FabSwingers.com forum: A Fab Experiment.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Having read the forums over the years, it's obvious that there are a few questions,pondered persistently by old and new members alike.

As a consequence I'd like to propose a lighthearted experiment to try and provide scientific evidence as opposed to speculation, in answering them!

Still awake in the back? Here goes.

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens?

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction?

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work?

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond?

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day?

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results so I can bullish them in due course!

All in the name of science in order to improve your Fab experience.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

How bold!

I've had a play...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tempting , I already have done one of those things on my profile and its always been there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's easier to ask others to do than apply it yourself!

What have you got to lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Having read the forums over the years, it's obvious that there are a few questions,pondered persistently by old and new members alike.

As a consequence I'd like to propose a lighthearted experiment to try and provide scientific evidence as opposed to speculation, in answering them!

Still awake in the back? Here goes.

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens? NOT A CHANCE

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction? I'D ONLY END UP EMAILING MYSELF

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work? NOPE, SOME PEOPLE IRRATIONALLY BLOCK PEOPLE WHO WINK

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond? I'M NOT AVAILABLE TO MEET TODAY

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day? IT'S BEEN THERE SINCE DAY 1. STILL HERE.

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results so I can bullish them in due course!

All in the name of science in order to improve your Fab experience.

Feedback above ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it!!

I'd prefer to play with singles less drama/karma/guilt etc. However I'm more likely to play with a married that has been open about it but if they haven't and I have to ask I'm not interested

Hotlist yeah I'd love to know who has me on their hotlist

Winks I sometimes respond and say thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I daren't take stealth mode off. I'm a complete stalker...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Having read the forums over the years, it's obvious that there are a few questions,pondered persistently by old and new members alike.

As a consequence I'd like to propose a lighthearted experiment to try and provide scientific evidence as opposed to speculation, in answering them!

Still awake in the back? Here goes.

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens? NOT A CHANCE

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction? I'D ONLY END UP EMAILING MYSELF

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work? NOPE, SOME PEOPLE IRRATIONALLY BLOCK PEOPLE WHO WINK

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond? I'M NOT AVAILABLE TO MEET TODAY

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day? IT'S BEEN THERE SINCE DAY 1. STILL HERE.

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results so I can bullish them in due course!

All in the name of science in order to improve your Fab experience.

Feedback above ^

Thankyou

I just turned ninja spy mode off...I anticipate being blocked by all my regular perv favourites

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

I perv, I wink, I message, my profile is there, I haven't used hotlist, my box isn't bulging

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I daren't take stealth mode off. I'm a complete stalker..."

You can stalk me anytime blueeyedgirl

Boo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I daren't take stealth mode off. I'm a complete stalker..."

Haha totally the same reason here for stealth

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I perv, I wink, I message, my profile is there, I haven't used hotlist, my box isn't bulging "
then a new element must be added to the equation for success !

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

"I perv, I wink, I message, my profile is there, I haven't used hotlist, my box isn't bulging then a new element must be added to the equation for success !

Any tips are welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I perv, I wink, I message, my profile is there, I haven't used hotlist, my box isn't bulging then a new element must be added to the equation for success !

Any tips are welcome

Yeah participating in my experiments and listening to my advice is likely to get you in the proverbial shite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm out and proud in my perving lol

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

"I perv, I wink, I message, my profile is there, I haven't used hotlist, my box isn't bulging then a new element must be added to the equation for success !

Any tips are welcome

Yeah participating in my experiments and listening to my advice is likely to get you in the proverbial shite!

Sounds like an excellent plan, bring it on, I'm all up for trouble..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes use my hotlist just to keep an eye on people who amuse me and not necessarily for good reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I daren't take stealth mode off. I'm a complete stalker...

Haha totally the same reason here for stealth

I mean, I've looked at Honey's swimsuit pic at least 10 times already...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't lose stealth, need to fulfil my inner stalker at times!

Would love to know if I'm on hotlists

I've sent winks, sometimes they work, sometimes they don't, although not everyone spots them evidently!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I daren't take stealth mode off. I'm a complete stalker...

Haha totally the same reason here for stealth

I mean, I've looked at Honey's swimsuit pic at least 10 times already... "

Drat I darent look now...I'll be found out.

First hotlist message sent...

what will occur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll give some of these a whirl later.

