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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are more people here for casual encounters than for friendships. Both genders have sexual needs and both genders make advances on here.

My question is this, for an hotel meet, who pays the bill? In a typical date, it's expected of the guy; but for swingers, is it any different?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

50/50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be booking a hotel for a date usually in all honesty but either way it seems fair to share the cost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most ladies will be happy to share, some will expect the guy to pay. All depends how much you wanna get laid at the end of the day

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I've split it before now but I have also had it paid for me.....

I'm paying for one this week - no idea if he's planning to split it or what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol. True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a 'typical date'?..not sure where the difference would be...i would assume in both,it would be half each..don't usually go to hotels on a date,but i see no difference...i wouldn't say that nowadays it's expected of the guy at all; i think it might depend on who had done the asking if it was a date though too..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would discuss that as part of the arrangement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the right situation with the right lady, no objection to paying but it would have to be the right situation.

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

50 /50

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Things have changed in the dating scene but for a normal date I believe ladies still like to be pampered

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I book them and I pay for them. Works for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For the right situation with the right lady, no objection to paying but it would have to be the right situation. "

What's a right situation? Lol

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I'd expect to share the cost, and I'd expect the same of a 'typical date' too. Although it's unlikely that would involve a hotel room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do a runner

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont use hotels. Well a couple of times. But its mutual fun i dont want someone to be buying me.

But im also easy. One could pay the hotel one dinner and drinks. Im not a sixpence spliter but i expect both parties to pay there way. Its 2017

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd expect to share the cost, and I'd expect the same of a 'typical date' too. Although it's unlikely that would involve a hotel room "

Lol. You never know. Dates are more sincerely and straight forward these days.

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By *olnpeteCouple
over a year ago

between Derby and Nottingham

The married or attached man should always pay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't expect anyone to pay for a hotel room. I do expect someone who doesn't accommodate to read my profile and not contact me,as I don't either, and don't pay for hotel rooms, at the moment.

I'm very polite in pointing this out, when asked if a hotel is acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The married or attached man should always pay."

Lol. Who made this rule? At the end of the day, both parties want sexual satisfaction equally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't expect anyone to pay for a hotel room. I do expect someone who doesn't accommodate to read my profile and not contact me,as I don't either, and don't pay for hotel rooms, at the moment.

I'm very polite in pointing this out, when asked if a hotel is acceptable. "

Why don't you do hotels?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the right situation with the right lady, no objection to paying but it would have to be the right situation.

What's a right situation? Lol"

a fuck obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I book them and I pay for them. Works for me "

Me too... My room, my choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The married or attached man should always pay."

Including the man of your couples profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are more people here for casual encounters than for friendships. Both genders have sexual needs and both genders make advances on here.

My question is this, for an hotel meet, who pays the bill? In a typical date, it's expected of the guy; but for swingers, is it any different? "

The guy I meet, he pays the hotel and for anything else whilst were out.

I'm happy to pay my way,but some guys are old fashioned and won't take money of a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The married or attached man should always pay.

Lol. Who made this rule? At the end of the day, both parties want sexual satisfaction equally"

What crap... Halves in that situation surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't expect anyone to pay for a hotel room. I do expect someone who doesn't accommodate to read my profile and not contact me,as I don't either, and don't pay for hotel rooms, at the moment.

I'm very polite in pointing this out, when asked if a hotel is acceptable. "

same as this for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gentleman would never expect a lady to pay

So, on here, the cost should be split half and half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Things have changed in the dating scene but for a normal date I believe ladies still like to be pampered"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't expect anyone to pay for a hotel room. I do expect someone who doesn't accommodate to read my profile and not contact me,as I don't either, and don't pay for hotel rooms, at the moment.

I'm very polite in pointing this out, when asked if a hotel is acceptable.

Why don't you do hotels? "

I don't pay for them. I have met men who accommodate in a hotel room; some prefer that as they don't want strangers in their homes. That's their choice and I respect that.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Sometimes one pays for dinner, and the other for the room, swings and roundabouts

For someone to expect for it to be paid is a bit rich

I would anticipate that this might have come up in the conversation at some point prior to the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I book them and I pay for them. Works for me "

I accept, you can be my exception that proves my rule!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I book them and I pay for them. Works for me "

I can accom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are more people here for casual encounters than for friendships. Both genders have sexual needs and both genders make advances on here.

My question is this, for an hotel meet, who pays the bill? In a typical date, it's expected of the guy; but for swingers, is it any different?

The guy I meet, he pays the hotel and for anything else whilst were out.

I'm happy to pay my way,but some guys are old fashioned and won't take money of a woman."

