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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This place is wealth of wisdom so here goes?

Is there such a thing as a mid life crises, if so what are the symptoms and normally when does it kick in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea but I know folk are going to start joking about it soon.

I'm planning to get there first though by organising something a bit mental that doesn't involve tattoos or motorbikes or younger blondes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mid life which you are not!

We often feel like things go stale but mid life crisis tends to be more emotionally charged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be placing an order for a little sport car soon, thinking a lotus, that's what most usally go for right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What age is mid life these days?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mid life which you are not!

We often feel like things go stale but mid life crisis tends to be more emotionally charged "

How so?

Does it effect chicks too?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Well I recently turned 55 and am having a self imposed midlife crisis

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By *arrasicMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"No idea but I know folk are going to start joking about it soon.

I'm planning to get there first though by organising something a bit mental that doesn't involve tattoos or motorbikes or younger blondes"

I dont have none of them thats y I'm still alive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No idea but I know folk are going to start joking about it soon.

I'm planning to get there first though by organising something a bit mental that doesn't involve tattoos or motorbikes or younger blondes"

I like your thinking Swing

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I had mine at 36yo and buggered off to sea for seven years. The best decision I ever made.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"What age is mid life these days? "

I'm working on the theory that i'm going to live till i'm 150 therefore I've got another 20yrs before I need worry about such things

S

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Serious answer? You gradually realise over a number of months that if you don't do stuff NOW you probably won't. This coupled with an increasing realisation that what other people think doesn't matter in the slightest motivates people to do things that might seem out of character.

You also find yourself reassessing what's important in life.

Some people get a bit fed up and do some daft things but mostly its just a bit of a watershed rather than a crisis.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Oh and I don't think there's an age for it to kick in.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

I have started eating wagon wheels again...must be a mid wife crisis ...oops meant life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Serious answer? You gradually realise over a number of months that if you don't do stuff NOW you probably won't. This coupled with an increasing realisation that what other people think doesn't matter in the slightest motivates people to do things that might seem out of character.

You also find yourself reassessing what's important in life.

Some people get a bit fed up and do some daft things but mostly its just a bit of a watershed rather than a crisis."

Does it start with an 'I'm x years old and what have I really done?' feeling

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Serious answer? You gradually realise over a number of months that if you don't do stuff NOW you probably won't. This coupled with an increasing realisation that what other people think doesn't matter in the slightest motivates people to do things that might seem out of character.

You also find yourself reassessing what's important in life.

Some people get a bit fed up and do some daft things but mostly its just a bit of a watershed rather than a crisis."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 so you're fine Micks.

As for women....I'm far too young to be thinking about my midlife crisis yet....all I know is it will involve shoes...a car and chocolate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What age is mid life these days? "

In Scotland...25

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was out out up the toon on Saturday night and the bar/club we went to was 25% older wealthy guys(late fiftys I'd say) entertaining groups of much younger chicks wi bottles of vodka, bubbles etc. Looked a bit cringy tbh and made me think to myself 'God am I going to end up doing that too' fs.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Serious answer? You gradually realise over a number of months that if you don't do stuff NOW you probably won't. This coupled with an increasing realisation that what other people think doesn't matter in the slightest motivates people to do things that might seem out of character.

You also find yourself reassessing what's important in life.

Some people get a bit fed up and do some daft things but mostly its just a bit of a watershed rather than a crisis.

Does it start with an 'I'm x years old and what have I really done?' feeling"

I can't speak for other people and I'm a woman so I really shouldn't have answered . But not for me, no. It was more a gradual realisation that our kids were off hand and we were allowed to do stuff like sell the house, leave our jobs and live by the sea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"40 so you're fine Micks.

As for women....I'm far too young to be thinking about my midlife crisis yet....all I know is it will involve shoes...a car and chocolate "

Aweeeeee thanks chick, dont forget expensive handbags fs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had mine at 36yo and buggered off to sea for seven years. The best decision I ever made. "

Cruise ships?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Men panic in their mid-forties, buy a convertible and consider having an affair.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I was out out up the toon on Saturday night and the bar/club we went to was 25% older wealthy guys(late fiftys I'd say) entertaining groups of much younger chicks wi bottles of vodka, bubbles etc. Looked a bit cringy tbh and made me think to myself 'God am I going to end up doing that too' fs. "

Ah the judgement of the young on the old. I'm not criticising we all did it. In fact we were talking about it earlier.

It's not mid life crisis, its enjoying life while you've got it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's when you look at your driveway with a satisfied nod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"40 so you're fine Micks.

As for women....I'm far too young to be thinking about my midlife crisis yet....all I know is it will involve shoes...a car and chocolate

Aweeeeee thanks chick, dont forget expensive handbags fs "

Don't think the handbags will carry all those new shoes , I'm thinking suitcases

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men panic in their mid-forties, buy a convertible and consider having an affair. "

Aye, I done that in my late twenties after I started losing my hair fs.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I'm having my mid life ball

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here aren't I?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was out out up the toon on Saturday night and the bar/club we went to was 25% older wealthy guys(late fiftys I'd say) entertaining groups of much younger chicks wi bottles of vodka, bubbles etc. Looked a bit cringy tbh and made me think to myself 'God am I going to end up doing that too' fs.