The married thing is front and centre on the profile and I've never had bother about it

Stealth mode is staying on though...

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

" Having read the forums over the years, it's obvious that there are a few questions,pondered persistently by old and new members alike.

As a consequence I'd like to propose a lighthearted experiment to try and provide scientific evidence as opposed to speculation, in answering them!

Still awake in the back? Here goes.

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens?

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction?

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work?

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond?

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day?

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results so I can bullish them in due course!

All in the name of science in order to improve your Fab experience.

Ninja mode is a necessity for perving, I don't want a restraining order!

I usually fab pics though so they'll know I've been there.

My hot list is pretty big. Probably needs a cull tbf. I mail a few and get replies so I'm doing OK there.

Winks don't really work for me. Never get replies from em.

Put up a meet post all week and didn't get one sniff.not a sausage.i just sat crying in the bath instead!

Not married so not a problem for me, but happy to pretend I am if it floats your boat

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

If I took stealth off everyone in the forum would think I'm perving at them, when in reality I'm scrolling through the thread and accidentally end up on profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know how to use stealth mode so everyone always knows when I look at them. Mostly had all my winks returned.

Only a couple on my hotlist and they know already that I want them. As for marital status I'm part of a couple so not relevant. And I've tried the meet today and not had any takers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been truthful on my profile .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Having read the forums over the years, it's obvious that there are a few questions,pondered persistently by old and new members alike.

As a consequence I'd like to propose a lighthearted experiment to try and provide scientific evidence as opposed to speculation, in answering them!

Still awake in the back? Here goes.

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens?

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction?

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work?

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond?

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day?

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results so I can bullish them in due course!

All in the name of science in order to improve your Fab experience.

Ninja mode is a necessity for perving, I don't want a restraining order!

I usually fab pics though so they'll know I've been there.

My hot list is pretty big. Probably needs a cull tbf. I mail a few and get replies so I'm doing OK there.

Winks don't really work for me. Never get replies from em.

Put up a meet post all week and didn't get one sniff.not a sausage.i just sat crying in the bath instead!

Not married so not a problem for me, but happy to pretend I am if it floats your boat

Thankyou kind sir. It appears the results are proving predictable. The place is full of ninja types who rarely wink successfully and don't speak to their hotlist much !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I took stealth off everyone in the forum would think I'm perving at them, when in reality I'm scrolling through the thread and accidentally end up on profiles

Course you're not perving !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't know how to use stealth mode so everyone always knows when I look at them. Mostly had all my winks returned.

Only a couple on my hotlist and they know already that I want them. As for marital status I'm part of a couple so not relevant. And I've tried the meet today and not had any takers x "

A satisfied customer !

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Good idea, we've been in stealth mode so long, forgot there was anything else!

Off it goes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no one on my hotlist..

I perve without stealth mode when I'm in the mood for a meet..

I don't wink as I find them annoying..

If I want a response I find if you fab a pic or two that works better...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good idea, we've been in stealth mode so long, forgot there was anything else!

Off it goes...

Brace yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Having read the forums over the years, it's obvious that there are a few questions,pondered persistently by old and new members alike.

As a consequence I'd like to propose a lighthearted experiment to try and provide scientific evidence as opposed to speculation, in answering them!

Still awake in the back? Here goes.

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens?

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction?

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work?

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond?

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day?

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results so I can bullish them in due course!

All in the name of science in order to improve your Fab experience.

Ninja mode is always off

Only 3 people on my hot list at the moment, one I have met twice, the other two will be meeting in the future. Reckon I have mailed 30-35 women who have been on my hot list at some point, ~1 in 10 hit ratio is not bad.

Sent a few winks this morning, nothing.

Can't meet today

I am married and it's on my profile.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"If I took stealth off everyone in the forum would think I'm perving at them, when in reality I'm scrolling through the thread and accidentally end up on profiles

Course you're not perving !"

I'm really not unless it's one of those profile threads. On the occasions I am perving it's because some guy has passed comment on a thread about his pics then I look but generally comment or pm so they know anyway. If they appear in my inbox obviously I'm going to perv that's only fair

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

"I daren't take stealth mode off. I'm a complete stalker..."

You already know you're on my hotlist, right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I got winked at. I darent look at my hotlist until stealth mode goes back on...I may be blocked !

