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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who kisses on swinging meets?? And if you don't why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kiss. No sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kiss. No sex. "

Amended. No good kiss. No sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing, no kissing no passion. I have to kiss the person I'm meeting with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing dead important.I love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing...

No meeting...

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton


"Who kisses on swinging meets?? And if you don't why not?"

Who wouldn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a must.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kiss. No sex.

Amended. No good kiss. No sex. "

This

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I love kissing, it is very intimate and most enjoyable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goes without saying.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kissing...

No meeting...

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this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No good kissing, no play and to the non kissers, each to there own but come on!!

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Kissing is a absolute must for me.

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan
over a year ago

Kent

Give me kissing n foreplay anyday over penetration

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan
over a year ago

Kent


"No good kissing, no play and to the non kissers, each to there own but come on!! "

Btw ..... you have the most veris iv ever seen on fabs

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

Kissing is a must for me, got to get the legs to wobble before I catch em...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people really not kiss?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

No kissing wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No good kissing, no play and to the non kissers, each to there own but come on!!

Btw ..... you have the most veris iv ever seen on fabs "

Thanks xx you should see the unseen xx

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Do people really not kiss? "

This!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who kisses on swinging meets?? And if you don't why not?"

kissing is the upper persuasion to a lower invasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ALL the kisses or you don't see my boobs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people really not kiss?

This!!"

some couples like to save kissing for themselves...

yeah I know...weird lol

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

If the kiss don't get my cock stirring then there ain't no cock

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't but it's nobody's business why we don't.

If its necessary to someone its in the profile so they can avoid us.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"If the kiss don't get my cock stirring then there ain't no cock"

I'll take that as a compliment

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"ALL the kisses or you don't see my boobs! "

Big snogs, now get 'em out missus

Mmmmmwwwhhhaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to kiss, it's a must. X

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Kissing is important to me - without it I would fail to get aroused with another. That being typed, I can understand why some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kiss.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

The kissing is the vital component to begin the build up to a hot and steamy session . We wouldn't meet someone who doesn't kiss .

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Not kissing seems to be the only preference that people feel able to question.

I await the cold and robotic comments weve already had weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can tell alot by a kiss....if it's a shit kiss.....it won't go any further!!!!!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I love kissing and I wouldn't meet anyone who didn't enjoy it or want to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fear not fabland, laceyandsam love to kiss.... mmmwwwaaahhhhh

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I love it and wouldn't meet anyone that doesn't like kissing. Its what drives the gears

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Got to kiss on a meet otherwise it's just not going to work out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The kissing is the vital component to begin the build up to a hot and steamy session . We wouldn't meet someone who doesn't kiss ."

We've made the mistake of playing on the odd occasion with non kissers and ODD being the operative word! Strange feeling and rather boring, also in the back of your minds and boggling away is the reasoning behind the non kissing! Jealousy, fear of intimacy, crap at kissing which are not good starting points to a play.....

Oh and never heard a reasonable explanation into why they don't kiss......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not kissing seems to be the only preference that people feel able to question.

I await the cold and robotic comments weve already had weird "

Everyone is absolutely entitled to their own preferences, i think with this one its (for me anyway) something that would just occur naturally.. it would take a concerted effort not to.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I wouldn't meet anyone that didn't want to kiss me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fear not fabland, laceyandsam love to kiss.... mmmwwwaaahhhhh "

We can dream ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not kissing seems to be the only preference that people feel able to question.

I await the cold and robotic comments weve already had weird "

It's ridiculous that people should question it, sorry to hear you're getting flak from the fabidiots. If I was in a couple, I may have a different view -- I'm not, so I can only speak from where I'm at now -- either way I wouldn't presume to understand someone else's dynamic. Keep on being you, again apologies to hear the idiots are out in force.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"The kissing is the vital component to begin the build up to a hot and steamy session . We wouldn't meet someone who doesn't kiss .

We've made the mistake of playing on the odd occasion with non kissers and ODD being the operative word! Strange feeling and rather boring, also in the back of your minds and boggling away is the reasoning behind the non kissing! Jealousy, fear of intimacy, crap at kissing which are not good starting points to a play.....

Oh and never heard a reasonable explanation into why they don't kiss...... "

It's an odd one for sure , and we've never heard a reason that makes sense either .

