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"We are looking for a couple / bi female but not having much luck. Is it really that hard on here to find what you're looking for ? It can't just be us. " About 90% of couples on here have a bi-fem, I'm surprised you're finding it so difficult to find one. Cal | |||
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"Of course it's not just you! It's soooo hard to find the perfect couple or single who matches your preferences and you also match theirs. H xx"  | |||
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"Of course it's not just you! It's soooo hard to find the perfect couple or single who matches your preferences and you also match theirs. H xx" | |||
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"Of course it's not just you! It's soooo hard to find the perfect couple or single who matches your preferences and you also match theirs. H xx" But when you do meet the perfect couple or single!!!! 
Persevere, it's worth the wait 
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"Love your profile but blooming miles away... "That seems to be the problem, everyone we like are just so far away. Thank you for the compliment, you would definitely be on our list of friends if only you weren't so far from us | |||
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"Love your profile but blooming miles away...
That seems to be the problem, everyone we like are just so far away. Thank you for the compliment, you would definitely be on our list of friends if only you weren't so far from us"Why can't they still be on your friends list? You might do a road trip? | |||
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"We are looking for a couple / bi female but not having much luck. Is it really that hard on here to find what you're looking for ? It can't just be us. " We are not very proactive in sending messages especially to the single ladies, looking still and it may happen. Meeting with couples it's harder to find the four way connections. Him | |||
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"Love your profile but blooming miles away...
That seems to be the problem, everyone we like are just so far away. Thank you for the compliment, you would definitely be on our list of friends if only you weren't so far from us
Why can't they still be on your friends list? You might do a road trip?
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"Evening all Betty x same to you and all too from C x" Im not the only one up at this mad hour then xx | |||
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"Evening all Betty x same to you and all too from C x Im not the only one up at this mad hour then xx" im up aye hes asleep im browsing forums and doing my colouring in in between x | |||
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"Evening all Betty x same to you and all too from C x Im not the only one up at this mad hour then xx im up aye hes asleep im browsing forums and doing my colouring in in between x" Boss is on nights and i slept late today as was up all night being a filth bag so now im wide awake.. same really browsing forums xx | |||
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" About 90% of couples on here have a bi-fem, I'm surprised you're finding it so difficult to find one. Cal" I agree with Cal. Sally | |||
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"We are looking for a couple / bi female but not having much luck. Is it really that hard on here to find what you're looking for ? It can't just be us. " We are also finding it hard in finding a bi female. | |||
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"Evening all Betty x same to you and all too from C x Im not the only one up at this mad hour then xx im up aye hes asleep im browsing forums and doing my colouring in in between x Filth bag hehe nowt wrong with that i love forums tbh x have you been on fab long i made our account 3 weeks ago x Boss is on nights and i slept late today as was up all night being a filth bag so now im wide awake.. same really browsing forums xx" | |||
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"Evening all Betty x same to you and all too from C x Im not the only one up at this mad hour then xx im up aye hes asleep im browsing forums and doing my colouring in in between x Boss is on nights and i slept late today as was up all night being a filth bag so now im wide awake.. same really browsing forums xx" Filth bag hehe nowt wrong with that i love forums tbh x have you been on fab long i made our account 3 weeks ago x | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 16/04/17 00:36:04]" We was on here before as 2 singles..ive been on here since last year and boss been on here forever! We met at a club.. the rest is history! How u finding it? Xx | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 16/04/17 00:36:04] We was on here before as 2 singles..ive been on here since last year and boss been on here forever! We met at a club.. the rest is history! How u finding it? Xx" i like the site i use the account mainly but G does have a look from time to time x what about you ? X | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 16/04/17 00:36:04] We was on here before as 2 singles..ive been on here since last year and boss been on here forever! We met at a club.. the rest is history! How u finding it? Xx i like the site i use the account mainly but G does have a look from time to time x what about you ? X" Good, yup we love it although not having much luck as a couple so far but we had plenty as singles.. still early days however.. theres no rush as were not lacking anything.. boss is on here as much as me he loves a forum thread too xx | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 16/04/17 00:36:04] We was on here before as 2 singles..ive been on here since last year and boss been on here forever! We met at a club.. the rest is history! How u finding it? Xx i like the site i use the account mainly but G does have a look from time to time x what about you ? X Good, yup we love it although not having much luck as a couple so far but we had plenty as singles.. still early days however.. theres no rush as were not lacking anything.. boss is on here as much as me he loves a forum thread too xx" im surprised tbh you have a good profile and good pics x we havnt either had any luck but no rush either. We have spoken to some nice chatty couples just in general like x had quite a few fakes message us but fakes plague the internet lol x | |||
