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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"

I'm actually looking for something regular and local. Hopefully I find someone that does want to hear that.

Funny thing is, those that are local don't want to meet. Those to far away can't meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"

Yes but having no luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am looking for one, but they have to be local as I dont got anytime to travel as I go to the gym alot

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By *cott89Man
over a year ago

prestatyn

i would like a regular playmate providing we have good chemistry and great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you find what your looking for, as I've found a regular playmate on here after lots of knock backs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are, well I think there are anyway. Regular makes it better as you learn more about each other's turn ons.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Yes they do huni, there's quite a few but it has ended up getting messy for some.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a regular playmate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of fellas looking for what you need, suppose it's just hunting them out from among the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location is usually a problem.

If I had someone within 10 miles, regular would be awesome but I'm not going to be a regular meet for someone who lives 100 miles away

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Location is usually a problem.

If I had someone within 10 miles, regular would be awesome but I'm not going to be a regular meet for someone who lives 100 miles away "

It might be worth the traveling speaking from experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer a regular play mate I think the sex would be better

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Of course, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After ages of looking for, and not finding regular, reliable playmates we've actually found a few lately - both couples and single guys (sadly not single women, though).

Its great - I just wish more of them lived near York instead of London.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Location is usually a problem.

If I had someone within 10 miles, regular would be awesome but I'm not going to be a regular meet for someone who lives 100 miles away

It might be worth the traveling speaking from experience "

Yeah...not of it costs £150 each time.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Location is usually a problem.

If I had someone within 10 miles, regular would be awesome but I'm not going to be a regular meet for someone who lives 100 miles away

It might be worth the traveling speaking from experience

Yeah...not of it costs £150 each time."

Hmmmm yes I could see that being an issue lol

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes

I love ONLY regular playmates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found a few, they do exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes....... in an ideal world.

I'm not looking for a wife (had one of those in the past). A regular playmate is great tho. I've had a couple of those too.... makes the fun even better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"

I think it's just what men think we want to hear x

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Location is usually a problem.

If I had someone within 10 miles, regular would be awesome but I'm not going to be a regular meet for someone who lives 100 miles away

It might be worth the traveling speaking from experience "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular sexual partner usual leads to better sex don't you think ?

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

Also looking for a regular playmate.

Quality Quantity

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?

I think it's just what men think we want to hear x"

I don't know...maybe just my opinion..

The ratio here of men / women is giganormous.. but I personal belive we (those looking for a regual ) are the majority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular sexual partner usual leads to better sex don't you think ? "

This is the roumer.

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Will be looking for one when I move to Wirral ..some one to take me to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes however they seem to be hard to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a regular playmate

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Yes however they seem to be hard to find "

Nah

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Regular sexual partner usual leads to better sex don't you think ?

This is the roumer. "

Now I can't get that Adele song out of my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular sexual partner usual leads to better sex don't you think ?

This is the roumer.

Now I can't get that Adele song out of my head "

Now I can't get Adele out of my head.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Regular sexual partner usual leads to better sex don't you think ?

This is the roumer.

Now I can't get that Adele song out of my head

Now I can't get Adele out of my head. "

That's because you're ridiculously horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular sexual partner usual leads to better sex don't you think ?

This is the roumer.

Now I can't get that Adele song out of my head

Now I can't get Adele out of my head.

That's because you're ridiculously horny "

I like her voice.

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By *ollister kentMan
over a year ago

medway

Definitely like a regular playmate in Kent,or friends with benefits,the randy handyman and gardener.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am yes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well back to the subject at hand. We'll take a regular dose of naughtiness thank you very much.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Regular sexual partner usual leads to better sex don't you think ?

This is the roumer.

Now I can't get that Adele song out of my head

Now I can't get Adele out of my head.

That's because you're ridiculously horny

I like her voice. "

And .........

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'd love a regular meet but being a serial killer with a human skin lampshade hobby, I keep killing them.

First world problems yo! Sigh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular sexual partner usual leads to better sex don't you think ?

This is the roumer.

Now I can't get that Adele song out of my head

Now I can't get Adele out of my head.

That's because you're ridiculously horny

I like her voice.

And ........."

My friend says she pretty fit.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Regular sexual partner usual leads to better sex don't you think ?

This is the roumer.

Now I can't get that Adele song out of my head

Now I can't get Adele out of my head.

That's because you're ridiculously horny

I like her voice.

And .........

My friend says she pretty fit. "

I want to meet this friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wouldn't want a regular playmate?