One can't help but feel there may be insecurity on their part , or as you say they may be crap kissers or have halitosis ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. Kissing is hot.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"The kissing is the vital component to begin the build up to a hot and steamy session . We wouldn't meet someone who doesn't kiss .

We've made the mistake of playing on the odd occasion with non kissers and ODD being the operative word! Strange feeling and rather boring, also in the back of your minds and boggling away is the reasoning behind the non kissing! Jealousy, fear of intimacy, crap at kissing which are not good starting points to a play.....

Oh and never heard a reasonable explanation into why they don't kiss...... "

Because they don't want to? Quite a reasonable explanation in my mind - choice is the great thing about being on fab. Evidently it's not for you; there are things that I won't do on a meet and there is no need for me to provide an explanation that others perceive as being 'reasonable'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fear not fabland, laceyandsam love to kiss.... mmmwwwaaahhhhh "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ALL the kisses or you don't see my boobs!

Big snogs, now get 'em out missus

Mmmmmwwwhhhaaaa "

(.)(.)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not kissing seems to be the only preference that people feel able to question.

I await the cold and robotic comments weve already had weird

It's ridiculous that people should question it, sorry to hear you're getting flak from the fabidiots. If I was in a couple, I may have a different view -- I'm not, so I can only speak from where I'm at now -- either way I wouldn't presume to understand someone else's dynamic. Keep on being you, again apologies to hear the idiots are out in force. "

Thanks. We're not in the least bit bothered by it though. Thats why we never give a reason, it's nobody elses business. We wouldn't question the way anyone else plays unless they invited comment but it takes all sorts I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not kissing seems to be the only preference that people feel able to question.

I await the cold and robotic comments weve already had weird "

You do make a good and valid point most people feel able to question kissing more than anything else

We all have preferences e.g.

I don't do anal because it hurts too much

I don't receive watersports as I don't like the smell or taste

I don't bareback because I take care of my sexual health...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me.

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

If i don't want to kiss the person then i definitely don't want to have sex with them.

Kissing is delicious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not kissing seems to be the only preference that people feel able to question.

I await the cold and robotic comments weve already had weird

It's ridiculous that people should question it, sorry to hear you're getting flak from the fabidiots. If I was in a couple, I may have a different view -- I'm not, so I can only speak from where I'm at now -- either way I wouldn't presume to understand someone else's dynamic. Keep on being you, again apologies to hear the idiots are out in force.

Thanks. We're not in the least bit bothered by it though. Thats why we never give a reason, it's nobody elses business. We wouldn't question the way anyone else plays unless they invited comment but it takes all sorts I guess. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"The kissing is the vital component to begin the build up to a hot and steamy session . We wouldn't meet someone who doesn't kiss .

We've made the mistake of playing on the odd occasion with non kissers and ODD being the operative word! Strange feeling and rather boring, also in the back of your minds and boggling away is the reasoning behind the non kissing! Jealousy, fear of intimacy, crap at kissing which are not good starting points to a play.....

Oh and never heard a reasonable explanation into why they don't kiss...... "

That's why we have on our profile that we dont kiss. It means people to whom its important can avoid us.

We all play the way we enjoy most after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the ultimate fore play , the build up, the excitement , the passion .....that leads to pure unadulterated erotic delights. If thats not there then it's a non runner for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lips were built for kissing !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore kissing

That first tentative kiss then as the passion builds . Deeper wetter longer kisses

Yum

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

First thing Sue does.

No kissing then nothing else happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me. "

It's not judgemental we have just felt very uncomfortable playing with non kissers as per previous experiences and won't meet them now, we tried to get over it, perhaps it's us but the overall vibe from the plays has always strange to us, each to there own....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is the ultimate fore play , the build up, the excitement , the passion .....that leads to pure unadulterated erotic delights. If thats not there then it's a non runner for me. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me.

It's not judgemental we have just felt very uncomfortable playing with non kissers as per previous experiences and won't meet them now, we tried to get over it, perhaps it's us but the overall vibe from the plays has always strange to us, each to there own...."

"I've never heard a reasonable explanation"

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me. "

I'm not sure what this means ?

Who is being judgemental ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta love a hot passionate snog,interspersed with lots of kissing on the neck....not allowed to bite there after the last time though......I'm a baaaad Bruce!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Oh I love the kissing

When you are there looking at each others lips hungrily then kapow

All the kisses. Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me.

I'm not sure what this means ?

Who is being judgemental ?"

