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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To all my friends and potentially new friends please pm me,I post on the forums to have a laugh and treat people with respect,yes I'm married,but you don't really know the circumstances and no I'm not defending myself saying that,I can't be bothered getting sent crap anymore,you try to have a laugh but it's not appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate it's a bit shit u r leaving because people can't be neutral about your private life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me thinks you need a thicker skin fella. You taking it a tad too seriously. Join in the fun, ignore the bollocks. Winning combination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me thinks you need a thicker skin fella. You taking it a tad too seriously. Join in the fun, ignore the bollocks. Winning combination "

Completely agree with this.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry bout them, you will alwais get them, like if you talk about trump and political correctness it will kick of too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who are we to judge...we all have shit in our lives..I'm with you on this.

But...life's too short. Ignore it and move on!!!! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me thinks you need a thicker skin fella. You taking it a tad too seriously. Join in the fun, ignore the bollocks. Winning combination

Completely agree with this.

PTU xxx "

Whoa whoa whoa, did I just say something sensible?

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

Take no notice, you've only been here a couple of weeks and sometimes it can take people a while to get to know you and get your sense of humour and quirks etc.

If you enjoy it stick with and fuck the ones giving you shit, it will puss em off more in the long run.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Don't let other peoples opinions get to you after all we are all here for the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me thinks you need a thicker skin fella. You taking it a tad too seriously. Join in the fun, ignore the bollocks. Winning combination

Completely agree with this.

PTU xxx

Whoa whoa whoa, did I just say something sensible? "

I'm afraid you did. xxx

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Blimey you've only been here a few weeks, you won't do very well if you are running away after three weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me thinks you need a thicker skin fella. You taking it a tad too seriously. Join in the fun, ignore the bollocks. Winning combination

Completely agree with this.

PTU xxx

Whoa whoa whoa, did I just say something sensible?

I'm afraid you did. xxx "

Noooooooooooooo, I'm off to flush my head. What was I thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw op not havin a go but did you take the advice I offered you last week? Doest matter to me if you did or not but you may find it makes your time here better. Take it from someone who knows what they are talking about. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me thinks you need a thicker skin fella. You taking it a tad too seriously. Join in the fun, ignore the bollocks. Winning combination

Completely agree with this.

PTU xxx

Whoa whoa whoa, did I just say something sensible?

I'm afraid you did. xxx

Noooooooooooooo, I'm off to flush my head. What was I thinking. "
naughty boy. X

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Cant please everyone everytime....

Op dont let others effect your experience unless its for the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, if you are who I think you are (I have a long memory) then you know what the forums are like, and should know how to handle them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore the idiots and just crack on with how you want to be on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all my friends and potentially new friends please pm me,I post on the forums to have a laugh and treat people with respect,yes I'm married,but you don't really know the circumstances and no I'm not defending myself saying that,I can't be bothered getting sent crap anymore,you try to have a laugh but it's not appreciated."

Just be yourself on here and not what you think people on Fab what to see or read. As much as I'm after what everybody else is, be it different but the same, I don't and won't change what I think or say. That may be the reason I've not had a meet but I've never been sent crap either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you total up the negative comments compared to the neutral ones, you'll find unsurprisingly they're in the minority. Choose you're the ads carefully if personal comments bother you. You'll learn the art of the keyboard warrior in time grasshopper.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"To all my friends and potentially new friends please pm me,I post on the forums to have a laugh and treat people with respect,yes I'm married,but you don't really know the circumstances and no I'm not defending myself saying that,I can't be bothered getting sent crap anymore,you try to have a laugh but it's not appreciated."

fella as someone who has had a whole thread of people going off on one other me and pushing a negative vibe about me in said thread . i can honestly say fuck them should be your attitude because lets be honest here only people with shit life's and shit prospects find fault in others and the reason for that is to try and spread misery the misery they are feeling .

after all no happy person ever starts on anyone ever do they ...?

no happy people spread happiness hateful people spread hate just remember that the next time a hater tries to mess with your vibe and just feel pity for them because like i said miserable life leads to a hateful person ,that's what i do and it works a treat for me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent crap?

If people feel the need to PM you like that. That says more about them than it does you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this attention seeking or just a serious case of you need to man the fuck up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" If you total up the negative comments compared to the neutral ones, you'll find unsurprisingly they're in the minority. Choose you're the ads carefully if personal comments bother you. You'll learn the art of the keyboard warrior in time grasshopper."

Haha wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this attention seeking or just a serious case of you need to man the fuck up "

More wise words

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Just tell them to fuck off,nicely of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah sure ignore the rude ones.some folk on here think their shit don't stink but most are dead sound

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Dis this guy just have a rage quit ?

