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By *miles4himandme OP Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Why do people hide their own profile,but think it's ok to look at other people ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people hide their own profile,but think it's ok to look at other people ?"

Why is it not ok?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Why do people hide their own profile,but think it's ok to look at other people ?"

People hide their profiles for all sorts of reasons, doesn't mean to say they can't look at others.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

The ones that really grate me are the ones who message from hidden profiles, viewing me does not bother me though.

Guess the ones who message , have something to hide or are trying to cause trouble.

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By *miles4himandme OP Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Why do you think it's ok for people to look at you and hide them selves ! What have thay got hide ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people hide their own profile,but think it's ok to look at other people ?"

Mines not hidden....but I can look without you knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yea sure, looking at you from a hidden profile is fine. But when I look at you from your garden hedges it's suddenly a big deal

Double standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do on occasions. I get bored of Fab, I take a little break, I feel fab anti-social, someone gets a bit stalkery; mainly because it's my profile and I run it how I choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people hide their own profile,but think it's ok to look at other people ?"

I like hide and seek

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"The ones that really grate me are the ones who message from hidden profiles, viewing me does not bother me though.

Guess the ones who message , have something to hide or are trying to cause trouble.

That would grate me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh yea sure, looking at you from a hidden profile is fine. But when I look at you from your garden hedges it's suddenly a big deal

Double standards"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Why do people hide their own profile,but think it's ok to look at other people ?"

Because I can.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Why do you think it's ok for people to look at you and hide them selves ! What have thay got hide ?"

You have a profile on a website, unfortunately, anyone on here,can look at it. They probably have nothing to hide and may just be taking a break from meeting

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Why do people hide their own profile,but think it's ok to look at other people ?

I like hide and seek

Me too depending on what I'm seeking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can look at you without you knowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My play partner would occasionally hide hers to take a break as single women get a lot of messages. When she returns there are no messages to sort through.

It is annoying to get a message from a hidden profile; those just get ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes hide my profile if I'm getting a bit fed up. I still like to join in the forums though and might check people out depending on their comments. I don't think I'm doing any harm, if they don't want seen they can always hide too!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I sometimes hide my profile if I'm getting a bit fed up. I still like to join in the forums though and might check people out depending on their comments. I don't think I'm doing any harm, if they don't want seen they can always hide too!"

Although we don't hide our profile, I too, sometimes check out a profile, after reading something they may have written in the forums. We also get winks from hidden profiles, it's no big deal, we just delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heard it all now. Getting butthurt from being looked at.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Heard it all now. Getting butthurt from being looked at.

Some people are sensitive..maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My look at me thread is sooo much better.

Op it's a site that leans heavily on the idea that you need to look at profiles to decide if you want to meet or not.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Heard it all now. Getting butthurt from being looked at.

Some people are sensitive..maybe

Looked at you, are you offended?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Heard it all now. Getting butthurt from being looked at.

Some people are sensitive..maybe

Looked at you, are you offended? "

Most definitely not, I'm flattered if people choose to look at me, for whatever the reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Heard it all now. Getting butthurt from being looked at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Heard it all now. Getting butthurt from being looked at.

Looked at you as well. Sorry.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Heard it all now. Getting butthurt from being looked at.

Looked at you as well. Sorry.

Tut tut...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Heard it all now. Getting butthurt from being looked at.

Looked at you as well. Sorry.

Tut tut...

Even gonna hide the profile while we do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is open for people to look at. They look.

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

I think some people hide them just to be hip and trendy.

There should be an option on Fab to hide your profile from anyone that hides there's.

Stalking is a real problem.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Heard it all now. Getting butthurt from being looked at.

Looked at you as well. Sorry.

Tut tut...

Even gonna hide the profile while we do it.

You naughty twosome! How dare you

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I think some people hide them just to be hip and trendy.

There should be an option on Fab to hide your profile from anyone that hides there's.

Stalking is a real problem."

That's a good idea, it could be part of the filters, if it bothers people, we're not bothered who looks at it

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Mine is hidden as I'm not meeting, I don't appear in searches that way.

And there is no reason why I shouldn't look at other profiles, after all that is what they are here for.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Mine is hidden as I'm not meeting, I don't appear in searches that way.

And there is no reason why I shouldn't look at other profiles, after all that is what they are here for."

Exactly, that is what they are here for

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

"Oh yea sure, looking at you from a hidden profile is fine. But when I look at you from your garden hedges it's suddenly a big deal

Double standards"

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

Can't see the big deal or worry

It's possible someone could have been unhidden when a message was sent but by the time someone reads it the profiles been hidden.

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"Mine is hidden as I'm not meeting, I don't appear in searches that way.

