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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lost count of the 18 year old girls I write to, who are new...Then they no longer are on the site. What's that all about?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Lost count of the 18 year old girls I write to, who are new...Then they no longer are on the site. What's that all about?"

They're all men pretending to be women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's one of my theories too. If so, quite sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Possibly. But I only reply to their wants. Nothing more, so they can't be offended surely...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Possibly. But I only reply to their wants. Nothing more, so they can't be offended surely...?"

I'm sorry to be blunt OP but perhaps stop messaging 18 year old girls and look for someone a little older

In reality most real 18 year old girls would be out pulling on a Saturday night rather than on a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why? I pulled a 19 year old here no problems. We were very happy together.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

When I first joined as o naive newbie years ago I left almost straight away because of all the guys that just pounced from the moment I joined it was very off putting regardless of age. My first meet came from. Guy that messaged me about two weeks after rejoined saying he noticed me when I joined but wanted to let me find my feet on the sight first, it was a far more welcoming approach and I know many ladies that feel/felt the same way about the newbie pounced type of guys

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"When I first joined as o naive newbie years ago I left almost straight away because of all the guys that just pounced from the moment I joined it was very off putting regardless of age. My first meet came from. Guy that messaged me about two weeks after rejoined saying he noticed me when I joined but wanted to let me find my feet on the sight first, it was a far more welcoming approach and I know many ladies that feel/felt the same way about the newbie pounced type of guys "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

going off my daughter and her mates at that age - if they did something like that would be for a joke mostly - so stick it out for a night or few - have some fun egging folk on and the get on with doing what they usually do -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why? I pulled a 19 year old here no problems. We were very happy together."

I wasn't stating it was impossible . I'm saying that the majority of 18 year old hot girls on here with new accounts are more than likely fake

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Why? I pulled a 19 year old here no problems. We were very happy together.

I wasn't stating it was impossible . I'm saying that the majority of 18 year old hot girls on here with new accounts are more than likely fake "

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Not to mention the ladies that do join of that age that would be creeped out by the thought of someone the age of possibly a grandparent is messaging them, as I can imagine there's a fair few of those also

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe, but it's the ones who say older that I reply to. Easy to set an age limit if you're not into people above a certain age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lost count of the 18 year old girls I write to, who are new...Then they no longer are on the site. What's that all about?"

They were never here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe their hands were too sore to type after wanking their cock so much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So true

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Because they are not real. We get contacted by them all the time we politely reply and then play the how long will it take before the profile goes UNLOS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lost count of the 18 year old girls I write to, who are new...Then they no longer are on the site. What's that all about?"

How long have they been on the site when you message them?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Maybe, but it's the ones who say older that I reply to. Easy to set an age limit if you're not into people above a certain age."

Yes but it if you're completely new to the site and unaware of the filters to block around ages or are just setting up a quick account to to have a nose around and see if it's for you before putting any thought or detail into it as your naive to fab (as I did when I first joined all those years ago) you don't need bombarding by I'm sorry what ends up being viewed as a bunch of desperate men

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Lost count of the 18 year old girls I write to, who are new...Then they no longer are on the site. What's that all about?"
what are you saying to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Possibly. But I only reply to their wants. Nothing more, so they can't be offended surely...?"

I think its quite sad that you actually believe that gorgeous 18 year old girls would seriously message you with their wants. Surely it's a joke that you believe that crap.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Prob seen sense and gone on a date with a young lad they met in a nightclub

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Sorry, but I don't think an 18 year old female would be interested in a 49 year man.......

I get dubious when a 30 year old guy messages me, I wonder why that would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lost count of the 18 year old girls I write to, who are new...Then they no longer are on the site. What's that all about?

They're all men pretending to be women"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, but I don't think an 18 year old female would be interested in a 49 year man.......

I get dubious when a 30 year old guy messages me, I wonder why that would be "

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why? I pulled a 19 year old here no problems. We were very happy together."

Well said mate !!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Why? I pulled a 19 year old here no problems. We were very happy together.

Well said mate !!

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God carl you dont half contradict yourself with your replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lost count of the 18 year old girls I write to, who are new...Then they no longer are on the site. What's that all about?"

I suspect that messages from men who are around 3 x their existence on this planet and 25 x their sexually active existence may put a few off, the rest join the night before their 19th birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why? I pulled a 19 year old here no problems. We were very happy together.

