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Have you ever had sex for the sake of it & regretted it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

By that, I mean just because they were there and you didn't particularly fancy them or you actually weren't very interested in them.

I have once. Never again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep once and only once like yourself regretted it instantly. Never again. Thankfully got my self control back in check x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup initally i wanted to try and see if it was good but it wasnt and they were staying overnight so i had to feign interest

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No. I can't be arsed in wasting my time like that.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Been there and done it.. hated every second of it. Never again.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

When I was a lot younger yes...and learned very quickly that it was rarely satisfying

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Is this not the same as the one night stand thread ?

I've been fortunate that I've never felt that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger and desperate I may have lowered my standards just to get laid once or twice. Never again though.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Yes he was a beautiful looking man but no chemistry, I thought it would be ok cause he was so hot.. emm no.

So never ever again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I was a lot younger yes...and learned very quickly that it was rarely satisfying"

Yeah, it was the satisfaction thing for me too. I realised that without a mental connection it just didn't quite scratch the itch for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we both did when we were younger. It's just one of those things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't go as far as saying I regretted it as it's had no baring on my life whatsoever but have gone through with it purely because they were there. Didn't think I'd ever do that as I'm not the most tactful person and I'm pretty strong willed. This was more because I felt obliged to as they'd gone to a lot of effort to meet (distance wise).

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

No. would rather just have a wank.

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

Yes but wouldn't do it now.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I had a short notice meet at mine years ago when I had very much lost my way.

He was lovely but his touch did nothing. He had no idea how to touch a lady and it was awful.

Never again

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We meet socially only first partly because I don't want to be someone's regret.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Yes sometimes i would have been better off to be with a door frame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regrets here .

What would be the big deal? x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yes he was a beautiful looking man but no chemistry, I thought it would be ok cause he was so hot.. emm no.

So never ever again. "

This for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never regret anything that felt right at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes he was a beautiful looking man but no chemistry, I thought it would be ok cause he was so hot.. emm no.

So never ever again. "

Something like this ... but I can't say never again cos it happened more than once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have done this once and I definitely learnt from the mistake....we had met a couple times before and really enjoyed each other's company, first cpl times we just kissed and talked but the time we got to actually have sex was really bad, he was really crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I can't be arsed in wasting my time like that. "

You're sexy arse?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

yes... i think everyone has at one point... i think it is part of the learning process where you learn not to put yourself in those positions again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past think most people have had regret sex. I know I have and yes sex without mental element is not satisfying.

The mind is a very underused sexual organ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes lost my virginity to a girl who i had no intrest in didnt want to know and then i was wasted on my 18th birthday and she ended up bouncing on my cock on a park bench.

How ever she came in handy during college for blow jobs and she once squirted all over my hands whilst fingering her.

I never kisses her though

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

Yep a lovely guy travelled 4 hours to see me, it was nice but i doubt I'd of done it if he'd been local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep a lovely guy travelled 4 hours to see me, it was nice but i doubt I'd of done it if he'd been local"

That was similar to me.

Just confirmed for me how important social meets are first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds terrible but I've had sex out of 'politeness' rather than 'for the sake of it'. There was no chemistry but I thought it might get better once things got going. It didn't. It was awful and I felt a bit dirty afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done this..... On more than one occasion

I don't regret it, just wouldn't meet them again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I haven't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't feel I regret any of the sex I've had. Some I wouldn't have done if I'd known how bad it would be.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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with my last ex, i didn't really fancy him and was like 'oh, well he's here now and i want sex so might as well'.

it used to be better going out for one night stands than 'ordering' them off here as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger I did once give a bloke a pity fuck. Wasn't good for me. Then unfortunately through most of my marriage I put up with crap sex because I didn't think I was worth better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup...is why I find sex on here n not in the pub...would rather go home d*unk, horny and alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope and I wouldn't either...

