FabSwingers.com forum: No more high heels... help !!!!

By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

Right here it is.... I've had knee op number 4 a few months ago and I know heels are no longer an option but I just don't feel sexy going to clubs etc all dressed up with no heels so come on girls what can I do to still feel sexy ?

This is Anna by BTW lol !!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have a pair of little glittery flat sandals that I like to wear around clubs. I've worn ballet pumps as well when I have chosen to wear stockings and thong toe sandals aren't therefore an option. Both far easier to kick off when needed, wander around without falling over and generally feel comfortable in even when I may be mentally nervous and more prone to being clumsy anyway (me and heels aren't a good combination at the best of times even when I don't have to move around on different surfaces).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like bare feet x

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i haven't had an operation but i have problems with my knees. i can wear chunky/blocky heels (up to 6 inches) and they have a wedge at the front to make me even taller. dunno if that's an option for you?

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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

Thanks Ligeia I will see what I can find ! I suppose I was kind of a victim of what's expected " high heels being associated with looking sexy .... think I will have to make flats my new sexy now !!

And I can have that extra glass of wine lol without fear of falling in heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right here it is.... I've had knee op number 4 a few months ago and I know heels are no longer an option but I just don't feel sexy going to clubs etc all dressed up with no heels so come on girls what can I do to still feel sexy ?

This is Anna by BTW lol !! "

Doc martens

Rock boots

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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"i haven't had an operation but i have problems with my knees. i can wear chunky/blocky heels (up to 6 inches) and they have a wedge at the front to make me even taller. dunno if that's an option for you?"

I'm willing to try anything as I'm not very tall and if on the odd occasion I have gone bare foot I tend to get trodden on as everyone towers above me so thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would heels with platforms be an option. The platform breaks the height drop from ankle to toe ?

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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

This is Anna by BTW lol !!

Doc martens

Rock boots "

The leather and lace look then lol !!

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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I'm willing to try anything as I'm not very tall and if on the odd occasion I have gone bare foot I tend to get trodden on as everyone towers above me so thank you x"

i'm shorter than you so know how you feel. i don't usually wear shoes but if i go out i do want to be a lot taller.

hope you find something that suits your knees, otherwise leg extensions is your only option.

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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Would heels with platforms be an option. The platform breaks the height drop from ankle to toe ?"

I've not tried platforms only my usual heels but within seconds of putting them on I can feel it's not right and having had 4 meniscus tears

Two in the same knee last time I'm wary!

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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

I'm willing to try anything as I'm not very tall and if on the odd occasion I have gone bare foot I tend to get trodden on as everyone towers above me so thank you x

Ha ha thanks Hunni but you know what they say..... " the best things come in small packages " lol x

i'm shorter than you so know how you feel. i don't usually wear shoes but if i go out i do want to be a lot taller.

hope you find something that suits your knees, otherwise leg extensions is your only option.

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By *obin_and_marionMan
over a year ago

Beaconsfield

This is Anna by BTW lol !! "

Marion wears flats.

Sparkly pumps.

Patent leather lace ups.

Leopard print flats with pointy toes.

Flip flops/thongs

BTW she's never had any comment on a date, meet up or at a club about not wearing heels. Never been an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is Anna by BTW lol !!

Doc martens

Rock boots

The leather and lace look then lol !!"

Check out some of the designs. I'm 6' tall so when I used to cross dress, I couldn't really wear high heals or I would tower over everyone.

You can get some cute ballet shoes as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i go barefoot in clubs

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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

This is Anna by BTW lol !!

Marion wears flats

Sparkly pumps.

Patent leather lace ups.

Leopard print flats with pointy toes.

Flip flops/thongs

BTW she's never had any comment on a date, meet up or at a club about not wearing heels. Never been an issue."

Thanks guys looks like my next steps a shoe Auction lol ....,out with the heels in with with flats, pumps and sparkles !!

Looks like I was wrong.. not wearing heels isn't a no no !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have known several ladies in exactly the same situation as you. They all feel that they would like to wear heels but cannot walk about. Most guys are very understanding and it has never been an issue. A good answer was to have a pair they put on for when you are lying down. So high heels in bed when it is so sexy, but no need to walk in them.

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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

This is Anna by BTW lol !!

Doc martens

Rock boots

The leather and lace look then lol !!

Check out some of the designs. I'm 6' tall so when I used to cross dress, I couldn't really wear high heals or I would tower over everyone.

You can get some cute ballet shoes as well.

I will have a look but they gotta be something pretty special !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sparkle thong sandals or metallic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flat over the knee boots.. Hold ups..

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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Flat over the knee boots.. Hold ups.. "

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

what kind of clubs are we talking about?

completely naked without shoes?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"i go barefoot in clubs "

That's the very definition of brave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

High heels are only really sexy when pointed at the ceiling, go with the flats option, silk ones are especially sexy if not in the rain.

If it helps you would still be very fuckable in wellies

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire

High heels may be out of the question, but what about low heels? I broke my foot last year and now it's sheer murder in my 5 inch heels, but I have a pair of strappy 3 inch diamanté effect heels that are soooooooooooo comfortable to wear.

Maybe going lower will help.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"i go barefoot in clubs

That's the very definition of brave. "

Yeah I was thinking the same!

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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"High heels are only really sexy when pointed at the ceiling, go with the flats option, silk ones are especially sexy if not in the rain.

If it helps you would still be very fuckable in wellies

Cheeky !!!!

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

I know how you feel I have the same problem

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Stop going to clubs?

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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Stop going to clubs?"

Who ?

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By *obin_and_marionMan
over a year ago

Beaconsfield

Thanks guys looks like my next steps a shoe Auction lol ....,out with the heels in with with flats, pumps and sparkles !!

Looks like I was wrong.. not wearing heels isn't a no no !!"

BTW when I first met Marion it was her (flat) pixie ankle boots that got me going...

Lovely out and about with legs out and short skirt.... Some pics in our profile

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

This is Anna by BTW lol !! "

You would look sexy no matter what you had on your feet

Bun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can get some very pretty wedges and flats these days. Even a plain red pair of flats with some black lingerie would look lovely

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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

This is Anna by BTW lol !!

You would look sexy no matter what you had on your feet

Bun

Aah you made me blush now !

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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"You can get some very pretty wedges and flats these days. Even a plain red pair of flats with some black lingerie would look lovely

Thank you lovely !! :-

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Paint stripes on your legs to make them look longer

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Check out latin dance shoes - some of those are flashy but with very low heels, they may suit?

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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Check out latin dance shoes - some of those are flashy but with very low heels, they may suit?"

Thank you frisky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Broken my foot twice and now can't wear high heels. In clubs I can manage wedges most comfortable option so far for me!

Doll x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flats with a slightly pointed toe can also be flattering. I have chunky calves and it works for me

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"Flats with a slightly pointed toe can also be flattering. I have chunky calves and it works for me

And the ones with little ankle straps can look cute too, a lot of ladies wear those to dance in.

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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Flats with a slightly pointed toe can also be flattering. I have chunky calves and it works for me

And the ones with little ankle straps can look cute too, a lot of ladies wear those to dance in. "

Ooh I've got some of those I'd forgot about !!

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