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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And you think, the jammy sod

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"And you think, the jammy sod

a little bit of me dies......

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"And you think, the jammy sod

You may be her next verification though so don't dispair!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I think 'stuffy fucker' is the term

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I think i need to get my ass in gear and sort something with them

Boo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this more about the women I have met who are good fucks.

I recently met someone from the Norwich area whilst over that way on business. The amount of single guys from the area who looked at me after she posted my veri was hysterical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And you think, the jammy sod

Let me get you a pint. Come and feel miserable with me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And you think, the jammy sod

Let me get you a pint. Come and feel miserable with me.

It's a bit early but what the hell

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I think this more about the women I have met who are good fucks.

I recently met someone from the Norwich area whilst over that way on business. The amount of single guys from the area who looked at me after she posted my veri was hysterical

I got some abuse after a veri....suck it up bitches

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think this more about the women I have met who are good fucks.

I recently met someone from the Norwich area whilst over that way on business. The amount of single guys from the area who looked at me after she posted my veri was hysterical

I got some abuse after a veri....suck it up bitches

Was it riddled with spelling mistakes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you see it's a ripped Adonis too. Bugger!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think this more about the women I have met who are good fucks.

I recently met someone from the Norwich area whilst over that way on business. The amount of single guys from the area who looked at me after she posted my veri was hysterical

I've had that with women, after verifying a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And you think, the jammy sod

Let me get you a pint. Come and feel miserable with me.

It's a bit early but what the hell

Are you after a pity fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think this more about the women I have met who are good fucks.

I recently met someone from the Norwich area whilst over that way on business. The amount of single guys from the area who looked at me after she posted my veri was hysterical

Ah yeah the post veri peak in views as traffic flows in from the ladies' account! Always amusing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And you think, the jammy sod

Let me get you a pint. Come and feel miserable with me.

It's a bit early but what the hell

Are you after a pity fuck?"

How very dare you........ well, if you're offering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love the post verification nasty messages you get from a fake account that once the jealous womans sent the message it goes unlos!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I just love the post verification nasty messages you get from a fake account that once the jealous womans sent the message it goes unlos!

Yup. Or the snide comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And you think, the jammy sod

Let me get you a pint. Come and feel miserable with me.

It's a bit early but what the hell

Are you after a pity fuck?"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's me know she's active

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I thing good for her. She's out having fun and enjoying herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all pretty silly.

I've had problems in the past. Men asking why I met so-n-so and not them?

Women bitching about you fucking "their man".

Lamppost pissing is absolutely ridiculous on a site like this.

See lots of this in the forums too, marking of territory. It's pathetic really.

It can be a little disheartening but just suck it up

I no longer display my veri's to avoid issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When ever have a meet from a chosen single guy we get an influx of women who have looked at us lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think this more about the women I have met who are good fucks.

I recently met someone from the Norwich area whilst over that way on business. The amount of single guys from the area who looked at me after she posted my veri was hysterical

Lol I get this everytime too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just love the post verification nasty messages you get from a fake account that once the jealous womans sent the message it goes unlos!

Yup. Or the snide comments

Gotta love em.. its like alright crazy lady i just shagged him we arent getting married or anything..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just love the post verification nasty messages you get from a fake account that once the jealous womans sent the message it goes unlos!

Yup. Or the snide comments

Gotta love em.. its like alright crazy lady i just shagged him we arent getting married or anything..

You gotta love verifications.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"And you think, the jammy sod

Let me get you a pint. Come and feel miserable with me.

It's a bit early but what the hell

Are you after a pity fuck?"

Did you just say _lacksausage? If you did, that's my name. I am here!!!!!! Weapons free.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"And you see it's a ripped Adonis too. Bugger!!

At least I then realise why I have been spurned!

I'm more an unripped Silenus...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just love the post verification nasty messages you get from a fake account that once the jealous womans sent the message it goes unlos!

