FabSwingers.com forum: Need some advice

By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Need some advice as I don't know where I'm going wrong on here just wanna meet like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough cock pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need some advice as I don't know where I'm going wrong on here just wanna meet like minded people "

What advice are you after, you're meet verified.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Not sure what you mean. Are you saying you don't like messages containing a cock pic and the sentence 'fancy a fuck?' ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres no hope for any of us if you cant get meets

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Need some advice as I don't know where I'm going wrong on here just wanna meet like minded people

What advice are you after, you're meet verified. "
I don't even get to a meet this is the problem

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

You're a 27 year old woman I wouldn't have thought you would have any problems. These type of thread's are generally done by guy's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going by your profile text it's very angry sounding. Is that what your after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need some advice as I don't know where I'm going wrong on here just wanna meet like minded people "

This?

Written by a woman?

*passes out with shock*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need some advice as I don't know where I'm going wrong on here just wanna meet like minded people

What advice are you after, you're meet verified. I don't even get to a meet this is the problem "

What do you mean? What's your current process?

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Going by your profile text it's very angry sounding. Is that what your after?"
what you on about

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Need some advice as I don't know where I'm going wrong on here just wanna meet like minded people

What advice are you after, you're meet verified. I don't even get to a meet this is the problem

What do you mean? What's your current process?"
we would talk for a lil while then we arranged when to meet and it never actually happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure what you mean. Are you saying you don't like messages containing a cock pic and the sentence 'fancy a fuck?' ?"

Fuck me!!! Is this an apparition?

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Need some advice as I don't know where I'm going wrong on here just wanna meet like minded people

This?

Written by a woman?

*passes out with shock*

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what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going by your profile text it's very angry sounding. Is that what your after?"

Having just read it, I agree, sounds very angry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need some advice as I don't know where I'm going wrong on here just wanna meet like minded people "

What is your mind like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm like minded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Going by your profile text it's very angry sounding. Is that what your after?

Having just read it, I agree, sounds very angry."
how can you sound angry on a text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need some advice as I don't know where I'm going wrong on here just wanna meet like minded people

What advice are you after, you're meet verified. I don't even get to a meet this is the problem

What do you mean? What's your current process? we would talk for a lil while then we arranged when to meet and it never actually happens "

Do you mean you get stood up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to state on your profile what sort of person you're looking for.

Then those people can contact you.

If you've not met anyone, are your verifications by webcam then?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Going by your profile text it's very angry sounding. Is that what your after?"

Ooh yeah I agree!

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Need some advice as I don't know where I'm going wrong on here just wanna meet like minded people

What advice are you after, you're meet verified. I don't even get to a meet this is the problem

What do you mean? What's your current process? we would talk for a lil while then we arranged when to meet and it never actually happens

Do you mean you get stood up?"
It's kinda like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going by your profile text it's very angry sounding. Is that what your after?

Having just read it, I agree, sounds very angry.how can you sound angry on a text "

Aggressive then. I wasn't criticising just making an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Angry sounding profile with no punctuation.. i ran out of breath reading it in my head.

You said you wanted to meet like minded people.. your profile doesn't tell me enough about you to know if we'd have owt in common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need some advice as I don't know where I'm going wrong on here just wanna meet like minded people

This?

Written by a woman?

*passes out with shock*

what you mean "

I mean, this is a post rarely written by a woman on here.

However three or four of these threads are written daily by single men.

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Need some advice as I don't know where I'm going wrong on here just wanna meet like minded people

This?

Written by a woman?

*passes out with shock*

what you mean

I mean, this is a post rarely written by a woman on here.

However three or four of these threads are just written daily by single men."
guess I'm a weird one that don't become on here

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Angry sounding profile with no punctuation.. i ran out of breath reading it in my head.

You said you wanted to meet like minded people.. your profile doesn't tell me enough about you to know if we'd have owt in common.

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that's why you message them to find out if you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, have you tried the club scene yet or been to a party? Perhaps you put something in your profile tx to help you find what your looking for

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Going by your profile text it's very angry sounding. Is that what your after?

Having just read it, I agree, sounds very angry.how can you sound angry on a text

Aggressive then. I wasn't criticising just making an observation"
thanks for telling me

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"You need to state on your profile what sort of person you're looking for.

Then those people can contact you.

If you've not met anyone, are your verifications by webcam then?"
thank you

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Don't ask here for advice is the best advice

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Sorry, I also think your text sounds a little angry and hard, but you have some decent pics, good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your hot!! White knight to the rescue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going by your profile text it's very angry sounding. Is that what your after?"
she wants an angry bang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Angry sounding profile with no punctuation.. i ran out of breath reading it in my head.