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm not brave enough to switch off my ninja mode...my messages are shite at the best of times without inviting more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not brave enough to switch off my ninja mode...my messages are shite at the best of times without inviting more

That's what I'm deducing. Women and couples are in stealth mode to avoid men, believing that a looked at me message, means contact me.

Whereas men stay in stealth mode to avoid being blocked for constant perving !!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I'm not brave enough to switch off my ninja mode...my messages are shite at the best of times without inviting more

That's what I'm deducing. Women and couples are in stealth mode to avoid men, believing that a looked at me message, means contact me.

Whereas men stay in stealth mode to avoid being blocked for constant perving !!"

The mystery to me is what are they looking at on my profile lol

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

"I'm not brave enough to switch off my ninja mode...my messages are shite at the best of times without inviting more

That's what I'm deducing. Women and couples are in stealth mode to avoid men, believing that a looked at me message, means contact me.

Whereas men stay in stealth mode to avoid being blocked for constant perving !!"

I must admit, if someone who interests me views my profile, I'll normally send a "hope you like what you see" message, but it rarely gets a response.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I'm not brave enough to switch off my ninja mode...my messages are shite at the best of times without inviting more

That's what I'm deducing. Women and couples are in stealth mode to avoid men, believing that a looked at me message, means contact me.

Whereas men stay in stealth mode to avoid being blocked for constant perving !!"

Exactly, avoiding the 'I see you looked at my profile' as if it was an invitation

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Don't think I've ever been blocked for constant perving.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not brave enough to switch off my ninja mode...my messages are shite at the best of times without inviting more

That's what I'm deducing. Women and couples are in stealth mode to avoid men, believing that a looked at me message, means contact me.

Whereas men stay in stealth mode to avoid being blocked for constant perving !!

The mystery to me is what are they looking at on my profile lol

There's a way of hacking into your hidden pics that even you don't know are there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't think I've ever been blocked for constant perving. "

Isn't that a KD Lang song?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Having read the forums over the years, it's obvious that there are a few questions,pondered persistently by old and new members alike.

As a consequence I'd like to propose a lighthearted experiment to try and provide scientific evidence as opposed to speculation, in answering them!

Still awake in the back? Here goes.

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens?

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction?

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work?

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond?

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day?

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results so I can bullish them in due course!

All in the name of science in order to improve your Fab experience.

Let me sum up for you now what the results will be..."eff all, as always is the case on the forum, it's just a talking shop"

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

" Having read the forums over the years, it's obvious that there are a few questions,pondered persistently by old and new members alike.

As a consequence I'd like to propose a lighthearted experiment to try and provide scientific evidence as opposed to speculation, in answering them!

Still awake in the back? Here goes.

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens?

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction?

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work?

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond?

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day?

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results so I can bullish them in due course!

All in the name of science in order to improve your Fab experience.

Let me sum up for you now what the results will be..."eff all, as always is the case on the forum, it's just a talking shop"

How cynical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually going to do this

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I'm actually going to do this

Which elements do you need to act upon?

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Ok.. I'm going to give this a go.. I may be a while...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Having read the forums over the years, it's obvious that there are a few questions,pondered persistently by old and new members alike.

As a consequence I'd like to propose a lighthearted experiment to try and provide scientific evidence as opposed to speculation, in answering them!

Still awake in the back? Here goes.

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens?

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction?

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work?

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond?

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day?

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results so I can bullish them in due course!

All in the name of science in order to improve your Fab experience.

Let me sum up for you now what the results will be..."eff all, as always is the case on the forum, it's just a talking shop"

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ahh au contraire ! I have had a hot list response and a wink...but yeah you're pretty much spot on. Mind you that's what forums are for !

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"I daren't take stealth mode off. I'm a complete stalker..."

you can stalk me any time x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I know who I look at It my be interesting to see if we get a response from the people dick look at so why not.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Good thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put up a meet request this week and got nothing but tumble. My delicate sensibilities can't take that kind of anguish again!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I put up a meet request this week and got nothing but tumble. My delicate sensibilities can't take that kind of anguish again!"

You're brave, I doubt it'll stay like that for long, I'm getting tense for you lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I put up a meet request this week and got nothing but tumble. My delicate sensibilities can't take that kind of anguish again!"

Ahhh but I bet thousands have also done so.