Yup. Or the snide comments

Gotta love em.. its like alright crazy lady i just shagged him we arent getting married or anything..

I like reading veris some make me laugh

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I just love the post verification nasty messages you get from a fake account that once the jealous womans sent the message it goes unlos!

Yup. Or the snide comments

Gotta love em.. its like alright crazy lady i just shagged him we arent getting married or anything..

Well no, not if they already have a wife. I want to suck his dick not wash his socks

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I always sneak a peek at my friends veris then look at the person it's from. Not for any malicious reasons, just cos I'm nosy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just love the post verification nasty messages you get from a fake account that once the jealous womans sent the message it goes unlos!

Yup. Or the snide comments

Gotta love em.. its like alright crazy lady i just shagged him we arent getting married or anything..

Well no, not if they already have a wife. I want to suck his dick not wash his socks

You sod i nearly ch*ked on my drink then!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had rants and bitching from guys when we get a new veri. Especially if we have refused them before.

"Oh, see I'm not good enough for you but my friend with a bigger cock is???"

Etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have had rants and bitching from guys when we get a new veri. Especially if we have refused them before.

"Oh, see I'm not good enough for you but my friend with a bigger cock is???"

Etc etc.

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yep know that too well.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I just love the post verification nasty messages you get from a fake account that once the jealous womans sent the message it goes unlos!

Yup. Or the snide comments

Gotta love em.. its like alright crazy lady i just shagged him we arent getting married or anything..

Well no, not if they already have a wife. I want to suck his dick not wash his socks

You sod i nearly ch*ked on my drink then!! "

Come on, sort your reflex out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have had rants and bitching from guys when we get a new veri. Especially if we have refused them before.

"Oh, see I'm not good enough for you but my friend with a bigger cock is???"

Etc etc.

That is just sad to send a message like that

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"We have had rants and bitching from guys when we get a new veri. Especially if we have refused them before.

"Oh, see I'm not good enough for you but my friend with a bigger cock is???"

Etc etc.

yep know that too well."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have had rants and bitching from guys when we get a new veri. Especially if we have refused them before.

"Oh, see I'm not good enough for you but my friend with a bigger cock is???"

Etc etc.

yep know that too well.

Well, aside the cock reference, I can see the point as in someone you are 'friends' with seems to give you the slip all the time without actually making the effort to make a counter offer. But then the veris keep streaming in. I for one will not be snotty and cry about it. Just read in between the lines and move on. "
some seem to think cos you are "friends" then you should meet them and get upset if you meet someone else. It's a choice at the end of the day. Like you they should just get on with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think this more about the women I have met who are good fucks.

I recently met someone from the Norwich area whilst over that way on business. The amount of single guys from the area who looked at me after she posted my veri was hysterical

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it happens alot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got perved by loads of welsh couples after meeting a gentleman last year who is active at Clubs and such.

I thought "this is what fame feels like" and i hid my profile till it had all calmed down

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Well, each to their own. I prefer huge heavy boobs(slightly off topic). Couldn't resist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had lots of "I thought you weren't meeting" comments this week.

PTU XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got perved by loads of welsh couples after meeting a gentleman last year who is active at Clubs and such.

I thought "this is what fame feels like" and i hid my profile till it had all calmed down

I never look at 'who's viewed me'. It pointless.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I like to have a nosey at the veris left for those in interested and will visit who left it to see what both parties said.

I've only felt a bit

once and that was when a meet was able to make arrangengements elsewhere when I'd had to cancel. Definite envy over what I'd missed out on

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We think it's great as they are clearly active , and we may not be wasting our time pursuing a meet with them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have had rants and bitching from guys when we get a new veri. Especially if we have refused them before.

"Oh, see I'm not good enough for you but my friend with a bigger cock is???"

Etc etc.

Oh my god, I'm actually shocked by that!... what is wrong with people when they bother to waste their time to be deliberately and unjustly abusive, when it actually is none of their concern whatsoever!