I'm just making a comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id imagine it a bit weird to go sticking your twig in a bird without kissing first

Surely a kiss is what sparks the passion, and passion fuels the sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had lots of meets with no kissing. It didn't seem weird at all.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Kissing is important to me - without it I would fail to get aroused with another. That being typed, I can understand why some don't. "
this. Kissing is so important to me. I do understand why some couples keep it a sacred thing just for them though. I couldn't swing with someone I love,I admire those who do, however if it ever happened seeing him kiss another woman with passion or feeling would break my heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me.

It's not judgemental we have just felt very uncomfortable playing with non kissers as per previous experiences and won't meet them now, we tried to get over it, perhaps it's us but the overall vibe from the plays has always strange to us, each to there own....

"I've never heard a reasonable explanation"

"

Yep never heard a reasonable explanation which raises suspicion, swinging to us has always been about open and honest dialogue between all parties resulting in nicer plays and repeat meets, there are sexual activities we won't engage in and would always be happy to explain why, as per a previous post by us in this thread....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me.

It's not judgemental we have just felt very uncomfortable playing with non kissers as per previous experiences and won't meet them now, we tried to get over it, perhaps it's us but the overall vibe from the plays has always strange to us, each to there own....

"I've never heard a reasonable explanation"

Yep never heard a reasonable explanation which raises suspicion, swinging to us has always been about open and honest dialogue between all parties resulting in nicer plays and repeat meets, there are sexual activities we won't engage in and would always be happy to explain why, as per a previous post by us in this thread.... "

Your opinion is valid. It's yours. You judge others within your opinion though. Which you're entitled to do. But it is judgemental, now and that you're asking.

My original comment wasn't directed at anyone other than those condemning another couple's choice because they post it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me.

It's not judgemental we have just felt very uncomfortable playing with non kissers as per previous experiences and won't meet them now, we tried to get over it, perhaps it's us but the overall vibe from the plays has always strange to us, each to there own....

"I've never heard a reasonable explanation"

Yep never heard a reasonable explanation which raises suspicion, swinging to us has always been about open and honest dialogue between all parties resulting in nicer plays and repeat meets, there are sexual activities we won't engage in and would always be happy to explain why, as per a previous post by us in this thread....

Your opinion is valid. It's yours. You judge others within your opinion though. Which you're entitled to do. But it is judgemental, now and that you're asking.

My original comment wasn't directed at anyone other than those condemning another couple's choice because they post it. "

*now that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love passionate kissing on 1 to 1 meets. If I met couples though I might not be so much into kissing them both though because I see kissing almost more intimate than shagging. Even in ffms away from fab I've only passionately kissed one of the participants in each scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me.

It's not judgemental we have just felt very uncomfortable playing with non kissers as per previous experiences and won't meet them now, we tried to get over it, perhaps it's us but the overall vibe from the plays has always strange to us, each to there own....

"I've never heard a reasonable explanation"

Yep never heard a reasonable explanation which raises suspicion, swinging to us has always been about open and honest dialogue between all parties resulting in nicer plays and repeat meets, there are sexual activities we won't engage in and would always be happy to explain why, as per a previous post by us in this thread....

Your opinion is valid. It's yours. You judge others within your opinion though. Which you're entitled to do. But it is judgemental, now and that you're asking.

My original comment wasn't directed at anyone other than those condemning another couple's choice because they post it. "

In the words of right said Fred.....

Don't talk just kiss ( but only if you want too )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me.

It's not judgemental we have just felt very uncomfortable playing with non kissers as per previous experiences and won't meet them now, we tried to get over it, perhaps it's us but the overall vibe from the plays has always strange to us, each to there own....

"I've never heard a reasonable explanation"

Yep never heard a reasonable explanation which raises suspicion, swinging to us has always been about open and honest dialogue between all parties resulting in nicer plays and repeat meets, there are sexual activities we won't engage in and would always be happy to explain why, as per a previous post by us in this thread....

Your opinion is valid. It's yours. You judge others within your opinion though. Which you're entitled to do. But it is judgemental, now and that you're asking.

My original comment wasn't directed at anyone other than those condemning another couple's choice because they post it.

In the words of right said Fred.....

Don't talk just kiss ( but only if you want too )"

Nah, I'm busy judging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here are kisses for all of you: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think it's dead sweet that couples keep the kissing just for them if that's how they choose to roll.

The couples that I have met were more than happy to kiss me, I can't imagine it being any other way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me.

