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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This infuriates me to be honest, and all comments welcomed.

I'm tired of guys moaning that women don't reply or "I can't get any meets" well if you did a bit of homework first it could pay off?

I have an extensive profile outlines my preferences in men i.e. No facial hair, young, fit

So why do the hairy non fit ones message?

Don't get me wrong I'm happy chatting and making friends to everyone but I'm not having sex with men I don't fancy!

Plus it's impossible answering all messages as women we get so many!

I can't use the filters as I'm more open minded meeting couples with a not so fit male as I like female play.

I always read a guys profile if his message is a good one then see if he accommodates how far away is he etc etc is it logistically possible to meet.

Obviously the private photos can be shared if there is a meet on the cards but not before.

I FaceTime all of my meets beforehand to out the non genuine ones too that helps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple solution, if it bothers you that much, block all guys from messaging and do the legwork of finding him yourself.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

blocking single men has nowt to do with finding couples, with filters in place I don't get much mail.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Simple solution, if it bothers you that much, block all guys from messaging and do the legwork of finding him yourself. "

Good answer, I like that, I'm good at the leg work!

Point taken, but I can't filter as I'm partial to couple fun with female

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"blocking single men has nowt to do with finding couples, with filters in place I don't get much mail. "

Exactly

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"blocking single men has nowt to do with finding couples, with filters in place I don't get much mail.

Exactly "

so you would rather have lots of mail from guys who don't read the profile and you dont have time to reply to, than block single men and have nothing to whine about? ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple solution, if it bothers you that much, block all guys from messaging and do the legwork of finding him yourself.

Good answer, I like that, I'm good at the leg work!

Point taken, but I can't filter as I'm partial to couple fun with female "

Nothing stopping you filtering couples as well and searching for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple solution, if it bothers you that much, block all guys from messaging and do the legwork of finding him yourself.

Good answer, I like that, I'm good at the leg work!

Point taken, but I can't filter as I'm partial to couple fun with female "

But you can block men from messaging you is the point.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP, some people will always take a 'wild shot' in hope, some will think yes but she says even in this thread fit guys only but not so fit guys in a couple so i reckon i am fit so here goes...

use the filters as said and put in your profile about couples then maybe it wont be so frustrating for you..

good luck..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I think you've misunderstood the filtering of the males part...

You can block JUST the single guys from messaging you, leaving you to hunt them when you please, but that still allows couples to message you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, some people will always take a 'wild shot' in hope, some will think yes but she says even in this thread fit guys only but not so fit guys in a couple so i reckon i am fit so here goes...

use the filters as said and put in your profile about couples then maybe it wont be so frustrating for you..

good luck.."

Yep, 'God loves a trier' is the attitude some people have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, some people will always take a 'wild shot' in hope, some will think yes but she says even in this thread fit guys only but not so fit guys in a couple so i reckon i am fit so here goes...

use the filters as said and put in your profile about couples then maybe it wont be so frustrating for you..

Says all that in my profile, ty for replying

good luck..

Yep, 'God loves a trier' is the attitude some people have. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP I think you've misunderstood the filtering of the males part...

You can block JUST the single guys from messaging you, leaving you to hunt them when you please, but that still allows couples to message you "

Good idea but what if there is a single male out there I like?

It's something to think about though thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Simple solution, if it bothers you that much, block all guys from messaging and do the legwork of finding him yourself.

Good answer, I like that, I'm good at the leg work!

Point taken, but I can't filter as I'm partial to couple fun with female

But you can block men from messaging you is the point."

Point taken Thabks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"blocking single men has nowt to do with finding couples, with filters in place I don't get much mail.

Exactly

so you would rather have lots of mail from guys who don't read the profile and you dont have time to reply to, than block single men and have nothing to whine about? ok "

Hairy muff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I think you've misunderstood the filtering of the males part...

You can block JUST the single guys from messaging you, leaving you to hunt them when you please, but that still allows couples to message you

Good idea but what if there is a single male out there I like?

It's something to think about though thanks "

You message him

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"This infuriates me to be honest, and all comments welcomed.

I'm tired of guys moaning that women don't reply or "I can't get any meets" well if you did a bit of homework first it could pay off?

I have an extensive profile outlines my preferences in men i.e. No facial hair, young, fit

So why do the hairy non fit ones message?

Don't get me wrong I'm happy chatting and making friends to everyone but I'm not having sex with men I don't fancy!

Plus it's impossible answering all messages as women we get so many!

I can't use the filters as I'm more open minded meeting couples with a not so fit male as I like female play.

I always read a guys profile if his message is a good one then see if he accommodates how far away is he etc etc is it logistically possible to meet.

Obviously the private photos can be shared if there is a meet on the cards but not before.

I FaceTime all of my meets beforehand to out the non genuine ones too that helps!"

Well that's me stuffed, as I don't have facetime on my phone

Because many guys are so desperate to have sex they'll just spam message anyone out there in the hope that they'll get a reply of any sort - instant gratification

A lot of the effort actually goes into creating a witty message title to try and grab the attention

Then hopefully a message that actually shows that you've read the profile will follow

PS, fancy a fuck ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy, just block single guys as every single guy messaging you is probably not suitable....

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By *oi_LucyCouple
over a year ago

Barbados

You ask for 'fit' guys? How do you define fit? I find it strange when people ask for fit or attractive people. Or even stranger when they say they are attractive on their own profile. Attractive to who? Even Mrs and I have different ideas on who is and isn't attractive to each of us.

-Matt

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