FabSwingers.com forum: 13 reasons why

By *eanonti OP Woman
over a year ago

Limerick

Heard about it. So I'd normally read the book first. It has me deeply troubled. As a young girl I had someone say we had sex, when we didn't even get close. His phrase exactly was "I blew the arse off her and she hasn't spoken to me since". This he told my supervisor in work. My boss told me and not in a pervy way. My sister put him in his place. And that was the end of it.

If I were an 18 year old nowadays. He'd have put that comment on Facebook etc. I'm not sure I'd have survived that.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Haven't got a scooby what this thread is all about if that's any help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haven't got a scooby what this thread is all about if that's any help

I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some book maybe

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Haven't got a scooby what this thread is all about if that's any help

apparently blowing on buttocks or something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watched it op and it just shows you how cruel folk can really be and how much folk like to join on the band wagon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a book about a girl who killed herself and left recordings giving 13 reasons why.

Think it's a tv series now as well.

I'm not sure that it won't boost teen suicides even if it's 'anti'

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"It was a book about a girl who killed herself and left recordings giving 13 reasons why.

Think it's a tv series now as well.

I'm not sure that it won't boost teen suicides even if it's 'anti' "

Yes, I watched it on Netflix, couldn't make up my mind about whether it glamourises suicide or not to teenagers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I heard abt it and really need to watch it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I watched it op and it just shows you how cruel folk can really be and how much folk like to join on the band wagon."

I watched it and will read the book. Very thought provoking in many ways in how one misconstrued photo or comment can make things spiral. To me it didn't glamourise suicide at all. It made me think what a waste but I'm not a teen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm halfway through it on Netflix at the moment.

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By *ilentgirlWoman
over a year ago

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"It was a book about a girl who killed herself and left recordings giving 13 reasons why.

Think it's a tv series now as well.

I'm not sure that it won't boost teen suicides even if it's 'anti' "

My girl saw the TV show, she said it was very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Halfway through it, loving it!

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

Op i completely understand. Social media for teenagers and rumours is awful. My nickname at school was bj Queen.

Imagine if that was out on the www ... Social death

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

This is a little like that kid recently. I think he was 11 and his gf was 12 or 14, where she got her friend to text him that she had died as a joke. In shock he took his life and hung himself not realising it was a prank. It was only reported a few weeks ago and it's being investigated and I'm not sure if any charges are being brought against either the friend or the gf.

It's sad but suicide exists and social media is only one factor. I am pretty sure each of us know of a kid that died too soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a little like that kid recently. I think he was 11 and his gf was 12 or 14, where she got her friend to text him that she had died as a joke. In shock he took his life and hung himself not realising it was a prank. It was only reported a few weeks ago and it's being investigated and I'm not sure if any charges are being brought against either the friend or the gf.

It's sad but suicide exists and social media is only one factor. I am pretty sure each of us know of a kid that died too soon. "

You can only guess why. I'd like to know why one freind did. It was well before the days of social media, if some one had known how low he had gotten maybe some one could of prevented him or tried to get help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im watching this - its sad and uncomfortable - abit like feeling guilty when you saw a policeman when you were little although you had done nothing wrong

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

I loved the books and the TV show was done amazingly, Especially "tape 13"

very powerful stuff and it is a prime example of "the ripple effect" in today's society unfortunately.

truly an amazing programme and i think it is amazing that even the author is pushing for netflix to make a second series with their notes.

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

"I loved the books and the TV show was done amazingly, Especially "tape 13"

very powerful stuff and it is a prime example of "the ripple effect" in today's society unfortunately.

truly an amazing programme and i think it is amazing that even the author is pushing for netflix to make a second series with their notes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just finished it. It made me cry. It was so powerful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I loved it (the tv show). So well made and powerful. On one hand I thought I should be shown to kids in high school so they can try to understand the consequences of their actions... what seems little and irrelevant to them can have a huge impact on someone else's life. But i guess it's so powerful it could have a negative effect on someone struggling mentally, there'd be the risk of it being a trigger.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

Damn! It's on my list but looks like I'm going to have to watch it sooner than I thought.

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