FabSwingers.com forum: 4 things that make a man loose interest continued

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lots of interesting comments in the last thread. Keep them coming guys. Ladies your turn tomorrow.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Where've all the boys gone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Where've all the boys gone

someone scared them...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm waiting for the knee jerk reaction tomorrow from the women, we get to hear what we do that make you loose interest.

That's what I meant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Where've all the boys gone

someone scared them...lol"

It would seem the ladies can't wait to listen but have far more to say lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm waiting for the knee jerk reaction tomorrow from the women, we get to hear what we do that make you loose interest.

That's what I meant.

Some couldn't wait as they were late in jihad ing a thread and needed attention.. lol

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I'm waiting for the knee jerk reaction tomorrow from the women, we get to hear what we do that make you loose interest.

That's what I meant.

What was it we said about having to explain oneself lol

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I'm waiting for the knee jerk reaction tomorrow from the women, we get to hear what we do that make you loose interest.

That's what I meant.

Some couldn't wait as they were late in jihad ing a thread and needed attention.. lol"

Yeah early bird and all that

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I'm waiting for the knee jerk reaction tomorrow from the women, we get to hear what we do that make you loose interest.

That's what I meant.

Some couldn't wait as they were late in jihad ing a thread and needed attention.. lol"

Awww diddums. You'll still have some attention.

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

So what are the 4 things that make a man lose interest then????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm waiting for the knee jerk reaction tomorrow from the women, we get to hear what we do that make you loose interest.

That's what I meant.

Some couldn't wait as they were late in jihad ing a thread and needed attention.. lol"

Jihading a thread? I'm not familiar with this one?

Just suppose it's all going to very similar anyway.

We can't be that different between the sexes can we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm waiting for the knee jerk reaction tomorrow from the women, we get to hear what we do that make you loose interest.

That's what I meant.

Some couldn't wait as they were late in jihad ing a thread and needed attention.. lol

Awww diddums. You'll still have some attention.

I think we need smaller violins for them! Tempted to do the ladies thread myself today.. who says we have to wait for a man to do it!

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"So what are the 4 things that make a man lose interest then????"

lol five!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some women did read the men's comments. ..or they did but didn't like them....

Insecure? Maybe not...may over confident? The body withers but the mind improves cones to mind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what are the 4 things that make a man lose interest then????

lol five!

We did limit it nicely so other could have a chance and cause good thought which was nice to see. Many good comments and I've heard a few have had good positive PMs too.

All good and healthy if we learn.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"So what are the 4 things that make a man lose interest then????

lol five!

We did limit it nicely so other could have a chance and cause good thought which was nice to see. Many good comments and I've heard a few have had good positive PMs too.

All good and healthy if we learn."

I had a few particular favourites amongst the various comments

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what are the 4 things that make a man lose interest then????

lol five!

We did limit it nicely so other could have a chance and cause good thought which was nice to see. Many good comments and I've heard a few have had good positive PMs too.

All good and healthy if we learn.

Should I collate or will some seem to think they are mine...unable to read that it's actually what other men are saying? Maybe best to let a lady collate them and then it takes the skin out a bit for some.

Any Lady with an open honest approach willing to do it for the benefit of both men and ladies?

I had a few particular favourites amongst the various comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where've all the boys gone

someone scared them...lol

It would seem the ladies can't wait to listen but have far more to say lol...

If you thought the women were going to wait to have their say you must have rocks in yer head

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Where've all the boys gone

someone scared them...lol

It would seem the ladies can't wait to listen but have far more to say lol...

If you thought the women were going to wait to have their say you must have rocks in yer head

Some...I've had a goid few pm saying they'll wait till tomorrow. So I guess I have more faith lol. They can post in there I'd they wish. It's all ggood information to take on board whoever posts it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where've all the boys gone

someone scared them...lol

It would seem the ladies can't wait to listen but have far more to say lol...

If you thought the women were going to wait to have their say you must have rocks in yer head

Some...I've had a goid few pm saying they'll wait till tomorrow. So I guess I have more faith lol. They can post in there I'd they wish. It's all ggood information to take on board whoever posts it..

I'm more cynical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PP - I've got a 4th

When they suddenly get all arsey about you using the site as it is intended to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ohhhhhh

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester

I posted in the ladies silly me

For me the 4 things I don't like

Lies

Being deceitful / messed about

Ignorance

Selfishness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ohhhhhh

Was that a pleasant oh or an exasperated oh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"PP - I've got a 4th

When they suddenly get all arsey about you using the site as it is intended to be."

Not sure if you were clever in waiting or you just realised something new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PP - I've got a 4th

When they suddenly get all arsey about you using the site as it is intended to be."

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"PP - I've got a 4th

When they suddenly get all arsey about you using the site as it is intended to be."

I knew you wouldn't let me down, welcome to Narnia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PP - I've got a 4th

When they suddenly get all arsey about you using the site as it is intended to be.

I knew you wouldn't let me down, welcome to Narnia

Wahey!

Hold on! Are you the witch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PP - I've got a 4th

When they suddenly get all arsey about you using the site as it is intended to be.

Not sure if you were clever in waiting or you just realised something new.

Maybe a bit of both

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"PP - I've got a 4th

When they suddenly get all arsey about you using the site as it is intended to be.

I knew you wouldn't let me down, welcome to Narnia

Wahey!

Hold on! Are you the witch?

I'm a Panther

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Lots of interesting comments in the last thread. Keep them coming guys. Ladies your turn tomorrow. "

Today don't you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PP - I've got a 4th

When they suddenly get all arsey about you using the site as it is intended to be.

I knew you wouldn't let me down, welcome to Narnia

Wahey!

Hold on! Are you the witch?

I'm a Panther

And you are definitely pink?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"PP - I've got a 4th

When they suddenly get all arsey about you using the site as it is intended to be.

