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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city

The pressure of a guy thinking your going to be x, y, z - i find it to much pressure.

Anyone else? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure that goes both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, but they're feeling it too.

Hence it's always better to exchange a pic early as opposed to lengthy conversation first?

Though you are who are. Better to be a second rate version of yourself than a first hand copy of someone else?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not really. I dont big myself up. What they see is what they get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The pressure of a guy thinking your going to be x, y, z - i find it to much pressure.

Anyone else? X"

Think we've both got to a point in our lives where you either like us the way we are or you don't.

Certainly don't lose any sleep over it.

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond


"Not really. I dont big myself up. What they see is what they get."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find people expect me to be confident because I am on here. In real life im very different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The pressure of a guy thinking your going to be x, y, z - i find it to much pressure.

Anyone else? X"

You even signed off with an X. Your not helping yourself really.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I find people expect me to be confident because I am on here. In real life im very different "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The pressure of a guy thinking your going to be x, y, z - i find it to much pressure.

Anyone else? X"

I don't get into the habit of letting someone think I'm something I'm not so no, I don't feel the pressure.

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"The pressure of a guy thinking your going to be x, y, z - i find it to much pressure.

Anyone else? X

You even signed off with an X. Your not helping yourself really. "

And with that i spat coffee over my phone

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

As I only mate with three breasted blue women I do feel at times I may put unrealistic expectations on women.

But it's about choices, don't judge me for mine. There's always body paint and prosthetics FFS I'm not asking for too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The pressure of a guy thinking your going to be x, y, z - i find it to much pressure.

Anyone else? X

You even signed off with an X. Your not helping yourself really.

And with that i spat coffee over my phone"

And you dont swallow, pfft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The pressure of a guy thinking your going to be x, y, z - i find it to much pressure.

Anyone else? X"

Be happy if a woman was A, B, C!

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"The pressure of a guy thinking your going to be x, y, z - i find it to much pressure.

Anyone else? X

You even signed off with an X. Your not helping yourself really.

And with that i spat coffee over my phone

And you dont swallow, pfft. "

Y, is that a problem X

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

In some respects I suppose that's why it works well for us that we only meet at our fave club, we don't arrange meets we just go along and well if it happens it happens that way people can see us, talk to us and decide if they like us although this can also provide unrealistic opinions because I'm a lot less confident sexually than I am generally And also people see us and chat to us with clothes on,what if they form the opinion that they are going to find kylie under the clothes when really they find Mandy dingle

Oh who am I kidding, it's no better in clubs than it is arranging meets, the whole bloody thing is a minefield Mrs blue eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are savage on here, you don't get chance half the time to show you hae a personality or your a good person.

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre


"The pressure of a guy thinking your going to be x, y, z - i find it to much pressure.

Anyone else? X

You even signed off with an X. Your not helping yourself really.

And with that i spat coffee over my phone

And you dont swallow, pfft.

Y, is that a problem X"

You'll soon z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find people expect me to be confident because I am on here. In real life im very different "

Same, I'm actually really shy in person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The pressure of a guy thinking your going to be x, y, z - i find it to much pressure.

Anyone else? X

You even signed off with an X. Your not helping yourself really.

And with that i spat coffee over my phone

And you dont swallow, pfft.

Y, is that a problem X"

Haha. .

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Use software to show how you'll look in 40 years time, with high sun exposure levels and lack of healthy nutrition.

They want the porn models they've been watching? They can go and star in the next films with them.

Any discussions about how I should look never end well for them.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"In some respects I suppose that's why it works well for us that we only meet at our fave club, we don't arrange meets we just go along and well if it happens it happens that way people can see us, talk to us and decide if they like us although this can also provide unrealistic opinions because I'm a lot less confident sexually than I am generally And also people see us and chat to us with clothes on,what if they form the opinion that they are going to find kylie under the clothes when really they find Mandy dingle

Oh who am I kidding, it's no better in clubs than it is arranging meets, the whole bloody thing is a minefield Mrs blue eyes

"

Ha ha, ain't that the truth! But at least in clubs you haven't usually had the weeks, or even months, of anticipation during which the pressure/anxiety really builds up.

I never pretend to be something I'm not and say right from the start that I'm a socially inept clumsy klutz, but I think a lot of people think I'm joking when I'm not ... so that's a pressure in itself

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester


"In some respects I suppose that's why it works well for us that we only meet at our fave club, we don't arrange meets we just go along and well if it happens it happens that way people can see us, talk to us and decide if they like us although this can also provide unrealistic opinions because I'm a lot less confident sexually than I am generally And also people see us and chat to us with clothes on,what if they form the opinion that they are going to find kylie under the clothes when really they find Mandy dingle

Oh who am I kidding, it's no better in clubs than it is arranging meets, the whole bloody thing is a minefield Mrs blue eyes

Ha ha, ain't that the truth! But at least in clubs you haven't usually had the weeks, or even months, of anticipation during which the pressure/anxiety really builds up.

I never pretend to be something I'm not and say right from the start that I'm a socially inept clumsy klutz, but I think a lot of people think I'm joking when I'm not ... so that's a pressure in itself "
. You are so right, the pressure and build up must be so tough, not sure I could do it As for being a clumsy klutz, you'll be suprised how many people will find it endearing Mrs blue eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The pressure of a guy thinking your going to be x, y, z - i find it to much pressure.

Anyone else? X"

Definitely works both ways, I worry that complimentary verifications might build up expectations too much and I won't live up to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I offer nothing. If they assume I am x y z it just puts me off and they won't be meeting me anyway. Fuck knows what some people expect.

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