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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you send friend requests out in the hope that they like you back and will accept?

Or do you just try and befriend anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I friend people I think want to communicate with me regularly after we've been doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it after I have chatted with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I rarely send them and if I do its been discussed first.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Only send one when I have gotten on well with the person.

Bit rude to send a random one, that could lead to the 'block' button being used.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Do you send friend requests out in the hope that they like you back and will accept?

Or do you just try and befriend anyone?"

What every the reason bloody stop it it's so annoying, I delete all mine I only add friends not randoms.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you send friend requests out in the hope that they like you back and will accept?

Or do you just try and befriend anyone?

What every the reason bloody stop it it's so annoying, I delete all mine I only add friends not randoms. "

I never sent you one ?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely send one - if I do it's only after we've been chatting for a while or we're meeting ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you send friend requests out in the hope that they like you back and will accept?

Or do you just try and befriend anyone?"

I tend to ask first if we've chatting for a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random ones I always delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate random friend requests nearly always from someone I've never spoken to/ or from people I'm never likely to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really send out friends invites, only got one person on my friends list

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Only friend people we have actually met....and like, of course!

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We've had a few randoms who we've never even spoken to. They just get deleted. We reckon that they've not bothered to read our profile.

As for us. We don't add anyone to our friends list unless we've spoken to them for a while. We would also ask the person we are communicating with if it was okay to add them.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

i don't even look in my friends requests unless someone i've been chatting to asks to be added as a friend.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Do you send friend requests out in the hope that they like you back and will accept?

Or do you just try and befriend anyone?

What every the reason bloody stop it it's so annoying, I delete all mine I only add friends not randoms.

I never sent you one ?!?"

Didn't say you had it's to all that do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i chat first and then ask if its ok to send an invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I rarely send them and if I do its been discussed first. "

This.

I have very few people on my friends list and I only add people I genuinely intend on meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I am already taking to you by pm and I've asked or you have asked me.

But do you add people because you get on with them socially or is it for the sole purpose of a possible meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we never randomly send friend requests, only to people we've been chatting to and usually interested in meeting (the odd forumite excluded) I hate random friend requests, tend to assume they may want to perve our friend only pics otherwise why wouldn't they have just sent a message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you send friend requests out in the hope that they like you back and will accept?

Or do you just try and befriend anyone?

What every the reason bloody stop it it's so annoying, I delete all mine I only add friends not randoms. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only send friend requests after we've chatted and there is a potential of a meet. If the other people have no private pics we are not likely to add them as we like to perve pics as well as others

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only add after exchanging messages for a while and it looks promising for us to actually meet. We delete all random friend requesters after we've waited for them to go offline and having a nosey at their friend only pics...we also delete people off our lust who we've previously accepted and they don't respond to messages as it's clear then that they're no longer interested in meeting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only friend people if we have chatted a bit.

I don't really keep in touch with my friends as i'm not very sociable, but they're folk i wouldn't mind chatting to (if that makes sense?).

I delete friends if they don't log on for awhile or if they do status updates alluding to other members they want to shag/meets they've had or other lamp-post pissing type guff

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I only add/accept invites if I've been chatting a while...

Random requests to me are just guys looking for fresh wank material via friend only pics

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I only add/accept invites if I've been chatting a while...

Random requests to me are just guys looking for fresh wank material via friend only pics "

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I only add or accept a friend request if we have been chatting a while. It's usually so we can see each other's friends only photos.

I don't think I have ever sent a request in the hope of attracting attention.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I only accept when we've met

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Only friend people we have actually met....and like, of course! "

Same here with the the very rare exception.

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

I do about ten a day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get lots of random ones, I completely ignore them. Only have the friends that I've chatted to and we kinda understand each other

(Off to delete all recent random requests)

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester


"I get lots of random ones, I completely ignore them. Only have the friends that I've chatted to and we kinda understand each other

(Off to delete all recent random requests)"
You got one from me now x

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By *uziebabyWoman
over a year ago

Worcester


"Do you send friend requests out in the hope that they like you back and will accept?

Or do you just try and befriend anyone?"

I do and if I have exchanged a few messages but not before mailing someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never sent friend requests out, I've accepted them when arranging to meet, but that's all.

I've had a few friend requests from people on here who I've never chatted to, just deleted them.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No as it drives us mad when people do it to us.

We would only send one ,if we had been chatting with a couple a while.

Miss

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Only send after chatting or have met.if we get random requests we usually wait till they go offline and have a perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only add people I've met

So any random that sends me a request gets left there as once they have sent it, they can't send another unless I delete it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only friend people we have actually met....and like, of course! "

same as me and like others above, I just delete random friend request from strangers and pic collectors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only add or send when a meet is arranged.

Randoms are left so they can't send again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only send friend invites if i want them to see my face pic

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Only friend people we have actually met....and like, of course!

same as me and like others above, I just delete random friend request from strangers and pic collectors "

We don't respond to friends requests, when we know we have no intention of meeting them and that's normally people who don't read our profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only friend people we have actually met....and like, of course!

same as me and like others above, I just delete random friend request from strangers and pic collectors "

don't delete them as that stops them from resending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never sent a friend request if I don't know them, if we get chatting and flirting a while I would send one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only friend people we have actually met....and like, of course!

same as me and like others above, I just delete random friend request from strangers and pic collectors

don't delete them as that stops them from resending "

I'm just OCD about having a tidy profile

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I do it when I've either planned to meet them or when I've met them. Other than that then no. People send them just to bloody well nosey..its not on lol. Also for wank material

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