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Any ladies have this problem too?

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By *yz666 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea

Hello, I am receiving quite a few messages along these lines:

Looking to meet now. No nonesense

You don't meet smokers. Don't accommodate or travel.

I can accom. Travel and will meet overseas. Depending how secy you are

Then your profile is practically useless. Not only does it not have much in it, what is there, is inaccurate. No thanks but good luck. X

Haha. And what'sort on yrs. A bag of truth

How do you deal with it? When I can make out what they are going on about, I try to stay polite and then ignore. Tbh it's really putting me off the site and sometimes it's hard not to respond, lol.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I ignore the useless messages - spend time in the forum instead or search for people who seem to match you well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep getting problems of people offering to pay me for sex or do go do drugs with random guys.

It's getting very tiring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have replied with no thank you or not what I'm looking for. Then block and delete the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them and move on to someone that is nice and genuine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block single guys from messaging you and search for guys yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block single guys from messaging you and search for guys yourself "

This ... The usual quick messages with little or no thought behind them are quite often a good indication of their personality and intentions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just ignore or block, especially the ones who message "are you free now"

Thinking of starting to look myself instead of waiting for men to message. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep agree just block them as theres plenty of decent guys amongst the crap lol but seriously just hit the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on mood I tend to ignore but if In a silly mood I reply with a sarcastic response x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that a particularly bad message?

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By *yz666 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea

Thanks for your input. Will take your advice and be more proactive. It's not the worst one I have got but receive about three like this a day, which is bloody annoying. The particularly bad ones contain lists of acts normally referring to submission and bareback. Had one who wanted me to agree to try everything he wanted to do five times before I could express that I didn't like it. The header was: rough, brutal sex in all your holes. What a charmer!

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