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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who thinks there should be a name and shame section added to profiles fir people who arrange meets but fail to show like a reliability score, obviously it'd have to be checked but then messages could be posted for proof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nein

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who thinks there should be a name and shame section added to profiles fir people who arrange meets but fail to show like a reliability score, obviously it'd have to be checked but then messages could be posted for proof "

Especially after you never turned up for that gangbang that was organised. You promised youd be there but never rocked up!

Your reliability score is zero.

***this never happened, but shows how easy it would be to wreck someones reputation***

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Git outta here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. But I generally chat to people a bit before a meet. I've had no no shows to date.

Plus, they'd just delete profile and start again. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who thinks there should be a name and shame section added to profiles fir people who arrange meets but fail to show like a reliability score, obviously it'd have to be checked but then messages could be posted for proof

Especially after you never turned up for that gangbang that was organised. You promised youd be there but never rocked up!

Your reliability score is zero.

***this never happened, but shows how easy it would be to wreck someones reputation***"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who thinks there should be a name and shame section added to profiles fir people who arrange meets but fail to show like a reliability score, obviously it'd have to be checked but then messages could be posted for proof

Especially after you never turned up for that gangbang that was organised. You promised youd be there but never rocked up!

Your reliability score is zero.

***this never happened, but shows how easy it would be to wreck someones reputation***"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, wouldn't work.

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who thinks there should be a name and shame section added to profiles fir people who arrange meets but fail to show like a reliability score, obviously it'd have to be checked but then messages could be posted for proof "

Considering it's against site rules?

No

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

No way, ppls perceptions of events are invariably way off reality. I wonder if half of these problems arise through one person's eagerness to meet. I know this isn't Marry a Shag but take some time at least to get to know who you're going to be intimate with. I could be way off here, but it's much more fulfilling meeting someone who has a clue about what turns you on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why?

Just for self satisfaction?

Just because from reading your status , seems you've been stood up ...get over it ...move along. It happens..no point dwelling on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because it's open to abuse and believe me some of the nut cases on here would have a field day.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

I don't think admin would be able to keep up with all the messages about it that would be flooding through if that was the case xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above: Too many nutcases, out for revenge, or get a kick from causing others grief.

You can report a profile, without them knowing. If enough people report that profile, admin could eject them from the site, if they wanted. You can still get people ganging up on someone and lying, but there's nothing much can be done about that.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

No ... stuff happens sometimes ... However if you really didnt want to give them a second chance .....just block them .... you can report too if you like

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Who thinks there should be a name and shame section added to profiles fir people who arrange meets but fail to show like a reliability score, obviously it'd have to be checked but then messages could be posted for proof "

It's a daft idea and an often raised whinge raised by those who failed to meet for whatever reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I'd love a function that I can abuse fir a sense of twisted revenge on those who annoy or reject me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can report someone for having done that.

Naming and shaming is a very immature thing to do - this is not high school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who thinks there should be a name and shame section added to profiles fir people who arrange meets but fail to show like a reliability score, obviously it'd have to be checked but then messages could be posted for proof "

No it would be open to abuse, it's a ridiculous idea. A lot of men on here think they are entitled to a fk. I already get Shit off twats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but I think the verifications system could be beefed up a bit to give more of an eBay type feedback.

I have a starting price of a penny and no reserve, if anyone wants to buy it now delivery is free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who thinks there should be a name and shame section added to profiles fir people who arrange meets but fail to show like a reliability score, obviously it'd have to be checked but then messages could be posted for proof "

How do you think this would work with all the cock blocking, scorned women and men and hate messages that are so prevalent on fab? It would be the demise of everyone. Let me ask you a question OP... If you genuinely had a really crap meet would you or have posted a bad verification?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Who thinks there should be a name and shame section added to profiles fir people who arrange meets but fail to show like a reliability score, obviously it'd have to be checked but then messages could be posted for proof

How do you think this would work with all the cock blocking, scorned women and men and hate messages that are so prevalent on fab? It would be the demise of everyone. Let me ask you a question OP... If you genuinely had a really crap meet would you or have posted a bad verification? "

Bad verifications are given. I've got a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't verify bad meets, it's pointless as the member would just not display it. Also what counts as a bad meet?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I don't verify bad meets, it's pointless as the member would just not display it. Also what counts as a bad meet? "

