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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else get it or is it just me?

Could be with someone all day then go back to there's, get naughty! But as soon as I cum all I wana do is get out of there! Ha haa! It sounds bad but I've heard loads of people do it and women!

So let's see there realists in here! Be honest!!! ?????

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

why go, see to the ladies needs and go again

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Erm no because I can orgasm more than once. If I'm done, it depends on the person. But I do like to sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're missing out mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry! Obvs see to the woman and her needs first!! .....

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Fuck and run? It has been known to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know where you're coming from - when you cum there's definitely a chemical trigger that (in the immediate short term) makes me lose my libido!

It's why when people say they're horny as hell 'go have a wank' is an appropriate response as the release can take away that urge!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha....no stamina hey....the 1st isnt as intense as when you cum a 2nd or 3rd time...imo

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Sorry! Obvs see to the woman and her needs first!! ..... "

What happen if you cum before that point? Will you check the batteries work and hand her a vibrator?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cuddles? No spooning?

In the word of a forumite

Naw

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry! Obvs see to the woman and her needs first!! .....

What happen if you cum before that point? Will you check the batteries work and hand her a vibrator? "

Very rare that happens! But sounds like a plan if it ever does!! Ha haa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha....no stamina hey....the 1st isnt as intense as when you cum a 2nd or 3rd time...imo"

I don't think it's to do with stamina, I think the OP is saying the sexual urge disappears. I genuinely think it's a chemical thing in the brain

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Had one "fuck and run" wont be invited back again

Personally i want more than once especially if ive not had my quota of orgasms....which dax has set really high so either match it or beat it

Dont do a karma chameleon, cum and go you could be missing out on the best round 2 ever

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm not a fan if a guys use the panda approach to meets ...eats,shoots,leaves .

Certainly never get a second meet with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha....no stamina hey....the 1st isnt as intense as when you cum a 2nd or 3rd time...imo

I don't think it's to do with stamina, I think the OP is saying the sexual urge disappears. I genuinely think it's a chemical thing in the brain "

Yeah I have the stamina that has never been a issue!

Just got to go as soon as I'm done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely ever cum on meets but if I do then plenty of finger stimulation and oral till ready for the second round then perhaps a breather or until the lady cannot take anymore

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Haha....no stamina hey....the 1st isnt as intense as when you cum a 2nd or 3rd time...imo

I don't think it's to do with stamina, I think the OP is saying the sexual urge disappears. I genuinely think it's a chemical thing in the brain "

The chemical thing is an ongoing debate - dopamine might be a reason why. There's also evolutionary reasons but there's not a clear cut answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely a cake break would sort it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From t'interweb:

You're talking about the refractory period, which occurs (in men) just after orgasm. The current theories about the mechanisms behind it are based largely around hormones.

Crudely speaking, our brains are receptive to various chemicals. Dump chemical A in the brain and you'll get one effect; chemical B will produce another effect. Our brains and bodies are constantly producing hormones, soaking our brains in them, and thus changing how we feel and act.

Often, one hormone acts as a brake on another.

In the case of orgasm, one of the main "giddyup!" hormones is dopamine, the so-called pleasure hormone. Another hormone, prolactin, gets released when one orgasms, and prolactin puts the kibosh on dopamine.

Prolactin provides the body with sexual gratification after sexual acts: The hormone counteracts the effect of dopamine, which is responsible for sexual arousal. This is thought to cause the sexual refractory period.[6] The amount of prolactin can be an indicator for the amount of sexual satisfaction and relaxation. Unusually high amounts are suspected to be responsible for impotence and loss of libido...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really don't enjoy panda meets. Love showing my skills off as to how to get someone ready for round 2 or 3 etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really don't enjoy panda meets. Love showing my skills off as to how to get someone ready for round 2 or 3 etc x"

I read your home town as Bummage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A great meet for me, is a long session, followed by some spooning sleeping and then a sleepy morning fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to leave a lady satisfied, even if we have short breaks in between. There is always some fun to be had....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A great meet for me, is a long session, followed by some spooning sleeping and then a sleepy morning fuck "

Throw in a mcdonald's breakfast?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had someone cum and leave or want me to leave, but I have had someone cum and I left his hotel room as soon as... His performance was shite and he made constant weird noises during it and I definitely didn't want him repeating any of it! If it's good you stay and find it hard to leave if it's crap you just want out of there.

Men are wi_ed to have a little sleep after and if their not completely into who they are laying with the flight mode makes them want to go back home to sleep alone if they're into you they definitely stay and repeat...

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

I am a man and therefore part of me want a little rest after

But the rest of me wants to carry on with giving pleasure and getting those thighs a twitching again, one way or another

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

Only after she has had enough of me, never cum and go, sounds like a carpet cleaner...

