, without the bat being used.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"Evening peeps. Just got back from my kickboxing class and being relatively new to it some girl asked me to spar. She has been doing it a while and I have done boxing before, but never properly sparred with a woman before. She kept trying to unload her shots and long range kicks, yet I couldn't help restraining quite a lot and taking what she threw at me.

So I ask you in another situation, where a woman was hitting you. Could you hit her back?

I was tempted to smash her tbh, but refrained. "

Used to do karate years ago, due to my height I kept getting the higher grades sparring with me. One girl in particular told me if I went easy on her, I would come off worse. After a couple of good holdings, I didn't hold back.

As for self defence, restrain her, if that doesn't work then sadly yes I will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be interesting to see if women see it the same way as the OP.

Wouldn't feel right about hitting another woman but could a man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why wouldn't a man hit back in self defence.

Because in majority of the cases such action is not necessary and would only make you feel like shit.

But if it was necessary as in the woman was beating the shite outta you, then surely you would.

If she was beating the shite out of me, she would probably be skilled enough to do it regardless of my input.

I don't get why you wouldn't try & defend yourself by hitting back.

Each to their own though "

I wouldn't stand a chance protecting myself from an experienced female fighter.

Would you try to fight back a bear or instead protect your vital organs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never and I have little time for a man who would !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its human nature to survive, however you achieve that.

When confronted with violence,

the sex of the person, doesn't matter anymore. It's irrelevant.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"It would be interesting to see if women see it the same way as the OP.

Wouldn't feel right about hitting another woman but could a man?"

i headbutted my ex and actually enjoyed that.

but it was after he dumped me when i had a miscarriage and 6 weeks later he came round pestering me for sex while i was pissed/d*unk and even then i'd told him to leave me alone before i did that.

otherwise i'm not a violent person and wouldn't hit a guy or woman. been brought up in violence and it's shit, don't want that to be a part of my life really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regarding the gent saying about bouncers being trained to restrain .... yeh ok I did that course

Now ask the prison service how to do it and see the difference between the experts and a bunch of dicks in hi viz.

Prison Officers primary weapon is their mouth, then is the drawing of the bat which compels 95% of the prisoners to comply to instructions, without the bat being used."

Bouncers just get the mouth.

Also an inadequate arm lock using 2 people that used to be called 'child lock' as it doesn't use pain compliance or joint manipulation 'flexion'

Prison officers want 3 to 1 odds use pain compliance, cuffs, battons and the promise of extra time and sever reprisals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why wouldn't a man hit back in self defence.

Because in majority of the cases such action is not necessary and would only make you feel like shit.

But if it was necessary as in the woman was beating the shite outta you, then surely you would.

If she was beating the shite out of me, she would probably be skilled enough to do it regardless of my input.

I don't get why you wouldn't try & defend yourself by hitting back.

Each to their own though

I wouldn't stand a chance protecting myself from an experienced female fighter.

Would you try to fight back a bear or instead protect your vital organs?"

Okay she's not an experienced fighter she got lucky, caught you off guard and is now getting in some good punches, wouldn't you try and stop her with a counterpunch?

I know I would be at a distinct disadvantage trying to fight back the majority of men, my protection would be to fight back or flight not protect my organs.

I guess men have a different programed response, when I've seen men being set upon they either fight back or curl up to protect themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be interesting to see if women see it the same way as the OP.

Wouldn't feel right about hitting another woman but could a man?

i headbutted my ex and actually enjoyed that.

but it was after he dumped me when i had a miscarriage and 6 weeks later he came round pestering me for sex while i was pissed/d*unk and even then i'd told him to leave me alone before i did that.

otherwise i'm not a violent person and wouldn't hit a guy or woman. been brought up in violence and it's shit, don't want that to be a part of my life really."

I agree, I'm not a violent person either & it frightens me to be in a confrontational situation where it could all kick off.

However, I would defend myself any which way I could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a huge difference between sparring in a controlled environment when you are able to exercise a large degree of control in your actions to responding to violence with violence, for the former I would say it depends on your skill level and situation for the latter, there is rarely an excuse and to respond with violence to someone physically weaker whether male or female is the act of a coward and in my humble opinion someone who is using violence as a form of control, so inexcusable. Two very different and incomparable situations though

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"It would be interesting to see if women see it the same way as the OP.

Wouldn't feel right about hitting another woman but could a man?

i headbutted my ex and actually enjoyed that.

but it was after he dumped me when i had a miscarriage and 6 weeks later he came round pestering me for sex while i was pissed/d*unk and even then i'd told him to leave me alone before i did that.

otherwise i'm not a violent person and wouldn't hit a guy or woman. been brought up in violence and it's shit, don't want that to be a part of my life really.