The most embarrassing situations are when standing at a bar, arguing about who buys the first drink. I hate public scenes and it's like a big sign over our heads saying FIRST DATE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50 for sure

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I book them and I pay for them. Works for me

I accept, you can be my exception that proves my rule! "

Awww, I feel so special now

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I book them and I pay for them. Works for me

I can accom "

In 'anley tho' duck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes one pays for dinner, and the other for the room, swings and roundabouts

For someone to expect for it to be paid is a bit rich

I would anticipate that this might have come up in the conversation at some point prior to the meet "

Some people flop things on you at the last minute. You agree to a drink then, when you get there, they want food, or say I'm buying dinner.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I have never expected a man to look after me, no matter what the situation. If the meet involved two people and neither were going to use the room after its 50/50. If one person or couple will stay in the room after then they should pay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are more people here for casual encounters than for friendships. Both genders have sexual needs and both genders make advances on here.

My question is this, for an hotel meet, who pays the bill? In a typical date, it's expected of the guy; but for swingers, is it any different?

The guy I meet, he pays the hotel and for anything else whilst were out.

I'm happy to pay my way,but some guys are old fashioned and won't take money of a woman."

And if he ever stands you up, I'll welcome you in Leeds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't expect anyone to pay for a hotel room. I do expect someone who doesn't accommodate to read my profile and not contact me,as I don't either, and don't pay for hotel rooms, at the moment.

I'm very polite in pointing this out, when asked if a hotel is acceptable.

same as this for me!"

I will have had sex 3 times this week by tomorrow. If that were 3 hotel rooms, it would become very costly for me. I like regular sex, preferably with the same men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are more people here for casual encounters than for friendships. Both genders have sexual needs and both genders make advances on here.

My question is this, for an hotel meet, who pays the bill? In a typical date, it's expected of the guy; but for swingers, is it any different?

The guy I meet, he pays the hotel and for anything else whilst were out.

I'm happy to pay my way,but some guys are old fashioned and won't take money of a woman.

And if he ever stands you up, I'll welcome you in Leeds "

Thank you very much for the offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be more than happy to pay 50/50 for a modest hotel but I definitely wouldnt be booking it. I know Im not a timewaster, and having been let down before the guy can take the risk and book rather than me ( which isnt really a risk as I would turn up if I said I would ) xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't expect anyone to pay for a hotel room. I do expect someone who doesn't accommodate to read my profile and not contact me,as I don't either, and don't pay for hotel rooms, at the moment.

I'm very polite in pointing this out, when asked if a hotel is acceptable.

same as this for me!

I will have had sex 3 times this week by tomorrow. If that were 3 hotel rooms, it would become very costly for me. I like regular sex, preferably with the same men. "

It doesn't make sense for regular encounters obviously. 3 times this week though someone has been disturbing the neighbours with load moaning. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Id be more than happy to pay 50/50 for a modest hotel but I definitely wouldnt be booking it. I know Im not a timewaster, and having been let down before the guy can take the risk and book rather than me ( which isnt really a risk as I would turn up if I said I would ) xx "

Why would anyone stand you up though?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are more people here for casual encounters than for friendships. Both genders have sexual needs and both genders make advances on here.

My question is this, for an hotel meet, who pays the bill? In a typical date, it's expected of the guy; but for swingers, is it any different?

The guy I meet, he pays the hotel and for anything else whilst were out.

I'm happy to pay my way,but some guys are old fashioned and won't take money of a woman.

And if he ever stands you up, I'll welcome you in Leeds

Thank you very much for the offer"

You are welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we invite someone for a meet in our hotel room whether its male or MF couple we will pay because its our room. If they invite us then its their room so the same applies and they pay.

Never had a problem and it has worked out very evenly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I book them and I pay for them. Works for me

I accept, you can be my exception that proves my rule!

Awww, I feel so special now "

I thought it might stop an embarrassing situation at the check out desk if we agree before hand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A gentleman would never expect a lady to pay

So, on here, the cost should be split half and half "

I see what you did there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoever wants to pay/ how they agree it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A gentleman would never expect a lady to pay

So, on here, the cost should be split half and half

I see what you did there "

I'm glad someone did

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A gentleman would never expect a lady to pay

So, on here, the cost should be split half and half

I see what you did there "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I book them and I pay for them. Works for me "

My type of girl.

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Id say 50/50

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By *oundGuy83Man
over a year ago

North Wales

I would say a 50/50 split is fair if a hotel room is needed.

Thankfully having my own place this issue hasn't come up to many times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say a 50/50 split is fair if a hotel room is needed.

