FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

do u need noise to get off to sleep ?

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

this is the source of many a disagreement between the other half and i !

i like some noise usually in the form of a radio (on low) whereas she prefers complete silence.

complete silence & darkness combined freaks me out and if anything makes me more awake than sleepy.

so who's with me on the need for some sound before sleep and who prefers complete silence ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm like you - takes me ages to drop off and cannot go without a bit of background noise, usually have my mp3 player to help. can't read in bed though.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once fucked a bird who left the tv all night. I asked her to turn it off but no joy. So at 3 am i tried to fuck her up the arse as i couldn't sleep which went badly. Since then i don't like any noise at night. Bad experiences can have a dramatic effect!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Once fucked a bird who left the tv all night. I asked her to turn it off but no joy. So at 3 am i tried to fuck her up the arse as i couldn't sleep which went badly. Since then i don't like any noise at night. Bad experiences can have a dramatic effect! "

as a wake up call, i can't imagine an impromptu bumming is up there on anybody's hit list

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is the source of many a disagreement between the other half and i !

i like some noise usually in the form of a radio (on low) whereas she prefers complete silence.

complete silence & darkness combined freaks me out and if anything makes me more awake than sleepy.

so who's with me on the need for some sound before sleep and who prefers complete silence ?"

I've spent most of my adult sleeping hours with the BBC World Service on in the background.

Apart from the very welcome subliminal educational aspect it's comforting to know that Bush House hasn't been nuked.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total silence and darkness....

Have to wrap myself up in the duvet in an attempt to shut out all sound and light....usually wake up suffocating especially in this hot weather... Duh!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once fucked a bird who left the tv all night. I asked her to turn it off but no joy. So at 3 am i tried to fuck her up the arse as i couldn't sleep which went badly. Since then i don't like any noise at night. Bad experiences can have a dramatic effect!

as a wake up call, i can't imagine an impromptu bumming is up there on anybody's hit list "

If you use lots of lube and cough loudly as you slip it in there is a small possibility you might get away with it!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total silence and darkness....

Have to wrap myself up in the duvet in an attempt to shut out all sound and light....usually wake up suffocating especially in this hot weather... Duh! "

Well your bum would be totally safe when you invite me round then

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total silence and darkness....

Have to wrap myself up in the duvet in an attempt to shut out all sound and light....usually wake up suffocating especially in this hot weather... Duh! "

I agree about the pitch black. I moved my bedroom from the south east corner of my building to the north west corner but I still need blackout blinds.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Blackout blinds, ear plugs and an eyemask for me.

Can sleep through the noise of airplanes but the slightest movement in the house wakes me up!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need near complete darkness usually, but I sometimes listen to rainymood (google it) which features the sound of raindrops hitting a roof and distant thunder. I find it oddly comforting, I think a lot of people do. It's funny. It's a very instinctive thing, might be from our cave dwelling days, I have a feeling it's deeply rooted in the human pysche.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

I like the quietness now, but when i was younger i used to have the radio on low while going to sleep.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I can fall asleep just as well with the telly on as I can with it off. But I rarely sleep in complete silence. I have a noisey clock and always have a window open.... but I don't notice the traffic noise or the ticking... I just have to hear other people complain about them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only draw my curtains in the winter so some light comes in. I also have my tv on. If I don't touch it for four hours it turns itself off. If I've slept and the tv turns off, I wake up: just turn tv on again to get back to sleep!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have to have some noise, or a film or something, thank god for iplayer its stopped my outgoings of dvds being so high! it is wierd though, and has always been a pain in the arse for gfs... i usually put a timer on as i can nod off in mins if theres something on, yet if theres nothing i think about far too much n usually freak myself out or overthink n get stressed, wonder if theres a study somewhere on this....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i turn on the fan just for the noise lol, works pretty well

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Total silence and darkness for me cant sleep in cities either been brought up in the peace of the country

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silence or noise doesn't bother me. I can sleep on a clothesline if I'm tired enough

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Siren prefers totally sensory deprivation to get to sleep. She wear an eye mask, ear plugs and the room has to be pitch black. I find it unnerving as it's like sleeping in a void. I can sleep under a plane revving all four engines if I'm tired enough.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I need utter peace and quiet and black/dark curtains. If I am incredibly tired I can fall asleep in front of the tv but its not a deep sleep.

I did do an experiment once and have the radio on very low all night, had a very disturbed nights sleep so would never do it again

And my new Big Ben is so loud I cannot get used to it so have banished it to a cupboard in the spare room

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complete silence for me xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm another that needs pitch black darkness and total silence. I wear ear plugs and have blackout curtains up.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter to me - noisy or quiet, I can sleep soundly alomst anywhere

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to have the sound of an extreamly loud fart before I nod off.

Its like heralding entry into the land of Nod for me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If im alone then the tv stays on all night and often wake up and put it back on ,if im sharing a bed then all quiet so long as whoever is in bed with me sleeps by the door so the bogyman doesnt get me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have the television and light on. Jay likes silence and dark. So i just put my headphones in when hes here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top