Much better than random encounters.

How else would you know what type of cake to take along with you for after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who wouldn't want a regular playmate?

Much better than random encounters.

How else would you know what type of cake to take along with you for after "

Or to know which ladies, do not like cake

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"I'd love a regular meet but being a serial killer with a human skin lampshade hobby, I keep killing them.

First world problems yo! Sigh."

Funky you are back

**********

Bet the block button is being clicked by quite a few.

( I suspect someone has a big grudge against ladies here.. )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of us would love regular playmates.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Who wouldn't want a regular playmate?

Much better than random encounters.

How else would you know what type of cake to take along with you for after "

Did someone say cake

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Funky you are back "

Hello my sweet!

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"

Are they any women on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the men want to hear?

I find it to be above statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?

Are they any women on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the men want to hear?

I find it to be above statement"

One person here who doesn't give a toot what people want to hear. My profile is clear, and reflects EXACTLY what I seek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who wouldn't want a regular playmate?

Much better than random encounters.

How else would you know what type of cake to take along with you for after

Or to know which ladies, do not like cake "

That too. Got to know the right type of food to take along

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead

Yes of course. As others have said though, it's a case of clicking with someone nearby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who wouldn't want a regular playmate?

Much better than random encounters.

How else would you know what type of cake to take along with you for after

Did someone say cake "

Haha though cake might get a reply from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"

I have one and been meeting for over a year now....so the answer is yes

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Who wouldn't want a regular playmate?

Much better than random encounters.

How else would you know what type of cake to take along with you for after

Did someone say cake

Haha though cake might get a reply from you "

I don't know what you mean

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?

Are they any women on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the men want to hear?

I find it to be above statement

One person here who doesn't give a toot what people want to hear. My profile is clear, and reflects EXACTLY what I seek "

There are a very few women like yourself on here if you think about the amount of fakes, mind game and ratio women to men.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"Who wouldn't want a regular playmate?

Much better than random encounters.

How else would you know what type of cake to take along with you for after

Did someone say cake "

I mentioned he could bring The Lemon drizzle he says he is good at once (he never bothered ) not even one slice. Sigh!

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?

Are they any women on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the men want to hear?

I find it to be above statement

One person here who doesn't give a toot what people want to hear. My profile is clear, and reflects EXACTLY what I seek

There are a very few women like yourself on here if you think about the amount of fakes, mind game and ratio women to men.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A regular local playmate would be great

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes


"A regular local playmate would be great "

Dammm youre so far

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes


"A regular local playmate would be great

Dammm youre so far "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who wouldn't want a regular playmate?

Much better than random encounters.

How else would you know what type of cake to take along with you for after

Did someone say cake

Haha though cake might get a reply from you

I don't know what you mean "

Just your preference of snack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who wouldn't want a regular playmate?

Much better than random encounters.

How else would you know what type of cake to take along with you for after

Did someone say cake

I mentioned he could bring The Lemon drizzle he says he is good at once (he never bothered ) not even one slice. Sigh! "

What me . I would make sure I brought along a cake if you asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did someone mention cake?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive a few they just happened didnt go out looking for regulars they just seem to have stuck around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me. ...a regular gets better. . you begin to understand each others needs.... and kinks

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?

Are they any women on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the men want to hear?

I find it to be above statement

One person here who doesn't give a toot what people want to hear. My profile is clear, and reflects EXACTLY what I seek "

Such a way with words. So...arousing...

Looks like I'll have to get some hair restorer and gain some weight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A regular local playmate would be great "

We could be if you'd just lower your fucking standards! sheesh

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"

I am.....also I had a regular couple for most of last year until they moved house. So it's not just chat, it's reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?

Are they any women on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the men want to hear?

I find it to be above statement

One person here who doesn't give a toot what people want to hear. My profile is clear, and reflects EXACTLY what I seek

Such a way with words. So...arousing...

Looks like I'll have to get some hair restorer and gain some weight! "

It is sexual preference, not a person preference. I'm not against slim, shiny bonced men, I just don't want to play with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally would love a regular playmate for a number of reasons

1 there's way too much to do in one session

2 you learn what gets each other turned on

3 become more open to try new things with some one that you know

4 sex isn't a numbers game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love a regular meet but being a serial killer with a human skin lampshade hobby, I keep killing them.

First world problems yo! Sigh."

