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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm looking for any women over the age of 20 to chat to, haven't had much luck on here so was looking to find someone to talk about finding my way around the site and getting a few tips of anyone.

Please feel free to message me or comment on this to give me a few tips.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially, you need a profile of more than 2 words. Women will usually check a profile before deciding whether to even bother opening a message. If there is nothing, no text, no pics, it leaves them very little to respond to. Have a look in the forum,look at profile advice threads,there are tons of them, look at a few other guy's profiles,ones with meets and verifications and maybe get a few ideas...not that anyone who asks for advice ever takes a blind bit of notice..but you never know..it might actually help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm no woman but I am over 20!

Hopefully you'll get lots of offers from your target market but if you don't then the forum search function is also useful for searching threads offering advice for those looking for tips on how to get meets. There have been lots of such threads in the past and most offer some good and invaluable advice!

Good luck my friendand enjoy the site!

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

It's your profile. Based on that I wouldn't message you back.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Most women here are over 20. However, you need to engage them with something intellectual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Initially, you need a profile of more than 2 words. Women will usually check a profile before deciding whether to even bother opening a message. If there is nothing, no text, no pics, it leaves them very little to respond to. Have a look in the forum,look at profile advice threads,there are tons of them, look at a few other guy's profiles,ones with meets and verifications and maybe get a few ideas...not that anyone who asks for advice ever takes a blind bit of notice..but you never know..it might actually help."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More cock pics mate,women love cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to say a little bit about who you are, what you're looking for and what you could bring to a potential liaison. You certainly need alternative photos to just your knob, we are aware that men have a penis.

Put it this way; would a female profile with one badly posed picture of a foof and a two word profile hook you in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to say a little bit about who you are, what you're looking for and what you could bring to a potential liaison. You certainly need alternative photos to just your knob, we are aware that men have a penis.

Put it this way; would a female profile with one badly posed picture of a foof and a two word profile hook you in? "

Probably !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to say a little bit about who you are, what you're looking for and what you could bring to a potential liaison. You certainly need alternative photos to just your knob, we are aware that men have a penis.

Put it this way; would a female profile with one badly posed picture of a foof and a two word profile hook you in?

Probably ! "

I (cynically) thought the same as I was typing, yet hope springs eternal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bud, maybe you should add the word please to the end of your informative profile, chicks love a guy with manners, or maybe it's manors ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Initially, you need a profile of more than 2 words. Women will usually check a profile before deciding whether to even bother opening a message. If there is nothing, no text, no pics, it leaves them very little to respond to. Have a look in the forum,look at profile advice threads,there are tons of them, look at a few other guy's profiles,ones with meets and verifications and maybe get a few ideas...not that anyone who asks for advice ever takes a blind bit of notice..but you never know..it might actually help."
thank you very much. Very useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a liberal application of common sense will help you out here. it's not rocket surgery

just ask what it is that makes your profile more appealing than the thousands of other profiles here? what would attract someone to your profile first?

anyone can cobble two words and a cock pic together

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I would suggest you totally overhaul your profile. What there is of it. You have been here for 5 months, without success. Surely that tells you something??

Good luck..

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Keep it mysterious and be very assertive when asking why they deleted your first message without reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a profile and pictures, instead of two words and a cock picture.

I like to get a feel of someone's personality through their personality, which means their sense of humour, interests outside of sex, something which I can message them about. In an ideal world, I'd rather see a profile text where 80% of it is about who they are as a person, the other 20% about what they can offer sexually and what they enjoy sexually.

Pictures - face pictures preferably, or well shot, well lit body pictures & face and cock photos in friends only pictures.

Speaking for myself, I don't care very much about cock pictures. I'm more interested in the person.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"It's your profile. Based on that I wouldn't message you back. "

So no advice for him? Lol

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Definitely get rid of the cock picks until you're established on here..friends or even private if they ask. Face I'd keep private depending on how discrete you need to be.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Delete the part about could be in your area . Other than that you're good to go..and just a thought..unblock single guys as I've made some good friends with lads who I attend clubs with and not all will be after your ass lol

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"It's your profile. Based on that I wouldn't message you back.

So no advice for him? Lol "

Yeah, construct an actual profile.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"It's your profile. Based on that I wouldn't message you back.

So no advice for him? Lol

Yeah, construct an actual profile. "

Cool..as all you said that you wouldn't message him back..and I'm not sure he asked that so I was confused by your response. Thanks for clearing that up

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"It's your profile. Based on that I wouldn't message you back.

So no advice for him? Lol

Yeah, construct an actual profile.

Cool..as all you said that you wouldn't message him back..and I'm not sure he asked that so I was confused by your response. Thanks for clearing that up "

I was agreeing with the previous couple of posters that his profile is probably the problem. I could've rehashed their advice but didn't see it as being necessary.

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"More cock pics mate,women love cock pics "

Don't forget the Sky remote.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the secret ingriedient to get just about everysingle woman on Fab to message you back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know the secret ingriedient to get just about everysingle woman on Fab to message you back. "

Would you tell for £100k?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know the secret ingriedient to get just about everysingle woman on Fab to message you back. "

So does every guy on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Would you tell for £100k? "

Be Idris Elba

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Would you tell for £100k?

Be Idris Elba "

I don't actually have £100k, by the way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Would you tell for £100k?

Be Idris Elba

I don't actually have £100k, by the way..."

So Iv just been conned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Would you tell for £100k?

Be Idris Elba

I don't actually have £100k, by the way...

So Iv just been conned "

Oops!

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