I agree, I'm not a violent person either & it frightens me to be in a confrontational situation where it could all kick off.

However, I would defend myself any which way I could."

probably only did that coz i was d*unk tbh.

just remembered i know for a fact i freeze in these situations and although i know what to do i won't actually do it. i can't defend myself coz something makes my brain freeze up. think it's to do with PTSD and tuning out instead, seems it's hard habit to break.

if other people are threatened or in an emergency situation i can kick in fast and deal with that, just not for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be interesting to see if women see it the same way as the OP.

Wouldn't feel right about hitting another woman but could a man?

i headbutted my ex and actually enjoyed that.

but it was after he dumped me when i had a miscarriage and 6 weeks later he came round pestering me for sex while i was pissed/d*unk and even then i'd told him to leave me alone before i did that.

otherwise i'm not a violent person and wouldn't hit a guy or woman. been brought up in violence and it's shit, don't want that to be a part of my life really.

I agree, I'm not a violent person either & it frightens me to be in a confrontational situation where it could all kick off.

However, I would defend myself any which way I could.

probably only did that coz i was d*unk tbh.

just remembered i know for a fact i freeze in these situations and although i know what to do i won't actually do it. i can't defend myself coz something makes my brain freeze up. think it's to do with PTSD and tuning out instead, seems it's hard habit to break.

if other people are threatened or in an emergency situation i can kick in fast and deal with that, just not for myself."

Interesting point. I suppose I don't really know how I would react if I was attacked by a complete stranger, just how I think I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I question the gym you're using to actually allow you to spar with a woman, I've been practicing MMA since I was 13 and I've never been asked to spar with a woman but as for your question my answer is 100% no I could never hit a woman I don't think in any situation is even remotely to be considered

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"It would be interesting to see if women see it the same way as the OP.

Wouldn't feel right about hitting another woman but could a man?

i headbutted my ex and actually enjoyed that.

but it was after he dumped me when i had a miscarriage and 6 weeks later he came round pestering me for sex while i was pissed/d*unk and even then i'd told him to leave me alone before i did that.

otherwise i'm not a violent person and wouldn't hit a guy or woman. been brought up in violence and it's shit, don't want that to be a part of my life really.

I agree, I'm not a violent person either & it frightens me to be in a confrontational situation where it could all kick off.

However, I would defend myself any which way I could.

probably only did that coz i was d*unk tbh.

just remembered i know for a fact i freeze in these situations and although i know what to do i won't actually do it. i can't defend myself coz something makes my brain freeze up. think it's to do with PTSD and tuning out instead, seems it's hard habit to break.

if other people are threatened or in an emergency situation i can kick in fast and deal with that, just not for myself.

Interesting point. I suppose I don't really know how I would react if I was attacked by a complete stranger, just how I think I would."

yeah you never know until it happens.

i use other ways to keep myself safe now, mostly don't really meet anyone new unless it's in a public place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why wouldn't a man hit back in self defence.

Because in majority of the cases such action is not necessary and would only make you feel like shit.

But if it was necessary as in the woman was beating the shite outta you, then surely you would.

If she was beating the shite out of me, she would probably be skilled enough to do it regardless of my input.

I don't get why you wouldn't try & defend yourself by hitting back.

Each to their own though

I wouldn't stand a chance protecting myself from an experienced female fighter.

Would you try to fight back a bear or instead protect your vital organs?

Okay she's not an experienced fighter she got lucky, caught you off guard and is now getting in some good punches, wouldn't you try and stop her with a counterpunch?

I know I would be at a distinct disadvantage trying to fight back the majority of men, my protection would be to fight back or flight not protect my organs.

I guess men have a different programed response, when I've seen men being set upon they either fight back or curl up to protect themselves."

You are failing to see my point.

Counter punch is less effective than Control and Restraint.

If she caught me off guard she could potentially knock me out in a single punch to the jaw, if I was still conscious, I would try to restrain her not punch her.

Do not get me wrong, I would not be gentle when trying to restrain her but I don't see the point of punching her.

Flight only works as a scenario when you can outrun the attacker, otherwise it's fight back or protect yourself as best you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im no expert in this in any way shape or form, so tell me if I'm wrong. But if you're matched together for sparring surely its based on similar abilities so gender shouldn't really count.

In terms of day to day relationships, men shouldn't hit women, ever. And the same goes for women hitting men. And the same for gay or lesbian couples. No one should ever have to put up with abuse regardless of gender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took a MMA class in Cardiff once and the instructor said if a bloke came and tried to grab you to drop to your knees suddenly and punch them in the cock.

Then leg it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I took a MMA class in Cardiff once and the instructor said if a bloke came and tried to grab you to drop to your knees suddenly and punch them in the cock.

Then leg it."