I knew you wouldn't let me down, welcome to Narnia

Wahey!

Hold on! Are you the witch?

I'm a Panther

And you are definitely pink?"

Always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of interesting comments in the last thread. Keep them coming guys. Ladies your turn tomorrow. "

awwwwww looks like you've been gazumped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PP - I've got a 4th

When they suddenly get all arsey about you using the site as it is intended to be."

The site also has a good PM feature...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PP - I've got a 4th

When they suddenly get all arsey about you using the site as it is intended to be.

The site also has a good PM feature..."

Worth it's weight in gold

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Women's threads been deleted now anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1.Bad teeth.

2.Husband stories.

3.Attension seekers.

4.Must have demands that are the complete opposite to their physical build.

5.Like piss play, or any foot stuff.

6.Drugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway "

Yeah I saw that, did they think it was going to kick off or something...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway "

Anyone know why??

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway

Yeah I saw that, did they think it was going to kick off or something...

I don't know but I didn't see anything bad on it no worse than the gents thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway "

Whaaaaat!? Jesus, it's like North Korea in here sometimes!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway

Yeah I saw that, did they think it was going to kick off or something...

Guess we'll have to wait until tomorrow now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway "

That made a genuinely interesting read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway

Whaaaaat!? Jesus, it's like North Korea in here sometimes! "

No nuclear test, please, or trump will end N Korea himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway

Whaaaaat!? Jesus, it's like North Korea in here sometimes! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway

Whaaaaat!? Jesus, it's like North Korea in here sometimes! "

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway "

I just noticed that. Did I miss some fireworks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway

Whaaaaat!? Jesus, it's like North Korea in here sometimes!

No nuclear test, please, or trump will end N Korea himself."

L M A O

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see the girls being much different to the boys.

Although I have a couple of my own especially tucked away for tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway

That made a genuinely interesting read."

Yeah I thought so to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway

Anyone know why??

The ghost decided he didn't want to talk anymore . I'm sure it will come back sooner or later

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway

I just noticed that. Did I miss some fireworks?

Not that I could see, perhaps the general "All is not well" air was enough to get it pulled by the department of sweetness & light?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Poor hygiene

2. Negativity and moaning

3. Lack of personality

4. An unrewarded superiority complex.

Mr L. Feel free to comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway

Yeah I saw that, did they think it was going to kick off or something...

if just women had posted on it, it would have been ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway

Anyone know why??

The ghost decided he didn't want to talk anymore . I'm sure it will come back sooner or later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway

That made a genuinely interesting read.

Yeah I thought so to

Although I was about to wonder off to the corner and hang my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Not into sport..

2. Don't leave toilet up after use..

3. Don't know the meaning of time..

4. Too much fecking makeup

Sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"PP - I've got a 4th

When they suddenly get all arsey about you using the site as it is intended to be.

Not PP... some others who seem to have taken a break when confronted about it.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"PP - I've got a 4th

When they suddenly get all arsey about you using the site as it is intended to be.

Not PP... some others who seem to have taken a break when confronted about it."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Women's threads been deleted now anyway

Yeah I saw that, did they think it was going to kick off or something...

if just women had posted on it, it would have been ok

Really...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

May I ask a woman to coated the guys comments....please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did the girlie thread go tits? I can't find it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did the girlie thread go tits? I can't find it?

Certainly seems to have disappeared. Nobody seems to know why though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1.Bad teeth.

2.Husband stories.

3.Attension seekers.

4.Must have demands that are the complete opposite to their physical build.

5.Like piss play, or any foot stuff.

6.Drugs.

Yeah! Those short women demanding tall playmates are bang out of order!!

Leave some tall men for us tall ladies!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I generally find very few non forum ladies have the ability to gain my interest let alone maintain it. Very few however does not mean none and those who do can usually maintain it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did the girlie thread go tits? I can't find it?

Certainly seems to have disappeared. Nobody seems to know why though."

I was just looking for that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's gone....

Will run one tomorrow in the mean time..

Any new valid 4 pointers guys and we can all learn from today's comments.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Did the girlie thread go tits? I can't find it?

Certainly seems to have disappeared. Nobody seems to know why though."

There's the next thread give 4 reasons why you think it disappeared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did the girlie thread go tits? I can't find it?

Certainly seems to have disappeared. Nobody seems to know why though.

There's the next thread give 4 reasons why you think it disappeared

After you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I generally find very few non forum ladies have the ability to gain my interest let alone maintain it. Very few however does not mean none and those who do can usually maintain it xx"

I'm the opposite. Very few men on the forums hold my attention for me to want to meet them for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Feminism

2. No banter or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did the girlie thread go tits? I can't find it?

Certainly seems to have disappeared. Nobody seems to know why though.

There's the next thread give 4 reasons why you think it disappeared

After you

I'll pass

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I generally find very few non forum ladies have the ability to gain my interest let alone maintain it. Very few however does not mean none and those who do can usually maintain it xx

I'm the opposite. Very few men on the forums hold my attention for me to want to meet them for sex."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4. Married

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"I generally find very few non forum ladies have the ability to gain my interest let alone maintain it. Very few however does not mean none and those who do can usually maintain it xx

I'm the opposite. Very few men on the forums hold my attention for me to want to meet them for sex."

I did say gain , as in many have the ability to articulate an attractive point of view , sadly there then may be other factors which mean they don't hold . But the average lady profile who is not on the forums is pretty drab to say the least and beyond that a single syllable response looses any interest I may have held xxx I also said forum ladies to avoid the usual tirade of "well that does not reflect my actions/profile"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did the girlie thread go tits? I can't find it?

Certainly seems to have disappeared. Nobody seems to know why though.

There's the next thread give 4 reasons why you think it disappeared

After you

I'll pass

Very wise

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Did the girlie thread go tits? I can't find it?

