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By *atmanseeksrobyn OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I love swinging; the liberation, the friendships, the passion. But what happens when you get to the point where you feel the person for you is another person like you; a swinger. Is it possible to find love within the community? Or does love only form way from the community?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Thats exactly how i met my partner. Last thing i was looking for i was having a ball. I met him in an unusual way and although we live seperatly 11 years on where still blissfully happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure more than a few couples on here started out as separate swingers, things like this happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love swinging; the liberation, the friendships, the passion. But what happens when you get to the point where you feel the person for you is another person like you; a swinger. Is it possible to find love within the community? Or does love only form way from the community? "

Been plenty of threads on this and all will be mixed feelings on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love swinging; the liberation, the friendships, the passion. But what happens when you get to the point where you feel the person for you is another person like you; a swinger. Is it possible to find love within the community? Or does love only form way from the community?

Been plenty of threads on this and all will be mixed feelings on it."

There's more than a few threads on every subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my now ex on here ( much younger than me ) He could never get over my previous Fab life and constantly accused me of cheating which I would never do. It drove us apart in the end. We were together over 3 years. So yes one could meet on here and Ive seen proof but I wonder if it could last x

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By *atmanseeksrobyn OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I love swinging; the liberation, the friendships, the passion. But what happens when you get to the point where you feel the person for you is another person like you; a swinger. Is it possible to find love within the community? Or does love only form way from the community?

Been plenty of threads on this and all will be mixed feelings on it."

No doubt it's constantly revisited subject, it's interesting to see people's takes on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know its quite a simplistic view but I think you can find love anywhere. Its about the people not the circumstances?

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By *atmanseeksrobyn OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I met my now ex on here ( much younger than me ) He could never get over my previous Fab life and constantly accused me of cheating which I would never do. It drove us apart in the end. We were together over 3 years. So yes one could meet on here and Ive seen proof but I wonder if it could last x "

Yes, you'd think there would be less accusations of cheating as it's more open. Sorry it didn't last for you xx

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By *atmanseeksrobyn OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I know its quite a simplistic view but I think you can find love anywhere. Its about the people not the circumstances? "

I agree, and it hits you whenever. X

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Is this a dating site or a sex site ? , I was rudely told the latter once. I personally see it as a place for an alternative lifestyle, we are all looking for something be it sex, companionship, friendships or people who share a common Fetish, kink etc...

For the lucky few a relationship will form with a likeminded soul for others brief meetings for mutual pleasures, and unfortunately for others nothing but endless messages and let downs.

I suppose we all live in hope, I am willing to wait for that special person who accepts me fully and I in turn will ensure He, She or They also get the best of me ..

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By *atmanseeksrobyn OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Is this a dating site or a sex site ? , I was rudely told the latter once. I personally see it as a place for an alternative lifestyle, we are all looking for something be it sex, companionship, friendships or people who share a common Fetish, kink etc...

For the lucky few a relationship will form with a likeminded soul for others brief meetings for mutual pleasures, and unfortunately for others nothing but endless messages and let downs.

I suppose we all live in hope, I am willing to wait for that special person who accepts me fully and I in turn will ensure He, She or They also get the best of me .. "

Well said x

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP there are a lot of couples who met through swinging. My sister met her husband on here and they celebrate their second wedding anniversary next month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm trying to convince erectjim to fall in love with me.

You can persuade someone, right? Like a war of attrition, tell me that works...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm trying to convince erectjim to fall in love with me.

You can persuade someone, right? Like a war of attrition, tell me that works...? "

It'd better work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm trying to convince erectjim to fall in love with me.

You can persuade someone, right? Like a war of attrition, tell me that works...?

It'd better work "

Bwahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met my now ex on here ( much younger than me ) He could never get over my previous Fab life and constantly accused me of cheating which I would never do. It drove us apart in the end. We were together over 3 years. So yes one could meet on here and Ive seen proof but I wonder if it could last x "

That's really interesting. I always think / worry what my future partner would think of me if they ever knew I was on here. I know not everybody thinks the same and the non swingers I've told in the past have been really judgemental.

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By *aughty_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Yes I met my fella through the scene

Nearly 4 years ago now.

It can get rocky but it makes you stronger I think.

We have agreed to an open relationship but we still swing together

And it's serious enough to be looking at mortgages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm trying to convince erectjim to fall in love with me.

You can persuade someone, right? Like a war of attrition, tell me that works...?

It'd better work

Bwahahaha "

You can laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm trying to convince erectjim to fall in love with me.

You can persuade someone, right? Like a war of attrition, tell me that works...?

It'd better work

Bwahahaha

You can laugh "

I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love swinging; the liberation, the friendships, the passion. But what happens when you get to the point where you feel the person for you is another person like you; a swinger. Is it possible to find love within the community? Or does love only form way from the community? "

just make sure the person that you have fallen for isn't 'fab single'.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know its quite a simplistic view but I think you can find love anywhere. Its about the people not the circumstances? "

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