And there is no reason why I shouldn't look at other profiles, after all that is what they are here for."

As I said for stalking purposes, if you hide your profile you shouldn't be able to view anyone's profile without first unhiding yours.

If you don't want to be messaged that's fine, there's filters for that.

I think it's wrong to be able to view someone's profile if they can't see yours. There's plenty of stalkers on this site that hide behind hidden profiles.

What have you to hide if your viewing other people's?

Double 'me me me' standards I fear.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Mine is hidden as I'm not meeting, I don't appear in searches that way.

And there is no reason why I shouldn't look at other profiles, after all that is what they are here for.

As I said for stalking purposes, if you hide your profile you shouldn't be able to view anyone's profile without first unhiding yours.

If you don't want to be messaged that's fine, there's filters for that.

I think it's wrong to be able to view someone's profile if they can't see yours. There's plenty of stalkers on this site that hide behind hidden profiles.

What have you to hide if your viewing other people's?

Double 'me me me' standards I fear."

You forgot to add anything about people not appearing on your who looked list in your seemingly paranoid comment..... the sunburn looked painful

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Mine is hidden as I'm not meeting, I don't appear in searches that way.

And there is no reason why I shouldn't look at other profiles, after all that is what they are here for.

As I said for stalking purposes, if you hide your profile you shouldn't be able to view anyone's profile without first unhiding yours.

If you don't want to be messaged that's fine, there's filters for that.

I think it's wrong to be able to view someone's profile if they can't see yours. There's plenty of stalkers on this site that hide behind hidden profiles.

What have you to hide if your viewing other people's?

Double 'me me me' standards I fear."

What about people who view in stealth, which is an option on this site, is that stalking too? Serious question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is hidden as I'm not meeting, I don't appear in searches that way.

And there is no reason why I shouldn't look at other profiles, after all that is what they are here for.

As I said for stalking purposes, if you hide your profile you shouldn't be able to view anyone's profile without first unhiding yours.

If you don't want to be messaged that's fine, there's filters for that.

I think it's wrong to be able to view someone's profile if they can't see yours. There's plenty of stalkers on this site that hide behind hidden profiles.

What have you to hide if your viewing other people's?

Double 'me me me' standards I fear."

It's not double standards whilst it is a option on this site for everyone to use!!

I have just viewed your profile but if I had not told you, you wouldn't have know....as in the same way I never see single men that have looked at me...it's called settings/filters and privacy....there for all to use

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"Mine is hidden as I'm not meeting, I don't appear in searches that way.

And there is no reason why I shouldn't look at other profiles, after all that is what they are here for.

As I said for stalking purposes, if you hide your profile you shouldn't be able to view anyone's profile without first unhiding yours.

If you don't want to be messaged that's fine, there's filters for that.

I think it's wrong to be able to view someone's profile if they can't see yours. There's plenty of stalkers on this site that hide behind hidden profiles.

What have you to hide if your viewing other people's?

Double 'me me me' standards I fear.

You forgot to add anything about people not appearing on your who looked list in your seemingly paranoid comment..... the sunburn looked painful

Lol it was !

I was dancing like a robot in the clubs that evening.

My mistake was using an Indian pals 'mazola' cooking oil on my fair skin in the sun.

What a dingbat.

And in regards to viewing in stealth. . I'm not a fan.

As I said stalking is real, you may joke and laugh about it but some of us have been affected in very negative ways by it.

I still think that hidden/stealth options on this site are stalkers delight.

I'm of the old maxim that if you haven't got anything to hide then you shouldn't worry about people snooping you back.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"Mine is hidden as I'm not meeting, I don't appear in searches that way.

And there is no reason why I shouldn't look at other profiles, after all that is what they are here for.

As I said for stalking purposes, if you hide your profile you shouldn't be able to view anyone's profile without first unhiding yours.

If you don't want to be messaged that's fine, there's filters for that.

I think it's wrong to be able to view someone's profile if they can't see yours. There's plenty of stalkers on this site that hide behind hidden profiles.

What have you to hide if your viewing other people's?

Double 'me me me' standards I fear.

What about people who view in stealth, which is an option on this site, is that stalking too? Serious question

Not forgetting those with multiple profiles and might look from a different one.

I occasionally hide mine this could be for

Option A. 'I get so many messages' I need to catch uo

Option B. 'I just feel I want to'

Option C. 'someone as hacked my account'

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"Mine is hidden as I'm not meeting, I don't appear in searches that way.

And there is no reason why I shouldn't look at other profiles, after all that is what they are here for.

As I said for stalking purposes, if you hide your profile you shouldn't be able to view anyone's profile without first unhiding yours.

If you don't want to be messaged that's fine, there's filters for that.

