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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So reading through on profiles no one likes the how are you for a first message so how does every one else break the ice??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's difficult to give a one-size fits all answer as it depends on who you're messaging.

I find that most profiles of interest (to me at least) have something of a 'hook' in them that you can reference when you message - maybe they talk about an interest, or there's something of note in their pictures, or they have a nice facial feature or whatever.

Something that gives you the chance to open up with something different to 'how's you?' and prove from the opening line you've read their profile and you're not just regurgitating a copy and paste.

Good luck with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hound my prey openly on the forum till they are worn down and acquiesce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oi slag, this won't suck itself"

Accompanied by 8 cock pics. One of which must also feature a recently used toilet.

You're welcome

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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""Oi slag, this won't suck itself"

Accompanied by 8 cock pics. One of which must also feature a recently used toilet.

You're welcome "

Works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Oi slag, this won't suck itself"

Accompanied by 8 cock pics. One of which must also feature a recently used toilet.

You're welcome "

My perfect message to receive

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Please God no more how heavy is a polar bear...

I'm crap at replying so I wouldn't bother messaging me

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I hound my prey openly on the forum till they are worn down and acquiesce. "

Oh really....I hadn't noticed

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I hound my prey openly on the forum till they are worn down and acquiesce. "

Wow, me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's difficult to give a one-size fits all answer as it depends on who you're messaging.

I find that most profiles of interest (to me at least) have something of a 'hook' in them that you can reference when you message - maybe they talk about an interest, or there's something of note in their pictures, or they have a nice facial feature or whatever.

Something that gives you the chance to open up with something different to 'how's you?' and prove from the opening line you've read their profile and you're not just regurgitating a copy and paste.

Good luck with it! "

What he said plus just be polite and don't be crude

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"It's difficult to give a one-size fits all answer as it depends on who you're messaging.

I find that most profiles of interest (to me at least) have something of a 'hook' in them that you can reference when you message - maybe they talk about an interest, or there's something of note in their pictures, or they have a nice facial feature or whatever.

Something that gives you the chance to open up with something different to 'how's you?' and prove from the opening line you've read their profile and you're not just regurgitating a copy and paste.

Good luck with it! "

....what he said xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please God no more how heavy is a polar bear...

I'm crap at replying so I wouldn't bother messaging me "
yep your message to me was short an sweet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being serious OP that is a bit of a holy grail quest and not something I can really answer.

I twat about here and now and then someone takes pity and talks to me. It usually goes pear shaped when it comes away from the safe place that is The Lounge

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Please God no more how heavy is a polar bear...

I'm crap at replying so I wouldn't bother messaging me yep your message to me was short an sweet lol"

Just like me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's difficult to give a one-size fits all answer as it depends on who you're messaging.

I find that most profiles of interest (to me at least) have something of a 'hook' in them that you can reference when you message - maybe they talk about an interest, or there's something of note in their pictures, or they have a nice facial feature or whatever.

Something that gives you the chance to open up with something different to 'how's you?' and prove from the opening line you've read their profile and you're not just regurgitating a copy and paste.

Good luck with it! "

Cheers thanks for your help good advice

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Your message may never seem perfect to you as the sender but as long as you're communicating specifically to the recipient, so it's unique and personal to them, it will have impact. Then it's down to how well your profile and matches their needs.

Do read their profile, so you've a feel for them and say something that is likely of interest - their profile is important and relevant.

Write to many people so that it doesn't weigh heavy on you. Be light about it and move until they reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Oi slag, this won't suck itself"

Accompanied by 8 cock pics. One of which must also feature a recently used toilet.

You're welcome "

That's what I always send too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So reading through on profiles no one likes the how are you for a first message so how does every one else break the ice?? "

I read their profile and comment on something I liked. Or babble about shite and see if they like that. If not no harm done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Oi slag, this won't suck itself"

Accompanied by 8 cock pics. One of which must also feature a recently used toilet.

You're welcome

That's what I always send too "

I've always thought you were great

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