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By *londiedd OP   Woman
over a year ago

fife

I wish there was a way to turn this off, friend requests from people I've never corresponded with infuriates me, would you walk up to someone in the street and ask to see the pics they have on their phone? doubt it so what makes them think people on here will do it? my private pics are private for a reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens all the time on here and Facebook too, for reasons that escape me completely

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By *londiedd OP   Woman
over a year ago

fife


"It happens all the time on here and Facebook too, for reasons that escape me completely "
maybe just nosey folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore them.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

It's even getting to me today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a single guy, I did not know this feature existed for people to friend me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I wish there was a way to turn this off, friend requests from people I've never corresponded with infuriates me, would you walk up to someone in the street and ask to see the pics they have on their phone? doubt it so what makes them think people on here will do it? my private pics are private for a reason!"

I wouldn't walk up to someone in the street and ask to see the pics on their phone no BUT i'd be able to see their face , their body , their movements and suss their demeanour so no need to.

Maybe people don't want to correspond and waste their time with someone they may not fancy after all.

Having on face pic or body pic on show is a good idea to getting this stopped.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Being a single guy, I did not know this feature existed for people to friend me "

Attached guys don't know either

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"Being a single guy, I did not know this feature existed for people to friend me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend invite would be very nice

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I wish there was a way to turn this off, friend requests from people I've never corresponded with infuriates me, would you walk up to someone in the street and ask to see the pics they have on their phone? doubt it so what makes them think people on here will do it? my private pics are private for a reason!"

For that exact reason..they aren't on the streets so they can be and do whatever they like. They wouldn't do it in the street as they'd probably get a slap. It's frustrating and frankly bloody rude in my opinion. This is fab remember though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frustrating, rude, infuriating, a wind up...

So many angry ways to describe a feature that can simply be ignored. Is it the end of the world to get an unsolicited invite when it can be deleted or ignored in moments?

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By *londiedd OP   Woman
over a year ago

fife


"Frustrating, rude, infuriating, a wind up...

So many angry ways to describe a feature that can simply be ignored. Is it the end of the world to get an unsolicited invite when it can be deleted or ignored in moments?"
of course it's not the end of the world! but it would be nice for the person who sent the invite to get a message back saying this user does not want you as a friend the same way you get responses saying this user does not want to be contacted by certain groups

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

I used to delete them and get annoyed but now ignore them as it means they can't keep sending. No point getting annoyed as it doesn't stop them and you just wind yourself up, I'm a stress head sometimes so I try not to let people that don't matter get me stressed

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By *londiedd OP   Woman
over a year ago

fife


"I used to delete them and get annoyed but now ignore them as it means they can't keep sending. No point getting annoyed as it doesn't stop them and you just wind yourself up, I'm a stress head sometimes so I try not to let people that don't matter get me stressed "
yes I never delete as they just re send although I think they can re send after a period of time anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why it annoys in first place to be honest. It's not as off a huge neon sign saying 'FRIEND REQUEST' flashes as soon as you log in, with sirens going off and confetti flying all over the room.

It just sits quietly in a page you never really need to visit unless you know of someone who has sent you an invite

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Wait till they go offline,accept perv pics and then delete.Or leave the invites where they are and they can't resend.

Miss

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By *londiedd OP   Woman
over a year ago

fife


"Not sure why it annoys in first place to be honest. It's not as off a huge neon sign saying 'FRIEND REQUEST' flashes as soon as you log in, with sirens going off and confetti flying all over the room.

It just sits quietly in a page you never really need to visit unless you know of someone who has sent you an invite"
must just be us girls that get the neon sign and confetti then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a single guy, I did not know this feature existed for people to friend me

Attached guys don't know either "

Amen to that sister!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Wait till they go offline,accept perv pics and then delete.Or leave the invites where they are and they can't resend.

Miss"

Pmsl perv pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Become a bloke. It's much easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish there was a way to turn this off, friend requests from people I've never corresponded with infuriates me, would you walk up to someone in the street and ask to see the pics they have on their phone? doubt it so what makes them think people on here will do it? my private pics are private for a reason!

I wouldn't walk up to someone in the street and ask to see the pics on their phone no BUT i'd be able to see their face , their body , their movements and suss their demeanour so no need to.

Maybe people don't want to correspond and waste their time with someone they may not fancy after all.

Having on face pic or body pic on show is a good idea to getting this stopped.

"

Really??

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Not sure why it annoys in first place to be honest. It's not as off a huge neon sign saying 'FRIEND REQUEST' flashes as soon as you log in, with sirens going off and confetti flying all over the room.

It just sits quietly in a page you never really need to visit unless you know of someone who has sent you an invite"

Annoy is the wrong word for me, incomprehensible describes my view on unsolicited friend requests. I get that guys do it to perv but not much chance of that on my profile, no pics. So it really makes no sense.

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By *londiedd OP   Woman
over a year ago

fife


"Not sure why it annoys in first place to be honest. It's not as off a huge neon sign saying 'FRIEND REQUEST' flashes as soon as you log in, with sirens going off and confetti flying all over the room.

It just sits quietly in a page you never really need to visit unless you know of someone who has sent you an invite

Annoy is the wrong word for me, incomprehensible describes my view on unsolicited friend requests. I get that guys do it to perv but not much chance of that on my profile, no pics. So it really makes no sense."
they will do it to make you Hoover up all the confetti

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Not sure why it annoys in first place to be honest. It's not as off a huge neon sign saying 'FRIEND REQUEST' flashes as soon as you log in, with sirens going off and confetti flying all over the room.

It just sits quietly in a page you never really need to visit unless you know of someone who has sent you an invite

Annoy is the wrong word for me, incomprehensible describes my view on unsolicited friend requests. I get that guys do it to perv but not much chance of that on my profile, no pics. So it really makes no sense.they will do it to make you Hoover up all the confetti"

That's ok my friend for a day has volunteered to do chores

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Frustrating, rude, infuriating, a wind up...

So many angry ways to describe a feature that can simply be ignored. Is it the end of the world to get an unsolicited invite when it can be deleted or ignored in moments?of course it's not the end of the world! but it would be nice for the person who sent the invite to get a message back saying this user does not want you as a friend the same way you get responses saying this user does not want to be contacted by certain groups"

So why not mail them to say this and then block them. Or ignore the friend request page.

I very rarely get friend requests.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I wish there was a way to turn this off, friend requests from people I've never corresponded with infuriates me, would you walk up to someone in the street and ask to see the pics they have on their phone? doubt it so what makes them think people on here will do it? my private pics are private for a reason!"

Block and/or delete?

Or am I missing something.

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