You said you wanted to meet like minded people.. your profile doesn't tell me enough about you to know if we'd have owt in common.

that's why you message them to find out if you do"

Not for me, i message someone if there's something relevant that I can make conversation about, or if we have something that sounds like we may have stuff in common.

If someone simply tells me what they don't want then I'll move on tbh

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Your profile text does come across as aggressive unfortunately. Also, I would suggest breaking it up into sentences/paragraphs. It will make it easier to read. Say what you like and ideally what you're looking for. Your pictures are great and speak for themselves. Translate that into text and I have no doubt you'll be inundated with messages. Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going by your profile text it's very angry sounding. Is that what your after?

Having just read it, I agree, sounds very angry.how can you sound angry on a text

Aggressive then. I wasn't criticising just making an observation thanks for telling me "

Well your profile text is what introduces yourself to the fab world. Would you be interested in a profile like that. It's the only thing you've currently got available to find a "like-minded" individual

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Angry sounding profile with no punctuation.. i ran out of breath reading it in my head.

You said you wanted to meet like minded people.. your profile doesn't tell me enough about you to know if we'd have owt in common.

that's why you message them to find out if you do

Not for me, i message someone if there's something relevant that I can make conversation about, or if we have something that sounds like we may have stuff in common.

If someone simply tells me what they don't want then I'll move on tbh "
fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Angry sounding profile with no punctuation.. i ran out of breath reading it in my head.

You said you wanted to meet like minded people.. your profile doesn't tell me enough about you to know if we'd have owt in common.

that's why you message them to find out if you do"

I'll give you the same advice I would a bloke, why would people spend time trying to find out when there are lots of profiles that contain information about what they're looking for? People don't want to make a lot of effort to find out you're looking for very different things. And yes, you do come across as quite aggressive which may also deter people from getting in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you ever message men you like the look and sound of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ImagImaginethis was a guy posting this. He would get a few replies along the lines of already been done, read the forums ECT and general flames

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need some advice as I don't know where I'm going wrong on here just wanna meet like minded people

What advice are you after, you're meet verified. I don't even get to a meet this is the problem

What do you mean? What's your current process? we would talk for a lil while then we arranged when to meet and it never actually happens "

You have 3 veris 2 of which are meet in person ones so how are you saying that no one meets you

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP there are lots of posts on the forums from people asking what they are doing wrong. These posts are normally put up by men but the advice you are given is the same.

Basically you need to make your profile the best you can. Tell people what you are looking for in a meet and what you have to offer. Your profile is your "shop window" and you have to use it to sell yourself.

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"OP there are lots of posts on the forums from people asking what they are doing wrong. These posts are normally put up by men but the advice you are given is the same.

As for meets not turning up. If this happens often then maybe the method you use to choose them isn't working. I'm very selective who i talk to on here and even more selective when it comes to actually deciding to meet. Nobody has ever let me down so far."
thank you and I have changed my profile and I do agree with most of you lot that my profile did come as angry it ain't any more

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Filtering guys out who aren't seriously interested in meeting, possibly just getting off on the chat and pics etc, is key. Some of this comes with experience and intuition.

Look for the past patterns that the failures have shown - type of guy, time of day, how they speak with you etc

Don't meet very new guys for example or just meet guys who have a few verifications from actually meeting others recently. Married guys cheating may find actual meets harder or impossible when it's convenient for you - early availability checks could help to further filter out those who are unsuitable for you.

Or consider posting a meet to a swingers club nearby, where several guys could attend and you get to evaluate them better.

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Filtering guys out who aren't seriously interested in meeting, possibly just getting off on the chat and pics etc, is key. Some of this comes with experience and intuition.

Look for the past patterns that the failures have shown - type of guy, time of day, how they speak with you etc

Or consider posting a meet to a swingers club nearby, where several guys could attend and you get to evaluate them better. "
thank you so much for the advice

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd adjust your profile text and exclude anything that says you don't know what you are doing - that is probably an invitation to mess you around.

Instead, if you sound confident and sure of yourself, you'd deter more wankers in my opinion.

As others say, emphasise things about you. Point to the type of people you will play with and possibly typical times that you meet.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Filtering guys out who aren't seriously interested in meeting, possibly just getting off on the chat and pics etc, is key. Some of this comes with experience and intuition.

Look for the past patterns that the failures have shown - type of guy, time of day, how they speak with you etc

Or consider posting a meet to a swingers club nearby, where several guys could attend and you get to evaluate them better. thank you so much for the advice "

Thank you too. You'll make a success of this

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