FabSwingers.com forum: Is it competitive...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you view someone's profile and you see pics of them having sex..... does it make you feel competitive? Do you eye up the competition? Does it make you feel insecure?

Your thoughts? Please discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not competitive but sometimes I do think mmm I couldn't manage that position!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it makes me want to lock myself In A dark room armed with lube and some marigolds

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By *alldarkhandsomedaveMan
over a year ago

Derby

To a certain extent, but it doesn't put me off.

There is always the 'she has enjoyed a bigger/smaller/fatter/thinner cock than mine' thought process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

Not that I've noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, that way madness lies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's confusing- two insatiable men in one thread!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

No, not really. But if a guy has pics of nothing but slim, young, potentially gorgeous women with him on his profile then I would be less inclined to meet him since I would assume that podgy, saggy old me wouldn't be his type. Not inadequacy per se, just gauging preferences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have posted my own porn on here before, potential meets didn't seem to appreciate me being an exhibitionist.... not that I care lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I can do that position better....my cocks better looking than that....I sweat less than them etc.

I might be competitive with most things in life. Competing against a pic on fab is not one of these times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no it makes me think..

get that woman off your profile, you're allegedly a single man ffs

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By *owncouple5Couple
over a year ago

near Belfast

We all like to see what others get up to...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah it makes me want to lock myself In A dark room armed with lube and some marigolds

What every floats your boat mucka . Just don't lock 'yourself in'...... we may never hear from you again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, not really. But if a guy has pics of nothing but slim, young, potentially gorgeous women with him on his profile then I would be less inclined to meet him since I would assume that podgy, saggy old me wouldn't be his type. Not inadequacy per se, just gauging preferences."

Interesting, I have heard this before. I have heard images can make people feel insecure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting, I have heard this before. I have heard images can make people feel insecure "

That's not necessarily about insecurity as it is recognising that some people have a type?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest that anyone who does that probably isn't suited to this kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all like to see what others get up to...

not all of us do...

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Interesting, I have heard this before. I have heard images can make people feel insecure "

It's not really insecurity since I happen to know I am mostly awesome in all sorts of non visual ways. It's more an indicator of compatibility since the 'look at the hotties I have fucked' profiles make me wonder not only why he wants to be perceived that way on his solo profile but which meets he has chosen not to show and why, and also how those women might have felt about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it is not lol.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I guess it depends if they are classy photos or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really mostly I wonder does the woman know the pictures are being used as they always say 'its my ex' which could class as revenge porn.

The other one being that the same is _igeia said a guy with only pics with slim women but poss veries off bigger women like myself would have me thinking he is embarrassed to show pictures with them which basically says he isnt for me, if he isnt confident enough to have an image with a woman of any size he is sleeping he isnt confident enough to give me a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't feel I need to compete with other women. You can't tell how someone will fuck, by looking at photos and I'm not put off seeing men fuck younger/better looking/slimmer women.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"We all like to see what others get up to...

I'd rather not would put me off meeting them completely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting, I have heard this before. I have heard images can make people feel insecure "

it has nothing to do with insecurity...I've noticed in the past that some of those profiles where he has maybe 10 pics of him getting a BJ (as an example) all show different women, yet he may only have 2 verifications or sometimes none at all...

its all down to discretion for me and he obviously doesn't have any and that's why I wouldn't meet him

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all like to see what others get up to...

I'd rather not would put me off meeting them completely

I'm the same, loads of pics of a guys profile of them fucking someone isn't really what I want to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't really care less to be honest

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Couldn't give two hoots what other people get up to on their meets. If there's an affinity between the lady and myself, then all is good in my book no matter what 6 packed hunks she may have met in the past.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No I can't say it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather see pictures of the man I'm potentially going to meet than seeing him in various sexual acts with other women, as usually they're more the focus than he is.

I like a mixture of well taken / thought out photos on a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather see pictures of the man I'm potentially going to meet than seeing him in various sexual acts with other women, as usually they're more the focus than he is.

I like a mixture of well taken / thought out photos on a profile."

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interesting, I have heard this before. I have heard images can make people feel insecure

That's not necessarily about insecurity as it is recognising that some people have a type?"

Yes I agree , we all have a type...... but who's type 'isn't' seeing someone have sex with someone else on a swingers site. All to their own I suppose

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd rather see pictures of the man I'm potentially going to meet than seeing him in various sexual acts with other women, as usually they're more the focus than he is.

I like a mixture of well taken / thought out photos on a profile.

This exactly

Maybe it drums up the male fantasy , being a porn star. I suppose it's all part of a fantasy , to be desired from appearing in porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no!!

Often view couples profiles, part of the voyeuristic side to me I guess

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Sometimes think I need a tan

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"When you view someone's profile and you see pics of them having sex..... does it make you feel competitive? Do you eye up the competition? Does it make you feel insecure?

Your thoughts? Please discuss

No, just turns me off - I have no desire to see where it's been and find women's bodies unattractive too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well the poles are in, looks like like no one cares or doesn't want to see a potential meet having sex. Does this mean your all potentially looking for a virgin?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Well the poles are in, looks like like no one cares or doesn't want to see a potential meet having sex. Does this mean your all potentially looking for a virgin?

No, it just means we don't get off on other women getting fucked!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well the poles are in, looks like like no one cares or doesn't want to see a potential meet having sex. Does this mean your all potentially looking for a virgin?

No, it just means we don't get off on other women getting fucked!"

Do you watch porn ?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Well the poles are in, looks like like no one cares or doesn't want to see a potential meet having sex. Does this mean your all potentially looking for a virgin?

No, it just means we don't get off on other women getting fucked!

Do you watch porn ?

Nah, no interest at all lol, my imagination is WAY better!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well the poles are in, looks like like no one cares or doesn't want to see a potential meet having sex. Does this mean your all potentially looking for a virgin?

No, it just means we don't get off on other women getting fucked!

Do you watch porn ?

Nah, no interest at all lol, my imagination is WAY better!

Penny for your thoughts?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Well the poles are in, looks like like no one cares or doesn't want to see a potential meet having sex. Does this mean your all potentially looking for a virgin?

No, it just means we don't get off on other women getting fucked!

Do you watch porn ?

Nah, no interest at all lol, my imagination is WAY better!

Penny for your thoughts?

They don't come that cheap lol!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I like to look but am more interested in words than pictures when deciding if someones suitable for me.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Not in the slightest. The vast majority of pics on here do very little for me.

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