Certainly seems to have disappeared. Nobody seems to know why though.

There's the next thread give 4 reasons why you think it disappeared

After you

Very chivalrous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did the girlie thread go tits? I can't find it?

Certainly seems to have disappeared. Nobody seems to know why though.

There's the next thread give 4 reasons why you think it disappeared

After you

Very chivalrous

Aslan is teaching me

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Did the girlie thread go tits? I can't find it?

Certainly seems to have disappeared. Nobody seems to know why though.

There's the next thread give 4 reasons why you think it disappeared

After you

Very chivalrous

Aslan is teaching me

Jadis not turned you into stone yet then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1.Bad teeth.

2.Husband stories.

3.Attension seekers.

4.Must have demands that are the complete opposite to their physical build.

5.Like piss play, or any foot stuff.

6.Drugs.

Well to be fair as a chunky if I didnt ask for a slim guy it would be like two beach balls bouncing off each other

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"4. Married "

Pondering didn't last long lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did the girlie thread go tits? I can't find it?

Certainly seems to have disappeared. Nobody seems to know why though.

There's the next thread give 4 reasons why you think it disappeared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did the girlie thread go tits? I can't find it?

Certainly seems to have disappeared. Nobody seems to know why though.

There's the next thread give 4 reasons why you think it disappeared

After you

Very chivalrous

Aslan is teaching me

Jadis not turned you into stone yet then?

No that was you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1.Bad teeth.

2.Husband stories.

3.Attension seekers.

4.Must have demands that are the complete opposite to their physical build.

5.Like piss play, or any foot stuff.

6.Drugs.

I don't get number 4. Why should we all like people with the same physical builds as ourselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did the girlie thread go tits? I can't find it?

Certainly seems to have disappeared. Nobody seems to know why though.

There's the next thread give 4 reasons why you think it disappeared

A woman did not like it

simples

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Did the girlie thread go tits? I can't find it?

Certainly seems to have disappeared. Nobody seems to know why though.

There's the next thread give 4 reasons why you think it disappeared

After you

Very chivalrous

Aslan is teaching me

Jadis not turned you into stone yet then?

No that was you

I'm more likely to turn you into chocolate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did the girlie thread go tits? I can't find it?

Certainly seems to have disappeared. Nobody seems to know why though.

There's the next thread give 4 reasons why you think it disappeared

After you

Very chivalrous

Aslan is teaching me

Jadis not turned you into stone yet then?

No that was you

I'm more likely to turn you into chocolate

That's a superpower that needs exploring

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Did the girlie thread go tits? I can't find it?

Certainly seems to have disappeared. Nobody seems to know why though.

There's the next thread give 4 reasons why you think it disappeared

After you

Very chivalrous

Aslan is teaching me

Jadis not turned you into stone yet then?

No that was you

I'm more likely to turn you into chocolate

That's a superpower that needs exploring "

It could reduce the number of men on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. Feminism

2. No banter or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4 "

Genuine query here -- what is it about equal rights for men and women that is off putting to you? I'm interested in understanding that as a reason. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"1. Feminiattractiventer or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4

Genuine query here -- what is it about equal rights for men and women that is off putting to you? I'm interested in understanding that as a reason. Thanks. "

May I help as a man with 4 daughters who are and havebeen taught that they are equal yet ddifferent. They celebrate their differences and see most as positives to be applauded without forcing them upon others.

I fight fight fir equality but recognise we're made differently. ..physique, veribral and emotional to name a few.

Femanism isn't about equality that's just a small part but has become an ugly angry face which isnt attractive to look at. There's an extremism and fanaticism element which has hijacked the early movement. This unattractive face I believe is what most me see and its associations. There is an interesting article entitle ' why femanism is about equality' ...which might give an insight into it. It's written by a guy

( ooooops our opinions matter little)...but Google it and read.

Sitting back now for the onslaught. ..but it'll not all be bad.

This as with anything is not definative and is an opinion as is everyone's comments.

RIP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. Feminiattractiventer or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4

Genuine query here -- what is it about equal rights for men and women that is off putting to you? I'm interested in understanding that as a reason. Thanks.

I fight fight fir equality but recognise we're made differently. ..physique, veribral and emotional to name a few.

( ooooops our opinions matter little)...but Google it and read.

Sitting back now for the onslaught. ..but it'll not all be bad.

This as with anything is not definative and is an opinion as is everyone's comments.

RIP. "

Thanks for your opinion. I was asking the chap who posted, not you though.

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over a year ago

"1. Feminiattractiventer or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4

Genuine query here -- what is it about equal rights for men and women that is off putting to you? I'm interested in understanding that as a reason. Thanks.

I fight fight fir equality but recognise we're made differently. ..physique, veribral and emotional to name a few.

( ooooops our opinions matter little)...but Google it and read.

Sitting back now for the onslaught. ..but it'll not all be bad.

This as with anything is not definative and is an opinion as is everyone's comments.

RIP.

Thanks for your opinion. I was asking the chap who posted, not you though. "

PM him. But he may not have wanted to respond. It's a forum post and I guess anyone is free to comment, to encourage debate or not which ever may be the case. We don't all have to answer or reply.

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over a year ago

"1. Feminiattractiventer or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4

Genuine query here -- what is it about equal rights for men and women that is off putting to you? I'm interested in understanding that as a reason. Thanks.

I fight fight fir equality but recognise we're made differently. ..physique, veribral and emotional to name a few.

( ooooops our opinions matter little)...but Google it and read.

Sitting back now for the onslaught. ..but it'll not all be bad.

This as with anything is not definative and is an opinion as is everyone's comments.

RIP.

Thanks for your opinion. I was asking the chap who posted, not you though.

