FabSwingers.com forum: So, why no face pic?

By *roticGoddessXX OP Woman
over a year ago

Richmond

Yea, have seen this one done over and again, but having received far too many messages asking this again lately, thought it time for an oldie but goodie.

Why no face pics?

For me, honestly, I have never seen the need for one. Having chatted on this site and another (more extensively) for around 5 years now, I've found that the best conversations come from people who take me at word, rather than visual face value.

Despite my current profile saying I dont' meet, that hasn't always been the case.

When I did meet, I found that getting to know someone without pictures quite a thrill. Often I did know what they looked like, but I put off sending a pic of me til fairly late.

I never liked the idea of anyone meeting me based on how I look. I know, for some that's the most essentail criterion, and fine for them, but it's not for me. I want to know that a man sees more to me than my high cheek bones, big ass, color of my hair, or whatever.

Now, I tend to think I'm rather average looking. Some consider me drop dead gorgeous, others wouldn't spare a second glance. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...and I like to let my verbal beauty out before face pics.

Never did me any harm. I met loads.

For those of you with pics....how would you fare without one?

For those without....do you sometimes think you should have one up?

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By *roticGoddessXX OP Woman
over a year ago

Richmond

Ok, so should actually say "why no pics." As I do realize quite a few don't do face pics but do have others up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pics on my profile and available on request. Don't see the need to display it or anything else really.

I fare 10x better now that I have no public cock pics as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pics on display get me attention but as a young-ish girl I think I would still get a few messages anyway.

I find it funny the amount of guys who will chat for ages before realising they haven't seen my face. They assume it will match my body.

I don't mind waiting a while to see a face pic but only if I've seen a body one because there has to be a bit of attraction to make me want to talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Despite my current profile saying I dont' meet, that hasn't always been the case.

When I did meet, I found that getting to know someone without pictures quite a thrill.

Absolutely no way on this planet would I meet someone without a face pic.

I won't even hold a proper conversation with someone without one.

If they don't send me one, I automatically assume they aren't attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no face pics on my public profile due to my job it would be front upon... BUT if I liked someone enough to meet them I would show my face pic- well personally I think my face is my best bit... however I wouldn't meet anyone with out seeing a face pic first and I like to get the face bit out the way first. I'm not desperate for a fuck I will only meet people I'm attracted to personality and looks

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By *roticGoddessXX OP Woman
over a year ago

Richmond

Despite my current profile saying I dont' meet, that hasn't always been the case.

When I did meet, I found that getting to know someone without pictures quite a thrill.

Absolutely no way on this planet would I meet someone without a face pic.

I won't even hold a proper conversation with someone without one.

If they don't send me one, I automatically assume they aren't attractive."

You won't even TALK to someone you don't find to your standard of beauty?

Exactly the type of man I like to avoid, and another reason I don't post pics.

Bet you get lonely in the queue to buy groceries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My pics on display get me attention but as a young-ish girl I think I would still get a few messages anyway.

I find it funny the amount of guys who will chat for ages before realising they haven't seen my face. They assume it will match my body. And you do bunny dont u

I don't mind waiting a while to see a face pic but only if I've seen a body one because there has to be a bit of attraction to make me want to talk. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Despite my current profile saying I dont' meet, that hasn't always been the case.

When I did meet, I found that getting to know someone without pictures quite a thrill.

Absolutely no way on this planet would I meet someone without a face pic.

I won't even hold a proper conversation with someone without one.

If they don't send me one, I automatically assume they aren't attractive.

You won't even TALK to someone you don't find to your standard of beauty?

Exactly the type of man I like to avoid, and another reason I don't post pics.

I didn't say that.

I said I won't talk to someone who will NOT send a face pic.

I like to know who I'm talking to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. Lots of girls won't even talk without seeing a face picture. A weired era!

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"My pics on display get me attention but as a young-ish girl I think I would still get a few messages anyway.

I find it funny the amount of guys who will chat for ages before realising they haven't seen my face. They assume it will match my body.