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

A couple of times but never again. Hated myself afterwards

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"When I was younger I did once give a bloke a pity fuck. Wasn't good for me. Then unfortunately through most of my marriage I put up with crap sex because I didn't think I was worth better. "

i did this when an ex fbs mate came out of prison, it all went horribly wrong. and the sex wasn't great.

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

We've both been there.

Be surprised if there were many that hadn't and on more than one occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, guilty! Not from here I hasten to add. A former life...

Didn't fancy him but was as horny as ****, and needs must.... What can I say

I can actually hear him saying " is it in yet" lol

Not sure if he was saying my fanny is like a bucket, or his dick was so small he couldn't tell.... Obviously his dick was small, and I mean small....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was younger I did once give a bloke a pity fuck. Wasn't good for me. Then unfortunately through most of my marriage I put up with crap sex because I didn't think I was worth better.

i did this when an ex fbs mate came out of prison, it all went horribly wrong. and the sex wasn't great."

Just laughed out loud at " pity fuck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was younger I did once give a bloke a pity fuck. Wasn't good for me. Then unfortunately through most of my marriage I put up with crap sex because I didn't think I was worth better. "

You are worth more than you will ever realise sweetheart.... I hope you are making up for loss time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes he was a beautiful looking man but no chemistry, I thought it would be ok cause he was so hot.. emm no.

So never ever again. "

Nothing worse.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was younger I did once give a bloke a pity fuck. Wasn't good for me. Then unfortunately through most of my marriage I put up with crap sex because I didn't think I was worth better.

You are worth more than you will ever realise sweetheart.... I hope you are making up for loss time x "

Thank you, yes I am having the best sex ever with my mr. Just proves you're never too old for a good sex life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah.

A girl in uni fancied the pants off me, got me very d*unk and we ended up doing it. Lacklustre sex made better with a bright red condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, this is why now, I must not arrange meets when I'm super horny, unless I've met them already!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was younger I did once give a bloke a pity fuck. Wasn't good for me. Then unfortunately through most of my marriage I put up with crap sex because I didn't think I was worth better.

You are worth more than you will ever realise sweetheart.... I hope you are making up for loss time x

Thank you, yes I am having the best sex ever with my mr. Just proves you're never too old for a good sex life x "

Glad to hear it!!

Age is merely a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was younger I did once give a bloke a pity fuck. Wasn't good for me. Then unfortunately through most of my marriage I put up with crap sex because I didn't think I was worth better.

You are worth more than you will ever realise sweetheart.... I hope you are making up for loss time x

Thank you, yes I am having the best sex ever with my mr. Just proves you're never too old for a good sex life x

Glad to hear it!!

Age is merely a number "

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By *RH and HRNCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthen

Note for the sake of it, but definitely out of politeness and dare I say so as not to be rude. .

The phrase taking one for the team springs to mind lol . . Thankfully hubby knows when I say this is not for me, not to push it as I have learnt the importance of chemistry on both sides xx xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and yes. It ruined a friendship as he was "in love" with me.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"By that, I mean just because they were there and you didn't particularly fancy them or you actually weren't very interested in them.

I have once. Never again. "

Never mind sex, I've had whole relationships when I was younger which were based on that premise. I had zero self confidence and thought I couldn't do any better.

Now I've 'grown up', allegedly, I took 'one for the team' once (entirely my choice) thinking it was 'just sex' and I could handle it but learnt a very hard lesson that I personally can't do that, as I felt so disgusted with myself for a long time after. Never again.

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By *un bbw loverMan
over a year ago

coventry

i would say yes a few times, destroyed my self esteem and trust in women.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

yes a couple of times also remember meeting someone much younger than me and was thinking of what i should say to him as i wasnt sure he was my type only things started happening and i found myself enjoying it and i didnt regret it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the past think most people have had regret sex. I know I have and yes sex without mental element is not satisfying.

The mind is a very underused sexual organ "

It's horrible having sex when there's no connection. It just feels wrong and makes you feel like shit afterwards

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I probably have but don't dwell on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never.

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

Yes and actually happened more than few times.

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