(always wanted to say that)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck 'em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay if you like it; don't if you don't. It can be a bit brutal on occasion, but it's hardly the real world. Do what works for you and try not to hurt others in the process is a reasonable rule of thumb.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Is this attention seeking or just a serious case of you need to man the fuck up "
I take it you don't get nasty mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this attention seeking or just a serious case of you need to man the fuck up I take it you don't get nasty mail "

Nope, but if I did the delete and block works though so I hear

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Is this attention seeking or just a serious case of you need to man the fuck up I take it you don't get nasty mail "

Yeah but after one or two you get used to them. I remembered getting my first on pof and I was mortified,now I just play along or tell them to f*ck off depending on what mood I'm in.

I remember just agreeing with everything one particular guy said as I was in a cheerful mood,by the end of it I was beautiful . I got bored then and told him to fuck off and blocked him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv never had any on here but plenty on POF and Tinder

If someone isn't to my taste I find it polite to just thank them but explain they're not for me.

That's when you get the abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv never had any on here but plenty on POF and Tinder

If someone isn't to my taste I find it polite to just thank them but explain they're not for me.

That's when you get the abuse "

Silly to abuse you for saying no thanks but its the same as the guys on here do to women who reject (sorry some men do)

Can I just say you are rather than damn tasty btw (i promise not to send abuse)

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Take no notice, you've only been here a couple of weeks and sometimes it can take people a while to get to know you and get your sense of humour and quirks etc.

If you enjoy it stick with and fuck the ones giving you shit, it will puss em off more in the long run. "

I'd agree with this!

Unless you're one of the very few who are on the forums purely to throw fairy dust around and never have an opinion on anything remotely significant (not saying those people aren't needed and valued - they are!) - then you'll have run-in's with people - and as your Achilles heel is your 'playing away' then, if they've no intelligent argument to offer, they'll often attack you for that as it's simpler than coming up with an informed argument!

I'd say at least 25% of those I know and care about on fab are in relationships where their partner doesn't know they swing. It's not my place to pry and condemn them - just to be their friend!

The only 'cheats' who piss most of us off are the tiny percentage who gloat about that cheating/excitement on certain threads. Otherwise, most of us live and let live!

As others have said - stick around and get a thicker skin!

Huge hugs

Peachy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Silly to abuse you for saying no thanks but its the same as the guys on here do to women who reject (sorry some men do)

Can I just say you are rather than damn tasty btw (i promise not to send abuse) "

I had 1 girl tell me I was rude because I politely explained she wasn't my type

Feel free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take no notice, you've only been here a couple of weeks and sometimes it can take people a while to get to know you and get your sense of humour and quirks etc.

If you enjoy it stick with and fuck the ones giving you shit, it will puss em off more in the long run.

I'd agree with this!

Unless you're one of the very few who are on the forums purely to throw fairy dust around and never have an opinion on anything remotely significant (not saying those people aren't needed and valued - they are!) - then you'll have run-in's with people - and as your Achilles heel is your 'playing away' then, if they've no intelligent argument to offer, they'll often attack you for that as it's simpler than coming up with an informed argument!

I'd say at least 25% of those I know and care about on fab are in relationships where their partner doesn't know they swing. It's not my place to pry and condemn them - just to be their friend!

The only 'cheats' who piss most of us off are the tiny percentage who gloat about that cheating/excitement on certain threads. Otherwise, most of us live and let live!

As others have said - stick around and get a thicker skin!

Huge hugs

Peachy xxx"

Ever the voice of sensible reason. Perfectly put lovely.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Is this attention seeking or just a serious case of you need to man the fuck up I take it you don't get nasty mail

Yeah but after one or two you get used to them. I remembered getting my first on pof and I was mortified,now I just play along or tell them to f*ck off depending on what mood I'm in.

I remember just agreeing with everything one particular guy said as I was in a cheerful mood,by the end of it I was beautiful . I got bored then and told him to fuck off and blocked him "
lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Silly to abuse you for saying no thanks but its the same as the guys on here do to women who reject (sorry some men do)

Can I just say you are rather than damn tasty btw (i promise not to send abuse)

I had 1 girl tell me I was rude because I politely explained she wasn't my type

Feel free "

Haha im guess you didnt say 'hey sloth go back to the goonies' haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this attention seeking or just a serious case of you need to man the fuck up "

if you want attention seeking threads just follow the OP's green arrow

#pointlessshoutythreads

but what I don't get is people who message off the back of a forum post..

if you don't like it, move along...no need to go out of your way to tell anyone they are a tosser..that's just rude IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Haha im guess you didnt say 'hey sloth go back to the goonies' haha

"

Haha no, even after her tirade I only replied with thanks for that with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Haha im guess you didnt say 'hey sloth go back to the goonies' haha

Haha no, even after her tirade I only replied with thanks for that with x "

Well aren't you a gent.. handsome too.. sorry i need to stop perving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't leave the forums because you've had messages off some plonkers.

