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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I consider myself submissive, but I'm not into heavy BDSM or pain, nor do I want someone who calls themselves a dom. I do like a bit of restraint, like bondage tape, but the idea of trusting someone to the extent that I'm willing to pass my sexual power onto them totally blisses me out and soothes me, so much so that I've almost fallen asleep while being spanked before.

Can anyone relate to that or am I just odd?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you're having fun. Good luck with your quest

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Its how i got into the more serious side of it..

But we still do the sensual side a lot....different things give differnt sensations...had some of my best orgasms with some light restraint, a blindfold and a soft touch

Boo x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Not odd in the slightest OP. I was very much into the harder side of BDSM for a few years and now my preference is much like you've described. Spanking is perfect for me and helps me get into my own space which relaxes me massively,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like you're having fun. Good luck with your quest"

I'm constantly exploring. Thanks

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford


"Not odd in the slightest OP. I was very much into the harder side of BDSM for a few years and now my preference is much like you've described. Spanking is perfect for me and helps me get into my own space which relaxes me massively, "

Have to admit , after meeting you at the Las social Meli, you do have the perfect bum for spanking but shhhhh I didn't say that coz I is a good boy ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its how i got into the more serious side of it..

But we still do the sensual side a lot....different things give differnt sensations...had some of my best orgasms with some light restraint, a blindfold and a soft touch

Boo x"

The latter sounds ideal, what I really plan to do involves the good old bondage tape, possibly a blindfold and barely skimming fingertips all over my body. Probably wouldn't make me cum but I imagine it'd be mind blowing in a different way entirely.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Sounds quite normal to me OP nothing to worry about at all. All good fun.

You need to worry when the spanker falls asleep though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not odd in the slightest OP. I was very much into the harder side of BDSM for a few years and now my preference is much like you've described. Spanking is perfect for me and helps me get into my own space which relaxes me massively, "

Your own space, mentally?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds quite normal to me OP nothing to worry about at all. All good fun.

You need to worry when the spanker falls asleep though."

I'd be deeply offended if that happened

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By *nequeenslutWoman
over a year ago

rugeley

sounds perfectly normal to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its how i got into the more serious side of it..

But we still do the sensual side a lot....different things give differnt sensations...had some of my best orgasms with some light restraint, a blindfold and a soft touch

Boo x

The latter sounds ideal, what I really plan to do involves the good old bondage tape, possibly a blindfold and barely skimming fingertips all over my body. Probably wouldn't make me cum but I imagine it'd be mind blowing in a different way entirely."

That sounds like quite an interesting experience to have. I've had some great experiences through massages, so I can imagine that the feeling would be something similar.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Not odd in the slightest OP. I was very much into the harder side of BDSM for a few years and now my preference is much like you've described. Spanking is perfect for me and helps me get into my own space which relaxes me massively,

Have to admit , after meeting you at the Las social Meli, you do have the perfect bum for spanking but shhhhh I didn't say that coz I is a good boy ???? "

Thanks. It gives good wobble.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Not odd in the slightest OP. I was very much into the harder side of BDSM for a few years and now my preference is much like you've described. Spanking is perfect for me and helps me get into my own space which relaxes me massively,

Your own space, mentally?"

Yes. I have a bit of a thing for it.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford


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Thanks. It gives good wobble. "

Its the kinda bum that screams " you know you wanna spank me, go on admit it. Btw, you can see my delish quim while I'm bent over too"

But again, I didnt say that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its how i got into the more serious side of it..

But we still do the sensual side a lot....different things give differnt sensations...had some of my best orgasms with some light restraint, a blindfold and a soft touch

Boo x

The latter sounds ideal, what I really plan to do involves the good old bondage tape, possibly a blindfold and barely skimming fingertips all over my body. Probably wouldn't make me cum but I imagine it'd be mind blowing in a different way entirely.

That sounds like quite an interesting experience to have. I've had some great experiences through massages, so I can imagine that the feeling would be something similar. "

I don't think I've ever had a decent massage

Have you ever stroked someone's skin so lightly that their nipples bunch up and goosebumps spring up? That's what I'm trying to arrange.

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

I understand completely, i enjoy a powerless situation. I've enjoyed different elements other than spanking when i was into the scene.

But it's like an intoxicating swirl of sensation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not odd in the slightest OP. I was very much into the harder side of BDSM for a few years and now my preference is much like you've described. Spanking is perfect for me and helps me get into my own space which relaxes me massively,

Your own space, mentally?

Yes. I have a bit of a thing for it."