Punching the cock isn't really painful, the balls on the other hand...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I took a MMA class in Cardiff once and the instructor said if a bloke came and tried to grab you to drop to your knees suddenly and punch them in the cock.

Then leg it."

That is the reason you need to take more than one class lol if someone was trying to do harm to you and you dropped to your knees you would get volleyed straight to the face, you're basically submitting to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I took a MMA class in Cardiff once and the instructor said if a bloke came and tried to grab you to drop to your knees suddenly and punch them in the cock.

Then leg it.

That is the reason you need to take more than one class lol if someone was trying to do harm to you and you dropped to your knees you would get volleyed straight to the face, you're basically submitting to them"

I know, but the skipping warm-up was hard going! Nevermind the rest of the class!! besides, i'm a lover not a fighter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why wouldn't a man hit back in self defence.

Because in majority of the cases such action is not necessary and would only make you feel like shit.

But if it was necessary as in the woman was beating the shite outta you, then surely you would.

If she was beating the shite out of me, she would probably be skilled enough to do it regardless of my input.

I don't get why you wouldn't try & defend yourself by hitting back.

Each to their own though

I wouldn't stand a chance protecting myself from an experienced female fighter.

Would you try to fight back a bear or instead protect your vital organs?

Okay she's not an experienced fighter she got lucky, caught you off guard and is now getting in some good punches, wouldn't you try and stop her with a counterpunch?

I know I would be at a distinct disadvantage trying to fight back the majority of men, my protection would be to fight back or flight not protect my organs.

I guess men have a different programed response, when I've seen men being set upon they either fight back or curl up to protect themselves.

You are failing to see my point.

Counter punch is less effective than Control and Restraint.

If she caught me off guard she could potentially knock me out in a single punch to the jaw, if I was still conscious, I would try to restrain her not punch her.

Do not get me wrong, I would not be gentle when trying to restrain her but I don't see the point of punching her.

Flight only works as a scenario when you can outrun the attacker, otherwise it's fight back or protect yourself as best you can."

I am seeing your point I'm just not getting my point across very well, musing as I type doesn't always work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I took a MMA class in Cardiff once and the instructor said if a bloke came and tried to grab you to drop to your knees suddenly and punch them in the cock.

Then leg it.

That is the reason you need to take more than one class lol if someone was trying to do harm to you and you dropped to your knees you would get volleyed straight to the face, you're basically submitting to them

I know, but the skipping warm-up was hard going! Nevermind the rest of the class!! besides, i'm a lover not a fighter "

Lol I must admit I do love a fight but in a controlled environment

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I usually find after a fight with a woman comes some really great sex but I couldn't hit a woman just take the punches until they feel guilty then the fun starts lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I question the gym you're using to actually allow you to spar with a woman, I've been practicing MMA since I was 13 and I've never been asked to spar with a woman but as for your question my answer is 100% no I could never hit a woman I don't think in any situation is even remotely to be considered"

I'm usually the only woman in the gym. If i don't spar with the men then i don't get to spar at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I question the gym you're using to actually allow you to spar with a woman, I've been practicing MMA since I was 13 and I've never been asked to spar with a woman but as for your question my answer is 100% no I could never hit a woman I don't think in any situation is even remotely to be considered

I'm usually the only woman in the gym. If i don't spar with the men then i don't get to spar at all "

I actually meant the op lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I took a MMA class in Cardiff once and the instructor said if a bloke came and tried to grab you to drop to your knees suddenly and punch them in the cock.

Then leg it.

Punching the cock isn't really painful, the balls on the other hand... "

Grab balls squeeze and twist hard.

Doll x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only in self defence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I couldn't and wouldn't hit a woman unless mine or somebody else's life depended on it. I'd happily restrain a woman to prevent her hitting me but as for actually hitting her then that's a big no no for me. Equality doesn't come into it. I have sparred with girls when I used to Thai box but you don't use full strength when sparring anyway, its to hone the reactions and technique rather than how hard you can hit.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Would I hit another woman if she struck me? Providing I wasn't knocked out cold hell yes. If I were wearing heels I'd need to get off my feet pretty quick so I'd jump on the fucker and play at ground level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would I hit another woman if she struck me? Providing I wasn't knocked out cold hell yes. If I were wearing heels I'd need to get off my feet pretty quick so I'd jump on the fucker and play at ground level. "

Completely off topic but my god your pics

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By *aughty_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

In a sport/self defence class scenario:-

Yes, I think it's acceptable. But I can understand why you were holding back.

In a street fight/domestic violence scenario:-

No BUT if she hit you first you should be able to defend yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a sport/self defence class scenario:-

Yes, I think it's acceptable. But I can understand why you were holding back.

In a street fight/domestic violence scenario:-

No BUT if she hit you first you should be able to defend yourself. "
i agree

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