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By *ophieslut OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You get s poor message,whether fancy a fuck huni or whatever else - do you check the profile? Make any allowances if the profile's not bad or has some hot pics?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i've done that yeah, a hot guy and a shit (but not offensive) message didn't used to bother me lol.

i've met all kinds of guys i wouldn't have done usually just to see which way was best for me to find guys who are compatible and have a good idea now what works for me and it's very rare on here indeed unfortunately.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I rarely get that kind of crap but when I do I don't look at the profile, I know I won't have anything in common. However if I'm feeling mischievous I may wind them up for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't received any crud messages, fortunately!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely get that kind of crap but when I do I don't look at the profile, I know I won't have anything in common. However if I'm feeling mischievous I may wind them up for a while "

Now it all makes sense

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I rarely get that kind of crap but when I do I don't look at the profile, I know I won't have anything in common. However if I'm feeling mischievous I may wind them up for a while

Now it all makes sense

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Hang on only if they're being a knob, I'm not malicious and wanting to hurt anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven't received any crud messages, fortunately! "

His long have you been here?

I look at the profile Op. and then deal with it.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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No. I don't get many messages like that but if I do I just delete it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont get many but i do have a look - i have filtered out single men but ladies and couples are just as bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You get s poor message,whether fancy a fuck huni or whatever else - do you check the profile? Make any allowances if the profile's not bad or has some hot pics?"

No. Words, and use of them turn me on -- there would be no point, they've already lost me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We check the profile of every person who messages. Often they aren't looking for people like us according to what it says so it saves us both wasting time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get messages like that, in fact it's rare I get messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to look at the profiles before I read messages.... but yeah if there's an attraction there they'd get away with a shitty opening message, as long as the next few messages interest me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You get s poor message,whether fancy a fuck huni or whatever else - do you check the profile? Make any allowances if the profile's not bad or has some hot pics?"

I usually check their profile although with a messege like that we would never meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I check their profile to see if any poor souls have given into the fancy a fuck message. At least say hello do you fancy a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

na...what would be the point? people complain about time wasters then waste their own...just delete. Get another one, delete and block...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the avatar catches my eye I'll check out the profile. I have been known to respond to just a "hi" Message before. And then gone on to have a decent chat.

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By *ophieslut OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I got into the habit of completely ignoring this type of person but have slightly relaxed on occasion - but they've never become meets. That first contact seems to represent that we aren't compatible. Now a drop dead gorgeous contactor might get just a little too much leeway.

Maybe that's like life in general, where good looks support some people in getting away with poor behaviour more, compared to the general population

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got into the habit of completely ignoring this type of person but have slightly relaxed on occasion - but they've never become meets. That first contact seems to represent that we aren't compatible. Now a drop dead gorgeous contactor might get just a little too much leeway.

Maybe that's like life in general, where good looks support some people in getting away with poor behaviour more, compared to the general population "

Yes but that makes sense on a site where people are looking for sex with people they find attractive. But not so much for life in general.

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By *ophieslut OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I got into the habit of completely ignoring this type of person but have slightly relaxed on occasion - but they've never become meets. That first contact seems to represent that we aren't compatible. Now a drop dead gorgeous contactor might get just a little too much leeway.

Maybe that's like life in general, where good looks support some people in getting away with poor behaviour more, compared to the general population

Yes but that makes sense on a site where people are looking for sex with people they find attractive. But not so much for life in general. "

You'd think so but people generally are biased favourably towards attractive people - more handsome men earn 5% or more than less attractive men, on average. The halo effect seems to shift our perception positively on good looking people, so whatever they do, we tend to infer that they're more positive, intelligent etc than they likely are. I think it influences prosecutors and punishments too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No allowences made, in my experience that type of message is sent by people I won't be compatible with.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

If that is the kind of message they think is acceptable, then we wouldnt have much in common and would be no point taking things further at all.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Nope,instant delete

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete don't even bother looking

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By *ebedee2009Man
over a year ago

South Croydon

If that's how they type I would imagine their conversational skills are similar.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

If the knockers are nice and they have a decent hamburger shot I will forgive them the odd literary faux pas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely get that kind of crap but when I do I don't look at the profile, I know I won't have anything in common. However if I'm feeling mischievous I may wind them up for a while

Now it all makes sense

Hang on only if they're being a knob, I'm not malicious and wanting to hurt anyone "

I must admit to having done the same when I am feeling less angelic than normal

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