It's the delicate ingredients, timing, location, being aware of the meet and chemistry coming together all at once...Night on impossible.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Ninja mode off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I put up a meet request this week and got nothing but tumble. My delicate sensibilities can't take that kind of anguish again!"

I was the same, I put up a meet and got nothing

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

"I put up a meet request this week and got nothing but tumble. My delicate sensibilities can't take that kind of anguish again!

I was the same, I put up a meet and got nothing

How did I miss that?!? Grrr xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ninja mode off temporarily

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I put up a meet request this week and got nothing but tumble. My delicate sensibilities can't take that kind of anguish again!

I was the same, I put up a meet and got nothing

What is going on???

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Ninja mode off temporarily

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I put up a meet request this week and got nothing but tumble. My delicate sensibilities can't take that kind of anguish again!

I was the same, I put up a meet and got nothing

I'm living in the wrong part of the country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Having read the forums over the years, it's obvious that there are a few questions,pondered persistently by old and new members alike.

As a consequence I'd like to propose a lighthearted experiment to try and provide scientific evidence as opposed to speculation, in answering them!

Still awake in the back? Here goes.

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens?

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction?

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work?

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond?

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day?

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results so I can bullish them in due course!

All in the name of science in order to improve your Fab experience.

Let me sum up for you now what the results will be..."eff all, as always is the case on the forum, it's just a talking shop"

How cynical

Cynicism to you, observed reality to me!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I'm not brave enough to switch off my ninja mode...my messages are shite at the best of times without inviting more

That's what I'm deducing. Women and couples are in stealth mode to avoid men, believing that a looked at me message, means contact me.

Whereas men stay in stealth mode to avoid being blocked for constant perving !!

The mystery to me is what are they looking at on my profile lol

There's a way of hacking into your hidden pics that even you don't know are there."

Now that really would be an achievement

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

" Having read the forums over the years, it's obvious that there are a few questions,pondered persistently by old and new members alike.

As a consequence I'd like to propose a lighthearted experiment to try and provide scientific evidence as opposed to speculation, in answering them!

Still awake in the back? Here goes.

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens?

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction?

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work?

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond?

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day?

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results so I can bullish them in due course!

All in the name of science in order to improve your Fab experience.

Let me sum up for you now what the results will be..."eff all, as always is the case on the forum, it's just a talking shop"

How cynical

Cynicism to you, observed reality to me!

So are you participating or not

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

" Having read the forums over the years, it's obvious that there are a few questions,pondered persistently by old and new members alike.

As a consequence I'd like to propose a lighthearted experiment to try and provide scientific evidence as opposed to speculation, in answering them!

Still awake in the back? Here goes.

Started this when I first saw the thread a few hours ago and so far my results are as follows

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens?

All of the 20 people I've looked at most have responded in some form I've had 8 messages with words similar to this "thanks for Looking/winking" and "did I like what I saw" , 3 have fabbed my pics, 5 have winked, 3 haven't been online since to respond and 1 blocked me

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction?

Everyone on my hotlist are guests at a Social I'm planning so the Ines that we're quite happy for me to say hello, catastrophe averted

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work?

10 winks sent, 3 have winked back 3 have messaged, 1 had blocked me, 1 hasn't been online since and 2 have just looked but sent no form of response

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond?

Had a response from a fab friend within minutes of the meet going up and while I explained I was doing it for experimental Purposes and can't meet just right now, we are meeting later

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day?

Not married so irrelevant

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results so I can bullish them in due course!

Inbox survive but filters are now going back on so I don't fall folly of d*unken Saturday night messages from newbies/idiots

All in the name of science in order to improve your Fab experience.

So there's my results enjoy

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over a year ago

"The mystery to me is what are they looking at on my profile lol

The catch 22 of fab, nobody knows there is nothing on your profile until they look at your profile.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"I daren't take stealth mode off. I'm a complete stalker..."

Defo me too..i like to be like the dark knight

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over a year ago

" Having read the forums over the years, it's obvious that there are a few questions,pondered persistently by old and new members alike.

As a consequence I'd like to propose a lighthearted experiment to try and provide scientific evidence as opposed to speculation, in answering them!

Still awake in the back? Here goes.

Started this when I first saw the thread a few hours ago and so far my results are as follows

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens?

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction?