I think it's wrong to be able to view someone's profile if they can't see yours. There's plenty of stalkers on this site that hide behind hidden profiles.

What have you to hide if your viewing other people's?

Double 'me me me' standards I fear.

It's not double standards whilst it is a option on this site for everyone to use!!

Nice legs my lady *tips hat*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck all to do with anybody if i hide mine or not,tough if you dont like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hidden right now. It's just because I'm simply not in the mood.

Do I like at others profiles? Yes people who post, or update, to see who they are out of curiosity.

As for stealth mode? Well yes as outlined, stalking can be an issue, but creating a profile and posting erotic pictures is attracting attention and to some degree you're accepting that all and sundry will look.

Someone with sinister intentions can easily get around that.

Anyway...hiding a profile? It's a choice. You must be looking at me to realise I'm hidden after all?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Mine is hidden as I'm not meeting, I don't appear in searches that way.

And there is no reason why I shouldn't look at other profiles, after all that is what they are here for.

As I said for stalking purposes, if you hide your profile you shouldn't be able to view anyone's profile without first unhiding yours.

If you don't want to be messaged that's fine, there's filters for that.

I think it's wrong to be able to view someone's profile if they can't see yours. There's plenty of stalkers on this site that hide behind hidden profiles.

What have you to hide if your viewing other people's?

Double 'me me me' standards I fear.

You forgot to add anything about people not appearing on your who looked list in your seemingly paranoid comment..... the sunburn looked painful

Lol it was !

I was dancing like a robot in the clubs that evening.

My mistake was using an Indian pals 'mazola' cooking oil on my fair skin in the sun.

What a dingbat.

And in regards to viewing in stealth. . I'm not a fan.

As I said stalking is real, you may joke and laugh about it but some of us have been affected in very negative ways by it.

I still think that hidden/stealth options on this site are stalkers delight.

I'm of the old maxim that if you haven't got anything to hide then you shouldn't worry about people snooping you back."

I certainly wouldn't joke and laugh about stalking, I too have experience of it and it was physical stalking, so I know how scary that can be, but I don't find someone looking at our profile, on here in stealth or otherwise, stalkers, it's to be expected, I suppose.

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

So men don't waste their time by messaging if I'm not meeting for a while, as most don't read profiles lol

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

" I'm hidden right now. It's just because I'm simply not in the mood.

Do I like at others profiles? Yes people who post, or update, to see who they are out of curiosity.

Someone with sinister intentions can easily get around that.

Anyway...hiding a profile? It's a choice. You must be looking at me to realise I'm hidden after all?"

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

" I'm hidden right now. It's just because I'm simply not in the mood.

Do I like at others profiles? Yes people who post, or update, to see who they are out of curiosity.

Someone with sinister intentions can easily get around that.

Anyway...hiding a profile? It's a choice. You must be looking at me to realise I'm hidden after all?"

Damn you are hidden. . I cannot perve over your smart dress sense.

Foiled again.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

" I'm hidden right now. It's just because I'm simply not in the mood.

Do I like at others profiles? Yes people who post, or update, to see who they are out of curiosity.

Someone with sinister intentions can easily get around that.

Anyway...hiding a profile? It's a choice. You must be looking at me to realise I'm hidden after all?

Damn you are hidden. . I cannot perve over your smart dress sense.

Foiled again.

Shame, isn't it. I would have liked to have perved too!

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I totally understand why people hide their profiles, with the amount of single guys on here stops a lot of ladies profiles being overly flooded.

Therefore making it easier for ladies to find single men without being constantly messaged etc....

Is annoying but i guess you gotta be understanding as if someone looks at your profile you would like to know a little about them or what they look like etc...

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Mine is hidden as I'm not meeting, I don't appear in searches that way.

And there is no reason why I shouldn't look at other profiles, after all that is what they are here for.

As I said for stalking purposes, if you hide your profile you shouldn't be able to view anyone's profile without first unhiding yours.

If you don't want to be messaged that's fine, there's filters for that.

I think it's wrong to be able to view someone's profile if they can't see yours. There's plenty of stalkers on this site that hide behind hidden profiles.

What have you to hide if your viewing other people's?

Double 'me me me' standards I fear.

What about people who view in stealth, which is an option on this site, is that stalking too? Serious question

Not forgetting those with multiple profiles and might look from a different one.

I occasionally hide mine this could be for

Option A. 'I get so many messages' I need to catch uo

Option B. 'I just feel I want to'

Option C. 'someone as hacked my account' "

Multiple profiles are a lot of the problem on this site, men re appearing after blocking them and messaging from another profile set up months ago, women being nosey by viewing from another profile to.

No wonder so many people hide there veris for this reason, men and women.

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