It's not judgemental we have just felt very uncomfortable playing with non kissers as per previous experiences and won't meet them now, we tried to get over it, perhaps it's us but the overall vibe from the plays has always strange to us, each to there own....

"I've never heard a reasonable explanation"

Yep never heard a reasonable explanation which raises suspicion, swinging to us has always been about open and honest dialogue between all parties resulting in nicer plays and repeat meets, there are sexual activities we won't engage in and would always be happy to explain why, as per a previous post by us in this thread....

Your opinion is valid. It's yours. You judge others within your opinion though. Which you're entitled to do. But it is judgemental, now and that you're asking.

My original comment wasn't directed at anyone other than those condemning another couple's choice because they post it.

In the words of right said Fred.....

Don't talk just kiss ( but only if you want too )

Nah, I'm busy judging. "

I'll just slobber on your cheek then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

In the words of right said Fred.....

Don't talk just kiss ( but only if you want too )

Nah, I'm busy judging.

I'll just slobber on your cheek then "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me.

It's not judgemental we have just felt very uncomfortable playing with non kissers as per previous experiences and won't meet them now, we tried to get over it, perhaps it's us but the overall vibe from the plays has always strange to us, each to there own....

"I've never heard a reasonable explanation"

Yep never heard a reasonable explanation which raises suspicion, swinging to us has always been about open and honest dialogue between all parties resulting in nicer plays and repeat meets, there are sexual activities we won't engage in and would always be happy to explain why, as per a previous post by us in this thread.... "

You're suspicious because some people choose not to kiss on meets and won't give a reason!?

I choose not to have a guy dump his load all over my face. The reason for that is really personal and I keep it to myself. People aren't obliged to give reasons for things...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ALL the kisses or you don't see my boobs! "

Guess we HAVE to kiss then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ALL the kisses or you don't see my boobs!

Guess we HAVE to kiss then! "

As if it was even off the table!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"No kiss. No sex.

Amended. No good kiss. No sex. "

Oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is before anything. Gets them juices going!!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Just plant one & get on with it will you. I particularly enjoy kissing necks from behind while a lady is kissing H

S

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By *uddlybear2015Man
over a year ago

BEDFORD


"No kiss. No sex. "

Nuff said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me.

It's not judgemental we have just felt very uncomfortable playing with non kissers as per previous experiences and won't meet them now, we tried to get over it, perhaps it's us but the overall vibe from the plays has always strange to us, each to there own....

"I've never heard a reasonable explanation"

Yep never heard a reasonable explanation which raises suspicion, swinging to us has always been about open and honest dialogue between all parties resulting in nicer plays and repeat meets, there are sexual activities we won't engage in and would always be happy to explain why, as per a previous post by us in this thread....

You're suspicious because some people choose not to kiss on meets and won't give a reason!?

I choose not to have a guy dump his load all over my face. The reason for that is really personal and I keep it to myself. People aren't obliged to give reasons for things...

"

Correct they are not obliged, but in our experience whose that don't kiss have in the majority had jealousy issues which come out in the play and make us uncomfortable, it's that simple, it's not judgemental, it's our decision.

The kissing threads appear very often in the forum and it seems to be an emotive subject, but let's cut the crap most of us know from experience the majority of couples that don't kiss others have jealousy issues or hang ups and do nothing to resolve it by using the "it's our choice, no one else's business" etc etc one day a non kissing couple may post a "non bullshit" reason for not kissing but we won't hold our breath......

If you don't want reasonable people to question why you don't kiss via the forum then don't post....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends where her mouths been and how juicy her lips are fs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a genuinely fair guide to how sex will go.... lovely, intimate kisses = good sex.

Kiss like a washing machine, then the sex will probably be a bit shit, too

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over a year ago


"I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me.

It's not judgemental we have just felt very uncomfortable playing with non kissers as per previous experiences and won't meet them now, we tried to get over it, perhaps it's us but the overall vibe from the plays has always strange to us, each to there own....

"I've never heard a reasonable explanation"

Yep never heard a reasonable explanation which raises suspicion, swinging to us has always been about open and honest dialogue between all parties resulting in nicer plays and repeat meets, there are sexual activities we won't engage in and would always be happy to explain why, as per a previous post by us in this thread....

You're suspicious because some people choose not to kiss on meets and won't give a reason!?