I love that mindset, it makes me feel incredibly content and safe.

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city


"Its how i got into the more serious side of it..

But we still do the sensual side a lot....different things give differnt sensations...had some of my best orgasms with some light restraint, a blindfold and a soft touch

Boo x

The latter sounds ideal, what I really plan to do involves the good old bondage tape, possibly a blindfold and barely skimming fingertips all over my body. Probably wouldn't make me cum but I imagine it'd be mind blowing in a different way entirely.

That sounds like quite an interesting experience to have. I've had some great experiences through massages, so I can imagine that the feeling would be something similar.

I don't think I've ever had a decent massage

Have you ever stroked someone's skin so lightly that their nipples bunch up and goosebumps spring up? That's what I'm trying to arrange."

I enjoy using a fine paint brush, moistened and lightly tracing their bodies with a cool damp line followed by warm breath

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand completely, i enjoy a powerless situation. I've enjoyed different elements other than spanking when i was into the scene.

But it's like an intoxicating swirl of sensation"

Intoxicating is exactly the right word

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its how i got into the more serious side of it..

But we still do the sensual side a lot....different things give differnt sensations...had some of my best orgasms with some light restraint, a blindfold and a soft touch

Boo x

The latter sounds ideal, what I really plan to do involves the good old bondage tape, possibly a blindfold and barely skimming fingertips all over my body. Probably wouldn't make me cum but I imagine it'd be mind blowing in a different way entirely.

That sounds like quite an interesting experience to have. I've had some great experiences through massages, so I can imagine that the feeling would be something similar.

I don't think I've ever had a decent massage

Have you ever stroked someone's skin so lightly that their nipples bunch up and goosebumps spring up? That's what I'm trying to arrange.

I enjoy using a fine paint brush, moistened and lightly tracing their bodies with a cool damp line followed by warm breath"

.... and that's another idea I'm stealing

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I consider myself submissive, but I'm not into heavy BDSM or pain, nor do I want someone who calls themselves a dom. I do like a bit of restraint, like bondage tape, but the idea of trusting someone to the extent that I'm willing to pass my sexual power onto them totally blisses me out and soothes me, so much so that I've almost fallen asleep while being spanked before.

Can anyone relate to that or am I just odd?!"

Can completely relate... Although I wouldn't consider myself submissive (I like to switch), I find sensual play and light bondage with a trusted regular meet highly erotic... Siiiigh.... It's times like this I really miss my gorgeous fwb... Fond memories...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its how i got into the more serious side of it..

But we still do the sensual side a lot....different things give differnt sensations...had some of my best orgasms with some light restraint, a blindfold and a soft touch

Boo x

The latter sounds ideal, what I really plan to do involves the good old bondage tape, possibly a blindfold and barely skimming fingertips all over my body. Probably wouldn't make me cum but I imagine it'd be mind blowing in a different way entirely.

That sounds like quite an interesting experience to have. I've had some great experiences through massages, so I can imagine that the feeling would be something similar.

I don't think I've ever had a decent massage

Have you ever stroked someone's skin so lightly that their nipples bunch up and goosebumps spring up? That's what I'm trying to arrange."

I've had that with previous partners, a gentle circular motion around the nipple seemed to help. I personally enjoy a soft pair of lips, gently rubbing across my neck and I enjoy doing it down her body in return.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Its how i got into the more serious side of it..

But we still do the sensual side a lot....different things give differnt sensations...had some of my best orgasms with some light restraint, a blindfold and a soft touch

Boo x

The latter sounds ideal, what I really plan to do involves the good old bondage tape, possibly a blindfold and barely skimming fingertips all over my body. Probably wouldn't make me cum but I imagine it'd be mind blowing in a different way entirely."

Finger tips in certain areas, ice cubes, lots of sensual teasing..... It can be quite arousing and thats before i totally submit myself to dax

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its how i got into the more serious side of it..

But we still do the sensual side a lot....different things give differnt sensations...had some of my best orgasms with some light restraint, a blindfold and a soft touch

Boo x

The latter sounds ideal, what I really plan to do involves the good old bondage tape, possibly a blindfold and barely skimming fingertips all over my body. Probably wouldn't make me cum but I imagine it'd be mind blowing in a different way entirely.

That sounds like quite an interesting experience to have. I've had some great experiences through massages, so I can imagine that the feeling would be something similar.

I don't think I've ever had a decent massage

Have you ever stroked someone's skin so lightly that their nipples bunch up and goosebumps spring up? That's what I'm trying to arrange.