In response to the original Q: I would be lying if I didn't admit I wish it was me doing the verification, however I'm intelligent and respectful enough to work out that basically that person was of the right circumstance at that time (location, perfect match, message at right time, etc. etc. etc.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I got perved by loads of welsh couples after meeting a gentleman last year who is active at Clubs and such.

I thought "this is what fame feels like" and i hid my profile till it had all calmed down

I never look at 'who's viewed me'. It pointless. "

I've just viewed you, oh your profile you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got perved by loads of welsh couples after meeting a gentleman last year who is active at Clubs and such.

I thought "this is what fame feels like" and i hid my profile till it had all calmed down

I never look at 'who's viewed me'. It pointless. "

I do, it's a good way of spotting men that might otherwise have escaped my perving. If i like the look of them, i message them too

But usually they live too far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And you think, the jammy sod

Let me get you a pint. Come and feel miserable with me.

It's a bit early but what the hell

Are you after a pity fuck?

Yes. "

I'll take the two of you on together

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've had lots of "I thought you weren't meeting" comments this week.

PTU XXX "

Yeah I had someone go mental at me before...

"you said you had no spare time"

"Darling, I said I had no spare time for you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thing good for her. She's out having fun and enjoying herself. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got perved by loads of welsh couples after meeting a gentleman last year who is active at Clubs and such.

I thought "this is what fame feels like" and i hid my profile till it had all calmed down

I never look at 'who's viewed me'. It pointless. "

It pointless as most view in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look and think hang on what was wrong with me when i messaged and you just deleted lol. Story of my fab life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got perved by loads of welsh couples after meeting a gentleman last year who is active at Clubs and such.

I thought "this is what fame feels like" and i hid my profile till it had all calmed down

I never look at 'who's viewed me'. It pointless.

I've just viewed you, oh your profile you mean

Was that you at my window?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guilty of this. It's the nature of the site though. You may well be chatting with a view to meet and yet the diaries never sync. Then an impromptu club visit or meet with someone familiar can generate veri's. As the above said - suck it up buttercup.

If that irks you then you may be better off on POF. Apparently sex is easier to get there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And you think, the jammy sod

Let me get you a pint. Come and feel miserable with me.

It's a bit early but what the hell

Are you after a pity fuck?

Yes.

I'll take the two of you on together

I think that when I see women's chests.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I got perved by loads of welsh couples after meeting a gentleman last year who is active at Clubs and such.

I thought "this is what fame feels like" and i hid my profile till it had all calmed down

I never look at 'who's viewed me'. It pointless.

I've just viewed you, oh your profile you mean

Was that you at my window?

I was just having a peek, I've not had my fill of chests this week

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm guilty of this. It's the nature of the site though. You may well be chatting with a view to meet and yet the diaries never sync. Then an impromptu club visit or meet with someone familiar can generate veri's. As the above said - suck it up buttercup.

If that irks you then you may be better off on POF. Apparently sex is easier to get there

This was a generalisation post and nothing from personal experiences, love the comments though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had lots of "I thought you weren't meeting" comments this week.

PTU XXX

Yeah I had someone go mental at me before...

"you said you had no spare time"

"Darling, I said I had no spare time for you"

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Oh your far to polite. I just delete them.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is exactly what I HATE about this site.

Meet one person someone doesn't like and you pay for it.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've had lots of "I thought you weren't meeting" comments this week.

PTU XXX

Yeah I had someone go mental at me before...

"you said you had no spare time"

"Darling, I said I had no spare time for you"

Oh your far to polite. I just delete them.

xxx"

They don't like being called darling though. Apparently I'm petulant and a bit of a cunt

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"This thread is exactly what I HATE about this site.

Meet one person someone doesn't like and you pay for it."

Ah well...fuck 'em

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

There is always next time while she is still on here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is exactly what I HATE about this site.

Meet one person someone doesn't like and you pay for it.