I choose not to have a guy dump his load all over my face. The reason for that is really personal and I keep it to myself. People aren't obliged to give reasons for things...

Correct they are not obliged, but in our experience whose that don't kiss have in the majority had jealousy issues which come out in the play and make us uncomfortable, it's that simple, it's not judgemental, it's our decision.

The kissing threads appear very often in the forum and it seems to be an emotive subject, but let's cut the crap most of us know from experience the majority of couples that don't kiss others have jealousy issues or hang ups and do nothing to resolve it by using the "it's our choice, no one else's business" etc etc one day a non kissing couple may post a "non bullshit" reason for not kissing but we won't hold our breath......

If you don't want reasonable people to question why you don't kiss via the forum then don't post...."

There's a way of posting your valid discussion without making sweeping judgy negative generalisations though. I'd be more inclined to have a reasonable discussion if you were able to reflect on your own assumptive standpoint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to kiss on a swinging meet in fact unless I meet someone at a club in a dark room, then kissing is an essential 'factor' in my choice of person I go for.

If I can't kiss I don't want. I have met couple who don't kiss and find it a little frustrating sometimes as it's a sensual way of enjoyment.

Everyone to their own of course.

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over a year ago


"Who kisses on swinging meets?? And if you don't why not?"

I dont kiss other men as I genuinely don't enjoy it except in very rare occasions. It feels awkward and sets me off all jittery...

Adore kissing with Mr though. Funny thing is.. can count on my fingers how many times ive even had to turn my head away to not kiss

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me.

It's not judgemental we have just felt very uncomfortable playing with non kissers as per previous experiences and won't meet them now, we tried to get over it, perhaps it's us but the overall vibe from the plays has always strange to us, each to there own....

"I've never heard a reasonable explanation"

Yep never heard a reasonable explanation which raises suspicion, swinging to us has always been about open and honest dialogue between all parties resulting in nicer plays and repeat meets, there are sexual activities we won't engage in and would always be happy to explain why, as per a previous post by us in this thread....

You're suspicious because some people choose not to kiss on meets and won't give a reason!?

I choose not to have a guy dump his load all over my face. The reason for that is really personal and I keep it to myself. People aren't obliged to give reasons for things...

Correct they are not obliged, but in our experience whose that don't kiss have in the majority had jealousy issues which come out in the play and make us uncomfortable, it's that simple, it's not judgemental, it's our decision.

The kissing threads appear very often in the forum and it seems to be an emotive subject, but let's cut the crap most of us know from experience the majority of couples that don't kiss others have jealousy issues or hang ups and do nothing to resolve it by using the "it's our choice, no one else's business" etc etc one day a non kissing couple may post a "non bullshit" reason for not kissing but we won't hold our breath......

If you don't want reasonable people to question why you don't kiss via the forum then don't post...."

Ouch! We still don't feel the need to explain our preference.

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over a year ago


"Kissing is a genuinely fair guide to how sex will go.... lovely, intimate kisses = good sex.

Kiss like a washing machine, then the sex will probably be a bit shit, too "

I agree. Great description. X

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

This may be fab suicide but I feel I need to speak I am not a definite no to kissing and certainly have on meets but hold my hand up and say kissing another man feels very strange for me.... And nope I am not jealous, never been told I am a crap kisser or neither do I have bad breath.... It just feels wrong intimately..... I struggle to initiate a long kiss to my partner but adore kissing when we do .....My partner doesn't get this as he says it's fine to be fucked by a stranger but not kissed ...... And put like that I guess I am a bit weird..... And I have no

Issue with him kissing on meets .... It seems to work for us and always honest about it ....Oh and doubly weird soul I am... This just stands for men... Kissing women

Seems fine X

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over a year ago


"This may be fab suicide but I feel I need to speak I am not a definite no to kissing and certainly have on meets but hold my hand up and say kissing another man feels very strange for me.... And nope I am not jealous, never been told I am a crap kisser or neither do I have bad breath.... It just feels wrong intimately..... I struggle to initiate a long kiss to my partner but adore kissing when we do .....My partner doesn't get this as he says it's fine to be fucked by a stranger but not kissed ...... And put like that I guess I am a bit weird..... And I have no

Issue with him kissing on meets .... It seems to work for us and always honest about it ....Oh and doubly weird soul I am... This just stands for men... Kissing women

Seems fine X "

Not fab suicide at all, your choices and reasons (whether disclosed or not) should always be respected and not undermined, twisted, trivialised, or negated by others. Ever.