Ladies first every time, and always more than once...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Don't do cum and go meets I like to make a night of it so we have time to both thoroughly enjoy ourselves

I don't like the idea of just being an hole for a guy to dump his cum in (so to speak) because it beats a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did when I first started swinging, sometimes it was a lot to take in, once you cum you can go into a different mind set. Now after I've cum, I relax , have a drink, chat and go again. Remember OP, you should want to leave an ever lasting impression with your meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm loving how this has turned into a sexual humble bragging thread!

The feeling the OP describes is perfectly natural and part of human biology. Of course, it's not good form to ACTUALLY up sticks and piss off as soon as you're done - any considerate lover would at least hang around and cuddle for a couple of minutes before buggering off (*I'm joking of course ladies!!)

Actually OP it's definitely worth hanging around as that urge soon comes back and round 2 can be even better once that initial load has been shot ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm loving how this has turned into a sexual humble bragging thread!

The feeling the OP describes is perfectly natural and part of human biology. Of course, it's not good form to ACTUALLY up sticks and piss off as soon as you're done - any considerate lover would at least hang around and cuddle for a couple of minutes before buggering off (*I'm joking of course ladies!!)

Actually OP it's definitely worth hanging around as that urge soon comes back and round 2 can be even better once that initial load has been shot .. "
like I say, have a cake break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I need tea and biscuits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who I'm with, really.

I usually like to have a drink and a laugh afterwards, though, as does Marc. And with single guys it's been nice for me to share a hot shower afterwards for some intense kissing and such. But each scenario is different depending on the chemistry.

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"No. I need tea and biscuits "

Tea AND biscuits??

You're a bit demanding aren't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I need tea and biscuits

Tea AND biscuits??

You're a bit demanding aren't you? "

Ill bring the biscuits

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"No. I need tea and biscuits

Tea AND biscuits??

You're a bit demanding aren't you?

Ill bring the biscuits "

Ohhh, sounds good. Even i can cook tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really don't enjoy panda meets. Love showing my skills off as to how to get someone ready for round 2 or 3 etc x

I read your home town as Bummage "

Haha can you imagine living somewhere called that. Think I'd have to move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit of a tactile person myself. Love to kiss, stroke and caress. Love a womans body and love to lie naked afterwards and touch....

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"...eats,shoots,leaves .

Certainly never get a second meet with me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah some guys have a short break then are all good to go again. When I orgasm myself, as I multi-orgasm i just want more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely a cake break would sort it?"

My kind of man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry! Obvs see to the woman and her needs first!! ..... "

hahaha after that OP, I doubt you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not called 'Petit Mort' by the French for nothing. It sounds like the down you feel after cumming is more acute than for others. I'm wondering what feelings you associate with it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Poster fled the scene at 05/04/17 19:57:14]"

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"[poster was a bit quick and is deciding whether to leave or not at 05/04/17 19:57:14]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Poster attempted to leave the scene at 05/04/17 19:57:14 but was accosted by sexybrunette]"

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"[poster spotted fleeing scene with Miss H 05/04/17 19:57:14]"

Run

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else get it or is it just me?

Could be with someone all day then go back to there's, get naughty! But as soon as I cum all I wana do is get out of there! Ha haa! It sounds bad but I've heard loads of people do it and women!

So let's see there realists in here! Be honest!!! ????? "

wow you sound utterly unsexy and to be avoided,,its cool your soooooooooooooo honest though

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By *ndonmaleMan
over a year ago

Preston


"A great meet for me, is a long session, followed by some spooning sleeping and then a sleepy morning fuck "

Similar: Coffee meet in afternoon, hotel for play, then on to watch the football, grab a burger at the stadium. Back to hotel, drink in the bar, room for some fun, spoon, sleep and some early morning wake up sex.

I keep trying when I'm in Manchester but no luck as yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had someone cum and leave or want me to leave, but I have had someone cum and I left his hotel room as soon as... His performance was shite and he made constant weird noises during it and I definitely didn't want him repeating any of it! If it's good you stay and find it hard to leave if it's crap you just want out of there.

Men are wi_ed to have a little sleep after and if their not completely into who they are laying with the flight mode makes them want to go back home to sleep alone if they're into you they definitely stay and repeat...

"

Weird fuck noises? Sounds like comedy gold. Well worthy of an efukt feature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck and run? It has been known to happen "

If they can run after fucking they're simply not giving their all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a fan if a guys use the panda approach to meets ...eats,shoots,leaves .