Thankfully having my own place this issue hasn't come up to many times. "

It's different for people with kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it should be split - unless the person has the hotel booked already and invites you - then its their shout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose the hotel, book it, pay for it and I'm the only one who stays overnight...and I don't ask for a contribution. That way I host the meet and decide when the guy leaves. Works perfectly for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me old fashioned. ..I think it has to be the man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends. No one SHOULD pay. I've had guys wanting to pay. I've paid. I've split it 50/50. Normally I have to go back home and the guy will stay overnight. On those occasions I won't book and pay because i don't want a stranger staying in a room I've booked. .although I will contribute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have paid in the past but then we have been the ones to stay overnight, so don't have a problem with that. If that wasn't the case we'd want to share the cost. If we were booking a hotel for another reason and inviting someone to join us it wouldn't cross our minds to ask for a contribution. With a guy we are meeting on an ongoing basis we take it in turns. I don't think it matters as long as you discuss it in advance and everyone is happy. What isn't on is people making presumptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would expect 50/50 tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I really object to is when it's been intimated that the costs will be split before the meet but I then get stung with the whole bill. If I know beforehand that I will be paying then I have the choice of meeting or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it should be split - unless the person has the hotel booked already and invites you - then its their shout "

We can split one in Bradford if you fancy a BBC MEET.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Both if both earning.

Highest earner if lower earner can't afford and they are both agreeable.

The one who wanted a hotel meet if the other was willing to accommodate.

The N.H.S if you can claim it as therapeutic sex.

Your mum if you refuse to grow up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They should pay. I'm very much a privilege

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Also...... If someone had already booked a room or was staying for a few days I would NOT contribute at all ( then again I don't and won't do hotel meets except under certain circumstances )

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Whoever. I should tip the maid though

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

The people who travel on business have the right idea. Their company pays

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"The people who travel on business have the right idea. Their company pays "

That's how I do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The people who travel on business have the right idea. Their company pays "
yep best idea that let your company pay lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The people who travel on business have the right idea. Their company pays "

Lol. That works

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"The married or attached man should always pay."

So if you two are married and I am single Pete pays then? Works for me.

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By *on and TammyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"I choose the hotel, book it, pay for it and I'm the only one who stays overnight...and I don't ask for a contribution. That way I host the meet and decide when the guy leaves. Works perfectly for me "

The more I think about it the more I feel this is how I would want us to do it, for the reasons you state.

We have our first hotel meet on Monday, it was initially going to be full play and at the social the guy generously offered to pay for the hotel. After the social we realised we would prefer to stick to soft play (which he was fine with, its our first MFM) so we got back to him and said that because we had moved the goalposts a bit we would take care of the hotel on this occasion, which he was ok with. Have to say we felt a lot more relaxed about things once we'd taken that decision to not just soft play but take care of the hotel too. Just feels like we have more control over proceedings.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I choose the hotel, book it, pay for it and I'm the only one who stays overnight...and I don't ask for a contribution. That way I host the meet and decide when the guy leaves. Works perfectly for me

The more I think about it the more I feel this is how I would want us to do it, for the reasons you state.

We have our first hotel meet on Monday, it was initially going to be full play and at the social the guy generously offered to pay for the hotel. After the social we realised we would prefer to stick to soft play (which he was fine with, its our first MFM) so we got back to him and said that because we had moved the goalposts a bit we would take care of the hotel on this occasion, which he was ok with. Have to say we felt a lot more relaxed about things once we'd taken that decision to not just soft play but take care of the hotel too. Just feels like we have more control over proceedings.

Mr"

What was it like seeing another guy touch your wife for the first time?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't have spare cash for hotel rooms so I meet at mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both if both earning.

Highest earner if lower earner can't afford and they are both agreeable.

The one who wanted a hotel meet if the other was willing to accommodate.

The N.H.S if you can claim it as therapeutic sex.

Your mum if you refuse to grow up.

"

I want an NHS sex meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The married or attached man should always pay."

That's nice of you to say you'll pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Split the bill

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Split the bill"

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only one of us was staying all night Id expect that person to pay. If we both were we would split.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

I travel with work and that's handy, however if I invited someone I'd pay and wouldn't accept to share

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

On the very rare occasion I have met someone in a hotel they've been staying there anywhere and it's been a business expense. If this wasn't the case I'd offer to contribute of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've paid for hotels and not stayed in them.

I've paid for some and stayed in them.

I've had meets where the other has paid for the hotel room.

What im getting at I guess, who ever wants to pick up the bill really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't expect anyone to pay for a hotel room. I do expect someone who doesn't accommodate to read my profile and not contact me,as I don't either, and don't pay for hotel rooms, at the moment.

I'm very polite in pointing this out, when asked if a hotel is acceptable.

same as this for me!

I will have had sex 3 times this week by tomorrow. If that were 3 hotel rooms, it would become very costly for me. I like regular sex, preferably with the same men.

It doesn't make sense for regular encounters obviously. 3 times this week though someone has been disturbing the neighbours with load moaning. Lol"

Not my neighbours

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've paid for hotels and not stayed in them.

I've paid for some and stayed in them.

I've had meets where the other has paid for the hotel room.

What im getting at I guess, who ever wants to pick up the bill really. "

I've waltzed out of them and declared I won't be staying before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've paid for hotels and not stayed in them.

I've paid for some and stayed in them.

I've had meets where the other has paid for the hotel room.

What im getting at I guess, who ever wants to pick up the bill really.