Ah well...fuck 'em

But how? That don't want to anymore because of his last veri

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"This thread is exactly what I HATE about this site.

Meet one person someone doesn't like and you pay for it."

This can often be the case , but we figured that if that kind of attitude is prevalent in someone , no matter how hot they are - we don't want to meet them !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that irks you then you may be better off on POF. Apparently sex is easier to get there

This was a generalisation post and nothing from personal experiences, love the comments though

I got that - just my take on it as I've never looked at a woman's veri's and wished it was me

It's an interesting topic. I'm not the greatest fan of the Trip Advisor-esque veri system on the whole. I do love to read them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications always lead to me getting lots of views from women, not sure they are thinking jammy sod though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide my veris apart from socials. They always seem to cause drama and here is about fun not drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is exactly what I HATE about this site.

Meet one person someone doesn't like and you pay for it.

Ah well...fuck 'em

But how? That don't want to anymore because of his last veri

That isn't my last veri.

Been there done that and it's not worth the hassle, a friend of mine had to delete herself from this site a few weeks back because somebody who posts on here is actively trying to ruin her life.

They are fucking staying OFF aswell, if someone wants to see them who wants to meet I'll switch them on.

I've been on and off this site for nearly 4 years I know how it works and how vindictive it can get believe me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is exactly what I HATE about this site.

Meet one person someone doesn't like and you pay for it.

This can often be the case , but we figured that if that kind of attitude is prevalent in someone , no matter how hot they are - we don't want to meet them !"

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I get loads of messages after I post a veri asking all sorts of questions and some abuse...what's all that about!...mentalists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's all pretty silly.

I've had problems in the past. Men asking why I met so-n-so and not them?

Women bitching about you fucking "their man".

Lamppost pissing is absolutely ridiculous on a site like this.

See lots of this in the forums too, marking of territory. It's pathetic really.

It can be a little disheartening but just suck it up

I no longer display my veri's to avoid issues. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide my veris apart from socials. They always seem to cause drama and here is about fun not drama. "

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"This thread is exactly what I HATE about this site.

Meet one person someone doesn't like and you pay for it."

Even worse when it's someone they do like - my phrase of the day is 'Suck it up buttercup!!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh we're only here for a bit of fun. Why all the drama!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is exactly what I HATE about this site.

Meet one person someone doesn't like and you pay for it.

Ah well...fuck 'em

But how? That don't want to anymore because of his last veri

That isn't my last veri.

Been there done that and it's not worth the hassle, a friend of mine had to delete herself from this site a few weeks back because somebody who posts on here is actively trying to ruin her life.

They are fucking staying OFF aswell, if someone wants to see them who wants to meet I'll switch them on.

I've been on and off this site for nearly 4 years I know how it works and how vindictive it can get believe me."

I was kidding around.

But if you've met someone you like. Do you give a damn what someone else thinks, if they don't approve?

My point is, they can't possibly be anyone you'd want to associate with anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is exactly what I HATE about this site.

Meet one person someone doesn't like and you pay for it.

Ah well...fuck 'em

But how? That don't want to anymore because of his last veri

That isn't my last veri.

Been there done that and it's not worth the hassle, a friend of mine had to delete herself from this site a few weeks back because somebody who posts on here is actively trying to ruin her life.

They are fucking staying OFF aswell, if someone wants to see them who wants to meet I'll switch them on.

I've been on and off this site for nearly 4 years I know how it works and how vindictive it can get believe me."

This friend. Were they are a regular forum poster?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just love the post verification nasty messages you get from a fake account that once the jealous womans sent the message it goes unlos!

Yup. Or the snide comments

Gotta love em.. its like alright crazy lady i just shagged him we arent getting married or anything..

Well no, not if they already have a wife. I want to suck his dick not wash his socks

You sod i nearly ch*ked on my drink then!!