I must be mad because I'd meet you, serial killer or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A regular local playmate would be great

We could be if you'd just lower your fucking standards! sheesh "

Lower my standards? Next you'll be asking me to remove my knickers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A regular local playmate would be great

We could be if you'd just lower your fucking standards! sheesh

Lower my standards? Next you'll be asking me to remove my knickers! "

Remove, push them to side, I'm not too fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"

Lol what a tease of a question. Of course we'r looking. Why be single and not sexually active, we only have 1 life. Might aswell enjoy it as much as you can. Not as in sleep around but sleep with just 1 person

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field


"I'd love a regular meet but being a serial killer with a human skin lampshade hobby, I keep killing them.

First world problems yo! Sigh."

FFS man, how many lamps do you need?

Have you thought about taking up the drums though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"

I always aim for a regular playmate. I never intend for one offs to happen though of course they do for whatever reason it may be.

Like a lot of things, the description of regular changes from person to person. My definition is someone that I intend to meet more than once. It may only be twice a year, it maybe twice a month. It is all about intension.

I understand that this may not be on my doorstep so for that I am willing to travel and have social meets. I am talking about 250 mile round trips.

So in answer to your question OP, some guys will always say whatever it takes for a meet, some guys will mean what they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love a regular meet but being a serial killer with a human skin lampshade hobby, I keep killing them.

First world problems yo! Sigh."
How do you dispose of the bodies? Behind my sofa is getting rather full......

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a regular playmate until recently. Not sure if I want another right away though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been lucky to find a regular couple. Just makes it so much better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?

I think it's just what men think we want to hear x"

I don't like putting much info on my profile because they just mail saying they want that too. I change my profile... same men mail saying yeah they want that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes me.

But OP you have got fuck all on your profile...what are you expecting?....

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Yes me.

But OP you have got fuck all on your profile...what are you expecting?....

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather one or two regular/semi consistent than 6/7 one offs

Discussions are at a semi advanced stage

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"For me. ...a regular gets better. . you begin to understand each others needs.... and kinks"

Probably! What is regular to some is no good for others.

Every couple of weeks worked well for me back in the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes me.

But OP you have got fuck all on your profile...what are you expecting?....

"

Some people actually talk to each other and don't just treat profiles like a fuck menu.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Yes me.

But OP you have got fuck all on your profile...what are you expecting?....

Some people actually talk to each other and don't just treat profiles like a fuck menu. "

Can I have some voyeurism with a side order of toys please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love a regular ish playmate.. a lot of the things i like i would only do with someone i trusted so a regular playmate would be ideal x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trick is to be really good at sex. That keeps the ones you have chemistry with coming back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes me.

But OP you have got fuck all on your profile...what are you expecting?....

Some people actually talk to each other and don't just treat profiles like a fuck menu. "

I had amazing sex recently and afterwards he said that none of that is on your profile.

If it was, I'd be batting them off with a baseball bat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes me.

But OP you have got fuck all on your profile...what are you expecting?....

Some people actually talk to each other and don't just treat profiles like a fuck menu. "

No. But I do like to read something more than 2 lines of text if I'm looking for regular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes me.

But OP you have got fuck all on your profile...what are you expecting?....

Some people actually talk to each other and don't just treat profiles like a fuck menu.

Can I have some voyeurism with a side order of toys please? "

And chips?

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

I would LOVE to find a regular playmate.

someone to enjoy on a 1-2-1 basis as well as go on little adventures with.

I have had it before and would love it again (I met one of my Exs on another swing site and we lasted 4 years before she moved away).

so the answer is a definite yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preferably that is what I would like to have. Not easy ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like irregular playmates.. but to see them regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like irregular playmates.. but to see them regularly "

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd definitely like the idea of a regular playmate, where we can experience things together or as a larger group x

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Yes me.

But OP you have got fuck all on your profile...what are you expecting?....

Some people actually talk to each other and don't just treat profiles like a fuck menu.

Can I have some voyeurism with a side order of toys please?

And chips? "

That's not on your profile so I assumed that wasn't on the menu.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I like irregular playmates.. but to see them regularly "

Good answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes But you dismissed me out the water when trying to arrange even a social, never mind a meet lol

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Location is usually a problem.

If I had someone within 10 miles, regular would be awesome but I'm not going to be a regular meet for someone who lives 100 miles away

It might be worth the traveling speaking from experience "

Totally agree......i travel over 6 hours on train for a guy i have met now for over 2 years and totally worth it. I always make a long weekend of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"

Yes there's definitely guys that prefer regular playmates, personally I've always prefered quality over quantity

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Location is usually a problem.

