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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Just wondering what made you all join Fab in the first place and have you had much success on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I originally joined as a voyeur - wanting to watch others, couples really, having sex purely on a 'no participation' basis (hey don't judge - it's a kink of mine!)

And in that respect I've failed miserably.

Surprisingly though I started to get messages from ladies who actually wanted to meet me one on one. I'm not sure exactly how that happened but I'm not complaining and have had a blast during my time here (originally joined about two and a half years ago, UNLOSed but recently rejoined)

Gotta love Fab!

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I originally joined as a voyeur - wanting to watch others, couples really, having sex purely on a 'no participation' basis (hey don't judge - it's a kink of mine!)

And in that respect I've failed miserably.

Surprisingly though I started to get messages from ladies who actually wanted to meet me one on one. I'm not sure exactly how that happened but I'm not complaining and have had a blast during my time here (originally joined about two and a half years ago, UNLOSed but recently rejoined)

Gotta love Fab! "

Not judging at all i love to be watched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined to find a local, havent found one yet lol, now I am just using the forum, it is comedy gold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanted to enjoy the Mrs with another guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came here from another site. I've had some luck and have a couple of targets lined up

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Thanks guys shame none of you are local though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr told me about it as work colleagues use it and joined from that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined looking for a bit of fun when I moved to the UK. Had very little luck with that unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joint to find a local fwb, but the longer I spend on here the my kink I find in myself. A little success but nothing I would call rewarding yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was recommended here of some people on another site, but no luck yet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Success depends on what we wanted originally. And I never knew in the first place anyway, I joined out of curiosity. and here I stay.

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I've been on here as singles and couples staying as single from now on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what made you all join Fab in the first place and have you had much success on here?"

Joined for filthy sex with very open minded people, and to explore my own sexuality.

I've fucked couples, men, TVs and women.

I sucked cock and have been fucked by guys.

I've explored BDSM, Shibari, Sub/Dom, watersports, cuckolding and lord knows what else.

I've come to the conclusion that my bi side is dormant and the curiousity satiated. Although I do still have a fantasy of a load of guys cumming over me!

I enjoy Shibari and cuckolding probably most of all.

I met Littlebeaver through here, who is now my wife.

In conclusion, FAB has been a great success for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first joined Fab when another website I was a regular on -ratemyboobs- closed down and posted a link to fab.

Is there anyone on here who used to be on ratemyboobs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys shame none of you are local though "

It is a shame you're not local!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the fabulous intellect and humour of the members and still looking

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I first joined Fab when another website I was a regular on -ratemyboobs- closed down and posted a link to fab.

Is there anyone on here who used to be on ratemyboobs?

"

Not heard of that

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Thanks guys shame none of you are local though

It is a shame you're not local!"

Mmm isn't it just?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heard about it through a lady friend I swapped pics with, joined and had some success. Found a few regulars

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I was told this place was wall to wall clunge....... lying fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A just like the banter, getting the occasional jam roll is always a bonus fs

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Came out of a LTR. Was determined never to fall into the same trappings again. But missed the physical side of it and stumbled onto this while perousing the usual it's "free but oh no actually you have to pay" and the rest is history as they say

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By *anger69104Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Joined to have fun and games with sexy people. I love kinky play, but can also be non kinky. Can adapt my wishes and desires for other people.

No actual meets yet, but a couple of interesting contacts recently that I hope become meets.

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

I joined because my sex life irl was pretty terrible at the time, and I thought this would be a good opportunity to get some experience and have some fun with like-minded and sexy individuals. Turns out I was right

It's a shame I'm not local to you as well, guess I better get to work building a teleporter

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No one's near me it would appear lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined as part of my studies at Sydney University

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I joind fab cos I wos haveing no luck of fab.

But my bad luck seems to have come with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined out of curiosity more than anything and for the most part its fun chatting to new people who like the same things you do.

you do get the odd fake profile but you can get that anywhere and aslong as you are carefull you can suss them out fairly easily i think and im glad i joined here now too as there are some lovely people on here

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

A female friend told me about it

Had some nice meets and adventures, I just don't like the quiet periods in between when there are long gaps

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

I have also learnt not to judge people by there looks, as often the naughtiest and nicest ladies are not the ones who society judges (not me) as attractive. So that has changed my whole view really xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dragged from elsewhere....previous profile got plenty of attention....gone a little more low key now....hmmm perhaps i shouldnt have!