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"This may be fab suicide but I feel I need to speak I am not a definite no to kissing and certainly have on meets but hold my hand up and say kissing another man feels very strange for me.... And nope I am not jealous, never been told I am a crap kisser or neither do I have bad breath.... It just feels wrong intimately..... I struggle to initiate a long kiss to my partner but adore kissing when we do .....My partner doesn't get this as he says it's fine to be fucked by a stranger but not kissed ...... And put like that I guess I am a bit weird..... And I have no

Issue with him kissing on meets .... It seems to work for us and always honest about it ....Oh and doubly weird soul I am... This just stands for men... Kissing women

Seems fine X "

You sound like me. I adore seeing mr kiss other ladies...but just feel uncomfortable kissing other guys... i wish i could enjoy it.. and if its someone we have met a lot or get on with well. Then its less uncomfortable and I can playfully kiss a little. But prefer not to.

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over a year ago


"This may be fab suicide but I feel I need to speak I am not a definite no to kissing and certainly have on meets but hold my hand up and say kissing another man feels very strange for me.... And nope I am not jealous, never been told I am a crap kisser or neither do I have bad breath.... It just feels wrong intimately..... I struggle to initiate a long kiss to my partner but adore kissing when we do .....My partner doesn't get this as he says it's fine to be fucked by a stranger but not kissed ...... And put like that I guess I am a bit weird..... And I have no

Issue with him kissing on meets .... It seems to work for us and always honest about it ....Oh and doubly weird soul I am... This just stands for men... Kissing women

Seems fine X "

I totally understand that, I don't like touching holding hands as it feels too personal but yet I can have sex with that person with no concern at all. I have been told it's rather clinical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kiss. No sex. "

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond


"This may be fab suicide but I feel I need to speak I am not a definite no to kissing and certainly have on meets but hold my hand up and say kissing another man feels very strange for me.... And nope I am not jealous, never been told I am a crap kisser or neither do I have bad breath.... It just feels wrong intimately..... I struggle to initiate a long kiss to my partner but adore kissing when we do .....My partner doesn't get this as he says it's fine to be fucked by a stranger but not kissed ...... And put like that I guess I am a bit weird..... And I have no

Issue with him kissing on meets .... It seems to work for us and always honest about it ....Oh and doubly weird soul I am... This just stands for men... Kissing women

Seems fine X

You sound like me. I adore seeing mr kiss other ladies...but just feel uncomfortable kissing other guys... i wish i could enjoy it.. and if its someone we have met a lot or get on with well. Then its less uncomfortable and I can playfully kiss a little. But prefer not to.

"

I think that's kinda hot in it's own right, understanding this side of it..

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over a year ago


"

I totally understand that, I don't like touching holding hands as it feels too personal but yet I can have sex with that person with no concern at all. I have been told it's rather clinical "

Nooo. Not clinical.. seems weird to me to hold hands with someone you arent with..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"This may be fab suicide but I feel I need to speak I am not a definite no to kissing and certainly have on meets but hold my hand up and say kissing another man feels very strange for me.... And nope I am not jealous, never been told I am a crap kisser or neither do I have bad breath.... It just feels wrong intimately..... I struggle to initiate a long kiss to my partner but adore kissing when we do .....My partner doesn't get this as he says it's fine to be fucked by a stranger but not kissed ...... And put like that I guess I am a bit weird..... And I have no

Issue with him kissing on meets .... It seems to work for us and always honest about it ....Oh and doubly weird soul I am... This just stands for men... Kissing women

Seems fine X "

Its how you play, its legal and consensual...what's to question?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Here are kisses for all of you: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

Thank you

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over a year ago


"I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me.

It's not judgemental we have just felt very uncomfortable playing with non kissers as per previous experiences and won't meet them now, we tried to get over it, perhaps it's us but the overall vibe from the plays has always strange to us, each to there own....

"I've never heard a reasonable explanation"

Yep never heard a reasonable explanation which raises suspicion, swinging to us has always been about open and honest dialogue between all parties resulting in nicer plays and repeat meets, there are sexual activities we won't engage in and would always be happy to explain why, as per a previous post by us in this thread....

You're suspicious because some people choose not to kiss on meets and won't give a reason!?

I choose not to have a guy dump his load all over my face. The reason for that is really personal and I keep it to myself. People aren't obliged to give reasons for things...

