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By *oss2810 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

6 months and no meets what am i doing wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol"

How many times have you wrote this now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol

How many times have you wrote this now?"
Many, but just 2 times today lol.

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By *oss2810 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol"

This.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Patience is the key lol

How many times have you wrote this now?"

Loads because it's the answer to the usual 'why can't I get a meet?' question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try writing a more detailed profile, sell yourself man, sell yourself xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol

How many times have you wrote this now?Many, but just 2 times today lol."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"6 months and no meets what am i doing wrong "

A better question could be 'what do I need to do right?' as that turns a negative into a positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol"

No it isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually,women will check a profile before even deciding to look at a message...i didn't even need to read it, just registered the fact it was 2 lines,and immediately that's enough to just skip by...no amount of patience will make a damn bit of difference without a decent profile i'm afraid..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 months and no meets what am i doing wrong "

The fact you have been here 6 months and still not had a meet is a turn off for some people, silly as it sounds.

Also you have 1 pic and it's off your dick, nothing about you that stands out according to your profile, every single male on here is looking for fun?

Also people will see your age and wonder why you can't accommodate.

Write a bit about what you're into and what you can provide for women/couples.

Good luck

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Can't really comment as you haven't asked for profile advice

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Can't really comment as you haven't asked for profile advice"

Good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol

No it isn't. "

Then what am I doing patient for then?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Patience is the key lol"

Pmsl

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Patience is the key lol

No it isn't.

Then what am I doing patient for then? "

You weren't patient enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd suggest taking a look through the numerous similar threads on the forum on this subject.

I think you should also consider what your expectations of fab were when you joined.

Barely two lines to your profile and one picture that mainly shows off your dangly bits.

Do you know how many men there are compared to women on fab?

We outnumber them by about 100 to 1.

Did you really think that the profile that you've created which must have taken all of around 30 seconds to put together was going to put you in a position where you're having to fight the ladies off with a stick?

Are you pro-active? i.e. are you searching for potential meets and actively messaging others, or simply sitting back expecting them to come to you?

Most single guys wait around 6 months to get their first meet - at that's those that put in the effort.

Even some of us who have been here a while have dry spells

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Patience is the key lol

No it isn't.

Then what am I doing patient for then? "

Listening to Shag too much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The naked Mr. Clean pose probably isn't helping much

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'll give you this OP...you've found a novel way of including the toilet in your pic that doesn't show the toilet bowl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a variety of pictures, i'm social on forums and have more than 2 lines of bio and i still haven't had any meets.

Sometimes you have just got to accept you're ugly and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a variety of pictures, i'm social on forums and have more than 2 lines of bio and i still haven't had any meets.

Sometimes you have just got to accept you're ugly and move on "

You've not asked for profile advice so.....

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I've got a variety of pictures, i'm social on forums and have more than 2 lines of bio and i still haven't had any meets.

Sometimes you have just got to accept you're ugly and move on "

Troof.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol

Pmsl "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a variety of pictures, i'm social on forums and have more than 2 lines of bio and i still haven't had any meets.

Sometimes you have just got to accept you're ugly and move on

You've not asked for profile advice so....."

I have before so.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a variety of pictures, i'm social on forums and have more than 2 lines of bio and i still haven't had any meets.

Sometimes you have just got to accept you're ugly and move on

Troof. "

Thank you for agreeing :'-(

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sings......*I can't get no satisfaction, I can't get no satisfaction

'Cause I try and I try and I try and I try

I can't get no, I can't get no

When I'm drivin' in my car, and the man come on the radio

He's tellin' me more and more about some useless information

Supposed to fire my imagination

I can't get no, oh, no, no, no, hey, hey, hey

That's what I say

I can't get no satisfaction, I can't get no satisfaction

'Cause I try and I try and I try and I try

I can't get no, I can't get no

When I'm watchin' my tv and a man comes on and tell me

How white my shirts can be

But, he can't be a man 'cause he doesn't smoke

The same cigarettes as me

I can't get no, oh, no, no, no, hey, hey, hey

That's what I say

I can't get no satisfaction, I can't get girl reaction

'Cause I try and I try and I try and I try

I can't get no, I can't get no

When I'm ridin' round the world

And I'm doin' this and I'm signin' that

And I'm tryin' to make some girl, who tells me

Baby, better come back maybe next week

Can't you see I'm on a losing streak

I can't get no, oh, no, no, no, hey, hey, hey

That's what I say, I can't get no, I can't get no

I can't get no satisfaction, no satisfaction

No satisfaction, no satisfaction.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look a bit defensive in your profile pic. Have you considered a pose where your arms are out, as if embracing the viewer in a loving hug?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't really comment as you haven't asked for profile advice

Good point. "

i think 'what am i doing wrong' covered that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol

No it isn't. "

no i never got this either, a shit profile is a shit or unattractive profile will remain a shit profile no matter how long it's been here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't really comment as you haven't asked for profile advice

Good point.

i think 'what am i doing wrong' covered that.."

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol

No it isn't.

no i never got this either, a shit profile is a shit or unattractive profile will remain a shit profile no matter how long it's been here."

Law of average suggests that eventually, someone will come along and find it irresistible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll give you this OP...you've found a novel way of including the toilet in your pic that doesn't show the toilet bowl

Looks to me like the "stand back and admire your hard work before I flush" pose "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Patience is the key lol

No it isn't.

no i never got this either, a shit profile is a shit or unattractive profile will remain a shit profile no matter how long it's been here."

I always thought the 'patience' bit was waiting till some desperate desperado wanted a shag irrespective of any profile. Some people wait years.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"6 months and no meets what am i doing wrong "

Even single guys with very good profiles struggle on here.....

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"6 months and no meets what am i doing wrong "

You have a few friends, why would you not focus on them? Make them feel you want to know them and meet up with them.

It's just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol

No it isn't.

Then what am I doing patient for then?

You weren't patient enough "

I'll try again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol

No it isn't.

Then what am I doing patient for then?

Needing a Shag too much? "

FIFY

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Patience is the key lol

No it isn't.

Then what am I doing patient for then?

Needing a Shag too much?

FIFY "

And we're back to knocking on your window

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol

No it isn't.

Then what am I doing patient for then?

Needing a Shag too much?

FIFY

And we're back to knocking on your window "

Are you even knocking on the right house?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Can't really comment as you haven't asked for profile advice

Good point. "

Just saying...

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Can't really comment as you haven't asked for profile advice

Good point.

Just saying..."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Usually,women will check a profile before even deciding to look at a message...i didn't even need to read it, just registered the fact it was 2 lines,and immediately that's enough to just skip by...no amount of patience will make a damn bit of difference without a decent profile i'm afraid.."

This!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Patience is the key lol

No it isn't.

Then what am I doing patient for then?

Needing a Shag too much?

FIFY

And we're back to knocking on your window

Are you even knocking on the right house? "

Oh yes

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