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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have my first meet tomorrow and I'm extremely nervous. What do you do to calm the nerves? X

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nerves is good - have a fab time!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Anything you do to calm the nerves will also dull your enjoyment. Deep, slow breaths and a big smile will help.

Have a great time.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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First meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself and enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First meet?"

With a man I meant, sorry didn't explain properly. My verifications are from two women I met over the weekend on a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, I like the nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, nerves are good, you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my first meet tomorrow and I'm extremely nervous. What do you do to calm the nerves? X"

Listen to loud music in the car on the way there.

And quietly shit myself (not literally, thankfully).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervousness and excitement are the same physiologically it just depends how we view it. If we see it as nervousness it can get the better of us as the physiological symptoms increase as we think about it. However if we view it as excitement we can control that better because our thoughts are positive. Think how exciting it is rather than about how nervous you feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh nerves are good....

Have fun op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"First meet?

With a man I meant, sorry didn't explain properly. My verifications are from two women I met over the weekend on a social. "

Oh the nerves are good. They just melt away

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By *ackdaniels2016Man
over a year ago

Yarm

The nerves will go and you'll have a great time just remember it's why you joined and you'll not look back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I offer pre meet massages.

Call me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves are a good thing ,show your alive to what's going o happen or not ,they allow you to control your environment and be aware ...enjoy x

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I get just as nervous for a meet now as I did the first time. I take it as a sign that it's something I'm really in to and want to go well.

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get really nervous meeting someone new. I turn the music up loud on my way and have a little sing to say to myself i obviously liked them enough to arrange it so it should be good!

Hope you have a great night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get nevouse now op and I'm getting an old hag as far as fab is concerned.

PTU xxx

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By *assySelinaWoman
over a year ago

london

Take your time getting ready while listening to your favourite tunes, and have your favourite drink! (Which in my case would be a gin and tonic with a slice of fresh lime). That always calms my nerves and gets me excited Have fun!

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