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social.... or straight meet up .....what do you prefer

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

I no

We aren't all the same

So

Social

Or straight meet up

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Social, no exceptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard to give a black and white answer.

They're sequential- social then straight up.

Hopefully both enjoyable but the straight up meet has to be the goal - it's why we're all (well most of us anyway) here.

So - I prefer the straight up meet. But after a social!

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Social. ....There was a big thread on this just last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first ..,

But I'm not averse to getting down to the fun bit once the formalities are out of the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social. ....There was a big thread on this just last week "

Lol there is probably one every week

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By *hyscouseMan
over a year ago

liverpool

McDonalds

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Ideal world. Social, make sure they're not a weirdo, then back for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I no

We aren't all the same

So

Social

Or straight meet up

"

straight out meets are good and exciting..

meets first build the tension. sat there looking at her, undressing her with your eye and leaving something for the imagination. plus the wait for the meet makes it more horny.. well thats me anyway

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Social for us everytime

Chance to flirt and have a laugh,if it leads to more then great.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first, I can't just jump in the sack so to speak, There has to be a connection for me, I know some guys on here who are happy to meet for sex, but for me to enjoy it, I've got to get to know the other person a bit first.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Having them turn up at all first. Then I'll see how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having them turn up at all first. Then I'll see how it goes."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I no

We aren't all the same

So

Social

Or straight meet up

"

Social is best and a lot more fun to chat first.....the meet wham bang for me there is no connection??.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the scenario and the person. I've done both, social and play straight away without even saying hello first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done both, but spent lots of time talking before the straight up meet. X

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

We have to do the social first

A few drinks

Chats laughs

Couldn't never do a straight meet up

Pkus we prefer a social on neutral ground

Pub or coffee shop

Not someone's home

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By *8Roost88Man
over a year ago

Derby

I'm fine with both :P this said I certainly like hanging out socially and then the mood change as sex comes onto the cards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first; sometimes they end up straight up

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

It depends on person.if you chatted while .but for most social first maybe meet

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

For a meet with a single guy we now insist on a social first , at a pub , and if the chemistry works we are happy to play as the meet develops .

With couples , single women and TVs , although we would always wait to establish the attraction , a straight into play meet is fine .

We've done both , and up until a few months ago we always said socials were a waste of time . Still do if we are honest , but the build up , the flirting , the kissing and discreet touching seem to add something special to a meet with a single guy . I will often be sitting on a different table in the pub , watching and enjoying the flirting . The beauty of this kind of meet also eliminates the guys who want a quick blow and go .

So there you have it , we have said it , we like a social first !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having them turn up at all first. Then I'll see how it goes."

wow, iv seen a few statuses about people not showing up. what the hell is wrong with people? unless they aint 100% honest whilst chatting. their lose i suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost always a coffee first.. no harm in that being at mine though and turning into more..

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"For a meet with a single guy we now insist on a social first , at a pub , and if the chemistry works we are happy to play as the meet develops .

With couples , single women and TVs , although we would always wait to establish the attraction , a straight into play meet is fine .

We've done both , and up until a few months ago we always said socials were a waste of time . Still do if we are honest , but the build up , the flirting , the kissing and discreet touching seem to add something special to a meet with a single guy . I will often be sitting on a different table in the pub , watching and enjoying the flirting . The beauty of this kind of meet also eliminates the guys who want a quick blow and go .

So there you have it , we have said it , we like a social first !

"

Totally agree with this and we still would love to meet you both

Boo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get very little free time to meet, so I'd much prefer to get straight down to business

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Start off social and ending with fun would be the perfect scenario

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I like to have a social, its rare for me to get straight down to it. I need to fancy someone. What if you don't? A polite no thanks? Take one for the team? That's going to waste my time so I'd my head rather have a coffee somewhere first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first deffo

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Clearly it depends on the circumstances building up to a meet, invariably socials turn out to be a lot more. The way I've done things beforehand straight up meets have ended up being the norm. I haven't been on the site long so not a wealth of meeting experience to gleam from. I think you just know if you spend some time messaging etc prior to a meet. Any uncertainty or if the other party prefers then arrange a social

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"For a meet with a single guy we now insist on a social first , at a pub , and if the chemistry works we are happy to play as the meet develops .

With couples , single women and TVs , although we would always wait to establish the attraction , a straight into play meet is fine .

We've done both , and up until a few months ago we always said socials were a waste of time . Still do if we are honest , but the build up , the flirting , the kissing and discreet touching seem to add something special to a meet with a single guy . I will often be sitting on a different table in the pub , watching and enjoying the flirting . The beauty of this kind of meet also eliminates the guys who want a quick blow and go .

So there you have it , we have said it , we like a social first !

Totally agree with this and we still would love to meet you both

Boo "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social

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By *ullswapcouple30Couple
over a year ago

Valleys

Social is a must for us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first then start discussing whether or not a 2nd meet is mutually desired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start off social and ending with fun would be the perfect scenario "

just this

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Social 1st then see how things go

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By *elson61Man
over a year ago

WELWYN GARDEN CITY

Has to be a social first, to see if the spark and attraction is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social

Meet.

It would all depend on loads of factors, mainly who it's with.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I prefer a social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a social

I do chat lots before I meet someone tho so I know whether I'll like them before I invite them to my house

*safety measures in place*

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Social for us first. You can find out if you all have that chemistry and attraction between you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social everytime but will occasionally play on a social but I think I prefer socials as it's a great get out clause if your not sure that person is for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social, no exceptions."

This

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"I no

We aren't all the same

So

Social

Or straight meet up

"

Social for us,gives us both a chance to chat how we feel about playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have said social first before the weekend, but now, not so sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't particularly care lol. I do tend to socialise more with people who catch my interest and I socialise more in clubs. Not gonna lie, there are some people so boring they're only good for a fuck.

Did meet someone off here the other day and only intended on a social but ended up being more and so glad it did. Will be seeing her again, no doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do both........

start the evening off in a bar to break the ice , have the understanding that if all in agreeance back to the house or hotel room , if theres no attraction , it remains a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We rarely do private meets now, but on the occasions we do, always social first.

That can always lead straight into something else though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it to be an actual meet.

Both parties can still walk away.

I wouldn't just meet someone for a pure social, unless they were within literally 10 miles of me.

Otherwise it's a waste of time, I'm not here to date.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I like it to be an actual meet.

Both parties can still walk away.

I wouldn't just meet someone for a pure social, unless they were within literally 10 miles of me.

Otherwise it's a waste of time, I'm not here to date."

Exactly , when someone says they only want a social and there's not gonna be any play no matter what we wouldn't say no to that .

We are perfectly happy to have a no pressure meet where either party can walk away if there's no attraction , but if the attractions there , let's play !

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

I only do socials if there is a good chance of some action happening after, otherwise I prefer straight meets. Classic male attitude I guess.

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