PM him. But he may not have wanted to respond. It's a forum post and I guess anyone is free to comment, to encourage debate or not which ever may be the case. We don't all have to answer or reply. "

I know this. I'm free to post my query to him, and response to you. Blimey, you like to mansplain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor spelling?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"1. Feminiattractiventer or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4

Genuine query here -- what is it about equal rights for men and women that is off putting to you? I'm interested in understanding that as a reason. Thanks.

I fight fight fir equality but recognise we're made differently. ..physique, veribral and emotional to name a few.

( ooooops our opinions matter little)...but Google it and read.

Sitting back now for the onslaught. ..but it'll not all be bad.

This as with anything is not definative and is an opinion as is everyone's comments.

RIP.

Thanks for your opinion. I was asking the chap who posted, not you though.

PM him. But he may not have wanted to respond. It's a forum post and I guess anyone is free to comment, to encourage debate or not which ever may be the case. We don't all have to answer or reply.

I know this. I'm free to post my query to him, and response to you. Blimey, you like to mansplain. "

Certainly wasn't condescending in anyway. You asked on a public forum that it was a genuine reason... I thought you were more open on the idea. There may have been many others asking inwardly a similar question but apprehensive to ask in case someone jumped down their throat. Femanism is alive and kicking ...x

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over a year ago

"1. Feminiattractiventer or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4

Genuine query here -- what is it about equal rights for men and women that is off putting to you? I'm interested in understanding that as a reason. Thanks.

I fight fight fir equality but recognise we're made differently. ..physique, veribral and emotional to name a few.

( ooooops our opinions matter little)...but Google it and read.

Sitting back now for the onslaught. ..but it'll not all be bad.

This as with anything is not definative and is an opinion as is everyone's comments.

RIP.

Thanks for your opinion. I was asking the chap who posted, not you though.

PM him. But he may not have wanted to respond. It's a forum post and I guess anyone is free to comment, to encourage debate or not which ever may be the case. We don't all have to answer or reply.

I know this. I'm free to post my query to him, and response to you. Blimey, you like to mansplain.

And you wonder why women get assertive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. Feminiattractiventer or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4

Genuine query here -- what is it about equal rights for men and women that is off putting to you? I'm interested in understanding that as a reason. Thanks.

I fight fight fir equality but recognise we're made differently. ..physique, veribral and emotional to name a few.

( ooooops our opinions matter little)...but Google it and read.

Sitting back now for the onslaught. ..but it'll not all be bad.

This as with anything is not definative and is an opinion as is everyone's comments.

RIP.

Thanks for your opinion. I was asking the chap who posted, not you though.

PM him. But he may not have wanted to respond. It's a forum post and I guess anyone is free to comment, to encourage debate or not which ever may be the case. We don't all have to answer or reply.

I know this. I'm free to post my query to him, and response to you. Blimey, you like to mansplain.

It was condescending. You may not have meant it to be, but it was. I politely asked the "you" of the original poster. You answered, as is your right. I thanked you for your comment, I clarified further that it was a query to the original poster though. You decided to tell me what I 'should' do. Again you've every right to post. I've every right to find you condescending. And I do.

It's 'feminism' btw.

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over a year ago

Grammar police are out

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over a year ago

"Grammar police are out"

Where?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"1. Feminiattractiventer or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4

Genuine query here -- what is it about equal rights for men and women that is off putting to you? I'm interested in understanding that as a reason. Thanks.

I fight fight fir equality but recognise we're made differently. ..physique, veribral and emotional to name a few.

( ooooops our opinions matter little)...but Google it and read.

Sitting back now for the onslaught. ..but it'll not all be bad.

This as with anything is not definative and is an opinion as is everyone's comments.

RIP.

Thanks for your opinion. I was asking the chap who posted, not you though.

PM him. But he may not have wanted to respond. It's a forum post and I guess anyone is free to comment, to encourage debate or not which ever may be the case. We don't all have to answer or reply.

I know this. I'm free to post my query to him, and response to you. Blimey, you like to mansplain.

And you wonder why women get assertive. "

You think using the word mansplain wasn't? The question was asked. Might be worthwhile reading the the OP and original one. It's been very good...insightful and honest. 90 % have taken it it its original spirit. A few have tried to hijack it... namely some women for whatever agenda they may have had...but not helpful.

Ladies you'll have your chance tomorrow and we'll listen.

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over a year ago

"1. Feminiattractiventer or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4

Genuine query here -- what is it about equal rights for men and women that is off putting to you? I'm interested in understanding that as a reason. Thanks.

I fight fight fir equality but recognise we're made differently. ..physique, veribral and emotional to name a few.

( ooooops our opinions matter little)...but Google it and read.

Sitting back now for the onslaught. ..but it'll not all be bad.

This as with anything is not definative and is an opinion as is everyone's comments.

RIP.

Thanks for your opinion. I was asking the chap who posted, not you though.

PM him. But he may not have wanted to respond. It's a forum post and I guess anyone is free to comment, to encourage debate or not which ever may be the case. We don't all have to answer or reply.

I know this. I'm free to post my query to him, and response to you. Blimey, you like to mansplain.

And you wonder why women get assertive.

Ladies you'll have your chance tomorrow and we'll listen."

I sincerely hope you don't honestly believe you have the right to control what and when women post. But I suspect you'd still secretly like to be living in the 1950s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I simply stated what you were doing, IMO.

I'm fine if you found it condescending (I was being condescending intentionally when correcting your spelling btw). I can own my condescension if you feel it is, whether it's intentional or not.

Mansplaining

(of a man) explain (something) to someone, typically a woman, in a manner regarded as condescending or patronising.