I've waltzed out of them and declared I won't be staying before "

Really? Why?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've paid for hotels and not stayed in them.

I've paid for some and stayed in them.

I've had meets where the other has paid for the hotel room.

What im getting at I guess, who ever wants to pick up the bill really.

I've waltzed out of them and declared I won't be staying before

Really? Why? "

Didn't fancy sleeping on my own. Bed was a bit damp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've paid for hotels and not stayed in them.

I've paid for some and stayed in them.

I've had meets where the other has paid for the hotel room.

What im getting at I guess, who ever wants to pick up the bill really.

I've waltzed out of them and declared I won't be staying before

Really? Why?

Didn't fancy sleeping on my own. Bed was a bit damp "

I like ruining beds

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've paid for hotels and not stayed in them.

I've paid for some and stayed in them.

I've had meets where the other has paid for the hotel room.

What im getting at I guess, who ever wants to pick up the bill really.

I've waltzed out of them and declared I won't be staying before

Really? Why?

Didn't fancy sleeping on my own. Bed was a bit damp

I like ruining beds "

I like when there are two beds

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

I had hotel meet Wednesday and fully expected to pay half

However he wouldn't accept it! ( being a gent I guess)

I did buy our half past midnight pizza though

Normally I'd expect 50/50 split unless as people have said he's Already staying there

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"I've paid for hotels and not stayed in them.

I've paid for some and stayed in them.

I've had meets where the other has paid for the hotel room.

What im getting at I guess, who ever wants to pick up the bill really.

I've waltzed out of them and declared I won't be staying before

Really? Why?

Didn't fancy sleeping on my own. Bed was a bit damp "

Did you complain to the management about the damp

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"I've paid for hotels and not stayed in them.

I've paid for some and stayed in them.

I've had meets where the other has paid for the hotel room.

What im getting at I guess, who ever wants to pick up the bill really.

I've waltzed out of them and declared I won't be staying before

Really? Why?

Didn't fancy sleeping on my own. Bed was a bit damp "

Can relate to this my last meet soaked the bed, I ended up on a slither of the bed the rest of the night

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

As I'm usually going to be staying there afterwards as well I pay! Whether the lady stays over as well doesn't matter I've booked it and I pay

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I absolutely want to go halves whatever the costs of a meet - be they a hotel, and/or drinks, and/or club entry etc. It actually makes me feel empowered - and therefore more relaxed - if we're meeting as equals because there's no lingering doubt whatsoever regarding one party having any obligation towards the other because they've been subsidised in any way. It doesn't mean I don't appreciate the gesture when others try to be genuinely generous and I'm pretty sure those I've met aren't trying to do that as some sort of hold over me .... but sticking to paying my way means I simply don't have to think about any of that stuff and can just enjoy myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I absolutely want to go halves whatever the costs of a meet - be they a hotel, and/or drinks, and/or club entry etc. It actually makes me feel empowered - and therefore more relaxed - if we're meeting as equals because there's no lingering doubt whatsoever regarding one party having any obligation towards the other because they've been subsidised in any way. It doesn't mean I don't appreciate the gesture when others try to be genuinely generous and I'm pretty sure those I've met aren't trying to do that as some sort of hold over me .... but sticking to paying my way means I simply don't have to think about any of that stuff and can just enjoy myself!"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50-50 never had an issue

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I absolutely want to go halves whatever the costs of a meet - be they a hotel, and/or drinks, and/or club entry etc. It actually makes me feel empowered - and therefore more relaxed - if we're meeting as equals because there's no lingering doubt whatsoever regarding one party having any obligation towards the other because they've been subsidised in any way. It doesn't mean I don't appreciate the gesture when others try to be genuinely generous and I'm pretty sure those I've met aren't trying to do that as some sort of hold over me .... but sticking to paying my way means I simply don't have to think about any of that stuff and can just enjoy myself!"

I refuse to let a guy pay for everything for several reasons, but I am sad that most of them are surprised when I pay my share. Its the 21st century - if women want to be treated as equals we should contribute equally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do. But then again, I only meet when I'm travelling on business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I prefer to go halves so that I feel the dynamic is equal. If a guy is staying in the hotel for business, I'll take a nice bottle of wine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cost of meet should be split evenly, taking consideration money spent travelling.

Ie. If one person's transport costs are considerably less than the others that person should pay for the hotel. That's how I work it out when my train ticket is the cheapest anyway

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"The cost of meet should be split evenly, taking consideration money spent travelling.

Ie. If one person's transport costs are considerably less than the others that person should pay for the hotel. That's how I work it out when my train ticket is the cheapest anyway "

Well said smoothie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The cost of meet should be split evenly, taking consideration money spent travelling.

Ie. If one person's transport costs are considerably less than the others that person should pay for the hotel. That's how I work it out when my train ticket is the cheapest anyway "

Fuck that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The cost of meet should be split evenly, taking consideration money spent travelling.