Certainly never get a second meet with me "

Absolutely agree. Think it's selfish of a guy to behave like that. Some women probably don't mind that but I think most want a good time which doesn't or shouldn't stop once the guy cums. Far too often it does though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually go as soon as I am done when I know that tipping point is about to start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit of a tactile person myself. Love to kiss, stroke and caress. Love a womans body and love to lie naked afterwards and touch...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't do cum and go meets I like to make a night of it so we have time to both thoroughly enjoy ourselves

I don't like the idea of just being an hole for a guy to dump his cum in (so to speak) because it beats a wank "

Unfortunately this site is full of those guys. Some Guys will sleep with anyone as it beats a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the old Ride 'n' Glide.

Chivalry is alive and well, I see

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

I am a repeater, so i prefer meet, flirt, foreplay, fuck cum, ciggy break (or cake break) drink THEN fuck again...

then depending on the person or people involved, start again or go/

But as I like to say,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, thats the kinda guy i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shoot my load,we get talking again more coffee or whatever hands on again and before long we are banging away again

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By *ondonmixMan
over a year ago

swiss cottage

I think the better connection you have with someone the more comfortable you will feel and overcome that feeling to 'run' ( which I think is somewhat natural to most guys growing up )

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By *uperhorny69erWoman
over a year ago

NORTHAMPTON

i certainly wouldn't entertain any guy like that & definately not into quickies,i think its selfish to just cum & go,at least there's a few guys on here that don't have that way of thinking .

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Fuck and run? It has been known to happen

If they can run after fucking they're simply not giving their all "

Well sometimes you have to run

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

When i had a gf...never had the urge to "run" after cuming.

Was a case of laying in bed, chatting until it was time for round 2,3,4 etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some women like that - done the deed now you can go - not me tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No wonder there so much anti-man posts on the Forum, sometimes I'm surprised we're even allowed on Fab!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Can't think of anything much worse than a selfish lover!!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Haha....no stamina hey....the 1st isnt as intense as when you cum a 2nd or 3rd time...imo"

For me the first ejaculation is the most intense, but the second time takes longer to reach, so you can really 'plough' the lady you're with, which they seem to like......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha....no stamina hey....the 1st isnt as intense as when you cum a 2nd or 3rd time...imo

For me the first ejaculation is the most intense, but the second time takes longer to reach, so you can really 'plough' the lady you're with, which they seem to like......"

'plough'

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"No cuddles? No spooning?

In the word of a forumite

Naw"

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Haha....no stamina hey....the 1st isnt as intense as when you cum a 2nd or 3rd time...imo

For me the first ejaculation is the most intense, but the second time takes longer to reach, so you can really 'plough' the lady you're with, which they seem to like......

'plough' "

Never heard it called that before ey?

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Does anyone else get it or is it just me?

Could be with someone all day then go back to there's, get naughty! But as soon as I cum all I wana do is get out of there! Ha haa! It sounds bad but I've heard loads of people do it and women!

So let's see there realists in here! Be honest!!! ????? "

Me too. Fuck and fuck off.

Can't wait to get back to the privacy of my own bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've decided to make meets all about me

The difference is that I would never make anyone feel like a free prostitute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha....no stamina hey....the 1st isnt as intense as when you cum a 2nd or 3rd time...imo

For me the first ejaculation is the most intense, but the second time takes longer to reach, so you can really 'plough' the lady you're with, which they seem to like......

'plough'

Never heard it called that before ey? "

Who said romance is dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha....no stamina hey....the 1st isnt as intense as when you cum a 2nd or 3rd time...imo

I don't think it's to do with stamina, I think the OP is saying the sexual urge disappears. I genuinely think it's a chemical thing in the brain

Yeah I have the stamina that has never been a issue!

Just got to go as soon as I'm done. "
I hate it if a guy wants to hang around after and rarely is it an issue. They normally are happy to bugger off. I dont really orgasm with meets so my satisfaction isn't an issue as my satisfaction comes from getting the cum..

There are lots of people like yourself op..

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


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Who said romance is dead."

Don't know; who did?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP That's saying your only thinking about yourself doing that running off after you cum . Its not all about your needs or is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't think of anything much worse than a selfish lover!! "

Winning the lottery but losing the ticket?

Having to eat sheeps eyes like on 'I'm a celebrity'?

Syphillis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can cum inside a woman and carry on with no problem turning it into a really foamy creampie.

Not trying to show off or anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't even go floppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else get it or is it just me?

Could be with someone all day then go back to there's, get naughty! But as soon as I cum all I wana do is get out of there! Ha haa! It sounds bad but I've heard loads of people do it and women!

So let's see there realists in here! Be honest!!! ????? "

We like a long build up, great sex, then a friendly farewell.

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