Come on, sort your reflex out

Its been out of action for a bit... oh i forgot the other one.. when crazy mares stalk who you talk to on the forums and send the guys messages... people be crazy!!!!!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I just love the post verification nasty messages you get from a fake account that once the jealous womans sent the message it goes unlos!

Yup. Or the snide comments

Gotta love em.. its like alright crazy lady i just shagged him we arent getting married or anything..

Well no, not if they already have a wife. I want to suck his dick not wash his socks

You sod i nearly ch*ked on my drink then!!

Come on, sort your reflex out

Its been out of action for a bit... oh i forgot the other one.. when crazy mares stalk who you talk to on the forums and send the guys messages... people be crazy!!!!!"

Yup, had that one too...weirdos

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"I've had lots of "I thought you weren't meeting" comments this week.

PTU XXX

Yeah I had someone go mental at me before...

"you said you had no spare time"

"Darling, I said I had no spare time for you"

I've had this recently

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I think this more about the women I have met who are good fucks.

I recently met someone from the Norwich area whilst over that way on business. The amount of single guys from the area who looked at me after she posted my veri was hysterical.

A friend of mine returned here recently and I verified her. Suddenly every blole in the locality is on my "looked at me" page...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will take a pity fuck if its going spare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will take a pity fuck if its going spare."

Any fuck if one is going spare will do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think this more about the women I have met who are good fucks.

I recently met someone from the Norwich area whilst over that way on business. The amount of single guys from the area who looked at me after she posted my veri was hysterical

Ah yeah the post veri peak in views as traffic flows in from the ladies' account! Always amusing! "

I've had to hide mine, then there's the fanny blocking messages that get passed round.....oh my and I thought it was a swingers site.

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over a year ago

"I think this more about the women I have met who are good fucks.

I recently met someone from the Norwich area whilst over that way on business. The amount of single guys from the area who looked at me after she posted my veri was hysterical

Ah yeah the post veri peak in views as traffic flows in from the ladies' account! Always amusing!

I've had to hide mine, then there's the fanny blocking messages that get passed round.....oh my and I thought it was a swingers site.

What is a fan you blocking message? (Sorry, fairly new to all this, so please explain)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find men compare themselves to my veris and either point out how they are the same or "better" than those people in an attempt to win me over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications always lead to me getting lots of views from women, not sure they are thinking jammy sod though!"

I've found its mostly jealousy. ..( especially if you turned then down) they want to see who was fucking who and then the blocking happens, either directly of by in group messaging and suddenly you're out in the cold.

Mine stay hidden unless someone wants to see, if they insist on seeing then I know it'll most likely result in a no meet for their reason on insistence is more about who I met rather than they wanting to meet me and getting a better idea what others think.

I don't collect veris but I'll give them.

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over a year ago

"I think this more about the women I have met who are good fucks.

I recently met someone from the Norwich area whilst over that way on business. The amount of single guys from the area who looked at me after she posted my veri was hysterical

Ah yeah the post veri peak in views as traffic flows in from the ladies' account! Always amusing!

I've had to hide mine, then there's the fanny blocking messages that get passed round.....oh my and I thought it was a swingers site.

What is a fan you blocking message? (Sorry, fairly new to all this, so please explain)"

*what is fanny blocking?

(I sometimes hate autocorrect)

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over a year ago

"I think this more about the women I have met who are good fucks.

I recently met someone from the Norwich area whilst over that way on business. The amount of single guys from the area who looked at me after she posted my veri was hysterical

Ah yeah the post veri peak in views as traffic flows in from the ladies' account! Always amusing!

I've had to hide mine, then there's the fanny blocking messages that get passed round.....oh my and I thought it was a swingers site.

What is a fan you blocking message? (Sorry, fairly new to all this, so please explain)"

When some female doesn't like you for whatever reason... be it you turned them down, you disagreed with them on the forum or you've met one of their competitors plus other reasons, but then messages get passed around, often by kik ( if done on here they can get caught out) telling others to avoid for whatever reason. Cockblocking is the same thing but when women do the same towards another woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think this more about the women I have met who are good fucks.