Ie. If one person's transport costs are considerably less than the others that person should pay for the hotel. That's how I work it out when my train ticket is the cheapest anyway

Fuck that! "

Seconded. I'd have had to pay out a fortune in petrol money and the room. I'd rather have a wank, and I don't wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The cost of meet should be split evenly, taking consideration money spent travelling.

Ie. If one person's transport costs are considerably less than the others that person should pay for the hotel. That's how I work it out when my train ticket is the cheapest anyway

Fuck that!

Seconded. I'd have had to pay out a fortune in petrol money and the room. I'd rather have a wank, and I don't wank "

My car drinks petrol like it's going out of fashion. I'd have to let my meets pay for the room and i'd have to send them an invoice! #awkward!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The cost of meet should be split evenly, taking consideration money spent travelling.

Ie. If one person's transport costs are considerably less than the others that person should pay for the hotel. That's how I work it out when my train ticket is the cheapest anyway

Fuck that!

Seconded. I'd have had to pay out a fortune in petrol money and the room. I'd rather have a wank, and I don't wank

My car drinks petrol like it's going out of fashion. I'd have to let my meets pay for the room and i'd have to send them an invoice! #awkward! "

Should we add the cost of our fanny wax, lingerie, anal douche etc? It is all for them after all

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By *otandStickyCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I think you should never assume that you don't have to pay anything, people have their own reasons why they might want to pay the whole amount. Couples should definitely pay 2/3s of the bill if it is split though, unless they want to be nice and and pay it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm away with work then it's paid for anyway so I wouldn't expect anything.

If we've arranged something ourselves then a 50/50 split always seems fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm away with work then it's paid for anyway so I wouldn't expect anything.

If we've arranged something ourselves then a 50/50 split always seems fair. "

Agreed. If I needed the hotel anyway, I pay. If it's pre-arranged then it's fair to split.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's wrong with going Dutch

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

As long it's not too expensive the guy should pay on first meet

Split costs if it is a regular thing

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"I choose the hotel, book it, pay for it and I'm the only one who stays overnight...and I don't ask for a contribution. That way I host the meet and decide when the guy leaves. Works perfectly for me

The more I think about it the more I feel this is how I would want us to do it, for the reasons you state.

We have our first hotel meet on Monday, it was initially going to be full play and at the social the guy generously offered to pay for the hotel. After the social we realised we would prefer to stick to soft play (which he was fine with, its our first MFM) so we got back to him and said that because we had moved the goalposts a bit we would take care of the hotel on this occasion, which he was ok with. Have to say we felt a lot more relaxed about things once we'd taken that decision to not just soft play but take care of the hotel too. Just feels like we have more control over proceedings.

Mr"

Carlsberg don't do swinger meets, but if they did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long it's not too expensive the guy should pay on first meet

Split costs if it is a regular thing "

agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The cost of meet should be split evenly, taking consideration money spent travelling.

Ie. If one person's transport costs are considerably less than the others that person should pay for the hotel. That's how I work it out when my train ticket is the cheapest anyway

Fuck that! "

Seemed fair to me at the time my train ticket was £20 or so. His was well over £60 I think so I paid for the room and we took in turns to buy drinks that evening so we spent about the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The cost of meet should be split evenly, taking consideration money spent travelling.

Ie. If one person's transport costs are considerably less than the others that person should pay for the hotel. That's how I work it out when my train ticket is the cheapest anyway

Fuck that!

Seemed fair to me at the time my train ticket was £20 or so. His was well over £60 I think so I paid for the room and we took in turns to buy drinks that evening so we spent about the same "

Definitely seems fair! It's what I'd do!

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

It's all a bit like the following (from Hitch Hikers Guide to the Gangway)

"Bistromathics itself is simply a revolutionary new way of understanding the behavior of numbers, Just as Einstein observed that space was not an absolute but depended on the observer's movement in space and that time was not an absolute, but depended on the observer's movement in time, so it is now realized that numbers am not absolute, but depend on the observer's movement in restaurants.

The first non absolute number is the number of people for whom the table is reserved. This will vary during the course of the first three telephone calls to the restaurant, and then bear no apparent relation to the number of people who actually turn up, or to the number of people who subsequently join them after the show/match/party/gig or to the number of people who leave when they see who else has turned up.

The second non absolute number is the given time of arrival, which is now known to be one of those most bizarre of mathematical concepts, a recipriversexcluson, a number whose existence can only be defined as being anything other than itself in other words, the given time of arrival is the one moment of time at which it is impossible that any member of the party will arrive. Recipriversexclusons now play a vital part in many branches of math, including statistics and accountancy and also form the basic equations used to engineer the Somebody Else's Problem field.

The third and most mysterious piece of non absoluteness of all lies in the relationship between the number of items on the check, the cost of each item, the number of people at the table and what they are each prepared to pay for (The number of people who actually brought money is only a sub phenomenon in this field.)