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"We struggle as I am straight lol Many couples seek bi fem couples lts tough getting attraction for most couples i think. Miss" Just stick at it a guess, we certainly aren't giving up | |||
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"We have had the same problems and of coarse people sending find invites to see our pictures. If their are interested they won't mind waiting until we have talked for a while x" Ah , and there it is again , the old ' talked for a while ' thing ! There are loads of bi fem couples on here who are actually here to meet up . Exchange pics , have a chat , establish compatibility ( only needs a couple of messages ) and meet . No pressure to play at all , but face to face and see what happens . If you keep playing email ping pong the initial attraction wanes , one side or the either think ' why don't we just meet and get in with it ' and you end up saying you can't find people to meet up with . We rarely exchange more than half a dozen messages before meeting up . And any time we have exchanged more than that , it doesn't happen . Mainly because by then we've found another meet , and are too busy meeting them to be wasting time messaging wannabes and dreamers . | |||
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"We have had the same problems and of coarse people sending find invites to see our pictures. If their are interested they won't mind waiting until we have talked for a while x Ah , and there it is again , the old ' talked for a while ' thing ! There are loads of bi fem couples on here who are actually here to meet up . Exchange pics , have a chat , establish compatibility ( only needs a couple of messages ) and meet . No pressure to play at all , but face to face and see what happens . If you keep playing email ping pong the initial attraction wanes , one side or the either think ' why don't we just meet and get in with it ' and you end up saying you can't find people to meet up with . We rarely exchange more than half a dozen messages before meeting up . And any time we have exchanged more than that , it doesn't happen . Mainly because by then we've found another meet , and are too busy meeting them to be wasting time messaging wannabes and dreamers . " I'm glad it works for you but everyone has a different approach. Maybe we are looking for a long term friendship as opposed to one off meets | |||
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"We have had the same problems and of coarse people sending find invites to see our pictures. If their are interested they won't mind waiting until we have talked for a while x Ah , and there it is again , the old ' talked for a while ' thing ! There are loads of bi fem couples on here who are actually here to meet up . Exchange pics , have a chat , establish compatibility ( only needs a couple of messages ) and meet . No pressure to play at all , but face to face and see what happens . If you keep playing email ping pong the initial attraction wanes , one side or the either think ' why don't we just meet and get in with it ' and you end up saying you can't find people to meet up with . We rarely exchange more than half a dozen messages before meeting up . And any time we have exchanged more than that , it doesn't happen . Mainly because by then we've found another meet , and are too busy meeting them to be wasting time messaging wannabes and dreamers . I'm glad it works for you but everyone has a different approach. Maybe we are looking for a long term friendship as opposed to one off meets" How are you going to know if it will lead to long term friendship if you don't meet ? We have plenty of couples and singles that we still see after years of knowing them from a first meet . The main point I'm making is that too much messaging before making the meet doesn't do much other than waste time and effort . It also feeds the fakes and dreamers . | |||
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"We have had the same problems and of coarse people sending find invites to see our pictures. If their are interested they won't mind waiting until we have talked for a while x Ah , and there it is again , the old ' talked for a while ' thing ! There are loads of bi fem couples on here who are actually here to meet up . Exchange pics , have a chat , establish compatibility ( only needs a couple of messages ) and meet . No pressure to play at all , but face to face and see what happens . If you keep playing email ping pong the initial attraction wanes , one side or the either think ' why don't we just meet and get in with it ' and you end up saying you can't find people to meet up with . We rarely exchange more than half a dozen messages before meeting up . And any time we have exchanged more than that , it doesn't happen . Mainly because by then we've found another meet , and are too busy meeting them to be wasting time messaging wannabes and dreamers . I'm glad it works for you but everyone has a different approach. Maybe we are looking for a long term friendship as opposed to one off meets How are you going to know if it will lead to long term friendship if you don't meet ? We have plenty of couples and singles that we still see after years of knowing them from a first meet . The main point I'm making is that too much messaging before making the meet doesn't do much other than waste time and effort . It also feeds the fakes and dreamers ." Thanks for the advice | |||
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"We exist! Ruby" I know what we are looking for is out there it's just hard to find | |||
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