I recently met someone from the Norwich area whilst over that way on business. The amount of single guys from the area who looked at me after she posted my veri was hysterical

Ah yeah the post veri peak in views as traffic flows in from the ladies' account! Always amusing!

I've had to hide mine, then there's the fanny blocking messages that get passed round.....oh my and I thought it was a swingers site.

What is a fan you blocking message? (Sorry, fairly new to all this, so please explain)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All our veris are hidden for the privacy of all involved. We only ask for the veris to show we are active and not just time wasters. We do get the "who did you meet" "what's their username" lol. I don't kiss n tell. I suck n fuck

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over a year ago

"It's all pretty silly.

I've had problems in the past. Men asking why I met so-n-so and not them?

Women bitching about you fucking "their man".

Lamppost pissing is absolutely ridiculous on a site like this.

See lots of this in the forums too, marking of territory. It's pathetic really.

It can be a little disheartening but just suck it up

I no longer display my veri's to avoid issues. "

It's amusing though, especially when they start telling guys not to chat to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And you think, the jammy sod

a little bit of me dies......

Haha, I was gonna say that

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Reading this thread makes me realise I have been extremely lucky with my verifications. No nastiness, no fanny or cock blocking (to my knowledge) and other than someone using a previous meet's veri list as his own personal to do list (his logic was that they had similar tastes in women and we couldn't possibly talk to each other to find out he'd sent identical messages to us all) I haven't had issues displaying any of them. Apart from one that was obviously a joke but I hid because people gave the guy grief for being mean. It was a shame, I thought it was hilarious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read friends veris. But that's because i'm a total perv

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I think this more about the women I have met who are good fucks.

I recently met someone from the Norwich area whilst over that way on business. The amount of single guys from the area who looked at me after she posted my veri was hysterical

That sounds like a good experiment to work on. Start with Grantham

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I have mine on show and, so far, have had no bitchiness.

But I have women and couples blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I joined the first time around I met someone who obviously was messing a lady around.

After I posted a verification on his profile, she messaged me asking all kind of personal questions about him. One of which was "did he kiss you?". I don't know why I bothered replying but I did and told her yes we did. She went mental! She then went on to tell me how he claimed, he didn't kiss any of his meets.

So much grief over a kiss! Actually over a meet that wasn't even worth it. He turned stalker towards me because I didn't want to meet him again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell, this thread is eye opening. Don't think we've ever experienced anything like this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have mine on show and, so far, have had no bitchiness.

But I have women and couples blocked

Me too! Peaceful life now huh? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We post our veris and don't give a crap if it upsets anyone, or anyone is pissed/jealous/won't meet us, because of them, childish behaviour and not really swingers are they?

We perve our friends veris as it may unearth some nice people, swinging is about networking and having fun with other people, no place for jealousy or bitterness

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I think this more about the women I have met who are good fucks.

I recently met someone from the Norwich area whilst over that way on business. The amount of single guys from the area who looked at me after she posted my veri was hysterical

I got some abuse after a veri....suck it up bitches

Me too. Im a timewaster and a c-bomb on the regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's all pretty silly.

I've had problems in the past. Men asking why I met so-n-so and not them?

Women bitching about you fucking "their man".

Lamppost pissing is absolutely ridiculous on a site like this.

See lots of this in the forums too, marking of territory. It's pathetic really.

It can be a little disheartening but just suck it up

I no longer display my veri's to avoid issues. "

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over a year ago

"I think this more about the women I have met who are good fucks.

I recently met someone from the Norwich area whilst over that way on business. The amount of single guys from the area who looked at me after she posted my veri was hysterical

I've had that with women, after verifying a man. "
I always have a look at the woman that have verified someone I want to meet. .I'm just nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a complete stranger (male) kick off about a veri once.

Deleted and blocked.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Why don't people ever get that you have no time as you've filled it with an arrangement already. Dumbos!