Everyone on my hotlist are guests at a Social I'm planning so the Ines that we're quite happy for me to say hello, catastrophe averted

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work?

10 winks sent, 3 have winked back 3 have messaged, 1 had blocked me, 1 hasn't been online since and 2 have just looked but sent no form of response

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond?

Had a response from a fab friend within minutes of the meet going up and while I explained I was doing it for experimental Purposes and can't meet just right now, we are meeting later

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day?

Not married so irrelevant

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results so I can bullish them in due course!

Inbox survive but filters are now going back on so I don't fall folly of d*unken Saturday night messages from newbies/idiots

All in the name of science in order to improve your Fab experience.

So there's my results enjoy "

Brilliant

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"The mystery to me is what are they looking at on my profile lol

The catch 22 of fab, nobody knows there is nothing on your profile until they look at your profile.

Pmsl good point!!

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over a year ago

" Having read the forums over the years, it's obvious that there are a few questions,pondered persistently by old and new members alike.

As a consequence I'd like to propose a lighthearted experiment to try and provide scientific evidence as opposed to speculation, in answering them!

Still awake in the back? Here goes.

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens?

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction?

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work?

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond?

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day?

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results so I can bullish them in due course!

All in the name of science in order to improve your Fab experience.

Let me sum up for you now what the results will be..."eff all, as always is the case on the forum, it's just a talking shop"

How cynical

Cynicism to you, observed reality to me!

So are you participating or not

Yes, I have fully committed, happy? Wonder what will the mathematical relationship between sent winks/messages be to being blocked, I'm guessing directly proportional.

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over a year ago

Minus the married status thing I think I'm done

Not having ninja mode on leaves me feeling vulnerable lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have messaged someone from my hot list,now let's see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emailing everyone on my hotlist? I did that when I put them on my Hotlist - nobody reads them anymore.

The read-rate on here is about 1 in 10 at the moment.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

" Having read the forums over the years, it's obvious that there are a few questions,pondered persistently by old and new members alike.

As a consequence I'd like to propose a lighthearted experiment to try and provide scientific evidence as opposed to speculation, in answering them!

Still awake in the back? Here goes.

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens?

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction?

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work?

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond?

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day?

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results so I can bullish them in due course!

All in the name of science in order to improve your Fab experience.

Let me sum up for you now what the results will be..."eff all, as always is the case on the forum, it's just a talking shop"

How cynical

Cynicism to you, observed reality to me!

So are you participating or not

Yes, I have fully committed, happy? Wonder what will the mathematical relationship between sent winks/messages be to being blocked, I'm guessing directly proportional."

Haha sorry you may need to adjust your hypothesis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message telling me I was on a hotlist

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Minus the married status thing I think I'm done

Not having ninja mode on leaves me feeling vulnerable lol

Hmmm vulnerable, I doubt that, you never know you may be pleasantly surprised

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over a year ago

"I got a message telling me I was on a hotlist "

You're on my Hotlist

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I always tell people their on my hot list.. shows I'm interested to keep in touch in the early stages when it's too quick to become friends!

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over a year ago

"I daren't take stealth mode off. I'm a complete stalker..."

I regularly check under my bed in case you're under it.

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over a year ago

Okay, but if anybody gets annoyed because I've sent them messages telling them I'm on their hotlist or because I've winked or stalked them I'm sending them your way

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over a year ago

Having had a bit of a break from looking for new people to meet and now back in the saddle maybe this is a good time to try some of these. Ninja mode off and winks commencing, messaging of Hotlist to follow...

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

"I put up a meet request this week and got nothing but tumble. My delicate sensibilities can't take that kind of anguish again!

I was the same, I put up a meet and got nothing

I've seen these, not yours but local ones. Might be that guys are scared of being turned down, I've clicked to say hi to be immediately deleted so... don't really know what I'm trying to say, I'll shut up now and leave quietly via the rear....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've actually had some interesting replies on this.

The general theme is, that nothing happens unless you do something on this site!

Winks can get reactions it appears, but we'll written messages unsurprisingly win. Having a hotlist is pointless unless you act and as for stealth mode? Well it seems that a lot of us, on a sex site are concerned about being seen as a perv? Cue Allanis Mortisette's rather unironic ironic song.

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over a year ago

" I've actually had some interesting replies on this.

The general theme is, that nothing happens unless you do something on this site!