Also, I've not derailed your thread by asking a question, or are women not allowed to post on it? Oh and your answer on behalf of the other chap (which is your opinion and not his, which I was seeking) says feminism is not about equal gender rights...I could womansplain you how to use a dictionary.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Grammar police are out"

doesn't like the man in it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. Feminiattractiventer or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4

Genuine query here -- what is it about equal rights for men and women that is off putting to you? I'm interested in understanding that as a reason. Thanks.

I fight fight fir equality but recognise we're made differently. ..physique, veribral and emotional to name a few.

( ooooops our opinions matter little)...but Google it and read.

Sitting back now for the onslaught. ..but it'll not all be bad.

This as with anything is not definative and is an opinion as is everyone's comments.

RIP.

Thanks for your opinion. I was asking the chap who posted, not you though.

PM him. But he may not have wanted to respond. It's a forum post and I guess anyone is free to comment, to encourage debate or not which ever may be the case. We don't all have to answer or reply.

I know this. I'm free to post my query to him, and response to you. Blimey, you like to mansplain.

And you wonder why women get assertive.

Ladies you'll have your chance tomorrow and we'll listen."

I'm not entirely sure why you're carrying on with the "ladies, you'll have your chance tomorrow". I'm finding it a bit patronising, to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. Feminiattractiventer or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4

Genuine query here -- what is it about equal rights for men and women that is off putting to you? I'm interested in understanding that as a reason. Thanks.

I fight fight fir equality but recognise we're made differently. ..physique, veribral and emotional to name a few.

( ooooops our opinions matter little)...but Google it and read.

Sitting back now for the onslaught. ..but it'll not all be bad.

This as with anything is not definative and is an opinion as is everyone's comments.

RIP.

Thanks for your opinion. I was asking the chap who posted, not you though.

PM him. But he may not have wanted to respond. It's a forum post and I guess anyone is free to comment, to encourage debate or not which ever may be the case. We don't all have to answer or reply.

I know this. I'm free to post my query to him, and response to you. Blimey, you like to mansplain.

And you wonder why women get assertive.

Ladies you'll have your chance tomorrow and we'll listen.

I'm not entirely sure why you're carrying on with the "ladies, you'll have your chance tomorrow". I'm finding it a bit patronising, to be honest. "

Wahhhhh but I'm not being patronising, blooming men haters the lot of ya!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I simply stated what you were doing, IMO.

I'm fine if you found it condescending (I was being condescending intentionally when correcting your spelling btw). I can own my condescension if you feel it is, whether it's intentional or not.

Mansplaining

(of a man) explain (something) to someone, typically a woman, in a manner regarded as condescending or patronising.

Feminism isn't at equal gender rights and that's where they have got it wrong. If it was then there would be less clashing on the subject. Imo and if you Google many will see why it isn't. I not pretending to be an authority on it at all...that is often how it is projected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I simply stated what you were doing, IMO.

I'm fine if you found it condescending (I was being condescending intentionally when correcting your spelling btw). I can own my condescension if you feel it is, whether it's intentional or not.

Mansplaining

(of a man) explain (something) to someone, typically a woman, in a manner regarded as condescending or patronising.

What does your first sentence even mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) Having a superiority complex/thinking they're something special when they're not

2) Too much makeup/fake tan/hairspray

3) Selfishness/only interested in what's in it for them

4) Expecting a chap (or lass) to jump through hoops/go above and beyond when they make no effort

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"1. Feminiattractiventer or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4

Genuine query here -- what is it about equal rights for men and women that is off putting to you? I'm interested in understanding that as a reason. Thanks.

I fight fight fir equality but recognise we're made differently. ..physique, veribral and emotional to name a few.

( ooooops our opinions matter little)...but Google it and read.

Sitting back now for the onslaught. ..but it'll not all be bad.

This as with anything is not definative and is an opinion as is everyone's comments.

RIP.

Thanks for your opinion. I was asking the chap who posted, not you though.

PM him. But he may not have wanted to respond. It's a forum post and I guess anyone is free to comment, to encourage debate or not which ever may be the case. We don't all have to answer or reply.

I know this. I'm free to post my query to him, and response to you. Blimey, you like to mansplain.

And you wonder why women get assertive.

Ladies you'll have your chance tomorrow and we'll listen.

I'm not entirely sure why you're carrying on with the "ladies, you'll have your chance tomorrow". I'm finding it a bit patronising, to be honest. "

Read the OP. The first one and you may understand why I said that. It's not patronising at all...I think you've personalised something which is there. There is to be a post tomorrow like this one for ladies to give us men 4 reasons that turn you off. Some seem to have started it early but on the wrong thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"1) Having a superiority complex/thinking they're something special when they're not

2) Too much makeup/fake tan/hairspray

3) Selfishness/only interested in what's in it for them

4) Expecting a chap (or lass) to jump through hoops/go above and beyond when they make no effort"

Thanks for bringing it back on track.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've not read the whole thing but is there a definitive list of 4 yet?

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over a year ago

"1. Feminiattractiventer or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4

Genuine query here -- what is it about equal rights for men and women that is off putting to you? I'm interested in understanding that as a reason. Thanks.

I fight fight fir equality but recognise we're made differently. ..physique, veribral and emotional to name a few.

( ooooops our opinions matter little)...but Google it and read.

Sitting back now for the onslaught. ..but it'll not all be bad.

This as with anything is not definative and is an opinion as is everyone's comments.

RIP.

Thanks for your opinion. I was asking the chap who posted, not you though.

PM him. But he may not have wanted to respond. It's a forum post and I guess anyone is free to comment, to encourage debate or not which ever may be the case. We don't all have to answer or reply.

I know this. I'm free to post my query to him, and response to you. Blimey, you like to mansplain.

And you wonder why women get assertive.

Ladies you'll have your chance tomorrow and we'll listen.

I'm not entirely sure why you're carrying on with the "ladies, you'll have your chance tomorrow". I'm finding it a bit patronising, to be honest.