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

I think oh well and move on. Why invest interest in someone that will not meet you.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I think oh well and move on. Why invest interest in someone that will not meet you.

This is the thing though. They dont neccesarily not want to meet you but they are only one person that can be in one place at once at the end of the day xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Some tandom guy i never spoke to came on the forums kicking of about one of my verifications. He didnt know i used the forums

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Some tandom guy i never spoke to came on the forums kicking of about one of my verifications. He didnt know i used the forums

That happened to me too. But the good forumites kicked him into UNLOS.

Thanks you awesome bastards xx

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Why don't people ever get that you have no time as you've filled it with an arrangement already. Dumbos!"

Yep, we have limited time & probably only meet/club once or twice a month, a few plans coming together now so if we meet them & do a club night we are well into June for any others.

Just how it is, family come first.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Why don't people ever get that you have no time as you've filled it with an arrangement already. Dumbos!

Yep, we have limited time & probably only meet/club once or twice a month, a few plans coming together now so if we meet them & do a club night we are well into June for any others.

Just how it is, family come first.

100% agree hun x

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over a year ago

"I just love the post verification nasty messages you get from a fake account that once the jealous womans sent the message it goes unlos!

Yup. Or the snide comments

Gotta love em.. its like alright crazy lady i just shagged him we arent getting married or anything..

Well no, not if they already have a wife. I want to suck his dick not wash his socks

Love this

Totally agree

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Hmmm, didn't realise about the fanny blocking; might explain a few things recently....

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Oh god its happening right now. I want to swing for someone.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Just remember mate; you are but a single sperm, swimming among millions of others in a sample of ejaculate, desperately searching for that single egg. Swim mate, swim as fast as you can..................

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By *aaLaaWoman
over a year ago

Pontesbury

Either I'm desperately naive, or just lucky but I don't seem to have these problems.

I do like to look at people's veri's as it gives me a little insight into whether they're telling the truth in messages.

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over a year ago

"I just love the post verification nasty messages you get from a fake account that once the jealous womans sent the message it goes unlos!

Yup. Or the snide comments

Gotta love em.. its like alright crazy lady i just shagged him we arent getting married or anything..

Well no, not if they already have a wife. I want to suck his dick not wash his socks

Love this

Totally agree

Hahaha

Exactly!

I don't display veris anymore.

The snide remarks usually come from other women- I cant be arsed with drama!

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over a year ago

I've never had a problem with showing my veri's (not that I know of anyway).

I wonder if it's an age thing, I'm not seen of as a 'fanny threat' to other women, I don't get involved with silly mind games & no one pisses up my lampost.....

Or I could just be oblivious to it all

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've never had a problem with showing my veri's (not that I know of anyway).

I wonder if it's an age thing, I'm not seen of as a 'fanny threat' to other women, I don't get involved with silly mind games & no one pisses up my lampost.....

Or I could just be oblivious to it all

I've been wanting to piss on your lamp post for a while

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over a year ago

"I just love the post verification nasty messages you get from a fake account that once the jealous womans sent the message it goes unlos!

Yup. Or the snide comments

Gotta love em.. its like alright crazy lady i just shagged him we arent getting married or anything..

Well no, not if they already have a wife. I want to suck his dick not wash his socks

Love this

Totally agree

Hahaha

Exactly!

I don't display veris anymore.

The snide remarks usually come from other women- I cant be arsed with drama!

I stopped showing my veris when I realised people were spreading bullshit and they'd rather believe that. Oh well. Still love most of you guys

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over a year ago

"I just love the post verification nasty messages you get from a fake account that once the jealous womans sent the message it goes unlos!

Yup. Or the snide comments

Gotta love em.. its like alright crazy lady i just shagged him we arent getting married or anything..

Well no, not if they already have a wife. I want to suck his dick not wash his socks

I wash my own socks

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I've never had a problem with showing my veri's (not that I know of anyway).

