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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know its a very touchy subject but im in this too. A very special someone very close to my heart lost their life at a very very young age. Im asking you all as possibly someone has a good answer. Ive tried so many methods to cope with this and although i may seem happy on the outside depression is still being covered up. How does someone cope with the loss of their child ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Specialist help.

Talk to your gp x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Specialist help.

Talk to your gp x"

Ive tried that didnt help me at all

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Cruse are a good charity op ,for people who have lost someone,they have volunteers who can meet you to chat and go through things.

Loss is horrible and grief is natural,maybe see your Gp too if you feel you're not coping.

Big hugs and hope things get better xx

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cruse are a good charity op ,for people who have lost someone,they have volunteers who can meet you to chat and go through things.

Loss is horrible and grief is natural,maybe see your Gp too if you feel you're not coping.

Big hugs and hope things get better xx

Miss

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Thanks miss ive been to my gp countless times ive even tried meeting other people qho have lost their child just this brick wall ive built isnt going down so easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know its a very touchy subject but im in this too. A very special someone very close to my heart lost their life at a very very young age. Im asking you all as possibly someone has a good answer. Ive tried so many methods to cope with this and although i may seem happy on the outside depression is still being covered up. How does someone cope with the loss of their child ?"

Sent you a private message x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know its a very touchy subject but im in this too. A very special someone very close to my heart lost their life at a very very young age. Im asking you all as possibly someone has a good answer. Ive tried so many methods to cope with this and although i may seem happy on the outside depression is still being covered up. How does someone cope with the loss of their child ?

Sent you a private message x"

Replied x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The loss of a child is a very difficult thing to come to terms with if ever. You need specialist help as well as bereivement councilling. They say time is a healer but its more of finding your own way of living with it every day.

Good look xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The loss of a child is a very difficult thing to come to terms with if ever. You need specialist help as well as bereivement councilling. They say time is a healer but its more of finding your own way of living with it every day.

Good look xxx"

Time is a very slow healer haha. Ive been to support groups but felt like they didnt know what i was going through and felt unsupported

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"The loss of a child is a very difficult thing to come to terms with if ever. You need specialist help as well as bereivement councilling. They say time is a healer but its more of finding your own way of living with it every day.

Good look xxx

Time is a very slow healer haha. Ive been to support groups but felt like they didnt know what i was going through and felt unsupported"
have you tried specialized bereievement groups

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The loss of a child is a very difficult thing to come to terms with if ever. You need specialist help as well as bereivement councilling. They say time is a healer but its more of finding your own way of living with it every day.

Good look xxx

Time is a very slow healer haha. Ive been to support groups but felt like they didnt know what i was going through and felt unsupportedhave you tried specialized bereievement groups"

I have too but they couldnt break through the wall either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no time limit on grief my friend ..when I lost my mum I just didn't know what was right or wrong ...even now nearly 7 years on I still have moments

All I can say is don't try rush this ,grief is personal and you'll know when your ready

Just don't be afraid to cry ,

Best wishes Craig

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is no time limit on grief my friend ..when I lost my mum I just didn't know what was right or wrong ...even now nearly 7 years on I still have moments

All I can say is don't try rush this ,grief is personal and you'll know when your ready

Just don't be afraid to cry ,

Best wishes Craig "

Thanks craig. I will admit after 8 years the tears still come thick and fast. But i try and try smiling through the pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no time limit on grief my friend ..when I lost my mum I just didn't know what was right or wrong ...even now nearly 7 years on I still have moments

All I can say is don't try rush this ,grief is personal and you'll know when your ready

Just don't be afraid to cry ,

Best wishes Craig

Thanks craig. I will admit after 8 years the tears still come thick and fast. But i try and try smiling through the pain"

Just let them roll ,you'll have good days and bad ..at least your talking which is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot even imagine what you're feeling. And I never, never want to.

My poor darling, nothing anyone can say will provide a quick fix to something so devastating.

I lost a parent at a young age, in horrible circumstances, so I was surrounded with grieving people for a long time. There's no single route that will help everyone.

What I will say is, being prescribed something to help you through a horrific time is not giving up or admitting defeat. I think of antidepressants as scaffolding: a supportive framework used while repairs are being made. If what they suggest isn't for you, ask for an alternative. There are a great many different antidepressants, all work differently and suit different people. A GP will not give you anything that turns you into a zombie, or that you will become dependent upon.

It's merely a way of supporting you through the worst. Of maybe helping you sleep, or giving you the resolve to leave the house and do normal things.

On two occasions, seeing my GP has literally saved my life. I wouldn't be here if I hadn't accepted that I couldn't get through without help.

I'm from a medical background, and have been there and done that, with most things. Please PM if there's anything you'd like to talk about.

Best love,

Cleo.