Lol, not worried about being seen as a perv - if the sock fits. More concerned about spooking anyone by how often I check them out

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over a year ago

" I've actually had some interesting replies on this.

The general theme is, that nothing happens unless you do something on this site!

Lol, not worried about being seen as a perv - if the sock fits. More concerned about spooking anyone by how often I check them out

Let's be honest..if you post pics on the tinternet....then what do people expect? But I kind of understand your point given that I have a few favourite profiles!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've never been told I am on anyone's hotlist

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over a year ago

"I've never been told I am on anyone's hotlist

It's evident to me, that very few people tell others that they are!

Puzzling. I know...I fancy them, I'll ignore them and see what happens ! Most of us can figure out the result!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I put up a meet request this week and got nothing but tumble. My delicate sensibilities can't take that kind of anguish again!

I was the same, I put up a meet and got nothing

Nice view of your rear

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

" I've actually had some interesting replies on this.

The general theme is, that nothing happens unless you do something on this site!

Lol, not worried about being seen as a perv - if the sock fits. More concerned about spooking anyone by how often I check them out

Don't worry I'm not spooked, just thought you had a bad memory, that or I'm easily forgettable

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

"I put up a meet request this week and got nothing but tumble. My delicate sensibilities can't take that kind of anguish again!

I was the same, I put up a meet and got nothing

Nice view of your rear

Lol

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens? Already off and apeculative winks odd mail now and then

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction? N/A currently

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work? We do this luke warm responses at best..success rate low but occaisonal nice social meet

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond? Already up and responses received byt mostly men and no success

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day? Already

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results. It does increase admin overhead but no secretary reqd just yet...

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over a year ago

Preston

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens? Already off and apeculative winks odd mail now and then

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction? N/A currently

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work? We do this luke warm responses at best..success rate low but occaisonal nice social meet

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond? Already up and responses received byt mostly men and no success

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day? Already

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results. It does increase admin overhead but no secretary reqd just yet..."

Pmsl that last sentence tipped me over the edge

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over a year ago

How's the experiment going?

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

I've drawn a blank

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over a year ago

Mixed. Some responses but I'm back in stealth state now and I feel safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How's the experiment going?

Personally, I've accepted the null hypothesis

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"How's the experiment going?

Personally, I've accepted the null hypothesis

Pmsl

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over a year ago

"How's the experiment going?

A mixed bag...I just stuck the meet today thing on out of curiosity! Winks aren't completely null and void despite common opinion ! But don't rely on winks!

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over a year ago

"How's the experiment going?

Personally, I've accepted the null hypothesis

Pmsl

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causing trouble in my thread??

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over a year ago

Wakefield

"How's the experiment going?

Personally, I've accepted the null hypothesis

Pmsl

causing trouble in my thread??

Sorry

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"How's the experiment going?

Personally, I've accepted the null hypothesis

Pmsl

causing trouble in my thread??

Sorry"

Phew thought I was in trouble then

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over a year ago

"How's the experiment going?

Personally, I've accepted the null hypothesis

Pmsl

causing trouble in my thread??

Sorry"

not you...you're nice !

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over a year ago

"How's the experiment going?

Personally, I've accepted the null hypothesis

Pmsl

causing trouble in my thread??

Sorry

Phew thought I was in trouble then

Hang on, which one of us is in trouble?

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over a year ago

Preston

"How's the experiment going?

Personally, I've accepted the null hypothesis

Pmsl

causing trouble in my thread??

Sorry

Phew thought I was in trouble then

Hang on, which one of us is in trouble?"

Well it's seem one of us is

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

Well I've let a couple of my hotlist know, club meet is up... still ninja though

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"How's the experiment going?

Personally, I've accepted the null hypothesis

Pmsl

causing trouble in my thread??

Sorry

Phew thought I was in trouble then

Hang on, which one of us is in trouble?

Well it's seem one of us is

Think were in the clear for now.

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over a year ago

Preston

"How's the experiment going?

Personally, I've accepted the null hypothesis

Pmsl

causing trouble in my thread??

Sorry

Phew thought I was in trouble then

Hang on, which one of us is in trouble?

Well it's seem one of us is

Think were in the clear for now."

Show offs

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over a year ago

"How's the experiment going?

Personally, I've accepted the null hypothesis

Pmsl

causing trouble in my thread??

