FabSwingers.com forum: Losing friends

By *went OP Man
over a year ago

blackpool

I had 4 friends on my friends list and now I have only got 2 friends. Hopefully it's not that I am a bad friend.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I had 4 friends on my friends list and now I have only got 2 friends. Hopefully it's not that I am a bad friend. "

You're the common denominator......

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

Sorry it's not nice is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may have left the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just looked at your profile and there's a note on it that says you make good tea lol. But I'm pretty sure I don't know who you are??

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Unfortunately some people want to be friends just to see your friends only pics

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Unfortunately some people want to be friends just to see your friends only pics "

My friends will be very disappointed then lol

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By *went OP Man
over a year ago

blackpool

"Unfortunately some people want to be friends just to see your friends only pics

My friends will be very disappointed then lol"

I think I will just add to see your picture. X

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By *went OP Man
over a year ago

blackpool

"I've just looked at your profile and there's a note on it that says you make good tea lol. But I'm pretty sure I don't know who you are?? "

I am sure if I made you tea it would be very nice. Not Michelin standard but good all the same.

Maybe that's a sign.

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By *went OP Man
over a year ago

blackpool

"Unfortunately some people want to be friends just to see your friends only pics "

I was hoping they be my BFFs and not just after me for my pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about it OP. This is such a concentrated ecosystem that people come and go all the time. Some you think are friends aren't and some who will be friends, haven't even joined yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost a couple through my own stupidity,just be yourself and most of all polite and respectful

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By *ennyabcWoman
over a year ago

mayo

Probably left the site

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By *went OP Man
over a year ago

blackpool

"Probably left the site "

True friends would never leave me or this site. X

Or at least say good bye first.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Probably left the site

True friends would never leave me or this site. X

Or at least say good bye first.

Ah.....I suspect that in some cases real friends can be different to fab friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately some people want to be friends just to see your friends only pics "
that happens alot add as friend view pics no chat then de friend in a day or so thats why dont add ramdoms anymore

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By *went OP Man
over a year ago

blackpool

"Unfortunately some people want to be friends just to see your friends only pics that happens alot add as friend view pics no chat then de friend in a day or so thats why dont add ramdoms anymore "

I don't really get anyone that friend requests me.

And there is only a very few pics on my profile as well so maybe people not bothered with my pics.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I regulary cull our friends list,if we chat i delete .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it often when I haven't spoken to someone for ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some friends you may want to forget.

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By *went OP Man
over a year ago

blackpool

Well at least not lost my other 2 in 24 hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some just leave the site ..some just decide no more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things, and people, come and go. That's life. Learn to accept this and life becomes that much more easy. Be your own BFF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things, and people, come and go. That's life. Learn to accept this and life becomes that much more easy. Be your own BFF.

Your new pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things, and people, come and go. That's life. Learn to accept this and life becomes that much more easy. Be your own BFF.

Your new pic

You sir, have just made my day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had 4 friends on my friends list and now I have only got 2 friends. Hopefully it's not that I am a bad friend. "

This is going to sound bizarre but I'm pleased you posted this thread just checked mine and found I've got a new one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had 4 friends on my friends list and now I have only got 2 friends. Hopefully it's not that I am a bad friend.

This is going to sound bizarre but I'm pleased you posted this thread just checked mine and found I've got a new one! "

That's it, rub it in!

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By *went OP Man
over a year ago

blackpool

"I had 4 friends on my friends list and now I have only got 2 friends. Hopefully it's not that I am a bad friend.

This is going to sound bizarre but I'm pleased you posted this thread just checked mine and found I've got a new one! "

Glad it's helped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had 4 friends on my friends list and now I have only got 2 friends. Hopefully it's not that I am a bad friend. "

So this isn't Facebook...

Being a friend on here what does it entail. If its not getting ypu to what either of you want why retaon it. It's better to cull...surely?

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By *went OP Man
over a year ago

blackpool

"I had 4 friends on my friends list and now I have only got 2 friends. Hopefully it's not that I am a bad friend.

So this isn't Facebook...

Being a friend on here what does it entail. If its not getting ypu to what either of you want why retaon it. It's better to cull...surely?"

It's very tongue in cheek and just something I noticed. I know not really anyone on here will be or become true friends.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Unfortunately some people want to be friends just to see your friends only pics "

Yep and some have likkle to no intention on meeting or even chatting much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they left the site. Or they use the site on their phone. I'm always pressing the wrong thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do my best to put my friends off me but most of them seem to stick around.

Must be my cock pics - because my face launched a thousand blocks

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By *went OP Man
over a year ago

blackpool

Now down to just 1. It gets worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now down to just 1. It gets worse. "

Do you post dodgy status updates?

I bin loads of friends for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately some people want to be friends just to see your friends only pics "
so true and they think we don't know it lol. What makes me laugh is if I say I don't want to meet they say can we be friends though. Sure we can but you don't need to see my pic's to be able to message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now down to just 1. It gets worse. "

Have they blocked you?

Can you still message them?

Why is being friends on here so important to you?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Now down to just 1. It gets worse. "

You need to get a grasp of the nature of the site .

True friends in this lifestyle are a very rare thing .

Don't get upset by it , it's not important .

As time goes by you,l realise how insignificant losing a few people on your friends list is on fab .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately some people want to be friends just to see your friends only pics "

Lol, I'm tempted to upload pics of goatse and lemonparty to friends pics for this reason.

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By *went OP Man
over a year ago

blackpool

"Now down to just 1. It gets worse.

Do you post dodgy status updates?

I bin loads of friends for that. "

No I don't post dodgy status updates.

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By *went OP Man
over a year ago

blackpool

"Now down to just 1. It gets worse.

Have they blocked you?

Can you still message them?

Why is being friends on here so important to you?"

No not important just something I noticed. I can still message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im currently at 12 friends but it goes up and down alot as theres so many time wasters on the site x

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By *went OP Man
over a year ago

blackpool

"Im currently at 12 friends but it goes up and down alot as theres so many time wasters on the site x"

If I attend events and meets sometimes

maybe it will increase again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tI tend to put up a status saying I'm clearing friends list. Those interested in staying in touch pm me. Keeps it fluid and no one sits dormant expecting me to keep up the contact all the time.

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