I've had that with previous partners, a gentle circular motion around the nipple seemed to help. I personally enjoy a soft pair of lips, gently rubbing across my neck and I enjoy doing it down her body in return. "

It doesn't even have to be my nipple stroked. Just my ribs, side or stomach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its how i got into the more serious side of it..

But we still do the sensual side a lot....different things give differnt sensations...had some of my best orgasms with some light restraint, a blindfold and a soft touch

Boo x

The latter sounds ideal, what I really plan to do involves the good old bondage tape, possibly a blindfold and barely skimming fingertips all over my body. Probably wouldn't make me cum but I imagine it'd be mind blowing in a different way entirely.

That sounds like quite an interesting experience to have. I've had some great experiences through massages, so I can imagine that the feeling would be something similar.

I don't think I've ever had a decent massage

Have you ever stroked someone's skin so lightly that their nipples bunch up and goosebumps spring up? That's what I'm trying to arrange.

I've had that with previous partners, a gentle circular motion around the nipple seemed to help. I personally enjoy a soft pair of lips, gently rubbing across my neck and I enjoy doing it down her body in return.

It doesn't even have to be my nipple stroked. Just my ribs, side or stomach. "

I love that. I'd say I like to caress and stroke any time I play, it's quite alluring to feel a woman respond positively to your touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I consider myself submissive, but I'm not into heavy BDSM or pain, nor do I want someone who calls themselves a dom. I do like a bit of restraint, like bondage tape, but the idea of trusting someone to the extent that I'm willing to pass my sexual power onto them totally blisses me out and soothes me, so much so that I've almost fallen asleep while being spanked before.

Can anyone relate to that or am I just odd?!"

Can totally relate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds perfectly normal to me - the basic feeling of restraint and/or sensory deprivation (blindfolds, earphones playing music) is an excellent tool to immediately heighten our in-built responses to stimuli.

Temperature play with ice is great, as well as gently blowing/exhaling breath on various parts of the body....

Imagine being taped down, blindfolded and listening to soothing music, when suddenly you feel the delicate sensation of warm breath tingling the hairs on your neck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm exactly the same. Definitely more submissive, but I don't want a dom. I do want someone who's going to tie my hands above my head and tease the life out of me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always describe myself as mentally Domme but physically sub. I like to be in control but I enjoy the physical acts that are deemed to be submissive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do want someone who's going to tie my hands above my head and tease the life out of me though. "

Standing up or lying down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its how i got into the more serious side of it..

But we still do the sensual side a lot....different things give differnt sensations...had some of my best orgasms with some light restraint, a blindfold and a soft touch

Boo x

The latter sounds ideal, what I really plan to do involves the good old bondage tape, possibly a blindfold and barely skimming fingertips all over my body. Probably wouldn't make me cum but I imagine it'd be mind blowing in a different way entirely."

I love doing that....I love seeing the effect of it as my partner writhes and squirms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do want someone who's going to tie my hands above my head and tease the life out of me though.

Standing up or lying down? "

Both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not odd Op. give me a snog....NOW.

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By *anger69104Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Speaking as somebody who likes to "dom" I accept the title can be intimidating to some. For myself I am always happy to accept peoples limits, and help them with there desires and fantasies.

If there is clear communication between participants then all can have a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I consider myself submissive, but I'm not into heavy BDSM or pain, nor do I want someone who calls themselves a dom. I do like a bit of restraint, like bondage tape, but the idea of trusting someone to the extent that I'm willing to pass my sexual power onto them totally blisses me out and soothes me, so much so that I've almost fallen asleep while being spanked before.

Can anyone relate to that or am I just odd?!"

Plots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not odd at all. I know someone else who I can spank until she literally falls asleep. It really relaxes her.

I've been getting more into sensual submissiveness nowadays than the whole pain thing. It can be really powerful. Especially if during play your play partner really gets inside your mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I consider myself submissive, but I'm not into heavy BDSM or pain, nor do I want someone who calls themselves a dom. I do like a bit of restraint, like bondage tape, but the idea of trusting someone to the extent that I'm willing to pass my sexual power onto them totally blisses me out and soothes me, so much so that I've almost fallen asleep while being spanked before.

Can anyone relate to that or am I just odd?!"

Not at all, there's a term for doms who play like that. Gentle doms. I used to be one

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By *cott89Man
over a year ago

prestatyn

sounds like your my kind of girl, submissive enough for me to take control but im not really into hurting people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recently been investigating this side of the d/s relationship... more from the d side. The denial and withdrawal vs the control of sensation. Anyway, early days and no partner in experimentation as yet

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