Sorry

Phew thought I was in trouble then

Hang on, which one of us is in trouble?

Well it's seem one of us is

Think were in the clear for now.

Show offs

Shhh, he might forget

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over a year ago

Have done a few

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over a year ago

I've had to revert to ninja mode, unsurprisingly got messages from profiles I had a peek at, and felt I was avoiding looking at some I might have had a nose at for fear of having to deal with umpteen Well, what do you think messages (which is why we went stealth in the first place) Plus my memory is rubbish so I find myself repeatedly looking at profiles in messaging to check info and I must look like a massive perve.

Winking got messages back, but it was the Hotlist that really paid off! We put people we think are really hot and tick loads of boxes so area probably getting plenty of offers from sexy singles on our Hotlist. Who knew they thought the same

As a meet isn't a goer tonight skipped that, and we're married to each other so didn't feel the need to explicitly state that.

Glad I tried some of the elements, it's been an eye opener!

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over a year ago

"How's the experiment going?

Personally, I've accepted the null hypothesis

Pmsl

causing trouble in my thread??

Sorry

Phew thought I was in trouble then

Hang on, which one of us is in trouble?

Well it's seem one of us is

Think were in the clear for now.

Show offs

Shhh, he might forget

Shines torch at them and waves finger... stop winking...it's not very effective.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"How's the experiment going?

Personally, I've accepted the null hypothesis

Pmsl

causing trouble in my thread??

Sorry

Phew thought I was in trouble then

Hang on, which one of us is in trouble?

Well it's seem one of us is

Think were in the clear for now.

Show offs

Shhh, he might forget

Shines torch at them and waves finger... stop winking...it's not very effective."

I have to wink I joined the winking thread

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over a year ago

"How's the experiment going?

Personally, I've accepted the null hypothesis

Pmsl

causing trouble in my thread??

Sorry

Phew thought I was in trouble then

Hang on, which one of us is in trouble?

Well it's seem one of us is

Think were in the clear for now.

Show offs

Shhh, he might forget

Shines torch at them and waves finger... stop winking...it's not very effective."

Sorry mister, but we were actually fluttering, see...

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" Having read the forums over the years, it's obvious that there are a few questions,pondered persistently by old and new members alike.

As a consequence I'd like to propose a lighthearted experiment to try and provide scientific evidence as opposed to speculation, in answering them!

Still awake in the back? Here goes.

* Turn off ninja spy mode so everyone sees you've looked at them. What happens?

* email everyone on your hotlist and tell them they're on it. Did you suffer a catastrophic reaction?

* Send ten winks to those who catch your eye. Did a wink work?

* Put a meet me now status up. Did anyone respond?

* If you're married, stick it on your status. Will you live to the end of the day?

* Lastly, if your inbox hasn't collapsed and the police haven't arrived to issue a harassment order, let me know the results so I can bullish them in due course!

All in the name of science in order to improve your Fab experience.

Has this worked for anyone?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I've never been told I am on anyone's hotlist

I just have! Yay!

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over a year ago

"How's the experiment going?

Personally, I've accepted the null hypothesis

Pmsl

causing trouble in my thread??

Sorry

Phew thought I was in trouble then

Hang on, which one of us is in trouble?

Well it's seem one of us is

Think were in the clear for now.

Show offs

Shhh, he might forget

Shines torch at them and waves finger... stop winking...it's not very effective.

Sorry mister, but we were actually fluttering, see...

yeah well I'm not sure about you two...just watch it. You look like trouble.

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over a year ago

What I think I might do is, have sex with men I don't really find attractive, to see if they do deserve a chance.

Who's first?

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over a year ago

"What I think I might do is, have sex with men I don't really find attractive, to see if they do deserve a chance.

Who's first?"

whoa now...that's a totally different experiment. Potentially more dangerous than that hydron collider thingy majig. There's 90% of the male membership in jeopardy here !!

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

"What I think I might do is, have sex with men I don't really find attractive, to see if they do deserve a chance.

Who's first?"

Too old, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've had great success..

No ninja mode

And have got in contact with a really nice guy

Here's hoping for a positive outcome

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over a year ago

"Well I've had great success..

No ninja mode

And have got in contact with a really nice guy

Here's hoping for a positive outcome

Good to hear. Good luck.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

There's a refreshing change the word positive lol

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