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By *xcitinggirl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

When the man of a couple is free to play alone, why don't they get the chances the woman does?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they are like any other single men lol.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Couple of main reasons, firstly they're in the overcrowded pool with the rest of the single males, then there's the whole 'do they really have permission' factor to be got round.

That said, with some simple steps the second one can be dealt with (see the top of my profile) - the first is down to all the usual things about a decent profile and patience that would apply to any other single guy on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple answer for us if I was free to play alone wouldn't even bother trying as a massive pool of guys already for others to choose from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they are like any other single men lol."

Exactly this. A single woman is more in demand than a couple, so if a woman from a couple plays alone she will be even more sought after. However, the reverse is true for a man. Because there are plenty more single men than couples or single women, if a man from a couple plays alone he becomes less desirable.

Add to that the questions of permission, not wanting to deal with the couple dynamic, and everything else...it just stands to reason that in the climate that permeates fab, the guy in a couple is going to have a harder time than the woman.

Having said that, if anyone wants to take Marc off my hands for a night, let me know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they are like any other single men lol.

Exactly this. A single woman is more in demand than a couple, so if a woman from a couple plays alone she will be even more sought after. However, the reverse is true for a man. Because there are plenty more single men than couples or single women, if a man from a couple plays alone he becomes less desirable.

Add to that the questions of permission, not wanting to deal with the couple dynamic, and everything else...it just stands to reason that in the climate that permeates fab, the guy in a couple is going to have a harder time than the woman.

Having said that, if anyone wants to take Marc off my hands for a night, let me know. "

Happy to help out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they are like any other single men lol."

Yup, plus there's always that element of doubt whether their partner is aware of them playing alone.

My mrs is fully aware of my whereabouts and who I meet but there are still those who aren't comfortable with the situation.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Simply numbers. Every male has massive competition on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the man of a couple is free to play alone, why don't they get the chances the woman does?"

That's a stupid question.

1) They are MEN

2) They are ATTACHED

3) They are often LYING and playing without permission.

4) It's too complicated

5) Females on here are not couples free sex toys.

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