Well said mate !!

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So if it's so easy why the thread??

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Not to mention the ladies that do join of that age that would be creeped out by the thought of someone the age of possibly a grandparent is messaging them, as I can imagine there's a fair few of those also "

If the account is genuine then this.

I have to say that a 49 year old actively seeking an 18 year old just doesn't sit well with me...

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not to mention the ladies that do join of that age that would be creeped out by the thought of someone the age of possibly a grandparent is messaging them, as I can imagine there's a fair few of those also

If the account is genuine then this.

I have to say that a 49 year old actively seeking an 18 year old just doesn't sit well with me...

Nita"

Half your age plus 7 is how to stay outside the realms of creepy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Rubbish. If a profile says prefer older then I message in the hope it's true. What is so sad about that? Any different to wanting men to be above 9"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We could say that about a lot of wants or needs or whatever. Each to there own, within acceptable boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rubbish. If a profile says prefer older then I message in the hope it's true. What is so sad about that? Any different to wanting men to be above 9"?"

So you've started a thread asking why your particular situation is occurring then argued back with everyone who has given an opinion ?

What were the answers you were expecting ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rubbish. If a profile says prefer older then I message in the hope it's true. What is so sad about that? Any different to wanting men to be above 9"?"

There's a big difference between an 18yr old preferring older and a 28 yr old messaging them to a 49yr old messaging them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rubbish. If a profile says prefer older then I message in the hope it's true. What is so sad about that? Any different to wanting men to be above 9"?"

Well more fool you. In answer to your OP- because they are men or because they are fakes trying to scam creepy men who will fall for the 'hot 18 yr old gagging for a wrinkly cock' line.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Not to mention the ladies that do join of that age that would be creeped out by the thought of someone the age of possibly a grandparent is messaging them, as I can imagine there's a fair few of those also

If the account is genuine then this.

I have to say that a 49 year old actively seeking an 18 year old just doesn't sit well with me...

Nita"

Am I ok with a 20 year old though? The amount of young men on here looking for older women, I would have thought it was an accepted practice for Fab denizens to seek out sex with who they want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know sad, creepy etc etc. I am specifically talking about the profiles that actively say want older men, sugar daddies etc etc. We know the sugar daddy request to be true in many instances.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Rubbish. If a profile says prefer older then I message in the hope it's true. What is so sad about that? Any different to wanting men to be above 9"?"

Hell there is a difference and surely you must understand that, when I was 18, older was probably 28, which is 10 years older, not someone who is old enough to be my dad

God, I'm 43 and a 49 year old is too old for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why? I pulled a 19 year old here no problems. We were very happy together.

Well said mate !!

God carl you dont half contradict yourself with your replies "

Huh When lovely?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's your preference. Do we say a 50 year old woman with a 21 year old chap is like grab a gran? No, we just let them enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scammers. Escorts drumming up business. Men pretending to be women.

Don't talk off site. Don't give your email address. Don't send naked pics or wank talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's your preference. Do we say a 50 year old woman with a 21 year old chap is like grab a gran? No, we just let them enjoy."

Would you be happy if you had an 18yr old daughter and she was shagging someone the same age as you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you match their profiles then good luck but personallu I always find people pouncing on new profiles really predatory.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I know sad, creepy etc etc. I am specifically talking about the profiles that actively say want older men, sugar daddies etc etc. We know the sugar daddy request to be true in many instances."

I like men older than myself but not too much older, when I say it I mean just by a few years, no more than 10, old enough to be my parents or more isn't something I'm comfortable with nor is going too young either.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"If you match their profiles then good luck but personally I always find people pouncing on new profiles really predatory."

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know sad, creepy etc etc. I am specifically talking about the profiles that actively say want older men, sugar daddies etc etc. We know the sugar daddy request to be true in many instances."

Prostitutes or men. Is it that hard to understand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lost count of the 18 year old girls I write to, who are new...Then they no longer are on the site. What's that all about?"

Maybe some of them are genuine 18 year olds that want someone of similar age, no offence intended

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Also I personally wouldn't go below 21 I generally use the old "think 25" rule when gauging their age looks wise as I'd be too concerned they weren't underage and merely lying could land me in pretty hot water.

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