FabSwingers.com forum: How proactive are you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is for the guys.

Do you send messages often or just sit and wait or hope for your inbox to ping, I'll send out a few messages a week but sometimes go weeks without bothering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send jolly messages to chums I do like a chinwag.

I occasionally send messages to women and couples who catch my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wakey wakey - i read that as protective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've taken the lead from the women of fab.

Don't send messages at all - post new pics every week for fabs - offer tea at every opportunity - wait for the FAF messages - and watch my inbox explode with cock pics. (The last one is abut of a draw back for me)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've taken the lead from the women of fab.

Might try this approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe in waiting for something to happen. I believe in making something happen.

If you sit there and expect, you can expect nothing. If you make things happen, then something will. Effort pays, on here and in life

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"wakey wakey - i read that as protective

I read it as provocative lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've taken the lead from the women of fab.

lifes a bitch eh haah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wakey wakey - i read that as protective

I read it as provocative lol"
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not just me then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had to read the thread title back twice to myself to check I'd spelt it correctly thanks to you two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wakey wakey - i read that as protective

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I read it as provocative

coffee needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is for the guys.

Do you send messages often or just sit and wait or hope for your inbox to ping, I'll send out a few messages a week but sometimes go weeks without bothering."

Same...

Bothering less and less due to the general bullshit from some people too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had to read the thread title back twice to myself to check I'd spelt it correctly thanks to you two

are we all wide awake now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send messages but always have the 'is it too stalkery?' at the bck of my mind.

Do like a good natter though. Dafter the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I'm not proactive enough, sometimes I'm too proactive (read that as annoying), and sometimes I might just hit the perfect balance (I have no evidence to support this though)

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By *edMan
over a year ago

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"wakey wakey - i read that as protective

I read it as provocative lol#

not just me then

Is it because women always think they know what the guys are going to say next?

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