The baffling discrepancies that used to occur at this point remained un investigated for centuries simply because no one took them seriously. They were at the time put down to such things as politeness, rudeness, meanness, flashiness, tiredness, emotionality or the lateness of the hour, and completely forgoten about on the following morning. They were never tested under laboratory conditions, of course, because they never occurred in laboratories-not in reputable laboratories at least.

And so it was only with the advent of pocket computers that the startling truth became finally apparent, and it was this:

Numbers written on restaurant checks within the confines of restaurants do not follow the same mathematical laws as numbers written on any other pieces of paper in any other parts of the Universe.

This single statement took the scientific world by storm. It campietely revolutionized it. So many mathematical conferences got held in luch good restaurants that many of the finest minds of a generation died of obesity and heart-failure and the science of math was put backi by years.

Slowly, however; the implications of the idea began to be understood. To begin with it had been too stark, too crazy, too much like what the man in the street would have said "Oh, yes, I could have told you that."

Then some phrases like "Interactive Subjectivity Frameworks" were invented, and everybody was able to relax and get on with it.

The small groups of monks who had taken up hanging around the major research institutes singing strange chants to the effect that the Universe was only a figment of its own imagination were eventually given a street theater grant and went away."

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"There are more people here for casual encounters than for friendships. Both genders have sexual needs and both genders make advances on here.

My question is this, for an hotel meet, who pays the bill? In a typical date, it's expected of the guy; but for swingers, is it any different? "

Always half and half

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"It's all a bit like the following (from Hitch Hikers Guide to the Gangway)

"Bistromathics itself is simply a revolutionary new way of understanding the behavior of numbers, Just as Einstein observed that space was not an absolute but depended on the observer's movement in space and that time was not an absolute, but depended on the observer's movement in time, so it is now realized that numbers am not absolute, but depend on the observer's movement in restaurants.

The first non absolute number is the number of people for whom the table is reserved. This will vary during the course of the first three telephone calls to the restaurant, and then bear no apparent relation to the number of people who actually turn up, or to the number of people who subsequently join them after the show/match/party/gig or to the number of people who leave when they see who else has turned up.

The second non absolute number is the given time of arrival, which is now known to be one of those most bizarre of mathematical concepts, a recipriversexcluson, a number whose existence can only be defined as being anything other than itself in other words, the given time of arrival is the one moment of time at which it is impossible that any member of the party will arrive. Recipriversexclusons now play a vital part in many branches of math, including statistics and accountancy and also form the basic equations used to engineer the Somebody Else's Problem field.

The third and most mysterious piece of non absoluteness of all lies in the relationship between the number of items on the check, the cost of each item, the number of people at the table and what they are each prepared to pay for (The number of people who actually brought money is only a sub phenomenon in this field.)

The baffling discrepancies that used to occur at this point remained un investigated for centuries simply because no one took them seriously. They were at the time put down to such things as politeness, rudeness, meanness, flashiness, tiredness, emotionality or the lateness of the hour, and completely forgoten about on the following morning. They were never tested under laboratory conditions, of course, because they never occurred in laboratories-not in reputable laboratories at least.

And so it was only with the advent of pocket computers that the startling truth became finally apparent, and it was this:

Numbers written on restaurant checks within the confines of restaurants do not follow the same mathematical laws as numbers written on any other pieces of paper in any other parts of the Universe.

This single statement took the scientific world by storm. It campietely revolutionized it. So many mathematical conferences got held in luch good restaurants that many of the finest minds of a generation died of obesity and heart-failure and the science of math was put backi by years.

Slowly, however; the implications of the idea began to be understood. To begin with it had been too stark, too crazy, too much like what the man in the street would have said "Oh, yes, I could have told you that."

Then some phrases like "Interactive Subjectivity Frameworks" were invented, and everybody was able to relax and get on with it.

The small groups of monks who had taken up hanging around the major research institutes singing strange chants to the effect that the Universe was only a figment of its own imagination were eventually given a street theater grant and went away.""

What the actual fuck?????

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"It's all a bit like the following (from Hitch Hikers Guide to the Gangway)

"Bistromathics itself is simply a revolutionary new way of understanding the behavior of numbers, Just as Einstein observed that space was not an absolute but depended on the observer's movement in space and that time was not an absolute, but depended on the observer's movement in time, so it is now realized that numbers am not absolute, but depend on the observer's movement in restaurants.

The first non absolute number is the number of people for whom the table is reserved. This will vary during the course of the first three telephone calls to the restaurant, and then bear no apparent relation to the number of people who actually turn up, or to the number of people who subsequently join them after the show/match/party/gig or to the number of people who leave when they see who else has turned up.

