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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So actually have never cum off a bj but love them is it just me or more common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend couldn't. Apparently he's huge down there. So I don't know if that is the reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So actually have never cum off a bj but love them is it just me or more common "

common / bad technique perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Mr can't come off a blow job, he's the first guy I've met who can't. So I have deffo set myself a challenge to make him come from a bj.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massage the prostate at the same time, will blow in seconds

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey I don't mind any ladies trying lol but yes it's a need must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was quite common. However, it turns out so many women just don't know the proper technique. As soon as I found a woman that did, I was coming in about 5 minutes lol

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Sometimes I do, sometimes not... !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe your right some ladies can just make it happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprising how many girls just arent any good at it....guess they say the same about some guys go8ng down on them...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah ur right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shaz can bring me of quite easily with a bj to easy in fact

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Rub it in lol

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

It's about technique you have to find what works for the guy you're with. You can get ladies that don't realise this, same with guys performing oral on a woman. It really is a art form

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll have to find these ladies with this technique then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's about technique you have to find what works for the guy you're with. You can get ladies that don't realise this, same with guys performing oral on a woman. It really is a art form "

I need proof of this

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"It's about technique you have to find what works for the guy you're with. You can get ladies that don't realise this, same with guys performing oral on a woman. It really is a art form "

Hardly rocket science..

A lot of people are not that keen on doing it.

Enthusiasm is as important as technique.

Had a bloke last night wanted it rougher (teeth etc) lots of guys don't like that..Talk about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boyfriend wasn't a fan of blow jobs until he met me, he'd never orgasmed from one either. Now he can't get enough and cums in my mouth often. It's all down to technique and like someone else said, enthusiasm. Loads of women hate giving head so it'll show when they're doing it. Some women are good at it, some aren't, find yourself a good one and I'm pretty sure your opinion of them will change very quickly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So actually have never cum off a bj but love them is it just me or more common "

Quite common buddy. I don't come from one either.

Had plenty of great ones so it's me not the technique. I love them, they just aren't enough to tip me over the edge.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Try a glory Hole..anonymous and no pressure to perform, relax and let it happen.

Good luck

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Maybe your right some ladies can just make it happen "

I've worked out there's 3 types of women that give blow jobs. 1. Is a women who can make you come. 2. Is a woman who gives blow jobs that feel really nice but she hasn't got the skills to make you come and 3. A woman that can do both just by the switch of her hands,mouth etc and it's up to her when you come. So no I don't think it's you at all. I had a fwb for 3 years who never made me come in all that time,I also thought it was me. The minute we stopped seeing each other and I met another lady..i can within minutes.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"It's about technique you have to find what works for the guy you're with. You can get ladies that don't realise this, same with guys performing oral on a woman. It really is a art form

I need proof of this"

I bet you do

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"I'll have to find these ladies with this technique then"

Do you have a Good Technique ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I couldn't. Then I came on the site, and there are people who can solve your problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surprising how many girls just arent any good at it....guess they say the same about some guys go8ng down on them..."

Not many men happy to criticise a bj in case they don't get another

I don't think I'm that good, when I say that to men they all say I have a good technique

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

The best blow job is the last one..but it's not entirely down to us suckers, you suckees have a part to play as well..try using your imagination .

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"The best blow job is the last one..but it's not entirely down to us suckers, you suckees have a part to play as well..try using your imagination ."

Listening to you I think you need to offer cock sucking lessons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who's doing the BJ. Personally a sloppy wet sensual BJ does the trick for me, I'm not a fan of vigorous wanking as part of the BJ or people getting too 'teethy'. Lots of tongue, nice and wet, jobs a good 'un!

Some women have given awesome BJs, mind blowingky good, others are awful and unlikely to ever make you cum.

I guess it's all about communication

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"So actually have never cum off a bj but love them is it just me or more common "

It's common for me not to cum from bj too mate, but never, ever, post a statement like this in a public forum, as all you'll get is;

1 Women who will say they are the 'BJ Queen', who "never fails"

2 Women who will decide not to meet you, because they wouldn't want to take up the challenge, and fail.....

3 Lots of bi men contacting you informing you "Only men know how to best suck cock"

Whoops! Too late!

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

A finger or two up the bum usually helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll have to see if any ladies have the skills on here then cheers guys and gals

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Nothing turns me on more than giving a guy a bj and hearing them struggling not to cum The sex afterwards is amazing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Take one for the team and sort me out then lol

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Telford

I never take one for the team

I've got a very specific type I go for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard to Cum from a bj and normally end up wanking in there mouth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You have to try every type once lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I find it hard to Cum from a bj and normally end up wanking in there mouth."

I usually end up 'finishing off' in her pussy, if the oral isn't working. I've only ever met one woman who could consistently make me cum from bj alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have heard that from a few guys...just before they do....yes I am showing off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have heard that from a few guys...just before they do....yes I am showing off "

Ah it's an old guy's tactic to ensure a lady brings her 'A' game to the BJ! The ladies fall for it every time!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have heard that from a few guys...just before they do....yes I am showing off

Ah it's an old guy's tactic to ensure a lady brings her 'A' game to the BJ! The ladies fall for it every time!! "

Not when ya know it's true....I am way past that kinda sexual gullability

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I have heard that from a few guys...just before they do....yes I am showing off "

And that's the other thing you hear in a public forum; women from miles away telling you how proficient they are, with no chance of you being able to test their claim........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All mouth no action???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All mouth no action???"

In my experience, women won't generally perform sex acts just to prove a point. Sorry!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And right you are hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to you question it maybe them, it maybe you?

I hadn't before recently. . I think it was all in my mind. I find it difficult to 'let go' if I'm not in control.

Try and relax maybe. But not too much, don't fall asleep.

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