FabSwingers.com forum: Jumping through hoops

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you have any "hoops" on your profile that people must jump through in order to meet you?

And what "hoops" are people willing to jump through and which are definite no no's.

My only two hoops are that I need to see a face pic and I need a social meet first of all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only asking folks to message me and use more than just a syllable or two and not just wink....

Actually, I guess that does count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like admin verification and a face pic

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

Nope, no hoops here, we're easy.............

Going, easy going, I said

Mrs blue eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I'm not special enough to ask people to jump through hoops just to talk to me.

I wouldn't say asking for a face pic is a hoop though, you need to know if you're attracted to them or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah - i keep them hidden

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Being verified helps, but the main thing is we exchange face pics and we get along. No real hoops as such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a face pic and I do like to chat a little on here first, just to make sure we click...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pulse.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Just good clear photos face/body pic's,oh and to be single,attractive to me etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only that they're local.

They all ignore that hoop though as they do backflips into my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be meet verified and within my age group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha looking like I look I can't afford to put obstacles in the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No hoops just a dead end

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Is haveing a social 1st a hoop ?

If not then no I have no hoops in my profile

And as this is not the army im not going to jump just cos sumone I've not met sed jump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the amount of hoop's I usually have to jump through if I started setting too many hoop's for potential meets to also jump through it would turn into such a big hoopy mess I don't know how my winkie would ever make it anywhere near her foofoo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no hoops that people have to jump through, if I did and they conformed they probably wouldn't be my type.

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

We like to see a face pic, have to be able to write a half decent message with out resorting to one or two worders and a fem to fem phone call just to prove we aren't some weirdo timewaster types.....that seems a lot of hoops actually lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one has to jump through anything,hoops or otherwise, to meet us,just match what we are looking for on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only that we're compatible, can meet at convenient times. And share the same sense of humour. Either people want to meet us or not, don't see the merit in making people jump through hoops, doesn't make the meet better. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is haveing a social 1st a hoop ?

If not then no I have no hoops in my profile

And as this is not the army im not going to jump just cos sumone I've not met sed jump

Well said

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No hoops. I can't be arsed with those who have a list of them so try not to have them myself. Actually I have a hula hoop - the age thing. They need to meet that.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

"A pulse.

So demanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social before any naughties is my only requirement and a facepic swap before the social.

No pre-requisites before we have conversation other than one of us has to initiate it. I personally tend to be a little bit put off by people say 'type "XYZ" in the subject so I know you've read my profile'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?"

I remember one couple profile saying they were looking for single men and that the single man had to pay for the hotel room and once they were done, he had to leave so they could have there own space. I don't think they was on here long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?"

Oooh I saw that on a profile the other day! "I won't be paying for the Hotel" or words to that effect

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?"

I insist on good coffee. Is that a hoop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few things on our profile, don't see them has hoops though, we see them has helpful guides,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to like them and want to spend time in their company, is that a hoop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any rules on my profile. But filters are on for newbies, non site supporters and anyone who isn't verified. I wish there was an option to block users that are only photo verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?"

I don't know if that's a hoop particularly but it's a recurring theme with my meets it seems and it's starting to piss me off.

It's not even all about the money but to not even offer to split bills is just rude in my opinion.

I tend to book nice hotels if meeting someone as I like a nice environment to relaxe in and taking it for granted that I will fit the whole bill particularly if there has been a meal + drinks involved is taking the piss a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?"

I'm not joining the marines or developing a six pack for anyone. Seems to be a common thing around here

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't have any rules on my profile. But filters are on for newbies, non site supporters and anyone who isn't verified. I wish there was an option to block users that are only photo verified."

Or looks from faceless wonders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't be arsed with spelling things out - just dont be a nob head is a good start ..

Hoop jumping isn't necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?"

No I always offer to pay halves. To me that seems fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?

I remember that post, a real WTF moment but if someone is prepared to do that......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?

I don't know if that's a hoop particularly but it's a recurring theme with my meets it seems and it's starting to piss me off.

It's not even all about the money but to not even offer to split bills is just rude in my opinion.

I was really talking about these demands being on profiles in the first place.

Do you not say anything about splitting the cost of the meal and hotel room?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?"

I'd never insist someone pays for everything! I just find it really, really demanding of anyone who does...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?

I remember that post, a real WTF moment but if someone is prepared to do that......"

I remember a thread by a woman who was moaning about the men in Ireland being mean because they didn't bring her gifts when they met her.

