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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city

That will close the deal or shut it down?

... Today i got told I'd get bent over and rimmed. I said I'd run away lol

A guy who says he wants to look in my eyes as he enters me the first time... Hmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only enter into sexy talk with those I've already agreed to meet and those that I think get me. They very very rarely get it wrong

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I think there is a world of difference between sexy talk and crude stuff.

And great examples are in the OP's post above

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

And crude talk blows the deal

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"I only enter into sexy talk with those I've already agreed to meet and those that I think get me. They very very rarely get it wrong "

Lol i do sexy chat with a few to ensure we are on the same page, i haven't developed a sence like yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one message me to say he'd make me squirt everywhere.

But then I've recently had some messages from one person that wow had me so hot and horny. His messages were so erotic. So much better than just dirty talk x

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"I had one message me to say he'd make me squirt everywhere.

But then I've recently had some messages from one person that wow had me so hot and horny. His messages were so erotic. So much better than just dirty talk x "

Oh now I'm jealous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of sex talk with someone I haven't had sex with already. It's just lip service and whatever they say they will do might not happen anyway.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I had one message me to say he'd make me squirt everywhere. "

Just the one?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Sexy talk?

Cringe-tastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the sexist talk should be during a meet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had one message me to say he'd make me squirt everywhere.

But then I've recently had some messages from one person that wow had me so hot and horny. His messages were so erotic. So much better than just dirty talk x

Oh now I'm jealous!"

He definitely knew how to say the right things, and when we met well it was all he promised and more. An incredible sexy meet x

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"I had one message me to say he'd make me squirt everywhere.

But then I've recently had some messages from one person that wow had me so hot and horny. His messages were so erotic. So much better than just dirty talk x

Oh now I'm jealous!

He definitely knew how to say the right things, and when we met well it was all he promised and more. An incredible sexy meet x "

You lucky lady!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'm not a fan of sex talk with someone I haven't had sex with already. It's just lip service and whatever they say they will do might not happen anyway. "

Me either, actions speak louder than words

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"I had one message me to say he'd make me squirt everywhere.

But then I've recently had some messages from one person that wow had me so hot and horny. His messages were so erotic. So much better than just dirty talk x

Oh now I'm jealous!

He definitely knew how to say the right things, and when we met well it was all he promised and more. An incredible sexy meet x "

Now I'm off to snoop your veris?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But then I've recently had some messages from one person that wow had me so hot and horny. His messages were so erotic. So much better than just dirty talk x "

Yep I've had this which is why I don't dismiss it. ...and then when we met it even exceeded what had come before. ..

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

The only people I've had talk up their sexual abilities by message (and it's not many) have turned out to be a bit shit in the sack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trouble with sex talk is that it's usually just that. You get them naked and all talk of slapping your tits into next week seems to get forgotten.

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"The trouble with sex talk is that it's usually just that. You get them naked and all talk of slapping your tits into next week seems to get forgotten."

Pmsl i understand but i do enjoy dirty messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only people I've had talk up their sexual abilities by message (and it's not many) have turned out to be a bit shit in the sack. "

Ah...I'm not interested in those that talk up their abilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But then I've recently had some messages from one person that wow had me so hot and horny. His messages were so erotic. So much better than just dirty talk x

Yep I've had this which is why I don't dismiss it. ...and then when we met it even exceeded what had come before. .."

Oh yes, that's even better. Just makes you want to go back for more. X

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm not a fan of sexy talk with someone I've not met. Just in case you don't actually fancy them in the flesh......awkward

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"I'm not a fan of sexy talk with someone I've not met. Just in case you don't actually fancy them in the flesh......awkward "

See I'm the opposite, turning me on with words does everything for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The trouble with sex talk is that it's usually just that. You get them naked and all talk of slapping your tits into next week seems to get forgotten."

By the time they get to doing sex they've wanked themselves out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best sex I've had has been with men who never mentioned sex, and didn't show me their cock beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best sex I've had has been with men who never mentioned sex, and didn't show me their cock beforehand. "

I totally agree, flirting is great but full on stuff is more of a turn off.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"The best sex I've had has been with men who never mentioned sex, and didn't show me their cock beforehand. "

Same for me about the cock part. I like to discover what there is to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That will close the deal or shut it down?

... Today i got told I'd get bent over and rimmed. I said I'd run away lol

A guy who says he wants to look in my eyes as he enters me the first time... Hmmmm"

Guys that are too flowery and full on textually are generally looking to co-opt others into wank fodder material that ultimately leads nowhere. Meh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if its a bit naughty and in context its good. It has to build up to it though, and not only be about that from then on. Its good to tease and be teased and have an idea of what you both like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a fan of sex talk with someone I haven't had sex with already. It's just lip service and whatever they say they will do might not happen anyway. "

This.

Also think it could lead to so much anticipation and expectation, that the reality might be a huge let down?

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"I think if its a bit naughty and in context its good. It has to build up to it though, and not only be about that from then on. Its good to tease and be teased and have an idea of what you both like. "

Glad I'm not alone !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind it to an extent, but i have had a couple of people who i had started speaking with, with the idea of meeting up and it became very apparant, very quickly, that they never had any intention of meeting and it was all just wanking material. So i am a little cautious now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if its a bit naughty and in context its good. It has to build up to it though, and not only be about that from then on. Its good to tease and be teased and have an idea of what you both like.

Glad I'm not alone !!"

Not alone at all. I only meet those I'm completely connected with so any sexy talk before the meet is definitely a taste of things to come. ..and promises of more always deliver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best sex I've had has been with men who never mentioned sex, and didn't show me their cock beforehand.

I totally agree, flirting is great but full on stuff is more of a turn off. "

I prefer to get an idea of their personality than what they think will happen. All I need to know sexually is what they do and don't do. A little flirty chat is fine, but the full on stop numbs my brain..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

god no...so many are so bad at it...the whole 'and then i'd do that and then you'd feel this...' *yawn*

we'd rather meet and go with the flow than build up some kind of expectation as well...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Coupled with a fast desire to get onto pic swapping apps, dirty talk is a key indicator of someone who's looking to assist their wanking and less likely to meet. I give them a miss

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