The second non absolute number is the given time of arrival, which is now known to be one of those most bizarre of mathematical concepts, a recipriversexcluson, a number whose existence can only be defined as being anything other than itself in other words, the given time of arrival is the one moment of time at which it is impossible that any member of the party will arrive. Recipriversexclusons now play a vital part in many branches of math, including statistics and accountancy and also form the basic equations used to engineer the Somebody Else's Problem field.

The third and most mysterious piece of non absoluteness of all lies in the relationship between the number of items on the check, the cost of each item, the number of people at the table and what they are each prepared to pay for (The number of people who actually brought money is only a sub phenomenon in this field.)

The baffling discrepancies that used to occur at this point remained un investigated for centuries simply because no one took them seriously. They were at the time put down to such things as politeness, rudeness, meanness, flashiness, tiredness, emotionality or the lateness of the hour, and completely forgoten about on the following morning. They were never tested under laboratory conditions, of course, because they never occurred in laboratories-not in reputable laboratories at least.

And so it was only with the advent of pocket computers that the startling truth became finally apparent, and it was this:

Numbers written on restaurant checks within the confines of restaurants do not follow the same mathematical laws as numbers written on any other pieces of paper in any other parts of the Universe.

This single statement took the scientific world by storm. It campietely revolutionized it. So many mathematical conferences got held in luch good restaurants that many of the finest minds of a generation died of obesity and heart-failure and the science of math was put backi by years.

Slowly, however; the implications of the idea began to be understood. To begin with it had been too stark, too crazy, too much like what the man in the street would have said "Oh, yes, I could have told you that."

Then some phrases like "Interactive Subjectivity Frameworks" were invented, and everybody was able to relax and get on with it.

The small groups of monks who had taken up hanging around the major research institutes singing strange chants to the effect that the Universe was only a figment of its own imagination were eventually given a street theater grant and went away.""

That statement lost me, but its still early in the morning I guess

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Him as far as I am concerned, if he is any good I will then offer half. If he is a selfush git he can foot the bill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my profile is on show, I clearly state that I only meet people who can accommodate, and that you are wasting your time contacting me if you are unable to do so.

I find that I get many men contacting me offering to pay for a hotel. If I was interested in meeting one of these men, I would not feel any need to contribute to the cost of the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we were meeting a couple then we'd obviously expect to split any hotel or bar bill.

If we were meeting a single lady then we'd expect to pay for her but would respect her wishes, if she insisted on contributing then that's obviously up to her .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually pay my share but find groups of gentlemen often tell me they don't want me to contribute.

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area

We typically pay for a hotel for group meets if we are organising them.

We tend to seek those who can accommodate locally either at their homes or a hotel already. We've pretty much given up providing a hotel for meets with new people due to the volume of no shows/cancellations which became quite costly as it doesn't just stop at hotels.

If we are attending an event that requires us to stay in a hotel we try and arrange a meet whilst there that way it's not a wasted cost if it's a no show/cancellation

Happy to go half or we pay this time you pay next time with regular friends though

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I've split it before now but I have also had it paid for me.....

I'm paying for one this week - no idea if he's planning to split it or what?"

I'm generally happy to pay for a room for us two, then have guests visit us for a few hours....then bugger off

Cal

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

both or depends if over night meet or just a few hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being an old fashioned guy I pay. I pay for the room and meal/drinks. It's just the way I am. When I have had a hotel meets in the past I have booked and paid for the room but it's the lady it is her room and if she ever wanted me to leave I would. It hasn't happened as yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only meet in hotels when we're staying there for the night anyway so wouldn't expect anyone to contribute to the cost of it...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"What the actual fuck????? "

Was thinking that maself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we only meet in hotels when we're staying there for the night anyway so wouldn't expect anyone to contribute to the cost of it..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a MMF afternoon meet at a hotel with a chap. We agreed that we would book and pay for the hotel and he'd pay half to us when we met. Well we met, had the MMF, but he never reimbursed us for the half hotel costs. Hmmm..

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I've split it before now but I have also had it paid for me.....

I'm paying for one this week - no idea if he's planning to split it or what?"

Better ask

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Well the last hotel meet that I had I offered to pay, the lady did offer me half but I declined

Normally if I am in a hotel anyway then I won't ask for any more money for room

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By *gentlovedayWoman
over a year ago

Tranmere

That's why I prefer clubs get all the facilities you need and more for barely anything x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will and expect to pay for everything. If the lady wants to contribute then she may as she pleases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50|50 unless they have the room already on business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half each

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50 everytime x

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Work should, have a meet when away on business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask my parents to pay

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If someone expects to use the hotel above and beyond the meet then they'll probably stand more or all of the cost. But if it's a joint plan to book and use it, split it between the partners.

Who gets the frequent guest loyalty points is another matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Work should, have a meet when away on business."
my thinking Exactly! Just keep alll room service or drinks off your room and pay cash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it! "

Is that an offer to come over?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it!

Is that an offer to come over?"

Sure is....I'll even make you chicken fajitas.....if you buy the chicken....and fajitas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it!

Is that an offer to come over?