She got slated on that thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?"

When I think of 'Demanding hoops' it conjures up a list of must do's / dont's / must haves on a profile, usually listed in capitals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have any rules on my profile. But filters are on for newbies, non site supporters and anyone who isn't verified. I wish there was an option to block users that are only photo verified.

Or looks from faceless wonders

Yes this too.. I have people that don't have public photos filtered. Surely anyone that can't get past the filters, should be blocked from viewing our profiles too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have a few things on our profile, don't see them has hoops though, we see them has helpful guides, "

Exactly

there's no.point in messaging someone that clearly wouldn't be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have a few things on our profile, don't see them has hoops though, we see them has helpful guides, "

Same for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only hoops I have are hula hoops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't consider any of my requests to be hoops. I have my preferred types of men and what I want to do. If someone doesn't fit or do what I want I expect him to not contact me. Not dance like a monkey to my tune, for his reward.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The only hoops I have are hula hoops

KP Hula Hoops or Aldi Snackrite ones because apparently they are the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only that they're local.

They all ignore that hoop though as they do backflips into my inbox

Not humble are you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?

I remember that post, a real WTF moment but if someone is prepared to do that......

I remember a thread by a woman who was moaning about the men in Ireland being mean because they didn't bring her gifts when they met her.

She got slated on that thread

lol. She wasn't a hook up, she was just a hooker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pulse.

Impossibly picky...

does it have to be their own pulse or will a borrowed one do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to jump through hoops to get my new avatar approved - Thanks Admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No hard and fast hoops to jump through, if you pardon me mixing idioms, just: beautiful; auburn tousled hair; young; preferably financial independent; intelligent; sexually liberated; into mff threesomes; cordon blue cook; doesn't object if I'm late for a meet when I decide I want one.......but you know what women can be like on Fab because of the large female to male ratio, too choosy, seriously thinking of join a different site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think i have hoops on my profile. I do have some prefrences and hope it doesnt come across too demanding. I do have some hoops/ goalposts in my head though that i like a guy to meet before i meet them x

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Hmmmm tasteful arrangement of hoola hoops - now that's an idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?

I don't know if that's a hoop particularly but it's a recurring theme with my meets it seems and it's starting to piss me off.

It's not even all about the money but to not even offer to split bills is just rude in my opinion.

I was really talking about these demands being on profiles in the first place.

Do you not say anything about splitting the cost of the meal and hotel room? "

I'm a bit old fashioned I guess so don't feel comfortable asking a lady, it would just be nice if they offered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God Yes.

I am choosy and unapologetic!

I want them male, tall and attractive to me in both personality and looks!

Perhaps this is one reason why I meet rarely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have our preferences stated because after many years of swinging we know exactly what we want

We wouldnt want guys to alter their preferences to suit us, we happily wait until the right guy appears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I do have a set of boobie traps.

PTU XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm picky and Unashamedly. I've filters but don't show them. They can change depending on the gut feeling I have on someone.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No hoops here, I find it hard to find someone I am attracted to as it is without adding even more restrictions

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes! I will only meet those that have won a fight with Chuck Norris!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't class them as hoops but God yes...

Black

Public pics on profile

Taller than me (I'm 5ft 8)

Sent a face pic and we find each other attractive

Meet in a club first for a social (club close to me does a free social night once a week from 7:30pm to 10pm which is perfect)

My 'hoops' Have somewhat changed over the years... I didn't usually mind a social meet in any public place first but some creep ruined that for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?

I don't know if that's a hoop particularly but it's a recurring theme with my meets it seems and it's starting to piss me off.

It's not even all about the money but to not even offer to split bills is just rude in my opinion.

It annoys me that people (regardless of gender) expect the other to pay for it all. Its a mutual agreement to meet up. So the cost should be spent equally.

I couldn't imagine turning up expecting the hotel, drinks and meal to all be paid for by the other person. Its disgusting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?

I remember that too!

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?

I insist on good coffee. Is that a hoop?"

Good coffee here Miss Honey.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only hoops I have are hula hoops

Keeper rite here girls!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"God Yes.

I am choosy and unapologetic!

I want them male, tall and attractive to me in both personality and looks!

Perhaps this is one reason why I meet rarely!"

That's not having hoops to jump through in my opinion though.

If you insisted that they had to wear a certain item of clothing or they must bring your favourite perfume in order to meet you, that would be hoops they have to jump through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes! I will only meet those that have won a fight with Chuck Norris!