Ah the judgement of the young on the old. I'm not criticising we all did it. In fact we were talking about it earlier.

It's not mid life crisis, its enjoying life while you've got it "

Yeh I understand what you mean and I hated thinking like that cause no doubt the guys there in their twenties prob thought the same thing looking at our group. The thing is tho they didn't look like they where enjoying it just there spending cash on the girls with that been there, done it and got the t-shirt grin on their faces.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's when you look at your driveway with a satisfied nod "

and getting a neat edge on the lawn is a day well spent.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I've seen a few exhibiting symptoms of a mid life crisis today, at least 4

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've seen a few exhibiting symptoms of a mid life crisis today, at least 4 "

Spill?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I've seen a few exhibiting symptoms of a mid life crisis today, at least 4

Spill?"

I just did and the forum is still knee deep in liquid!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've seen a few exhibiting symptoms of a mid life crisis today, at least 4

Spill?

I just did and the forum is still knee deep in liquid!! "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I was out out up the toon on Saturday night and the bar/club we went to was 25% older wealthy guys(late fiftys I'd say) entertaining groups of much younger chicks wi bottles of vodka, bubbles etc. Looked a bit cringy tbh and made me think to myself 'God am I going to end up doing that too' fs.

Ah the judgement of the young on the old. I'm not criticising we all did it. In fact we were talking about it earlier.

It's not mid life crisis, its enjoying life while you've got it

Yeh I understand what you mean and I hated thinking like that cause no doubt the guys there in their twenties prob thought the same thing looking at our group. The thing is tho they didn't look like they where enjoying it just there spending cash on the girls with that been there, done it and got the t-shirt grin on their faces."

Yeah, I know what you mean. The thing is I suppose that none of us can imagine what its like being older.

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"I was out out up the toon on Saturday night and the bar/club we went to was 25% older wealthy guys(late fiftys I'd say) entertaining groups of much younger chicks wi bottles of vodka, bubbles etc. Looked a bit cringy tbh and made me think to myself 'God am I going to end up doing that too' fs. "

If that's how I end up spending my fifties, I doubt I'll complainabout it.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I've seen a few exhibiting symptoms of a mid life crisis today, at least 4

Spill?

I just did and the forum is still knee deep in liquid!!

"

I can play the violin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've seen a few exhibiting symptoms of a mid life crisis today, at least 4

Spill?

I just did and the forum is still knee deep in liquid!!

I can play the violin "

Fiddler eh........

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I had mine at 36yo and buggered off to sea for seven years. The best decision I ever made.

Cruise ships? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was out out up the toon on Saturday night and the bar/club we went to was 25% older wealthy guys(late fiftys I'd say) entertaining groups of much younger chicks wi bottles of vodka, bubbles etc. Looked a bit cringy tbh and made me think to myself 'God am I going to end up doing that too' fs.

If that's how I end up spending my fifties, I doubt I'll complainabout it. "

Aye the chicks where stunning too and actually stuck with the guys after the booze ran out , older guys must have good chat or maybe just experience on how to keep them captivated fs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had mine at 36yo and buggered off to sea for seven years. The best decision I ever made.

Cruise ships?

Yes "

Excellent

Clearly a man whos seen and done a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I recently turned 55 and am having a self imposed midlife crisis "

Ace your forever 21 fs #legend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was in early 40s when thought fuck it stop thinking about it and went met a man for first time. Best blow job ever had.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I was out out up the toon on Saturday night and the bar/club we went to was 25% older wealthy guys(late fiftys I'd say) entertaining groups of much younger chicks wi bottles of vodka, bubbles etc. Looked a bit cringy tbh and made me think to myself 'God am I going to end up doing that too' fs.

If that's how I end up spending my fifties, I doubt I'll complainabout it.

Aye the chicks where stunning too and actually stuck with the guys after the booze ran out , older guys must have good chat or maybe just experience on how to keep them captivated fs."

Guys in their late fifties and over are often extremely good lovers, that might have something to do with it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have got to get out more....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was out out up the toon on Saturday night and the bar/club we went to was 25% older wealthy guys(late fiftys I'd say) entertaining groups of much younger chicks wi bottles of vodka, bubbles etc. Looked a bit cringy tbh and made me think to myself 'God am I going to end up doing that too' fs.

If that's how I end up spending my fifties, I doubt I'll complainabout it.

Aye the chicks where stunning too and actually stuck with the guys after the booze ran out , older guys must have good chat or maybe just experience on how to keep them captivated fs.

Guys in their late fifties and over are often extremely good lovers, that might have something to do with it too."

Its comforting to know that us guys can still pull younger chicks the older we get I like knowing that fs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have got to get out more.... "

Wear a suit and book a booth you'll be rolling in the muff fs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

43 just brought my first sports car. Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I recently turned 55 and am having a self imposed midlife crisis "

Don't worry: as you're mid life is 55 that must mean you've another 55 to look forward to

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