Correct they are not obliged, but in our experience whose that don't kiss have in the majority had jealousy issues which come out in the play and make us uncomfortable, it's that simple, it's not judgemental, it's our decision.

The kissing threads appear very often in the forum and it seems to be an emotive subject, but let's cut the crap most of us know from experience the majority of couples that don't kiss others have jealousy issues or hang ups and do nothing to resolve it by using the "it's our choice, no one else's business" etc etc one day a non kissing couple may post a "non bullshit" reason for not kissing but we won't hold our breath......

If you don't want reasonable people to question why you don't kiss via the forum then don't post...."

Ahh so because you think it's bullshit, it probably is. Good debate effort...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes, no tongues though.

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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

Absolutely love kissing as part of a meet. Such a big turn on. Somehow seems a lot less fun without it. I know people have reasons, one guy who I met who wouldn't do it because "it's gay". Admittedly he then blew that excuse out of the water by sucking my cock.....

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Phew maybe I am not alone here X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kiss. No sex.

Amended. No good kiss. No sex. "

I love a nice kiss.great way to make a connection.

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over a year ago


"No kiss. No sex.

Amended. No good kiss. No sex. "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who kisses on swinging meets?? And if you don't why not?

I dont kiss other men as I genuinely don't enjoy it except in very rare occasions. It feels awkward and sets me off all jittery...

Adore kissing with Mr though. Funny thing is.. can count on my fingers how many times ive even had to turn my head away to not kiss "

This ^

I don't like kissing other men and have rarely had to ask others not to kiss me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like kissing so I'd find it odd not doing it with someone I was attracted to

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over a year ago


"I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me.

It's not judgemental we have just felt very uncomfortable playing with non kissers as per previous experiences and won't meet them now, we tried to get over it, perhaps it's us but the overall vibe from the plays has always strange to us, each to there own....

"I've never heard a reasonable explanation"

Yep never heard a reasonable explanation which raises suspicion, swinging to us has always been about open and honest dialogue between all parties resulting in nicer plays and repeat meets, there are sexual activities we won't engage in and would always be happy to explain why, as per a previous post by us in this thread....

You're suspicious because some people choose not to kiss on meets and won't give a reason!?

I choose not to have a guy dump his load all over my face. The reason for that is really personal and I keep it to myself. People aren't obliged to give reasons for things...

Correct they are not obliged, but in our experience whose that don't kiss have in the majority had jealousy issues which come out in the play and make us uncomfortable, it's that simple, it's not judgemental, it's our decision.

The kissing threads appear very often in the forum and it seems to be an emotive subject, but let's cut the crap most of us know from experience the majority of couples that don't kiss others have jealousy issues or hang ups and do nothing to resolve it by using the "it's our choice, no one else's business" etc etc one day a non kissing couple may post a "non bullshit" reason for not kissing but we won't hold our breath......

If you don't want reasonable people to question why you don't kiss via the forum then don't post...."
i can't post why it makes me uncomfortable to kiss other men..but it has nothing to do with jealousy or insecurity.. I love watching Mr kiss.. he would love to see me kiss another guy passionately...

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over a year ago


"I wonder if you can taste judgemental in a kiss?

That'd be when kissing does not turn into sex for me.

It's not judgemental we have just felt very uncomfortable playing with non kissers as per previous experiences and won't meet them now, we tried to get over it, perhaps it's us but the overall vibe from the plays has always strange to us, each to there own....

"I've never heard a reasonable explanation"

Yep never heard a reasonable explanation which raises suspicion, swinging to us has always been about open and honest dialogue between all parties resulting in nicer plays and repeat meets, there are sexual activities we won't engage in and would always be happy to explain why, as per a previous post by us in this thread....

You're suspicious because some people choose not to kiss on meets and won't give a reason!?

I choose not to have a guy dump his load all over my face. The reason for that is really personal and I keep it to myself. People aren't obliged to give reasons for things...

Correct they are not obliged, but in our experience whose that don't kiss have in the majority had jealousy issues which come out in the play and make us uncomfortable, it's that simple, it's not judgemental, it's our decision.

The kissing threads appear very often in the forum and it seems to be an emotive subject, but let's cut the crap most of us know from experience the majority of couples that don't kiss others have jealousy issues or hang ups and do nothing to resolve it by using the "it's our choice, no one else's business" etc etc one day a non kissing couple may post a "non bullshit" reason for not kissing but we won't hold our breath......