If I had someone within 10 miles, regular would be awesome but I'm not going to be a regular meet for someone who lives 100 miles away

It might be worth the traveling speaking from experience

Totally agree......i travel over 6 hours on train for a guy i have met now for over 2 years and totally worth it. I always make a long weekend of it "

Wow! Must be quite a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I local FWB where there is a connection would be my icing on the cake

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"

This is more one for the singles in swinging, which is great. The only thing that stops someone being a regular playmate is requests for them to be a regular playmate.

Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd much prefer something regular. Prefer sex when I'm more comfortable with the partner, can get nervous with strangers

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By *appychap20000Man
over a year ago

cannock


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"

Definitely better with someone regular. Learn more and more each time, pushing boundaries etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found one

Unfortunately his job means it's not as regular as I would like! Think I may be greedy tho x

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?

This is more one for the singles in swinging, which is great. The only thing that stops someone being a regular playmate is requests for them to be a regular playmate.

Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging. "

Regular is not the same as exclusive.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?

This is more one for the singles in swinging, which is great. The only thing that stops someone being a regular playmate is requests for them to be a regular playmate.

Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging.

Regular is not the same as exclusive."

I take it you have a string of understanding playmates or just prefer one night stands?

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"

Lol. Wow!. It's like some women are looking for men to disprove. Of course there are guys looking for something regular. I've recently found one..its women who lie too and say that's what they want when really they don't

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?

This is more one for the singles in swinging, which is great. The only thing that stops someone being a regular playmate is requests for them to be a regular playmate.

Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging.

Regular is not the same as exclusive.

I take it you have a string of understanding playmates or just prefer one night stands?"

Those are not opposites.

Is English your second language?

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

is it greedy wanting to have a couple of people you meet on a semi regular basis? yes sex gets better, you can explore more and relax. but although I want to have regular sex I don't want to see people too often as lines can get blurred... and different people are great to explore different things...

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?

This is more one for the singles in swinging, which is great. The only thing that stops someone being a regular playmate is requests for them to be a regular playmate.

Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging.

Regular is not the same as exclusive.

I take it you have a string of understanding playmates or just prefer one night stands?"

Ok, let me try to be more constructive.

I can fuck one person regularly or I can fuck multiple people regularly. Especially if I like the way that they do it. I wouldn't ask them as such to become regular it just happens that we see each other more until we get bored or whatever.

That has nothing to do with being exclusive, unless I'm mistaken.

Also, it is possible to have a string of understanding playmates and still prefer one night stands.

If you're asking about what I do personally (yes I'm giving details of my sex life on a public forum), I have a fluctuating number of fuck buddies who I see irregularly. This is mainly because I have mood swings which make it difficult for me focus on one person at a time (although I have done for many years but now I'm facing up to who I really am) and I'm quite fortunate that they are understanding mainly because I've been open and honest with them all from the beginning. I do need a certain amount of intimacy so I'd rather not have a one night stand but then sometimes I do get horny and it's better than having a wank on my own.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"Yes there are, well I think there are anyway. Regular makes it better as you learn more about each other's turn ons. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"

We would like to find another regular playmate for Shaz as old one left the scene and got married but the only one's that seem to want it are to far away

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Yes that is by far my preference. I am a busy single parent so my free time I rare. When I have free time I want to make the very best of it. Things are far better with someone you connect with, trust and know inside out. The more you play and spend time together in general the better things get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes that is by far my preference. I am a busy single parent so my free time I rare. When I have free time I want to make the very best of it. Things are far better with someone you connect with, trust and know inside out. The more you play and spend time together in general the better things get."

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?

This is more one for the singles in swinging, which is great. The only thing that stops someone being a regular playmate is requests for them to be a regular playmate.

Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging.

Regular is not the same as exclusive.

I take it you have a string of understanding playmates or just prefer one night stands?

Ok, let me try to be more constructive.

I can fuck one person regularly or I can fuck multiple people regularly. Especially if I like the way that they do it. I wouldn't ask them as such to become regular it just happens that we see each other more until we get bored or whatever.

That has nothing to do with being exclusive, unless I'm mistaken.

Also, it is possible to have a string of understanding playmates and still prefer one night stands.

If you're asking about what I do personally (yes I'm giving details of my sex life on a public forum), I have a fluctuating number of fuck buddies who I see irregularly. This is mainly because I have mood swings which make it difficult for me focus on one person at a time (although I have done for many years but now I'm facing up to who I really am) and I'm quite fortunate that they are understanding mainly because I've been open and honest with them all from the beginning. I do need a certain amount of intimacy so I'd rather not have a one night stand but then sometimes I do get horny and it's better than having a wank on my own."

