FabSwingers.com forum: Last minute or well planned?

By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I just booked a room at Chameleons......for October!!

I am a single working mum with a very busy social life, on here and otherwise. I run two diaries and would be lost without them and my mobile. So I tend to book myself up in advance! I do like last minute meets, but they are rare for me.

How about you?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I prefer last minute meets with people Ive already 'vetted'....

I find that if I plan things in advance I usually just want to spend the night watching tv in my jamas rather than play out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both have their place really although last minuite or a few day notice tend ta be more intense I find xx

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

The build up to a planned meet can be great fun

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Has to be well planned as we have to arrange a babysitter.

last minute would be fun but just cant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any meet does well for me

but only had 1 so far it was kinda last min

just a wee social one

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I love the frission of a short notice meet, twenty minutes from message to arriving is the record so far!

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I find that if I plan things in advance I usually just want to spend the night watching tv in my jamas rather than play out

Sometiems I get cancellations and think 'Thank GOD! I can eat chocolate all night instead'.

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I love the frission of a short notice meet, twenty minutes from message to arriving is the record so far!

I've only managed 45 mins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be nice just to get a meet every once in a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

last minute

if have found the more in advance the meet is made, the less chance of it actually happening is

luckily i don't have kids to consider and have agreed days when i see my othe half so i know what days i can play

my biggest problem is work going tits up so i tend to wait til all that is put to bed before agreeing to meet anyone.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

It should only take you 45 mins from York to mine _yrdwoman.

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"It should only take you 45 mins from York to mine _yrdwoman.

Good try!! If the buses and trains run right the shortest time I have done mine to a meet in Leeds is 1 hour!

But I have a meet in Leeds tonight so will let you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well planned, every time.

I like to vet people beforehand, safety first and all that jazz.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've had people turn up before i've even got in the shower !

twice that's happened

i live on a main road & i swear they must be able to pick up my 'on heat' signals as they drive past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bit of both given a choice but i will rarely drop things for a spur of the moment meet unless its someone i have met before.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I just booked a room at Chameleons......for October!!

How about you?"

Depends...i know not helpful but true!

Clubs we plan in advance, like you getting a sitter for a whole night is hard to organise.

Daytime meets, generally for mmf are usually decided the night before.

On one very memorable occasion my Master told me he would be arriving in 20 minutes!i fussed about my hair!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"It would be nice just to get a meet every once in a while

*moves closer to private in a consoling manner*

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Meets have to be well planned. Could never imagine meeting someone on the spur of the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bit of both given a choice but i will rarely drop things for a spur of the moment meet unless its someone i have met before.

+ 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bit of both given a choice but i will rarely drop things for a spur of the moment meet unless its someone i have met before.

+ 1

+ 2 adding that an exception for me would be someone i am very interested in getting to know better

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Always have last minute meets but with people I have already decided to meet, that way I don't have to worry about running the risk of having to cancel.

Also I find the las minute meets even more exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have someone who always asks if im free.

but i prefer to get to know someone and not just do a quickie without knowing them first.

am i being silly here or just being safe?, i dont really know.

im sure shes a nice woman but i just cannot say yes to someone instantly without knowing them.

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

"i have someone who always asks if im free.

but i prefer to get to know someone and not just do a quickie without knowing them first.

am i being silly here or just being safe?, i dont really know.

im sure shes a nice woman but i just cannot say yes to someone instantly without knowing them."

You are just being safe, I always chat with guys for a while before I decide if I would meet them, I find this helps to ensure that you are all going to enjoy the meet and are looking for the same things from a meet.

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"i have someone who always asks if im free.

but i prefer to get to know someone and not just do a quickie without knowing them first.

am i being silly here or just being safe?, i dont really know.

im sure shes a nice woman but i just cannot say yes to someone instantly without knowing them."

Why don't you get to know her then?

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

We wont meet unless we have been speaking to that person for a while. Our 1st meet with them are always a social one 1st, as it can be hard for all 4 people to be happy with one another. The only way we would do a last minute meet is if we have previously meet the people before.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

well as a single guy who can accommodate ive have had few unplanned meets im easy

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