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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

So after six years of swinging , we figured it was time to be absolutely honest with our profile . It's not that we haven't been honest in the past , far from it , but of late we figured we would point out some of the negatives about us too .

So what do you lot think ?

Is honesty the best policy ?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Some will say it reads a little negatively but personally I think it works and gets across nicely both who you both are and what your expectations are without coming on too heavy. If people don't like it then they'll move on, but am sure it will work for a lot of people, especially those that know and respect you from your posts on the forums

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I like it. It's straight to the point and unless they haven't read your profile I don't think you'll get many messages from people who aren't on your wavelength

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

Very much a Ronseal profile...

clear and specific, with a dash of humour to lift it above the usual demanding profile.

It works in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after six years of swinging , we figured it was time to be absolutely honest with our profile . It's not that we haven't been honest in the past , far from it , but of late we figured we would point out some of the negatives about us too .

So what do you lot think ?

Is honesty the best policy ?

"

Nailed it I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As part of a couple that has met you both so many times I absolutely love this so you honest and upfront and purely doing this for the fithy fun what it's all about for me!!!!! Xx

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"As part of a couple that has met you both so many times I absolutely love this so you honest and upfront and purely doing this for the fithy fun what it's all about for me!!!!! Xx "

I'm guessing that's the female half writing , and assuming I'm right , that's praise indeed !

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Seems it's all good then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can read between the lines.

You want to exchange numbers and arrange a purely social meet in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So where do I stand on the Happy Meal?

you guys mwah

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

I was told by fabbers my profile was to blunt if not rude.Added a little bit of humour and now got the thumbs up.

Still ain't got any Tom Hardy / Leigh Halfpenny look alikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after six years of swinging , we figured it was time to be absolutely honest with our profile . It's not that we haven't been honest in the past , far from it , but of late we figured we would point out some of the negatives about us too .

So what do you lot think ?

Is honesty the best policy ?

"

Whatever works for you but do you honestly think everyone that looks will read it?

Having got the jist, I gave up somewhere near the middle ...

What I got from it was you're selfish and your good lady is a giver?

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood


"So after six years of swinging , we figured it was time to be absolutely honest with our profile . It's not that we haven't been honest in the past , far from it , but of late we figured we would point out some of the negatives about us too .

So what do you lot think ?

Is honesty the best policy ?

Whatever works for you but do you honestly think everyone that looks will read it?

Having got the jist, I gave up somewhere near the middle ...

What I got from it was you're selfish and your good lady is a giver? "

ME TO...Bet you had writers cramp after it

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"So after six years of swinging , we figured it was time to be absolutely honest with our profile . It's not that we haven't been honest in the past , far from it , but of late we figured we would point out some of the negatives about us too .

So what do you lot think ?

Is honesty the best policy ?

Whatever works for you but do you honestly think everyone that looks will read it?

Having got the jist, I gave up somewhere near the middle ...

What I got from it was you're selfish and your good lady is a giver? "

Spot on

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"So after six years of swinging , we figured it was time to be absolutely honest with our profile . It's not that we haven't been honest in the past , far from it , but of late we figured we would point out some of the negatives about us too .

So what do you lot think ?

Is honesty the best policy ?

Whatever works for you but do you honestly think everyone that looks will read it?

Having got the jist, I gave up somewhere near the middle ...

What I got from it was you're selfish and your good lady is a giver?

ME TO...Bet you had writers cramp after it "

Lol .... Of course we know that people don't read profiles , but on the off chance that they do , at least they will know what they are getting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after six years of swinging , we figured it was time to be absolutely honest with our profile . It's not that we haven't been honest in the past , far from it , but of late we figured we would point out some of the negatives about us too .

So what do you lot think ?

Is honesty the best policy ?

Whatever works for you but do you honestly think everyone that looks will read it?

Having got the jist, I gave up somewhere near the middle ...

What I got from it was you're selfish and your good lady is a giver?

ME TO...Bet you had writers cramp after it

Lol .... Of course we know that people don't read profiles , but on the off chance that they do , at least they will know what they are getting "

There was something to read? I just stuck on the pictures

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By *ournemouthbusinessguyMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

loved it, fed up with profiles where its all smoke. tell it how it is and you get what you want.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Love it!

If only I were closer to fucking Gloucester!!

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

What a great profile!

Love it . It made me laugh out loud with its bluntness.

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Love it!

If only I were closer to fucking Gloucester!! "

Oh one day , one day ....

Hopefully we can change that bit in yours where you say you don't play with couples any more

Although , being the lazy , selfish sod that I am , that wouldn't be strictly true

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover


"Love it!

If only I were closer to fucking Gloucester!! "

Gloucester ...how do you think we feel..lol.. S & j , if you fancy an all over tan then its a simple as easyjet..enjoy fab..we do..

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Love it!