I don't mind waiting a while to see a face pic but only if I've seen a body one because there has to be a bit of attraction to make me want to talk. "

exactly. I think also, the longer you talk to someone the harder it would be to tell them you're not attracted to them after perhaps being disappointed by their face pic. I also like to get that part out of the way and find out if they find me attractive as it's quite hard not to take it personally after investing time talking to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pics on request or I sometimes attach one to an introductory message. If you're not interested in my profile, you don't need my face pic..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP..it looks like you're the odd one out.

Think the general consensus looking through the thread is:

No face pic = No chat.

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By *roticGoddessXX OP Woman
over a year ago

Richmond

"OP..it looks like you're the odd one out.

Think the general consensus looking through the thread is:

No face pic = No chat.

Oddly enough, I chat with many and have met loads.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"OP..it looks like you're the odd one out.

Think the general consensus looking through the thread is:

No face pic = No chat.

Au contraire mon cher, let me explain this to you, I do not have a single pic on this site and never will. I do not want to message/meet/fuck anyone who is initially attracted to my face or any other part of my anatomy. Likewise I don't want to message/meet/fuck someone because I was attracted to them physically initially. I'm interested in their mind and personality the most attractive things about anyone. If I don't find them stimulating then how is that going to work, sex is predominantly in the mind. If someone can arouse you without any visual stimuli that is the connection you want. Then it's time to exchange pics, now if you've both been honest while messaging there shouldn't be any massive shocks during the big reveal. At this point there is already a connection and a rapport which far outweighs any physical attraction, the exchange of pics should just enhance what is already there. Oh and by the way I think no face pic = lots of chat sums up my experience far better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't put face pics on my public profile as a rule, but I do have a lot of pics. I have them because I enjoy taking them, editing them and seeing if they get a reaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a face pic on display as I'm a bit of a munter

don't feel the need to have loads of pics of myself on here either,got one on public and a couple in friends and private,don't mind sending them if someone asks but it's usually the pics that cause anyone messaging to lose interest

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have mine in friends only, I would never meet anyone without a face pic, in fact I wouldn't chat for long without seeing one either, no point in wasting each others time. Attraction is utmost for me regardless of how nice a person is.

And I expect men to be thinking the same way as I do so have no problem showing them early on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll send you a face pic if I think you genuinely want to see it, it doesn't have to be on general display

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't display my face in public and these days I'm very selective in who I send it to. And even then it tends to be half a face

I don't mind bantering with anyone on here and not seeing a face pic just for chat isn't a problem (just don't expect one back either

) but there's no way I'd meet anyone blind.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

I think the 2 ladies saying no pics = lots of chat and meets would be whistling a different tune if they were male

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I think the 2 ladies saying no pics = lots of chat and meets would be whistling a different tune if they were male

Agreed but that's only because of ratios, guys will have it tough regardless

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By *ysticMan2017Man
over a year ago

scunthorpe

Anyone I try chatting with on here just totally ignore your message unless you attach a face pic, I'm quite happy to chat and have banter with anybody really, just crnt seem to get that unless you attach that picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like pics of me. If they want to meet a hot chick with 100 sexy lingerie pics then I'm not their type. I like to find people I can chat with. My shite profile means I get hardly any 'fuck now?' grunty messages.

Having my current tiny profile pic does make a difference to when it's the carrot.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

No face pic on my profile because I never get tired of hearing;

"Oh, lovely smile! But you're too far away. Good luck x"

"Not my type, sorry"

Or just the straight message delete and block.

Far better to get to know them first, make that meeting of minds mental connection, and then cross your fingers they don't think you're Shrek when you swap facies

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I'm a teacher in a secondary school and college. There are rules to the profession that might contradict being on here. Plus I wouldn't want current students who may sign in underage, or ex-students to see my profile. And finally I wouldn't want parents seeing me on here. Just not comfortable with that.

So I only send them by request.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pic on my profile because I never get tired of hearing;

"Oh, lovely smile! But you're too far away. Good luck x"

"Not my type, sorry"

Or just the straight message delete and block.

