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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So you send a message to someone you think you might like, only to receive a 'thanks but no thanks' reply.

Why do some ppl go on then to say things like 'shame we could have had fun'

What do you hope will happen? That the person will change their mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies get inundated with mail on here, so even if it's a no I'll only reply with a "thanks for taking the time to reply". No point in making yourself look like an eejit by saying anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies get inundated with mail on here, so even if it's a no I'll only reply with a "thanks for taking the time to reply". No point in making yourself look like an eejit by saying anything else. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"So you send a message to someone you think you might like, only to receive a 'thanks but no thanks' reply.

Why do some ppl go on then to say things like 'shame we could have had fun'

What do you hope will happen? That the person will change their mind "

I don't imagine we will hear from anyone on this thread who writes such a reply....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen posts that moan about people kicking off about a knock back, and now here is a snipe about a cheeky, but polite, 'that's a shame' reply.

With post like these, it's no wonder people become unsure of how to be themselves when sending PMs.

Your right though "shame we could have had fun" Is missing the mark....no! You'd have had fun I would have had to lie back and think of someone else.

*i deleted my original because my spelling was aweful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually just hurl a load of abuse back at them, call them ugly, fat, sluts and whatnot...

Thats the norm, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Why do some ppl go on then to say things like 'shame we could have had fun'

What do you hope will happen? That the person will change their mind "

Yes. Yes I do hope they'd change their mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they think they'll time that second message so they get more of a response. They're just saying what they think, that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually thank them for making the effort and replying, and sometimes a compliment about their appearance.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Sometimes people do change their minds, I know I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lose my shit and turn into the Hulk if someone denies me their penis!

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

I'd wait a few days before sending mail to a woman because at the start they would be deluged with it xx

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"I'd wait a few days before sending mail to a woman because at the start they would be deluged with it xx "

You do realise that there are some women who have been on here longer than a week?

Some have been members for months, even years in some cases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you send a message to someone you think you might like, only to receive a 'thanks but no thanks' reply.

Why do some ppl go on then to say things like 'shame we could have had fun'

What do you hope will happen? That the person will change their mind "

Maybe they are hoping to start a conversation? Leading to get to know you better?

I personally would not bother going any further than the first knock back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all gets so emotional

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Probably the same as 'ok see you around then' or 'your loss' or 'that's just put a downer on my day'. People usually reply with whatever it is they mean after getting a reply....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lose my shit and turn into the Hulk if someone denies me their penis! "

Note to self, never deny her my schlong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lose my shit and turn into the Hulk if someone denies me their penis!

Note to self, never deny her my schlong. "

Who am I kidding?! As if I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lose my shit and turn into the Hulk if someone denies me their penis!

Note to self, never deny her my schlong.

Who am I kidding?! As if I could "

Haha

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