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is no time limit on grief my friend ..when I lost my mum I just didn't know what was right or wrong ...even now nearly 7 years on I still have moments

All I can say is don't try rush this ,grief is personal and you'll know when your ready

Just don't be afraid to cry ,

Best wishes Craig

Thanks craig. I will admit after 8 years the tears still come thick and fast. But i try and try smiling through the pain

Just let them roll ,you'll have good days and bad ..at least your talking which is good "
it feels better getting it off my chest every now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no time limit on grief my friend ..when I lost my mum I just didn't know what was right or wrong ...even now nearly 7 years on I still have moments

All I can say is don't try rush this ,grief is personal and you'll know when your ready

Just don't be afraid to cry ,

Best wishes Craig

Thanks craig. I will admit after 8 years the tears still come thick and fast. But i try and try smiling through the pain

Just let them roll ,you'll have good days and bad ..at least your talking which is good it feels better getting it off my chest every now and again"

Good man

And as you've seen there's always someone on here ,sometimes the best advice comes from people we've never met

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is no time limit on grief my friend ..when I lost my mum I just didn't know what was right or wrong ...even now nearly 7 years on I still have moments

All I can say is don't try rush this ,grief is personal and you'll know when your ready

Just don't be afraid to cry ,

Best wishes Craig

Thanks craig. I will admit after 8 years the tears still come thick and fast. But i try and try smiling through the pain

Just let them roll ,you'll have good days and bad ..at least your talking which is good it feels better getting it off my chest every now and again

Good man

And as you've seen there's always someone on here ,sometimes the best advice comes from people we've never met "

Definitely fabs can help out with a lot if things or possibly give solutions to struggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no time limit on grief my friend ..when I lost my mum I just didn't know what was right or wrong ...even now nearly 7 years on I still have moments

All I can say is don't try rush this ,grief is personal and you'll know when your ready

Just don't be afraid to cry ,

Best wishes Craig

Thanks craig. I will admit after 8 years the tears still come thick and fast. But i try and try smiling through the pain

Just let them roll ,you'll have good days and bad ..at least your talking which is good it feels better getting it off my chest every now and again

Good man

And as you've seen there's always someone on here ,sometimes the best advice comes from people we've never met

Definitely fabs can help out with a lot if things or possibly give solutions to struggles"

Indeed mate ..you'll get there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is no time limit on grief my friend ..when I lost my mum I just didn't know what was right or wrong ...even now nearly 7 years on I still have moments

All I can say is don't try rush this ,grief is personal and you'll know when your ready

Just don't be afraid to cry ,

Best wishes Craig

Thanks craig. I will admit after 8 years the tears still come thick and fast. But i try and try smiling through the pain

Just let them roll ,you'll have good days and bad ..at least your talking which is good it feels better getting it off my chest every now and again

Good man

And as you've seen there's always someone on here ,sometimes the best advice comes from people we've never met

Definitely fabs can help out with a lot if things or possibly give solutions to struggles

Indeed mate ..you'll get there "

Thanks mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go to my GP again and ask for councelling.

I hope you get the help you need. Sending a hug x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to someone. If there's someone you have that you can talk to about then, then please talk to them.

If there isn't someone then seek some therapy. It could really help.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have no advice.

I just wanted to say sorry for your pain and your loss. I hope you find you way to get through.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would go to my GP again and ask for councelling.

I hope you get the help you need. Sending a hug x"

Thanks nellie ive been to my gp many times. Hes diagnosed me with depression and shown me many counselling sessions with professionals but they didnt help x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know its a very touchy subject but im in this too. A very special someone very close to my heart lost their life at a very very young age. Im asking you all as possibly someone has a good answer. Ive tried so many methods to cope with this and although i may seem happy on the outside depression is still being covered up. How does someone cope with the loss of their child ?"

I've lost a child myself, message me if you want to chat, anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would go to my GP again and ask for councelling.

I hope you get the help you need. Sending a hug x

Thanks nellie ive been to my gp many times. Hes diagnosed me with depression and shown me many counselling sessions with professionals but they didnt help x"

Maybe ask your GP if theres another counselor you can see. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bereavement is very hard to cope with and we all deal with it in our own individual ways there is no one way important thing is to get closure and to move on bereavement counselling can be extremely helpful bit it needs to be timely and by professionals who know what to do ...it is important to recognise the difference between bereavement and depression and anxiety ...they may well be all intertwined....happy to signpost ...pm me if you wish

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Has anyone spoken about hypnotherapy or perhaps *The Speakmans for going over things and perhaps finding a way through. They seem to have a good success rate from programs I have watched on varying subjects.

Are you still with the mother of your child or did everything fall apart ? How is she coping ?

So heart wrenching. maybe just talking helps you through.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CBT is very helpful

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