Nope, still finding you patronising.

Also, we did that thread. Today. Or were we required to wait for you to start it!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've not read the whole thing but is there a definitive list of 4 yet?

Welcome Kinky Minx...took your time....

I've actually asked a couple times if a lady would like the honours as it seems a few are getting anst about some comments...

I think it fair that a lady do it and you suddenly popped up...

HELP !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"1. Feminiattractiventer or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4

Genuine query here -- what is it about equal rights for men and women that is off putting to you? I'm interested in understanding that as a reason. Thanks.

I fight fight fir equality but recognise we're made differently. ..physique, veribral and emotional to name a few.

( ooooops our opinions matter little)...but Google it and read.

Sitting back now for the onslaught. ..but it'll not all be bad.

This as with anything is not definative and is an opinion as is everyone's comments.

RIP.

Thanks for your opinion. I was asking the chap who posted, not you though.

PM him. But he may not have wanted to respond. It's a forum post and I guess anyone is free to comment, to encourage debate or not which ever may be the case. We don't all have to answer or reply.

I know this. I'm free to post my query to him, and response to you. Blimey, you like to mansplain.

And you wonder why women get assertive.

Ladies you'll have your chance tomorrow and we'll listen.

I'm not entirely sure why you're carrying on with the "ladies, you'll have your chance tomorrow". I'm finding it a bit patronising, to be honest.

Nope, still finding you patronising.

Also, we did that thread. Today. Or were we required to wait for you to start it!?"

I believe someone did... where is it?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I've not read the whole thing but is there a definitive list of 4 yet?

Welcome Kinky Minx...took your time....

I've actually asked a couple times if a lady would like the honours as it seems a few are getting anst about some comments...

I think it fair that a lady do it and you suddenly popped up...

HELP !!!"

But surely you've read all the posts and have all the PMs so you've got the data to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. Feminism

2. No banter or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4

Genuine query here -- what is it about equal rights for men and women that is off putting to you? I'm interested in understanding that as a reason. Thanks. "

I'm 100% for equality and a very liberal person. But Feminism in its current form is absolutely toxic and goes against many of the principles it was founded on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've not read the whole thing but is there a definitive list of 4 yet?

Welcome Kinky Minx...took your time....

I've actually asked a couple times if a lady would like the honours as it seems a few are getting anst about some comments...

I think it fair that a lady do it and you suddenly popped up...

HELP !!!

But surely you've read all the posts and have all the PMs so you've got the data to do it

I'm giving equal opportunities here Kinky... don't turn that down please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not read the whole thing but is there a definitive list of 4 yet?

Welcome Kinky Minx...took your time....

I've actually asked a couple times if a lady would like the honours as it seems a few are getting anst about some comments...

I think it fair that a lady do it and you suddenly popped up...

HELP !!!"

You need help ?? Can I be of any help ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not read the whole thing but is there a definitive list of 4 yet?

Welcome Kinky Minx...took your time....

I've actually asked a couple times if a lady would like the honours as it seems a few are getting anst about some comments...

I think it fair that a lady do it and you suddenly popped up...

HELP !!!"

You need help ?? Can I be of any help ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. Feminism

2. No banter or fun or effort in the chat

3. Gossips about others

I'll ponder number 4

Genuine query here -- what is it about equal rights for men and women that is off putting to you? I'm interested in understanding that as a reason. Thanks.

I'm 100% for equality and a very liberal person. But Feminism in its current form is absolutely toxic and goes against many of the principles it was founded on. "

Oh hello, thanks for your answer, much appreciated. I kinda meant how is it manifesting for you specifically to be a turn off on this site? Cheers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I've not read the whole thing but is there a definitive list of 4 yet?

Welcome Kinky Minx...took your time....

I've actually asked a couple times if a lady would like the honours as it seems a few are getting anst about some comments...

I think it fair that a lady do it and you suddenly popped up...

HELP !!!

But surely you've read all the posts and have all the PMs so you've got the data to do it

I'm giving equal opportunities here Kinky... don't turn that down please."

You're expecting a woman to do your work for you. Your thread, your rules, your job

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've not read the whole thing but is there a definitive list of 4 yet?

Welcome Kinky Minx...took your time....

I've actually asked a couple times if a lady would like the honours as it seems a few are getting anst about some comments...

I think it fair that a lady do it and you suddenly popped up...

HELP !!!

You need help ?? Can I be of any help ?? "

Always like a woman shoulder to shoulder...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Anyway, where's this 4 things that put you off men thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyway, where's this 4 things that put you off men thread?

It got binned earlier

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyway, where's this 4 things that put you off men thread?

Think some woman started it... prematurely i gathered. Not sure where... its out there somewhere. Might start one tomorrow but maybe us men already got the answers today.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Anyway, where's this 4 things that put you off men thread?

It got binned earlier"

Ohhh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyway, where's this 4 things that put you off men thread?

It got binned earlier"

????

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

When you say to a girl "do you want to meet up for a drink tonight or tomorrow or soon?" And they say "oh i can't, I've got a meet with someone in 5 days time" or whatever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you say to a girl "do you want to meet up for a drink tonight or tomorrow or soon?" And they say "oh i can't, I've got a meet with someone in 5 days time" or whatever. "

That's just one... you're very affable it that's your lot....

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"When you say to a girl "do you want to meet up for a drink tonight or tomorrow or soon?" And they say "oh i can't, I've got a meet with someone in 5 days time" or whatever.

That's just one... you're very affable it that's your lot....

I'm fucking famous for affable nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very informative.

Keep them coming gents.

Ya learn something new every day...

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan
over a year ago

Kent

"So what are the 4 things that make a man lose interest then????"

No Anal

4 kids

No Money

In Laws

.... ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what are the 4 things that make a man lose interest then????