Far better to get to know them first, make that meeting of minds mental connection, and then cross your fingers they don't think you're Shrek when you swap facies

I like Shrek. He's kinda cute.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I think the 2 ladies saying no pics = lots of chat and meets would be whistling a different tune if they were male

Agreed but that's only because of ratios, guys will have it tough regardless "

Plus most men are any hole is a goal type

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I think the 2 ladies saying no pics = lots of chat and meets would be whistling a different tune if they were male

Agreed but that's only because of ratios, guys will have it tough regardless

Plus most men are any hole is a goal type

You're so harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no face,,no way

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I think the 2 ladies saying no pics = lots of chat and meets would be whistling a different tune if they were male

Agreed but that's only because of ratios, guys will have it tough regardless

Plus most men are any hole is a goal type

Tut tut! Where's the 'wagging finger' emoji?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the 2 ladies saying no pics = lots of chat and meets would be whistling a different tune if they were male

Agreed but that's only because of ratios, guys will have it tough regardless

Plus most men are any hole is a goal type

not true,,but this is a sex site so hey ho

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"No face pic on my profile because I never get tired of hearing;

"Oh, lovely smile! But you're too far away. Good luck x"

"Not my type, sorry"

Or just the straight message delete and block.

Far better to get to know them first, make that meeting of minds mental connection, and then cross your fingers they don't think you're Shrek when you swap facies

I like Shrek. He's kinda cute. "

Whoop whoop! I've pulled! xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No amount of great conversation will make me want sex with someone I'm not facially attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think,,no face means ugly bastard,,or they will fuck anything,,lol,,or they don't exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got my face pic in private to send to potential meets.

Any body shots I have are public n shot from the neck down just in case the unthinkable happens n some nutter decides they want to out me by posting my pics on fb or anywhere else,then all they'll have to work with is headless body pics...which could be anyone unless you recognise my tattoos.

That's my reasoning anyway,others will have their own way of doing things.

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By *im_66Woman
over a year ago

Bradford

Despite my current profile saying I dont' meet, that hasn't always been the case.

When I did meet, I found that getting to know someone without pictures quite a thrill.

Absolutely no way on this planet would I meet someone without a face pic.

I won't even hold a proper conversation with someone without one.

If they don't send me one, I automatically assume they aren't attractive.

You won't even TALK to someone you don't find to your standard of beauty?

Exactly the type of man I like to avoid, and another reason I don't post pics.

I didn't say that.

I said I won't talk to someone who will NOT send a face pic.

I like to know who I'm talking to.

I agree. No point getting to know someone if when you eventually see their face, it does nothing for you! There has to be some sizzle...

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Despite my current profile saying I dont' meet, that hasn't always been the case.

When I did meet, I found that getting to know someone without pictures quite a thrill.

Absolutely no way on this planet would I meet someone without a face pic.

I won't even hold a proper conversation with someone without one.

If they don't send me one, I automatically assume they aren't attractive.

You won't even TALK to someone you don't find to your standard of beauty?

Exactly the type of man I like to avoid, and another reason I don't post pics.

I didn't say that.

I said I won't talk to someone who will NOT send a face pic.

I like to know who I'm talking to.

Exactly this. Why the fuck would I wate my limited free time on someone who can't even show me their face?

Fuck that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Despite my current profile saying I dont' meet, that hasn't always been the case.

When I did meet, I found that getting to know someone without pictures quite a thrill.

Absolutely no way on this planet would I meet someone without a face pic.

I won't even hold a proper conversation with someone without one.

If they don't send me one, I automatically assume they aren't attractive.

You won't even TALK to someone you don't find to your standard of beauty?

Exactly the type of man I like to avoid, and another reason I don't post pics.

I didn't say that.

I said I won't talk to someone who will NOT send a face pic.

I like to know who I'm talking to.

Exactly this. Why the fuck would I wate my limited free time on someone who can't even show me their face?

Fuck that. "

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I think its personally choice and depends on who your talking to. Have talked to men that have engaged my mind before even seeing a pic. If tbey can do that then they are one step closer. I love all my pics but hate a face pic. Have them in private for when IM ready to send

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Why would i engage in someone without a face when there are plenty of guys that do

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