He's getting on a bit now isn't he!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only hoops I have are hula hoops

KP Hula Hoops or Aldi Snackrite ones because apparently they are the same

KP only the best for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only hoops I have are hula hoops

Keeper rite here girls!

Hang on did I mention sharing at all?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have any "hoops" on your profile that people must jump through in order to meet you?

And what "hoops" are people willing to jump through and which are definite no no's.

My only two hoops are that I need to see a face pic and I need a social meet first of all.

does that mean i've jumped two of your hoops? am i allowed into the third sector now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The only hoops I have are hula hoops

KP Hula Hoops or Aldi Snackrite ones because apparently they are the same

KP only the best for me

You know it's only the packaging that's different. The product inside is exactly the same

Just one is more expensive

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Yes! I will only meet those that have won a fight with Chuck Norris!

He's getting on a bit now isn't he!

He is invincible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God Yes.

I am choosy and unapologetic!

I want them male, tall and attractive to me in both personality and looks!

Perhaps this is one reason why I meet rarely!

That's not having hoops to jump through in my opinion though.

If you insisted that they had to wear a certain item of clothing or they must bring your favourite perfume in order to meet you, that would be hoops they have to jump through."

Oh but I do.

They absolutely must wear a condom and a smile. They must not wear BO. And must be tall enough to breach my threshold!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They must be tall..

Must have a social

Absolutely certainly must feed me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you have any "hoops" on your profile that people must jump through in order to meet you?

And what "hoops" are people willing to jump through and which are definite no no's.

My only two hoops are that I need to see a face pic and I need a social meet first of all.

does that mean i've jumped two of your hoops? am i allowed into the third sector now?

You have indeed.

My third hoop is I insist that you wear a giraffe style onesie when you meet me. The hotel room must be full of black orchids and there should be bowls of smarties with the orange ones removed.

Deal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only hoops I have are hula hoops

Keeper rite here girls!

Hang on did I mention sharing at all?!

Sorry girls false alarm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?

I don't know if that's a hoop particularly but it's a recurring theme with my meets it seems and it's starting to piss me off.

It's not even all about the money but to not even offer to split bills is just rude in my opinion.

It annoys me that people (regardless of gender) expect the other to pay for it all. Its a mutual agreement to meet up. So the cost should be spent equally.

I couldn't imagine turning up expecting the hotel, drinks and meal to all be paid for by the other person. Its disgusting! "

Get your arse over here for the night and I'll happily pay for your hotel

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Not lots really,just that they have some pics of the male half and address us both ,since we are a couple.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have any "hoops" on your profile that people must jump through in order to meet you?

And what "hoops" are people willing to jump through and which are definite no no's.

My only two hoops are that I need to see a face pic and I need a social meet first of all.

does that mean i've jumped two of your hoops? am i allowed into the third sector now?

You have indeed.

My third hoop is I insist that you wear a giraffe style onesie when you meet me. The hotel room must be full of black orchids and there should be bowls of smarties with the orange ones removed.

Deal?

I'm washing my that day, whatever day it is! Damn

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you have any "hoops" on your profile that people must jump through in order to meet you?

And what "hoops" are people willing to jump through and which are definite no no's.

My only two hoops are that I need to see a face pic and I need a social meet first of all.

does that mean i've jumped two of your hoops? am i allowed into the third sector now?

You have indeed.

My third hoop is I insist that you wear a giraffe style onesie when you meet me. The hotel room must be full of black orchids and there should be bowls of smarties with the orange ones removed.

Deal?

I'm washing my that day, whatever day it is! Damn

Bloody timewaster

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

My only profile stipulation is that I have to like someone and have them like me enough to want to meet each other. The rest is negotiable from that point on. I don't think counts as a hoop, more just common sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God Yes.

I am choosy and unapologetic!

I want them male, tall and attractive to me in both personality and looks!

Perhaps this is one reason why I meet rarely!

That's not having hoops to jump through in my opinion though.

If you insisted that they had to wear a certain item of clothing or they must bring your favourite perfume in order to meet you, that would be hoops they have to jump through.

Oh but I do.

They absolutely must wear a condom and a smile. They must not wear BO. And must be tall enough to breach my threshold!

Fnar 'breach your threshold'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some men read a profile, realise they don't have a hope in hell and moan that women have too many hoops to jump through.

If a man asked more of me than I could provide, I wouldn't complain that he had too many hoops; I'd just think we weren't compatible.

Hoops would be unreasonable demands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God Yes.

I am choosy and unapologetic!

