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By *exycouplemmmm OP   Couple
over a year ago

Surrey

Seen some photos on here that have clearly been taken in public hallway of a hotel. Personally, if I came across (no pun intended) someone engaging in a sex act in a hotel hallway I'd be pissed off and a little scared if I'm honest! I'm no way prudish and each to their own... but potentially involving an innocent bystander is not on in my opinion!

Thoughts ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard to judge things like that from a photo, the poster could have gone to great lengths to make sure they wouldn't be seen but make it appear on the picture that they are being risky. Unless you ask them I'm afraid you'll never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hard to judge things like that from a photo, the poster could have gone to great lengths to make sure they wouldn't be seen but make it appear on the picture that they are being risky. Unless you ask them I'm afraid you'll never know "

This. And if it's a hotel by a club the whole floor could be full of swingers who would leave their doors open and not be worried in the least.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

I'd suspect that a hotel hallway would have cctv

Unless they had sought out any blind spots

Half the thrill of exhibitionism is the thought of getting caught. But it's more embarrassing for any who might come across you

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By *exycouplemmmm OP   Couple
over a year ago

Surrey


"I'd suspect that a hotel hallway would have cctv

Unless they had sought out any blind spots

Half the thrill of exhibitionism is the thought of getting caught. But it's more embarrassing for any who might come across you "

My point is though that our ''thrills' should never be at the expense of someone else. Imagine if the person that walks in on that is a child? I know I sound like a bore... but it's a bit off in my opinion

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

We take quite a lot of photos that appear to be risky but we go to great lengths to ensure they actually aren't. Both of us are very big on consent in anything sexual so would be mortified if we involved anyone who hadn't expressly agreed beforehand. If the issue of consent is blurred at all I think you're on a slippery slope.

I did have a dress blowing up in the wind incident once but luckily the only person who saw was grinning like a cheshire cat. I was horrified

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I can see both sides. If the picture taker has taken steps to make sure innocent people aren't gping to stumble on them, then fair enough.

At the same time, it isn't right to expose other people, who don't want to be involved in it.

We love swinging, but I'd be annoyed at somebody if I was in a hotel or in the countryside with my kids and we saw them.

Have fun but consider others too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see both sides. If the picture taker has taken steps to make sure innocent people aren't gping to stumble on them, then fair enough.

At the same time, it isn't right to expose other people, who don't want to be involved in it.

We love swinging, but I'd be annoyed at somebody if I was in a hotel or in the countryside with my kids and we saw them.

Have fun but consider others too x"

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I can see both sides. If the picture taker has taken steps to make sure innocent people aren't gping to stumble on them, then fair enough.

At the same time, it isn't right to expose other people, who don't want to be involved in it.

We love swinging, but I'd be annoyed at somebody if I was in a hotel or in the countryside with my kids and we saw them.

Have fun but consider others too x"

this.....have done so in publically condoned places. Swinging hotels /clubs that allow private pics where to the general person looking at the pic it could be anywhere but I know I was in no way going to infringe upon anyone else. It's the fantasy attached behind it. Even on a floor of swingers that thrill is there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am totally with you OP.

There is limits I do not wish to cross and if I was walking by with my kids, I wouldn't be happy at all !!

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood


"I'd suspect that a hotel hallway would have cctv

Unless they had sought out any blind spots

Half the thrill of exhibitionism is the thought of getting caught. But it's more embarrassing for any who might come across you

My point is though that our ''thrills' should never be at the expense of someone else. Imagine if the person that walks in on that is a child? I know I sound like a bore... but it's a bit off in my opinion "

I agree 100% specially if they've maybe had a drink or to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hard to judge things like that from a photo, the poster could have gone to great lengths to make sure they wouldn't be seen but make it appear on the picture that they are being risky. Unless you ask them I'm afraid you'll never know "

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