Welllll thank you for your clarity. That has to be one of the funniest posts I've read! You sound like the Charlie Sheen of swingers justifying why you need casual sex Mood swings?? Who is buying that? You should have kept it to yourself, yeah. If it's true, you need to see a Dr about it.

I don't know any woman who would like to think themselves as 'better than a wank', soooo yeah, again bud, you maybe should have kept your constructive thoughts to yourself again there too, but they are humorous.

After reading what you've written I am a wondering why you're disagreeing with me tbh, as it sounds like you know (have known), a few women and see them when you want and end it when you want, so don't really have any long term, regular buddies. You have options of one night stands as everybody does, all of which support what I said. Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging.

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By *ikeyGreyMan
over a year ago

leeds

London and essex here

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?

This is more one for the singles in swinging, which is great. The only thing that stops someone being a regular playmate is requests for them to be a regular playmate.

Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging.

Regular is not the same as exclusive.

I take it you have a string of understanding playmates or just prefer one night stands?

Ok, let me try to be more constructive.

I can fuck one person regularly or I can fuck multiple people regularly. Especially if I like the way that they do it. I wouldn't ask them as such to become regular it just happens that we see each other more until we get bored or whatever.

That has nothing to do with being exclusive, unless I'm mistaken.

Also, it is possible to have a string of understanding playmates and still prefer one night stands.

If you're asking about what I do personally (yes I'm giving details of my sex life on a public forum), I have a fluctuating number of fuck buddies who I see irregularly. This is mainly because I have mood swings which make it difficult for me focus on one person at a time (although I have done for many years but now I'm facing up to who I really am) and I'm quite fortunate that they are understanding mainly because I've been open and honest with them all from the beginning. I do need a certain amount of intimacy so I'd rather not have a one night stand but then sometimes I do get horny and it's better than having a wank on my own.

Welllll thank you for your clarity. That has to be one of the funniest posts I've read! You sound like the Charlie Sheen of swingers justifying why you need casual sex Mood swings?? Who is buying that? You should have kept it to yourself, yeah. If it's true, you need to see a Dr about it.

I don't know any woman who would like to think themselves as 'better than a wank', soooo yeah, again bud, you maybe should have kept your constructive thoughts to yourself again there too, but they are humorous.

After reading what you've written I am a wondering why you're disagreeing with me tbh, as it sounds like you know (have known), a few women and see them when you want and end it when you want, so don't really have any long term, regular buddies. You have options of one night stands as everybody does, all of which support what I said. Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging. "

I will try to explain things more.

Why do you become bored or whatever.

Unless you didn't spark interest they probably wanted more than what you wanted to give. They wanted more time, more meets, more affection, more attention. This is what happens with greater regularity unless both people are absolutely on the same level. There's no need to make excuses for bad mood or becoming bored or whatever. As people above say, the more you get to know someone the better the sex becomes - the problem is regularity/exclusivity.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"...If it's true, you need to see a Dr about it..."

What makes you think I haven't?


"...I don't know any woman who would like to think themselves as 'better than a wank'..."

Because women aren't up for one night stands either? Maybe they want to save the power on their batteries?

But if you'd rather be a...sorry...HAVE a wank, that's cool too, bro.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"...

Why do you become bored or whatever..."

People grow apart sometimes. Ever heard of divorce?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a regular playmate but alas no luck

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I will always prefer regular person. I like real sex, no holes barred (no pun intended) and can only really do this with someone regular as you can trust each other. I find on here it's all about quantity which I find hard to get my head around sometimes but we're all different. Wish I could find a site that's designed for regulars but doubt it exists.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"...If it's true, you need to see a Dr about it...

What makes you think I haven't?"

I believe ya, good luck in your search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"

Regular would be great especially if there's a connection

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have always preferred regular meets and have always sought them out, the meetings are more relaxed and enjoyable for me, you can explore boundaries and try things together, I'm not knocking one off meets but regular have always been my preference

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Great sex is about sharing the most deepest most personal parts of our psyche and desires. About feeling totally free to express your shelf and get lost in the moment without fear. We often expose a real vulnerability as we shed the layers of the mind and let others see inside. So connection and a deeper umderstanding of each other is a key ingredient. So having someone you trust and understand is a valuable key to unlocking the most intense and intimate moments. Ironically this was a lesson learned in monogamous marriage. It is a lesson I carry forward when looking for a playmate.

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