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I joined as a fuck buddy couple but she found she didn't like to see me with another woman so that was that. Then I joined with another woman but that was the same weird I know so now I occasionally come on from time to time as a single male looking for women but thinking about the couples too now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god you all joined guys, what would we girls do without you?

I love you all .....with my Ass

I'd say my heart......but my Ass is bigger

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Thank god you all joined guys, what would we girls do without you?

I love you all .....with my Ass

I'd say my heart......but my Ass is bigger "

Yes it is. Woop woop niiiice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pure feline curiosity.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london


"Thank god you all joined guys, what would we girls do without you?

I love you all .....with my Ass

I'd say my heart......but my Ass is bigger "

Your boobs are rather large too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what made you all join Fab in the first place and have you had much success on here?"

One of the blokes at work used to bang on about it

I've done ok seeing as I dont have much spare time anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined as part of my studies at Sydney University "

Lolled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined from another site where i was having no luck. Joined here and having no luck so yeah lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was in a relationship from 17-24, the only girl I'd ever been with. Came in here because I'd missed the boat of going out and pulling, just never had to. My complete lack of confidence meant that meeting people was going to be impossible. So I came here, where I can be rejected by people in the comfort of my own home rather than a club surrounded by assholes. I don't do too badly I guess, but I'm too picky sometimes I think

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my play partner on another site. She was a member here and suggested I join. For a while we had a couple profile. We're both still here but no longer seeing each other.

Love the site met a bunch of new fun friends.

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By *akey.r8Man
over a year ago

Travelling with work

One of my mates had mentioned it before and I'd always been interested in the community around swinging (obviously the lifestyle too).

Joined out of curiosity and have loved it ever since!

Think the forums and chat make the site for me though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined to find a local friend to go to clubs and parties with. I had a few meets but still looking for that regular friend xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd 'joked' about a 3 some, 4 some for ages. Then after i'd forgotten all about the thought in any kind of earnest the Mrs signed us up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined when my marriage ended. I'd had absolutely no meets up until about 2 weeks ago when I got in contact with a woman and then a man contacted me. So maybe things are on the up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined out of curiosity really I friend told me about the site and I had to check it out! I have had no luck what so ever but the forums keep me entertained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined after a friend told me about adult friend finder. Fab was recommended by Someone I chatted to on that site.

I had just divorced and wanted female company without the strings.

I've discovered a kink for mmf and cuckoldry after being invited by a couple to try it.

I still prefer a one on one with a lady but have found that after 2-3 meets they often want more emotionally than I am able to give

It often starts straying into dating territory

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Joined cos after lengthy marriage wanted to chat to people.Was hugely self conscious of body but to my pleasure mainly the younger guys like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined bcause im a filthy dirty get lol X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We joined so tray could meet other women and indulge her bi-side but since joining it's evolved into tray enjoying me meeting with other women either together or as singles and enjoying the club scene took 12 months of her talking me into it but so glad for once in my life I listened to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love exciting sexual experiences.

I have had a fair bit of success considering.

I also enjoy the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank god you all joined guys, what would we girls do without you?

I love you all .....with my Ass

I'd say my heart......but my Ass is bigger "

HUGE natural boobs

That pic is amazing D! You know how to pull off all the sexy poses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was suggested by an "acquaintance" from another site.. as for success, over my 2 tours of duty here i'm fairly happy. 95% of my meets have been very successful.

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

Believe it or not, a gay guy told me about this when I was bollock naked being watched by 100's in a chat room. Still have the chat room account, but never been back since...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am back in here to post again because got distracted earlier with boobs

There is one thing on here that I have been trying to do for 2 years!!

Soo close on a few occasions, but various things got in the way and just did not work out. I want to meet a single woman and take her on a super wild social... summer time is best.

It is one of my favourite places to visit. A very public place and 100s of people will be there.

Women used to say we rather just have sex instead of a whole day social event ha!

I may have to open this up for a couple and tell them to have plenty of sex the night before so I don't have to hear any moaning during our road adventure

I have been thinking about updating my profile about this meet because summer is coming!

Let's see if it will work this time...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Just wondering what made you all join Fab in the first place and have you had much success on here?"

