FabSwingers.com forum: Help please with reporting

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've received some very abusive and quite frankly vile messages from a user who I met for a social. He has abused me by text, called me every name under the sun and said horrific things about my child. All because I didn't sleep with him- we went on a social. Each paid our own way and he has now got very nasty. Thankfully he doesn't know where I live. I cannot report him as he has blocked me. Can anyone tell me how I can contact admin. This man is dangerous and every woman should know what he is capable of

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I've received some very abusive and quite frankly vile messages from a user who I met for a social. He has abused me by text, called me every name under the sun and said horrific things about my child. All because I didn't sleep with him- we went on a social. Each paid our own way and he has now got very nasty. Thankfully he doesn't know where I live. I cannot report him as he has blocked me. Can anyone tell me how I can contact admin. This man is dangerous and every woman should know what he is capable of

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If you have old messages they contain a report link??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry you had to endure that OP

I don't know if there is a way you can contact admin about him though

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I'm really sorry to hear that.

In the forum list, there is an admin section...

Please, please don't name & shame...you will only end up with a time-out.

Have you considered contacting the police?

Hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't keep old messages

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Just click on their profile and you can still report user, even if they have blocked you.

Sorry this has happened OP, there are some sad fucks on here unfortunately

Click on the 3-line menu bar...report user xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just click on their profile and you can still report user, even if they have blocked you.

Sorry this has happened OP, there are some sad fucks on here unfortunately

Click on the 3-line menu bar...report user xx"

I can't get on to his profile to report him. Not sure what you are meaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just click on their profile and you can still report user, even if they have blocked you.

Sorry this has happened OP, there are some sad fucks on here unfortunately

Click on the 3-line menu bar...report user xx

I can't get on to his profile to report him. Not sure what you are meaning

If you don't have any messages from/to him then you will have to contact admin rather than using the report function

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't keep old messages

This is a shame ^.

It sounds crappy, I hope you can get to sort this out.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

If you try to click onto his profile page, there should be a menu bar across the top. On the right...3 line drop-down. Try that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could someone report him on your behalf???

Hope you're ok love xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if the abuse continues please keep the messages and use them as evidence otherwise its your word over his - and for sure get in touch with admin - xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you try to click onto his profile page, there should be a menu bar across the top. On the right...3 line drop-down. Try that."

If you are blocked and have no messages, you can't find the profile to click on to. I think this is why the OP is having issues

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you try to click onto his profile page, there should be a menu bar across the top. On the right...3 line drop-down. Try that."

I can't even find his profile page in a search. Others can though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you try to click onto his profile page, there should be a menu bar across the top. On the right...3 line drop-down. Try that.

If you are blocked and have no messages, you can't find the profile to click on to. I think this is why the OP is having issues"

Exactly that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could someone report him on your behalf???

Hope you're ok love xxx"

I wouldn't do that. With all due respect to the OP, the guy could be completely innocent!!

If the OP contacts admin herself they will sort it.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"If you try to click onto his profile page, there should be a menu bar across the top. On the right...3 line drop-down. Try that.

If you are blocked and have no messages, you can't find the profile to click on to. I think this is why the OP is having issues"

Ok...there has to be a way..

Does he use the forum? You can report that way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could someone report him on your behalf???

Hope you're ok love xxx"

You see, why would I? I only have the OPs word for it.

No offence op, truly, but this is the flaw in reporting bad behaviour on here. I do t even have an answer on making a suggestion in how it should be done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't keep old messages

Thats totally understandable !!

If you can find them again(think if they block you,name search him it will come up as no one found

),but if you can find them but cant view profile it will still give you message/wink/hotlist/REPORT option buttons

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could someone report him on your behalf???

Hope you're ok love xxx

You see, why would I? I only have the OPs word for it.

No offence op, truly, but this is the flaw in reporting bad behaviour on here. I do t even have an answer on making a suggestion in how it should be done.

I have the proof on my phone in black and white. All I want to do is protect other women from experiencing the same and I can't even find a way to report him on here. I have to use his profile to do it. It's mad.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

There is a contact us on the blue bar at the foot of every page. Use it to contact admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could someone report him on your behalf???

Hope you're ok love xxx

You see, why would I? I only have the OPs word for it.

No offence op, truly, but this is the flaw in reporting bad behaviour on here. I do t even have an answer on making a suggestion in how it should be done.

You don't have to use his profile, you can contact admin and they will investigate and if necessary block etc etc.

There should be a link on the home page or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 11/04/17 18:09:43]"

Similar happened to me only worse

From Bristol too....

Sending you a hug ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's threatening you report him to the police. You have texts from his phone number they may be able to identify him from. Even if you reported him on here, all admin could do is throw him off the site, if they took your complaint seriously. He could then rejoin.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I found him in my sent messages after deleting pages and pages. He has been reported and I will be going to the police too. Thanks everyone x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Just click on their profile and you can still report user, even if they have blocked you.

Sorry this has happened OP, there are some sad fucks on here unfortunately

Click on the 3-line menu bar...report user xx

I can't get on to his profile to report him. Not sure what you are meaning

If you don't have any messages from/to him then you will have to contact admin rather than using the report function"

You don't, you report from the profile itself

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP...you can still report when blocked from the blue menu to the left of the profile. If you can't see the profile when searching, click on your own profile and change the name of the url to his name.

To anyone this applies to, no one knows the full story, so to abuse people you don't know on someones say so is against forum rules

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