Sure is....I'll even make you chicken fajitas.....if you buy the chicken....and fajitas! "

Funnily enough i bought chicken before.. and i love mexican food.. should I just do the cooking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it!

Is that an offer to come over?

Sure is....I'll even make you chicken fajitas.....if you buy the chicken....and fajitas!

Funnily enough i bought chicken before.. and i love mexican food.. should I just do the cooking? "

I'm happy to cook for us....but if you insist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it!

Is that an offer to come over?

Sure is....I'll even make you chicken fajitas.....if you buy the chicken....and fajitas!

Funnily enough i bought chicken before.. and i love mexican food.. should I just do the cooking?

I'm happy to cook for us....but if you insist! "

I'll know its done right then :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it!

Is that an offer to come over?

Sure is....I'll even make you chicken fajitas.....if you buy the chicken....and fajitas!

Funnily enough i bought chicken before.. and i love mexican food.. should I just do the cooking?

I'm happy to cook for us....but if you insist!

I'll know its done right then :p "

Hey! I'll have you know I'm awesome at emptying packets into the frying pan!

Old El Paso fajitas from a box are amazing! You gotta have all the accoutrements though.....sour cream,jalapeños,salsa,guacamole,cheese,tomatos etc.....

Damn I'm hungry now! Hurry up will you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it!

Is that an offer to come over?

Sure is....I'll even make you chicken fajitas.....if you buy the chicken....and fajitas!

Funnily enough i bought chicken before.. and i love mexican food.. should I just do the cooking?

I'm happy to cook for us....but if you insist!

I'll know its done right then :p

Hey! I'll have you know I'm awesome at emptying packets into the frying pan!

Old El Paso fajitas from a box are amazing! You gotta have all the accoutrements though.....sour cream,jalapeños,salsa,guacamole,cheese,tomatos etc.....

Damn I'm hungry now! Hurry up will you "

Creme freche is actually better to use, guacamole yes i make an awesome one! I tend to get sweet peppers, onions and do them with the chicken in the spice mix and some mexican rice and refried beans in too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it!

Is that an offer to come over?

Sure is....I'll even make you chicken fajitas.....if you buy the chicken....and fajitas!

Funnily enough i bought chicken before.. and i love mexican food.. should I just do the cooking?

I'm happy to cook for us....but if you insist!

I'll know its done right then :p

Hey! I'll have you know I'm awesome at emptying packets into the frying pan!

Old El Paso fajitas from a box are amazing! You gotta have all the accoutrements though.....sour cream,jalapeños,salsa,guacamole,cheese,tomatos etc.....

Damn I'm hungry now! Hurry up will you

Creme freche is actually better to use, guacamole yes i make an awesome one! I tend to get sweet peppers, onions and do them with the chicken in the spice mix and some mexican rice and refried beans in too "

Oooft! *Drools everywhere*

Sounds lush!

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes

Im rather old fashion..but..at least I pay the first..if more follows...who knows...we''ll see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it!

Is that an offer to come over?

Sure is....I'll even make you chicken fajitas.....if you buy the chicken....and fajitas!

Funnily enough i bought chicken before.. and i love mexican food.. should I just do the cooking?

I'm happy to cook for us....but if you insist!

I'll know its done right then :p

Hey! I'll have you know I'm awesome at emptying packets into the frying pan!

Old El Paso fajitas from a box are amazing! You gotta have all the accoutrements though.....sour cream,jalapeños,salsa,guacamole,cheese,tomatos etc.....

Damn I'm hungry now! Hurry up will you

Creme freche is actually better to use, guacamole yes i make an awesome one! I tend to get sweet peppers, onions and do them with the chicken in the spice mix and some mexican rice and refried beans in too

Oooft! *Drools everywhere*

Sounds lush! "

I'll get up as soon aa I get my little bungalow sorted and i can get back to work full time!

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

The receptionist cause they booked it

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray


"I choose the hotel, book it, pay for it and I'm the only one who stays overnight...and I don't ask for a contribution. That way I host the meet and decide when the guy leaves. Works perfectly for me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you are planning to stay in the room overnight and just have a guest for a few hours. In that case you pay. If you are both only using the room to play then 50/50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't had a hotel meet so far, it's always been at his house or mine but if I agreed on a hotel meet then I would insist on paying half, I would feel more comfortable that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't expect anyone to pay for a hotel room. I do expect someone who doesn't accommodate to read my profile and not contact me,as I don't either, and don't pay for hotel rooms, at the moment.

I'm very polite in pointing this out, when asked if a hotel is acceptable. "

Same here XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I ask my parents to pay "

Lucky you

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

We are usually away for the weekend so would be paying.

If we were only using it to hookup though & it was split we feel 50/50 with a Singleton is not right so would only ask for 1/3 and only if they are staying.

S

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I've split, I've paid, and I've had a room paid for... Personally I'm more comfortable with a split.

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