If only I were closer to fucking Gloucester!!

Gloucester ...how do you think we feel..lol.. S & j , if you fancy an all over tan then its a simple as easyjet..enjoy fab..we do.. "

Must be a nightmare finding meets way out in Corfu , but we love getting up to all sorts of shenanigans is vanilla pubs and clubs too , so perhaps that would work ?

We love fab and would love to get about a bit more than we do , but with a child it's not easy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your profile OP, i'm very much a ronseal person myself so I appreciate straightforward people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after six years of swinging , we figured it was time to be absolutely honest with our profile . It's not that we haven't been honest in the past , far from it , but of late we figured we would point out some of the negatives about us too .

So what do you lot think ?

Is honesty the best policy ?

"

Love it but have always liked and appreciated your profile, quietly

Honesty is the best policy

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Love it!

If only I were closer to fucking Gloucester!!

Oh one day , one day ....

Hopefully we can change that bit in yours where you say you don't play with couples any more

Although , being the lazy , selfish sod that I am , that wouldn't be strictly true "

There are always exceptions to all rules

Besides who said you were joining in anyway - was just gonna leave you to watch me n S (am determined to make her blummin eyeliner run!!

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Love it!

If only I were closer to fucking Gloucester!!

Oh one day , one day ....

Hopefully we can change that bit in yours where you say you don't play with couples any more

Although , being the lazy , selfish sod that I am , that wouldn't be strictly true

There are always exceptions to all rules

Besides who said you were joining in anyway - was just gonna leave you to watch me n S (am determined to make her blummin eyeliner run!! "

Sounds perfect

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"So after six years of swinging , we figured it was time to be absolutely honest with our profile . It's not that we haven't been honest in the past , far from it , but of late we figured we would point out some of the negatives about us too .

So what do you lot think ?

Is honesty the best policy ?

"

I don't normally read long profiles, but was inquisitive. Like it very much, clear , concise and honest!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I really like it OP. I'm not really one to blow smoke up anyone's orifice and certainly not yours but I think it's straightforward and wonderfully honest. I hope it's read!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after six years of swinging , we figured it was time to be absolutely honest with our profile . It's not that we haven't been honest in the past , far from it , but of late we figured we would point out some of the negatives about us too .

So what do you lot think ?

Is honesty the best policy ?

"

I thinks it's very refreshing and honest

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"So where do I stand on the Happy Meal?

you guys mwah"

The happy meal offer is still very much on

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"So after six years of swinging , we figured it was time to be absolutely honest with our profile . It's not that we haven't been honest in the past , far from it , but of late we figured we would point out some of the negatives about us too .

So what do you lot think ?

Is honesty the best policy ?

"

I like your profile.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Honesty is definitely the best policy,why be otherwise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just read it.

It's good because it does what profiles should do and that is polarise who you DON'T want.

You'll repel a lot but attract the right ones.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

As long as you are both happy with your profile, and says what you want it to say, why worry about the opinions of others?

Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like it because it says not for us clearly and with no ambiguity. We like the natter and friends side of swing too and profiles that really say what people want make it simple and straightforward.

So, sort of a positive, no

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"As long as you are both happy with your profile, and says what you want it to say, why worry about the opinions of others?

Enjoy!"

Oh we do enjoy , but like anyone , it's good to know how we are perceived by others from our profile .

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Super profile. A fab lady and I totally empathise with the guy. Wishing you many brilliant meets.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think you've got a great profile - I feel as if I'm really clear what you're both about and looking for. And also the message and meet needs.

If you see the forum post from someone about long profiles today, it speaks volumes about why we have to make profiles really clear and detailed - and often to deter the unsuitable. It may mean they are a little longer than others but better that than petrol costs etc wasted meeting the wasters.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Straight forward. Like it but you know I'm a fan

Time I took my profile apart for a rewrite too

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Mine is honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's a well written profile, thumbs up from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it, and ye too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest profiles are the only way to go. I don't trust anyone without a realistic profile that tells the truth and doesn't just brag.

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Honest profiles are the only way to go. I don't trust anyone without a realistic profile that tells the truth and doesn't just brag."

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Well it's been a real surprise to see so many positive comments about our profile .

Since rewriting it we have had lots of messages from new people too , so it was well worth doing .

It's obvious now what to expect from meeting us , and rather than close any doors , it's opened more which I didn't expect .

Thanks to everyone who commented

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


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Is honesty the best policy ?

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I think mystery is dishy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't going to satisfy anyone unless they like watching a guy wank"

Refreshingly honest

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester


""Isn't going to satisfy anyone unless they like watching a guy wank"

Refreshingly honest "

Well I figured that no one could say afterwards that I hadn't been up front about my desires , and my completely selfish attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the profile - it's clear, to the point and would cause me to wish to meet you rather than put me off. Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very good

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