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Wife getting too many meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not happy i find it so hard to meet or chat to anyone on her and the wife could get 5 cocks a day. Anyother guys in this position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her not to meet so many if it's causing resentment.

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By *icheekyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Supply and demand my friend. It's the way of the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the site is saturated with men lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah i dont mind her getting the big cocks she loves just wish i could get more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah i dont mind her getting the big cocks she loves just wish i could get more"

More cock or more ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not happy i find it so hard to meet or chat to anyone on her and the wife could get 5 cocks a day. Anyother guys in this position "

I'd imagine it's exactly the same for any couples that play separately.. when you play 'alone' (even with permission) you're just another single male in the pack.

And let's be honest, even when playing as a couple many (not all!) people will only ever see the male half as an inconvenience to be tolerated to get access to the lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah i dont mind her getting the big cocks she loves just wish i could get more

More cock or more ladies?"
ment women but..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not happy i find it so hard to meet or chat to anyone on her and the wife could get 5 cocks a day. Anyother guys in this position

I'd imagine it's exactly the same for any couples that play separately.. when you play 'alone' (even with permission) you're just another single male in the pack.

And let's be honest, even when playing as a couple many (not all!) people will only ever see the male half as an inconvenience to be tolerated to get access to the lady "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And men use the scatter gun approach which is understandable but ends up clogging up the womans inboxes with spam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I felt this way when we joined as a couple, we agreed fo meet separately cause it was easier with having kids, then as I wasn't getting any interest, she suggested I create a single guy profile for myself, and she create her own single women profile, the couples profile is used purely for those who want to play with us both, needless to say, the mrs was out a lot more than me, but she has put meeting guys on hold for now, where as I still actively look to meet new people.

There is an element of jealousy when the wife is getting constant meets and all you're doing is channel hopping while she's out enjoying another guys cock, but if it's bothering you that much, maybe you should speak to her and reassess your arrangements.

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By *ackdaniels2016Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Try being me I don't even have a wife to have sex with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is her fanny starting to smoke?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being me I don't even have a wife to have sex with "

Awww, poor you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I wanted I could several guys a day. My hubby hasn't had 1 meet yet and the fwb has had a few but see's me more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I wanted I could several guys a day. My hubby hasn't had 1 meet yet and the fwb has had a few but see's me more "

are you his wife?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Not happy i find it so hard to meet or chat to anyone on her and the wife could get 5 cocks a day. Anyother guys in this position

I'd imagine it's exactly the same for any couples that play separately.. when you play 'alone' (even with permission) you're just another single male in the pack.

And let's be honest, even when playing as a couple many (not all!) people will only ever see the male half as an inconvenience to be tolerated to get access to the lady "

This is why we avoid profiles that say things along the lines of "Mrs is very bi and we like to start off with the girls playing and the guys joining later".

Personally I read that as "the dogs will be allowed to pick up the scraps around the table after the main meal".

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Is her fanny starting to smoke?"

Not but she's got cock on tap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Women always get more attention on here then the guys

Fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Supply & demand, simple as that.

If you're not getting any interest then I'd start with the basics, profile & who / how are you messaging.

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden


"Not happy i find it so hard to meet or chat to anyone on her and the wife could get 5 cocks a day. Anyother guys in this position "

Hi

With One couple we knew who played separately it was the wife who approached women on the mans behalf.

Together they searched for woman he liked and then the wife wrote the email. They used the couples account to avoid the 'single man delete button being used'

She explained why she was Writing to the female on behalf of her husband. It was a very well worded email writen from the point of view of a woman to woman.

Also they made sure their couple profile had classy photos of the guy too.

Result- he got more meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I wanted I could several guys a day. My hubby hasn't had 1 meet yet and the fwb has had a few but see's me more

are you his wife?"

No not his wife his mistress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not happy i find it so hard to meet or chat to anyone on her and the wife could get 5 cocks a day. Anyother guys in this position

Hi

With One couple we knew who played separately it was the wife who approached women on the mans behalf.

Together they searched for woman he liked and then the wife wrote the email. They used the couples account to avoid the 'single man delete button being used'

She explained why she was Writing to the female on behalf of her husband. It was a very well worded email writen from the point of view of a woman to woman.

Also they made sure their couple profile had classy photos of the guy too.

Result- he got more meets "

I'd personally find that approach creepy as hell if I was looking to meet guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not happy i find it so hard to meet or chat to anyone on her and the wife could get 5 cocks a day. Anyother guys in this position

Hi

With One couple we knew who played separately it was the wife who approached women on the mans behalf.

Together they searched for woman he liked and then the wife wrote the email. They used the couples account to avoid the 'single man delete button being used'

She explained why she was Writing to the female on behalf of her husband. It was a very well worded email writen from the point of view of a woman to woman.

Also they made sure their couple profile had classy photos of the guy too.

Result- he got more meets "

Really? I'd see that like someone's Mum writing in and asking if young Billy could get a job within my team! If Billy hasn't got the balls or gumption to write himself he's going straight in the reject bin!

But I guess everyone has their own MO and if it works, hey good for them!

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden


"Not happy i find it so hard to meet or chat to anyone on her and the wife could get 5 cocks a day. Anyother guys in this position

Hi

With One couple we knew who played separately it was the wife who approached women on the mans behalf.

Together they searched for woman he liked and then the wife wrote the email. They used the couples account to avoid the 'single man delete button being used'

She explained why she was Writing to the female on behalf of her husband. It was a very well worded email writen from the point of view of a woman to woman.

Also they made sure their couple profile had classy photos of the guy too.

Result- he got more meets

I'd personally find that approach creepy as hell if I was looking to meet guys. "

The trouble is most SG emails just get binned. It's a way to avoid that and get past the first filter. Plus the woman knows the guy is playing with the wife's consent.

Actually the message was very endearing, respectful, stylish and most important of all worked. Of course my simplistic explanation does not give it the message they sent the style it deserves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a couple. Make your own rules. Just because the scene is imbalanced that doesn't mean you need to import that imbalance into your relationship and impose unnecessary strain on it. Couples who swing together get an equal buzz. Couples where one watches the other get an equal buzz. Couples where one is allowed to play as the other isn't very sexed have an in built imbalance they're using others to redress. In the end it's all about balance.

It sounds like tit for tat rules would help create that balance for you. She gets to meet if you get to meet. Don't let others tell you that's petty. Balance and fairness is really important in this stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP it all seems a little bit sad judging from your comments and your status at the mo, maybe time to redress the balance and start playing as a couple x

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