No Anal

4 kids

No Money

In Laws

.... ???"

In laws?? Because they come along to watch ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few things that make me loose interest. The biggest thing is breaking trust between us.

That is soo difficult for me to deal with if the person I engage with can't be consistent, open and honest.

Trust can be broken by:

Deception, compulsive liars or misleading.

I just block because in the past I gave chances, but people don't seem to change and always have a hidden agenda...

Recently was chatting to a woman who did this and I told her to block me (first time I asked someone to block me) because I couldn't do it...

Really wanted her to be genuine and hoped her words matched her actions... but they don't. She won't block me either!!

If I block her will be the hardest decision I made on here to date. Once the trust has been broken and I block then there is no going back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah lost interest when you seem to lose attraction with them

Or don't feel like talking to them every day all off a sudden then no messages

Lack of interest in messages one word answers or being ignored

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan
over a year ago

Kent

"So what are the 4 things that make a man lose interest then????

No Anal

4 kids

No Money

In Laws

.... ???

In laws?? Because they come along to watch ??

Sorry just quick flick through n thought thread was more general rather than swinging lol

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Well I've read both of these threads now and there are some interesting points of view, along with a couple of common issues.

I wonder what the ladies will have to say tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just make a point that I'll be at work most of the day so please keep it going until I'm home.

I have some valid points.

And some ones which will make everyone think I'm too flippant.

Either way, I want to join in!

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Bad spelling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad spelling? "

You'd lose interest because of her bad spelling?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I just make a point that I'll be at work most of the day so please keep it going until I'm home.

I have some valid points.

And some ones which will make everyone think I'm too flippant.

Either way, I want to join in! "

Will just let the ladies do it themselves. ..they ran one already very capably. The men's one is still open to be finished. Keep it respectful guys and it's your opinion and your experience. There seem to be alot of ladies genuinely want to know. It's good all round for fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've not read the whole thing but is there a definitive list of 4 yet?

Welcome Kinky Minx...took your time....

I've actually asked a couple times if a lady would like the honours as it seems a few are getting anst about some comments...

I think it fair that a lady do it and you suddenly popped up...

HELP !!!

But surely you've read all the posts and have all the PMs so you've got the data to do it

I'm giving equal opportunities here Kinky... don't turn that down please.

You're expecting a woman to do your work for you. Your thread, your rules, your job

You're quoting someone who didn't read the OP not understood what it was about. They ruined their own thread and kept trying on here. We want to keep it informative and not closed minded. Not too much to ask unless it's just a flippant small minded post which then it's ok to bitch in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you've spoken to a woman and establised that you would both like to meet.. but you dont contact them for a few days then they either

Block you

Delete you from the freinds list

Or send you a funny reply

Its abit weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not read the whole thing but is there a definitive list of 4 yet?

Welcome Kinky Minx...took your time....

I've actually asked a couple times if a lady would like the honours as it seems a few are getting anst about some comments...

I think it fair that a lady do it and you suddenly popped up...

HELP !!!

But surely you've read all the posts and have all the PMs so you've got the data to do it

I'm giving equal opportunities here Kinky... don't turn that down please.

You're expecting a woman to do your work for you. Your thread, your rules, your job

Don't forget the hypocrites as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you've spoken to a woman and establised that you would both like to meet.. but you dont contact them for a few days then they either

Block you

Delete you from the freinds list

Or send you a funny reply

Its abit weird"

Guys do that also

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you've spoken to a woman and establised that you would both like to meet.. but you dont contact them for a few days then they either

Block you

Delete you from the freinds list

Or send you a funny reply

Its abit weird

Guys do that also

Yes many of us do. He's sharing his experience.

Most things that we are or have said I'm sure the women can say too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fit, but you know it syndrome. Nothing more off putting than arrogance in women, or people in general.

Rude

Inconsiderate

Big headed

Demanding

Know it all

Judgemental

Etc.

Unfortunately it seems common place on fab.. Men, couples, transgender and women.. From what I read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you've spoken to a woman and establised that you would both like to meet.. but you dont contact them for a few days then they either

Block you

Delete you from the freinds list

Or send you a funny reply

Its abit weird

Guys do that also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The consistent reasons are :

Communication

Manners

Common decency

Honesty

I as a woman. Have the same reasons for loosing interest.

Thank you for sharing Gents. Much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Over demanding.

2. Over chatty.

3. Over endulgent.

4. Over herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is getting rather heated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. Over demanding.

2. Over chatty.

3. Over endulgent.

4. Over herself.

You also mean self centred

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is getting rather heated

Really? You weren't on the forum yesterday lol.

We've resumed a sense of calm and respect. Some very good points...and finally got one lady to help collate a bit...which is a healthy input.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is getting rather heated

Really? You weren't on the forum yesterday lol.

We've resumed a sense of calm and respect. Some very good points...and finally got one lady to help collate a bit...which is a healthy input."

I was working yesterday it's hard to go through every comment I do apologise

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is getting rather heated

Really? You weren't on the forum yesterday lol.

We've resumed a sense of calm and respect. Some very good points...and finally got one lady to help collate a bit...which is a healthy input.

I was working yesterday it's hard to go through every comment I do apologise

Ah understand now...yes there was a face of anst that appeared for a bit but lost interest. ..so all good atm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is getting rather heated

Really? You weren't on the forum yesterday lol.

We've resumed a sense of calm and respect. Some very good points...and finally got one lady to help collate a bit...which is a healthy input.

I was working yesterday it's hard to go through every comment I do apologise

Ah understand now...yes there was a face of anst that appeared for a bit but lost interest. ..so all good atm."