I show them. I'm confident enough to cope with them.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No,it would open to people abusing it out of spite or because they were turned down etc.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who thinks there should be a name and shame section added to profiles fir people who arrange meets but fail to show like a reliability score, obviously it'd have to be checked but then messages could be posted for proof "

Totally understand the frustrations this causes as we have been a victim of a "no show" ourselves. But, this is a terrible idea.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Who thinks there should be a name and shame section added to profiles fir people who arrange meets but fail to show like a reliability score, obviously it'd have to be checked but then messages could be posted for proof

How do you think this would work with all the cock blocking, scorned women and men and hate messages that are so prevalent on fab? It would be the demise of everyone. Let me ask you a question OP... If you genuinely had a really crap meet would you or have posted a bad verification?

Bad verifications are given. I've got a couple. "

They're well documented lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't verify bad meets, it's pointless as the member would just not display it. Also what counts as a bad meet?

I show them. I'm confident enough to cope with them. "

Is that really the reason why you show them? My guess is that's there's more to it than your confidence...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I don't verify bad meets, it's pointless as the member would just not display it. Also what counts as a bad meet?

I show them. I'm confident enough to cope with them.

Is that really the reason why you show them? My guess is that's there's more to it than your confidence... "

Haha, you're right. They're joke ones from well established and multiple meets. We got bored of leaving nice ones

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Who thinks there should be a name and shame section added to profiles fir people who arrange meets but fail to show like a reliability score, obviously it'd have to be checked but then messages could be posted for proof

How do you think this would work with all the cock blocking, scorned women and men and hate messages that are so prevalent on fab? It would be the demise of everyone. Let me ask you a question OP... If you genuinely had a really crap meet would you or have posted a bad verification?

Bad verifications are given. I've got a couple.

They're well documented lol "

I'm a shit shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't verify bad meets, it's pointless as the member would just not display it. Also what counts as a bad meet?

I show them. I'm confident enough to cope with them. "

Is that lady really calling you a c&nt or is it just harsh banter ??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I don't verify bad meets, it's pointless as the member would just not display it. Also what counts as a bad meet?

I show them. I'm confident enough to cope with them.

Is that lady really calling you a c&nt or is it just harsh banter ?? "

See above.....

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Who thinks there should be a name and shame section added to profiles fir people who arrange meets but fail to show like a reliability score, obviously it'd have to be checked but then messages could be posted for proof

How do you think this would work with all the cock blocking, scorned women and men and hate messages that are so prevalent on fab? It would be the demise of everyone. Let me ask you a question OP... If you genuinely had a really crap meet would you or have posted a bad verification?

Bad verifications are given. I've got a couple.

They're well documented lol

I'm a shit shag "

I'm sure you have other endearing qualities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't verify bad meets, it's pointless as the member would just not display it. Also what counts as a bad meet?

I show them. I'm confident enough to cope with them.

Is that really the reason why you show them? My guess is that's there's more to it than your confidence...

Haha, you're right. They're joke ones from well established and multiple meets. We got bored of leaving nice ones "

Oh I see this now lol

Doh should read all comments before I comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't verify bad meets, it's pointless as the member would just not display it. Also what counts as a bad meet?

I show them. I'm confident enough to cope with them.

Is that lady really calling you a c&nt or is it just harsh banter ??

See above....."

Yeah I see lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mark out of ten rating system? . Please let this be a thing in the future.

Who marks who first? Do I get to see how they mark me before I do mine?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I don't verify bad meets, it's pointless as the member would just not display it. Also what counts as a bad meet?

I show them. I'm confident enough to cope with them.

Is that lady really calling you a c&nt or is it just harsh banter ??

See above.....

Yeah I see lol "

She did actually call me a stupid cunt as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has only been suggested a million times before, and a million times it has been shot down due to the fact that it would be open to abuse and wouldn't work at all.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"This has only been suggested a million times before, and a million times it has been shot down due to the fact that it would be open to abuse and wouldn't work at all."

Unless......the verification was written on the persons body and could've read before a photo of it was allowed to be posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks! I can just imagine the fabbers with personal axes to grind reporting left, right and centre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't verify bad meets, it's pointless as the member would just not display it. Also what counts as a bad meet? "

This. Sometimes I've been floored by what happened. But. There's no point. X

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