I wonder if it's an age thing, I'm not seen of as a 'fanny threat' to other women, I don't get involved with silly mind games & no one pisses up my lampost.....

Or I could just be oblivious to it all

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im the same. Apart from the guy who started a thread ive never had any trouble all the while ive been here. Theyd soon get told to fuck off if they did

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over a year ago

"I just love the post verification nasty messages you get from a fake account that once the jealous womans sent the message it goes unlos!

Yup. Or the snide comments

Gotta love em.. its like alright crazy lady i just shagged him we arent getting married or anything..

Well no, not if they already have a wife. I want to suck his dick not wash his socks

Love this

Totally agree

Hahaha

Exactly!

I don't display veris anymore.

The snide remarks usually come from other women- I cant be arsed with drama!

I stopped showing my veris when I realised people were spreading bullshit and they'd rather believe that. Oh well. Still love most of you guys

On the flip side doesn't it act as a great filter?

If someone would rather believe a kik gossip group you wouldn't want to meet 'em anyway.

If someone messaged saying I shouldn't meet so & so I'd tell them get a life.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I've never had a problem with showing my veri's (not that I know of anyway).

I wonder if it's an age thing, I'm not seen of as a 'fanny threat' to other women, I don't get involved with silly mind games & no one pisses up my lampost.....

Or I could just be oblivious to it all

I think age/maturity comes into it a little, but geography is a big factor I'm sure. I'm from a pretty quiet part of the country, and the distance between lampposts here is quite large

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over a year ago

"I just love the post verification nasty messages you get from a fake account that once the jealous womans sent the message it goes unlos!

Yup. Or the snide comments

Gotta love em.. its like alright crazy lady i just shagged him we arent getting married or anything..

Well no, not if they already have a wife. I want to suck his dick not wash his socks

Love this

Totally agree

Hahaha

Exactly!

I don't display veris anymore.

The snide remarks usually come from other women- I cant be arsed with drama!

I stopped showing my veris when I realised people were spreading bullshit and they'd rather believe that. Oh well. Still love most of you guys

On the flip side doesn't it act as a great filter?

If someone would rather believe a kik gossip group you wouldn't want to meet 'em anyway.

If someone messaged saying I shouldn't meet so & so I'd tell them get a life."

Very true

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over a year ago

"I've never had a problem with showing my veri's (not that I know of anyway).

I wonder if it's an age thing, I'm not seen of as a 'fanny threat' to other women, I don't get involved with silly mind games & no one pisses up my lampost.....

Or I could just be oblivious to it all

I've been wanting to piss on your lamp post for a while

Just given me a very naughty image...

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over a year ago

I don't display veris anymore.

The snide remarks usually come from other women- I cant be arsed with drama!

I stopped showing my veris when I realised people were spreading bullshit and they'd rather believe that. Oh well. Still love most of you guys

Same. If however someone I'm meeting would like a look then I'll show them... ( maybe in bed

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

It makes me think well she meets so I mustbe still be in with a shot?

What about if you had planned to meet and they said nah because they had other things on..to only meet someone else. I know it's a bit different but I've seen that happen to a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just means there actively meeting, well that what's I think when guys display them.

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over a year ago

"I just love the post verification nasty messages you get from a fake account that once the jealous womans sent the message it goes unlos!

Yup. Or the snide comments

Gotta love em.. its like alright crazy lady i just shagged him we arent getting married or anything..

Well no, not if they already have a wife. I want to suck his dick not wash his socks

Love this

Totally agree

Hahaha

Exactly!

I don't display veris anymore.

The snide remarks usually come from other women- I cant be arsed with drama!

I stopped showing my veris when I realised people were spreading bullshit and they'd rather believe that. Oh well. Still love most of you guys

Are people really that fickle on here. Surely you should judge a person on a one to one level and wonder about that persons motives. Guess this site isn't all that fun then. Hope they see the light mate so long as you weren't being a knob

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