That's good then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. One word replies

2. No pictures, despite being on here for months

3. Aggressive bio

4. Above herself

there probably my biggest four

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you've spoken to a woman and establised that you would both like to meet.. but you dont contact them for a few days then they either

Block you

Delete you from the freinds list

Or send you a funny reply

Its abit weird"

We perceive that if you're online but not talking to us, that you're talking to others. Fine by some, not fine by others. Makes them feel less special perhaps? Personally if we've hit it off but the guy doesn't make a firm step to arrange to meet me, then goes ghost for three days, I wouldn't block or delete you but I'd certainly be hugely less interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The consistent reasons are :

Communication

Manners

Common decency

Honesty

I as a woman. Have the same reasons for loosing interest.

Thank you for sharing Gents. Much appreciated. "

Covers quite a lot, and probably most of the mayor reasons of 'loosing interest' or the idea of having meeting for a social or a meet, fizzling out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you've spoken to a woman and establised that you would both like to meet.. but you dont contact them for a few days then they either

Block you

Delete you from the freinds list

Or send you a funny reply

Its abit weird

Put on the ladies post...some good points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you've spoken to a woman and establised that you would both like to meet.. but you dont contact them for a few days then they either

Block you

Delete you from the freinds list

Or send you a funny reply

Its abit weird

See that to me seems too much hassle already..clingy even. personally i'm not after a fuck buddy or anything so i guess that maybe where the confusion is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you've spoken to a woman and establised that you would both like to meet.. but you dont contact them for a few days then they either

Block you

Delete you from the freinds list

Or send you a funny reply

Its abit weird"

You make some good points, but I am surprised any of the forum police and saviours (who ever they are) did not correct your spelling mistakes.

They are slacking

You are either lucky or have a helmet for protection that the rest of us don't know about...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you've spoken to a woman and establised that you would both like to meet.. but you dont contact them for a few days then they either

Block you

Delete you from the freinds list

Or send you a funny reply

Its abit weird

You make some good points, but I am surprised any of the forum police and saviours (who ever they are) did not correct your spelling mistakes.

They are slacking

You are either lucky or have a helmet for protection that the rest of us don't know about..."

Does it matter in the scheme of things?

let it go and don't stir the pot unnecessarily.

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

Lying - usually about age

Stupidity - "must be able to hold a conversation" this tends to mean she'll reply with one word answers and expect a long thought out reply to get the next one word answer.

War and peace length verifications that read like vacuum cleaner reviews

Demanding a face pic for a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The consistent reasons are :

Communication

Manners

Common decency

Honesty

I as a woman. Have the same reasons for loosing interest.

Thank you for sharing Gents. Much appreciated. "

You have a well written profile. Love it!

I have come across soo many amazing profiles this year. Makes my profile look soo basic

Communication, manners, common decency and honesty...

That is all I ask for and in return you get a headless suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you've spoken to a woman and establised that you would both like to meet.. but you dont contact them for a few days then they either

Block you

Delete you from the freinds list

Or send you a funny reply

Its abit weird

You make some good points, but I am surprised any of the forum police and saviours (who ever they are) did not correct your spelling mistakes.

They are slacking

You are either lucky or have a helmet for protection that the rest of us don't know about...

Does it matter in the scheme of things?

let it go and don't stir the pot unnecessarily. "

It does not matter in the scheme of things and I have nothing to let go of.

However...

There is a woman on here who has a pic in which she is literally 'stirring the pot'

That is a great pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of these threads serve to show it's difficult for most women and men to find what they really want on here easily.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you've spoken to a woman and establised that you would both like to meet.. but you dont contact them for a few days then they either

Block you

Delete you from the freinds list

Or send you a funny reply

Its abit weird

You make some good points, but I am surprised any of the forum police and saviours (who ever they are) did not correct your spelling mistakes.

They are slacking

You are either lucky or have a helmet for protection that the rest of us don't know about...

Does it matter in the scheme of things?

let it go and don't stir the pot unnecessarily.

It does not matter in the scheme of things and I have nothing to let go of.

However...

There is a woman on here who has a pic in which she is literally 'stirring the pot'

That is a great pic

Lmao... I spat out my tea. Now I wonder if they'll allow me a 5th point....or will that offend too.

Sometimes people have bad days or weeks....but when it's their goal in life it can be toxic which brings me back to the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what makes me lose interest when it happens.

But the biggest stand out thing that makes me go stone cold is 1 word replies or an almost total inability to hold a conversation that isn't exclusively about Sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both of these threads serve to show it's difficult for most women and men to find what they really want on here easily. "

Fine...

I can't keep silent no more!

I am going to tell you what I really want:

How the heck do you get into Cloud Cuckoo Land ??

A few of you in there and that is the biggest mystery on Fab.

I thought when you get that all important milestone 'over a year' on your profile that was the way in...

Been on here over 2 years now and I still can't get in

Hmpf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both of these threads serve to show it's difficult for most women and men to find what they really want on here easily. "

Also...meeting OUTSIDE of the fucking forums helps.

But shhh that's a secret and isn't obvious.

oops cats out of the bag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both of these threads serve to show it's difficult for most women and men to find what they really want on here easily.

Fine...

I can't keep silent no more!

I am going to tell you what I really want:

How the heck do you get into Cloud Cuckoo Land ??

A few of you in there and that is the biggest mystery on Fab.

I thought when you get that all important milestone 'over a year' on your profile that was the way in...

Been on here over 2 years now and I still can't get in

Hmpf"

Change your location simple. We welcome new residents but Ace's farts don't half smell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both of these threads serve to show it's difficult for most women and men to find what they really want on here easily.

Fine...

I can't keep silent no more!

I am going to tell you what I really want:

How the heck do you get into Cloud Cuckoo Land ??

A few of you in there and that is the biggest mystery on Fab.

I thought when you get that all important milestone 'over a year' on your profile that was the way in...

Been on here over 2 years now and I still can't get in

Hmpf"

Oh and you can still post on here even though it's closed with a key

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