I want them male, tall and attractive to me in both personality and looks!

Perhaps this is one reason why I meet rarely!

That's not having hoops to jump through in my opinion though.

If you insisted that they had to wear a certain item of clothing or they must bring your favourite perfume in order to meet you, that would be hoops they have to jump through.

Oh but I do.

They absolutely must wear a condom and a smile. They must not wear BO. And must be tall enough to breach my threshold!

Fnar 'breach your threshold'

That can be very painful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes! I will only meet those that have won a fight with Chuck Norris!

He's getting on a bit now isn't he!

He is invincible! "

Sod it then, picky mare!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only hoops I have are hula hoops

Keeper rite here girls!

Hang on did I mention sharing at all?!

Sorry girls false alarm.

Only joking I've got a muti pack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no hoops but normally chat for a while on here, see a face pic then meet socially and see where it goes from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think im pretty easy going and don't expect anyone to jump through hoops. An interesting first message, bit of conversation, exchanging of face pics and then a mutual agreement to meet rather than asking if im free right now just because i am online!

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By *cotGirlWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?

I don't know if that's a hoop particularly but it's a recurring theme with my meets it seems and it's starting to piss me off.

It's not even all about the money but to not even offer to split bills is just rude in my opinion.

I was really talking about these demands being on profiles in the first place.

Do you not say anything about splitting the cost of the meal and hotel room?

I'm a bit old fashioned I guess so don't feel comfortable asking a lady, it would just be nice if they offered."

Frankly you shouldn't have to ask!

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

I like to know penis size in subject as it's a deal breaker for me. I don't do big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to know penis size in subject as it's a deal breaker for me. I don't do big

Feel free to come measure any time

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Our hoop is... make sure you wash ya cunt n pits before you turn up ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Our hoop is... make sure you wash ya cunt n pits before you turn up ffs

Picky

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Preferences and choice

Are they really seen as hoops?

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

"Our hoop is... make sure you wash ya cunt n pits before you turn up ffs

Picky

Ok, but at least run a wet wipe about yaself first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't exactly got hoops but the first hurdle is I need to see there face. A total must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prove they are genuine...veri/photo verified and at least engage in some conversation!

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i've got loads of hoops, i don't tell anyone about them though as it's up to me to decide if they got past them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes! I will only meet those that have won a fight with Chuck Norris!

https://youtu.be/JLO1YIWQuXE

Tbf he knocked me on my ass a couple of times at the start.....no shame in that though as he is Chuck Norris after all!

I did quickly recover n turn the tables,but what really done him in was the sneaky Chinese burn I inflicted that you can't see in this clip......you need to buy the special edition DVD with deleted scenes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I have hoops. I feel like I'm an easy target now.

I must remember to add some hoops.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"Do you have any "hoops" on your profile that people must jump through in order to meet you?

And what "hoops" are people willing to jump through and which are definite no no's.

My only two hoops are that I need to see a face pic and I need a social meet first of all.

What about Ipswich fans

For me it's about being female and a sense of humour they go a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So none of us has any demanding hoops for people to jump through it seems.

We are a lovely lot

What would you class as a too demanding hoop?

A woman insisting the man pays for the hotel for example?

I don't know if that's a hoop particularly but it's a recurring theme with my meets it seems and it's starting to piss me off.

It's not even all about the money but to not even offer to split bills is just rude in my opinion.

You need to be upfront about it in that case and say you only go Dutch.

I think is terribly rude when a woman or couple insist that you pick up the bill. If we're all enjoying the fun, we can all cover the costs in my opinion. But money can make things all a bit awkward.

I steer well clear of selfish sounding profiles too, those with a hoop list longer than my arm and those that come across as shouty and bossy. It casual sex for fucks sake, and it's meant to be fun. I do wonder if those aggy profile owners get much from this site.

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"Do you have any "hoops" on your profile that people must jump through in order to meet you?

And what "hoops" are people willing to jump through and which are definite no no's.

My only two hoops are that I need to see a face pic and I need a social meet first of all.

same as us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just that should we meet we both have lots of fun, its not a one way road

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose one unwritten hoop is if we've chatted for 2 weeks regularly and haven't arranged a meet then it'll never happened and that'll be it, or if tried to arrange a few times but there's always some reason why they can't then I start to see a pattern develop and usually let it fizzle out. If they then really want to, they'll be in touch and make it happen.

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I only ask for men who don't think they are performing porn stars and want to do all the moves in the kama sutra.

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