They're really not worth it. Why let someone else affect YOUR experience on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Well aren't you a gent.. handsome too.. sorry i need to stop perving "

Errrrr no you don't

It makes a nice changes to be peeves on from someone of the opposite sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Well aren't you a gent.. handsome too.. sorry i need to stop perving

Errrrr no you don't

It makes a nice changes to be peeves on from someone of the opposite sex "

Yay i'll keep on perving then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me thinks you need a thicker skin fella. You taking it a tad too seriously. Join in the fun, ignore the bollocks. Winning combination "

this - and theyre just words on a page - people can be so brave when theyre not face to face xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They wouldn't say it to your face. It's none of their business. But everyone will voice their opinion inevitably. Don't go so soon.

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester


" Well aren't you a gent.. handsome too.. sorry i need to stop perving

Errrrr no you don't

It makes a nice changes to be peeves on from someone of the opposite sex

Yay i'll keep on perving then "
joins scarlett on the perving sofa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Well aren't you a gent.. handsome too.. sorry i need to stop perving

Errrrr no you don't

It makes a nice changes to be peeves on from someone of the opposite sex

Yay i'll keep on perving then joins scarlett on the perving sofa"

How does 1 go from next to nothing in a month to a perving sofa

Disclaimer: this is in no way shape or form a complaint of any kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck 'em!"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Back out of hiding,good man!

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Blimey you've only been here a few weeks, you won't do very well if you are running away after three weeks "
he's been here before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Well aren't you a gent.. handsome too.. sorry i need to stop perving

Errrrr no you don't

It makes a nice changes to be peeves on from someone of the opposite sex

Yay i'll keep on perving then joins scarlett on the perving sofa"

Cuddle up when can have a good perve that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Well aren't you a gent.. handsome too.. sorry i need to stop perving

Errrrr no you don't

It makes a nice changes to be peeves on from someone of the opposite sex

Yay i'll keep on perving then joins scarlett on the perving sofa

How does 1 go from next to nothing in a month to a perving sofa

Disclaimer: this is in no way shape or form a complaint of any kind "

You hit our 'fuck me he's fit' radar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all my friends and potentially new friends please pm me,I post on the forums to have a laugh and treat people with respect,yes I'm married,but you don't really know the circumstances and no I'm not defending myself saying that,I can't be bothered getting sent crap anymore,you try to have a laugh but it's not appreciated."

I posted earlier about people who messaged others off the back of their forum posts but sorry OP the penny has just dropped...

in another thread you actually invited people to message anyone on there and tell them what they thought of them...and now here you are complaining about it

its nowt to do with being grumpy..

just be careful what you wish for in future

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To all my friends and potentially new friends please pm me,I post on the forums to have a laugh and treat people with respect,yes I'm married,but you don't really know the circumstances and no I'm not defending myself saying that,I can't be bothered getting sent crap anymore,you try to have a laugh but it's not appreciated.

I posted earlier about people who messaged others off the back of their forum posts but sorry OP the penny has just dropped...

in another thread you actually invited people to message anyone on there and tell them what they thought of them...and now here you are complaining about it

its nowt to do with being grumpy..

just be careful what you wish for in future "
i know,I should have thought carefully about that,I did maybe open myself up a tiny wincy little bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all my friends and potentially new friends please pm me,I post on the forums to have a laugh and treat people with respect,yes I'm married,but you don't really know the circumstances and no I'm not defending myself saying that,I can't be bothered getting sent crap anymore,you try to have a laugh but it's not appreciated.

I posted earlier about people who messaged others off the back of their forum posts but sorry OP the penny has just dropped...

in another thread you actually invited people to message anyone on there and tell them what they thought of them...and now here you are complaining about it

its nowt to do with being grumpy..

just be careful what you wish for in future i know,I should have thought carefully about that,I did maybe open myself up a tiny wincy little bit? "

I don't think the question mark is needed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To all my friends and potentially new friends please pm me,I post on the forums to have a laugh and treat people with respect,yes I'm married,but you don't really know the circumstances and no I'm not defending myself saying that,I can't be bothered getting sent crap anymore,you try to have a laugh but it's not appreciated.

I posted earlier about people who messaged others off the back of their forum posts but sorry OP the penny has just dropped...

in another thread you actually invited people to message anyone on there and tell them what they thought of them...and now here you are complaining about it

its nowt to do with being grumpy..

just be careful what you wish for in future i know,I should have thought carefully about that,I did maybe open myself up a tiny wincy little bit?

I don't think the question mark is needed"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you started this thread 4 hours ago and are still here responding? Well played, OP, well played

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