FabSwingers.com forum: You Know You Not Getting A Meet!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Despite your best efforts, most earnest feelings and eloquent prose in your message you know you're not getting a meet when the response contains:

"....you seem really sweet.."

"....any woman/man is going to be lucky to meet you.."

"....I loved your profile and/ pics.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a really nice guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't over analyse...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They delete your message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they use the word "cute " or "nice"

Such friend zone words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete not read. That's the biggest clue I hear.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Theyre writing cryptic status' to 'you know who you are'

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Despite your best efforts, most earnest feelings and eloquent prose in your message you know you're not getting a meet when the response contains:

"....you seem really sweet.."

"....any woman/man is going to be lucky to meet you.."

"....I loved your profile and/ pics.."

Any others fellow Forumites?

Haha I don't know what's worse. ...those replies or when you've sent similar and they spend ages asking you to rethink cos they really are nice in person

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

They go offline just after reading your message.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Despite your best efforts, most earnest feelings and eloquent prose in your message you know you're not getting a meet when the response contains:

"....you seem really sweet.."

"....any woman/man is going to be lucky to meet you.."

"....I loved your profile and/ pics.."

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I've had 2 of those comments from people I met lol..yes there's always the exception to the rule. Just thought I'd put it out there

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"When they use the word "cute " or "nice"

Such friend zone words

Again..thise words are used regularly and I've net them ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sister is in town that day..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they use the word "cute " or "nice"

Such friend zone words

Again..thise words are used regularly and I've net them ha"

I'm a nice guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they use the word "cute " or "nice"

Such friend zone words

Again..thise words are used regularly and I've net them ha"

Tbh I wouldn't want to meet someone who called me cute anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem nice but....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they use the word "cute " or "nice"

Such friend zone words

Again..thise words are used regularly and I've net them ha

I'm a nice guy.

Nice as in you look nice. If I like the look of someone I'd say handsome or hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They go offline just after reading your message."

Or unlos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They go UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They go offline just after reading your message.

Or unlos

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"When they use the word "cute " or "nice"

Such friend zone words

Again..thise words are used regularly and I've net them ha

Tbh I wouldn't want to meet someone who called me cute anyway "

Fair enough. Meks no difference long as they don't try and pinch my cheeks when we meet..actually that sounds naughty now I've said it out loud!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"When they use the word "cute " or "nice"

Such friend zone words

Again..thise words are used regularly and I've net them ha

Tbh I wouldn't want to meet someone who called me cute anyway

Fair enough. Meks no difference long as they don't try and pinch my cheeks when we meet..actually that sounds naughty now I've said it out loud!

Cute six pack....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they use the word "cute " or "nice"

Such friend zone words

Again..thise words are used regularly and I've net them ha

I'm a nice guy.

Nice as in you look nice. If I like the look of someone I'd say handsome or hot "

I got 'you seem a nice guy'. Or something similar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Despite your best efforts, most earnest feelings and eloquent prose in your message you know you're not getting a meet when the response contains:

"....you seem really sweet.."

"....any woman/man is going to be lucky to meet you.."

"....I loved your profile and/ pics.."

Any others fellow Forumites?

Haha I don't know what's worse. ...those replies or when you've sent similar and they spend ages asking you to rethink cos they really are nice in person "

Never being in that position to be honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they use the word "cute " or "nice"

Such friend zone words

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I reply to a meet request with "I'm washing my hair........"

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

A emtey in box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A emtey in box

You know you're not getting a meet if you're posting in the 0 meets club thread.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"A emtey in box

You know you're not getting a meet if you're posting in the 0 meets club thread.

That to

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Your soo far away though" from someone nearer than 50miles & they know from our veris we went to Manchester for a blooming social!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

show the face pic - deleted straight off the friends list haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but what bugs me are those that want to know why the answer is no - im never that rude to say exactly

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"When they use the word "cute " or "nice"

Such friend zone words

Again..thise words are used regularly and I've net them ha

Tbh I wouldn't want to meet someone who called me cute anyway

Fair enough. Meks no difference long as they don't try and pinch my cheeks when we meet..actually that sounds naughty now I've said it out loud!

Cute six pack....

Haha. I like what you did there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....."smooth!"....

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"They go offline just after reading your message.

Or unlos

What's unlos?

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Ive got one..sorry I'm not meeting anyone new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but what bugs me are those that want to know why the answer is no - im never that rude to say exactly "

I'd rather know what I'm doing wrong but I understand your reluctance as it could provoke an unpleasant reaction in some.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"but what bugs me are those that want to know why the answer is no - im never that rude to say exactly

I'd rather know what I'm doing wrong but I understand your reluctance as it could provoke an unpleasant reaction in some."

And how can that hurt someone..tell them.what they did wrong or why it's a no then run for the block button. It's what I do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They go offline just after reading your message.

Or unlos

What's unlos? "

User never liked oral sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They go offline just after reading your message.

Or unlos

What's unlos?

User never liked oral sex

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"When they use the word "cute " or "nice"

Such friend zone words

I use them and not just for friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm not getting a meet once I send a face pic

can have great conversation,even to the point where I'm told I sound just like what they're looking for.Then my ugly mug kills it

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

They say you look handsome in your pics lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive got one..sorry I'm not meeting anyone new.

I've used that on some people I'd love to meet and its true, ain't got time to meet everyone that messages.

Doll x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he says that he's washing his hair and he happens to be bald

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but what bugs me are those that want to know why the answer is no - im never that rude to say exactly

I'd rather know what I'm doing wrong but I understand your reluctance as it could provoke an unpleasant reaction in some."

Why would you want to know? Everyone has different tastes. Why they don't fancy you, doesn't change the reason that someone does.

Unless, 1st person doesn't like beards. You shave, the second person who did fancy you the way you are doesn't fancy you without your facial hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Awwwwwww'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Awwwwwww'

If I got that as a reply, I'd be destroyed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id at least like the reply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every message I write = no meet !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When he says that he's washing his hair and he happens to be bald

You read my earlier post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they respond with 'Thanks'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their profile says one line messages will be deleted so you articulate a personalised message, attach face pics etc and get a response saying "if I wanted a novel I would have bought a fucking book, twat!"

Yes, lucky escape that one I think!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Their profile says one line messages will be deleted so you articulate a personalised message, attach face pics etc and get a response saying "if I wanted a novel I would have bought a fucking book, twat!"

Yes, lucky escape that one I think!

Has that actually happened? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, lucky escape that one I think!

Has that actually happened? Lol"

When I was a wet behind the ears newb, yes! And I thought I'd done so well with my message too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they live bloody miles away!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they use the word "cute " or "nice"

Such friend zone words

Yes but you are cute and look nice ....but my god I bloody would .

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Yes, lucky escape that one I think!

Has that actually happened? Lol

When I was a wet behind the ears newb, yes! And I thought I'd done so well with my message too!

You got a longer reply than my kisses though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, lucky escape that one I think!

Has that actually happened? Lol

When I was a wet behind the ears newb, yes! And I thought I'd done so well with my message too!

You got a longer reply than my kisses though lol

That's true!

Did I block you for that? I know I meant to ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Awwwwwww'

If I got that as a reply, I'd be destroyed.

I'm trying not to use it but sometimes it's so apt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh my God you freak I'm not sniffing your bumhole. Leave me alone"

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Yes, lucky escape that one I think!

Has that actually happened? Lol

When I was a wet behind the ears newb, yes! And I thought I'd done so well with my message too!

You got a longer reply than my kisses though lol

That's true!

Did I block you for that? I know I meant to ..

Seems you forgot, you were multitasking at the time

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