A dreadful, dreadful spelling mistake when I was looking to join a gospel choir of fat singers.

And yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined mainly cause I'm a pervert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Felt crap about myself,unattractive ended up anorexic,took a good few years got through it then I thought what the fuck there must be women out there that would like me

So best foot forward and let's hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Felt like shit bored and fed up of normal life need some excitement in my life. No success tho but hay ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The person who recommended me this site is actually the scummiest person ive ever met lol

Funny how things work out

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

This is a good way to make friends, have a laugh and get turned on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I joined as it would be wrong and probably illegal to keep myself to one woman.

And I love fucking other men's wife's as they watch

im beating them off with a shitty stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Joined looking for a bit of fun when I moved to the UK. Had very little luck with that unfortunately "

Hate to break it to you but you don't live in the uk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what made you all join Fab in the first place and have you had much success on here?"

Because I can't go up to a couple outside of here and say "Oh Hi, Can I shag your wife please oh, also, I'd like you to watch me while I do it?"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We joined on Mr's suggestion as he wanted to watch me have sex with other guys .

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We joined on Mr's suggestion as he wanted to watch me have sex with other guys .

Mrs "

See exactly this ^

You are NOT gonna find this outside of here...well I might..but I'm fucked if I'm asking...

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London


"Thank god you all joined guys, what would we girls do without you?

I love you all .....with my Ass

I'd say my heart......but my Ass is bigger "

Well you have our ass-felt thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what made you all join Fab in the first place and have you had much success on here?"

First joined as a couple with my now-ex after seeing Fab on a list of popular swinging websites when visiting Xtasia.Had a lot of meets on that profile as well as organising a couple of parties and group sessions through it,so it was more successful than we had hoped for really.

Deleted the couples profile and joined as a single chap when we seperated,had several meets through it so was pretty successful by single male standards.Went UNLOS due to having a lot of family issues all arrive in a very short space of time.

Joined again on this profile and so far the only success I've had is at failing and being cancelled on

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Found out about this place on another site..

Just came here to meet people for coffee but some of them seem to want to have sex with me..

Well, who am I to complain but it's really difficult to not spill my coffee while being ridden reverse cowgirl stylee..

Unfortunately, since joining here I've been banned from all Costabucks coffee shops..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined to experience the swinging life but had no success with getting meets or getting past 2/3 messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years of not "thinking" i knew what great sex was up until i met a FB last year...he told me about this site and the rest, as they say is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 13/04/17 21:01:04]"

We joined because I want to see Eve get fucked. I want her to have all the pleasures in the world, big fat cock being one of them (or more than one) ha ha.

Luckily for me, she likes me to fuck others too.. needless to say, we're having fun and always looking for more.

Adam

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Love the crack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't want a relationship but missed some female contact and obviously sex.

It's been good, very frustrating at times and often confusing but overall it's worked out ok for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nosey bugger

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was looking for a swing and google took me on fab

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I got a taste for group fun from another site....plus outdoor exhibitionism from another site...a popular for Fab appeared one day and here I am. I can now indulge my voyeuristic side when hosting parties...I seem to be doing rather well at it

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Needed a social bit of fun and fell across it when looking for something I joined up and have loved it so far xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came to meet local woman

But finding it hard to get involved

Any advise??

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I joined this site as an experiment to crossdressing back in Dec 2012.

The site seems to be more acceptable to all types of people and that gives me the courage.

Never crossdress before joining fabs.

Fabs liberates me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I came to meet local woman

But finding it hard to get involved

Any advise??"

Well as you asked!

First thing I would do is ask yourself, if you were a woman, what exactly is it in your profile text that would hook them in and choose you over and above all the other guys messaging them?

If you're happy that your profile is the best it can possibly be then go with it. If you feel there's room for improvement, then try and get it to the state you'd be interested in if you were that independent lady looking in on it!

Good luck - and I hope you find what you're looking for!

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By *ackdaniels2016Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Well I was having some fun with a older lady a few years back and on my second visit to her she told me about this place and we ended up in a chat room on here and having some fun on camera with another couple and i always had this place in the back of my mind and decided to give it a go

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By *duk70Man
over a year ago

langley

Joined for fun has some success, left for a break and to sort myself and life out failed and returned.

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