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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool

Does anyone actually use them and do they actually work?

Never used them on here and never received one.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone actually use them and do they actually work?

Never used them on here and never received one. "

We personally cannot stand them and think they are lazy.

A friendly short message takes seconds more to complete and is much more personal.

Just our opinion though!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

From reading in the forums and experience on here I'd say, in general, that women and couples don't like them but single males do.

So we have a bit of a stand off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't use them and ignore senders of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do use them and have received many winks over the years, they're a great ice breaker although most will say it's being lazy.

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By *esiderataWoman
over a year ago

St Helier

I like to wink on occasion- but never expect to receive messages from them. I take it as a sign of giving and receiving just a flirt. So no harm in winking

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By *ackdaniels2016Man
over a year ago

Yarm

i have occasionally sent the odd wink but mostly the only time I'll use it is if somebody has winked at me and I like the profile in question id wink back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They imply the sender is too lazy to write a personalised message. Avoid.

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool

So I think the consensus is not many people like then or use them and are a lazy way of contacting people.

What could an alternative be if the wink was replaced with something else?

Send a rose or a kiss (too similar to wink) but new.

Send a profile link

Some automated text saying this person is interested.

Send a pic

Anymore suggestions??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They imply the sender is too lazy to write a personalised message. Avoid."

Erm. You winked me......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They imply the sender is too lazy to write a personalised message. Avoid.

Erm. You winked me......"

Indeed, but that was in the thread where you had to wink at those in your hotlist. Double busted

When I'd like to meet someone, I'll message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone actually use them and do they actually work?

Never used them on here and never received one. "

Used to use them all the time as a wee cyber 'tip of the hat' to folks to show an intent.

Haven't used any this time on though, oh maybe once actually, but I knew them anyway.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"So I think the consensus is not many people like then or use them and are a lazy way of contacting people.

What could an alternative be if the wink was replaced with something else?

Send a rose or a kiss (too similar to wink) but new.

Send a profile link

Some automated text saying this person is interested.

Send a pic

Anymore suggestions??"

A message that's what we want

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"So I think the consensus is not many people like then or use them and are a lazy way of contacting people.

What could an alternative be if the wink was replaced with something else?

Send a rose or a kiss (too similar to wink) but new.

Send a profile link

Some automated text saying this person is interested.

Send a pic

Anymore suggestions??

A message that's what we want "

With a clear face pic

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

I always check my winks and I often wink to people to show interest while not adding to the huge pile of mail they probably have. I guess it is lazy but most days all my messages just get ignored so I find it to be a less depressing endeavour that spending ages writing out personalised messages and getting not even a glance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They imply the sender is too lazy to write a personalised message. Avoid.

Erm. You winked me......

Indeed, but that was in the thread where you had to wink at those in your hotlist. Double busted

When I'd like to meet someone, I'll message them."

Ohhhhhh. I understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see winks as a lazy alternative, and a bit ambiguous too, as some see winks as saying nice profile, so a message would work better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They imply the sender is too lazy to write a personalised message. Avoid.

Erm. You winked me......

Indeed, but that was in the thread where you had to wink at those in your hotlist. Double busted

When I'd like to meet someone, I'll message them.

Ohhhhhh. I understand "

Fair play for calling me out though, I respect that

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"They imply the sender is too lazy to write a personalised message. Avoid.

Erm. You winked me......"

So avoid a wink at all costs. Because wee willy winky has gone wonky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They imply the sender is too lazy to write a personalised message. Avoid.

Erm. You winked me......

Indeed, but that was in the thread where you had to wink at those in your hotlist. Double busted

When I'd like to meet someone, I'll message them.

Ohhhhhh. I understand

Fair play for calling me out though, I respect that "

Slightly awkward though huh....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes and yes----------sometimes

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I don't get wink's.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

never send and never look to see who's sent me any, if there was a function to stop it I'd use it, not sure what people who send them expect in return?

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