If you don't want reasonable people to question why you don't kiss via the forum then don't post....

Ahh so because you think it's bullshit, it probably is. Good debate effort... "

Good debate involves people succinctly giving their opinions and the reasoning behind those x

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By *im_66Woman
over a year ago

Bradford

Only time I don't in a gangbang when I'm blindfolded and tied up. Want to see his eyes.

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over a year ago


"Who kisses on swinging meets?? And if you don't why not?

I dont kiss other men as I genuinely don't enjoy it except in very rare occasions. It feels awkward and sets me off all jittery...

Adore kissing with Mr though. Funny thing is.. can count on my fingers how many times ive even had to turn my head away to not kiss

This ^

I don't like kissing other men and have rarely had to ask others not to kiss me."

We all have out own things though don't we. Personally I'm not sure I could live life without kissing. But I suppose of you have a partner it's a different kettle of fish. Bothered something deeply personal about kissing and to share that? I can understand why people wouldn't

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over a year ago


"Who kisses on swinging meets?? And if you don't why not?

I dont kiss other men as I genuinely don't enjoy it except in very rare occasions. It feels awkward and sets me off all jittery...

Adore kissing with Mr though. Funny thing is.. can count on my fingers how many times ive even had to turn my head away to not kiss

This ^

I don't like kissing other men and have rarely had to ask others not to kiss me.

We all have out own things though don't we. Personally I'm not sure I could live life without kissing. But I suppose of you have a partner it's a different kettle of fish. Bothered something deeply personal about kissing and to share that? I can understand why people wouldn't "
till mr I didnt kiss full stop... so only the last 4 years of my life..

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"Who kisses on swinging meets?? And if you don't why not?

I dont kiss other men as I genuinely don't enjoy it except in very rare occasions. It feels awkward and sets me off all jittery...

Adore kissing with Mr though. Funny thing is.. can count on my fingers how many times ive even had to turn my head away to not kiss

This ^

I don't like kissing other men and have rarely had to ask others not to kiss me.

We all have out own things though don't we. Personally I'm not sure I could live life without kissing. But I suppose of you have a partner it's a different kettle of fish. Bothered something deeply personal about kissing and to share that? I can understand why people wouldn't till mr I didnt kiss full stop... so only the last 4 years of my life..

"

Really? At all? I must say that's quite intriguing.

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over a year ago


"Who kisses on swinging meets?? And if you don't why not?

I dont kiss other men as I genuinely don't enjoy it except in very rare occasions. It feels awkward and sets me off all jittery...

Adore kissing with Mr though. Funny thing is.. can count on my fingers how many times ive even had to turn my head away to not kiss

This ^

I don't like kissing other men and have rarely had to ask others not to kiss me.

We all have out own things though don't we. Personally I'm not sure I could live life without kissing. But I suppose of you have a partner it's a different kettle of fish. Bothered something deeply personal about kissing and to share that? I can understand why people wouldn't till mr I didnt kiss full stop... so only the last 4 years of my life..

Really? At all? I must say that's quite intriguing. "
i have my reasons and guys rarely try to. I did group play only. Except with my partners and even my ex partner's i did not kiss.

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over a year ago


"Who kisses on swinging meets?? And if you don't why not?

I dont kiss other men as I genuinely don't enjoy it except in very rare occasions. It feels awkward and sets me off all jittery...

Adore kissing with Mr though. Funny thing is.. can count on my fingers how many times ive even had to turn my head away to not kiss

This ^

I don't like kissing other men and have rarely had to ask others not to kiss me.

We all have out own things though don't we. Personally I'm not sure I could live life without kissing. But I suppose of you have a partner it's a different kettle of fish. Bothered something deeply personal about kissing and to share that? I can understand why people wouldn't till mr I didnt kiss full stop... so only the last 4 years of my life..

Really? At all? I must say that's quite intriguing. i have my reasons and guys rarely try to. I did group play only. Except with my partners and even my ex partner's i did not kiss."

Not questioning your reasons, I just find it interesting .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not questioning your reasons, I just find it interesting . "
but why... if someone doesn't like anal. Or cum or water sports.. everyone accepts it as a preference but if you dont kiss your seen as a freak

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over a year ago

Worth pointing out that I adore kissing in case you thought I was adverse to it...don't think I've ever not kissed when engaging in anything remotely sexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Not questioning your reasons, I just find it interesting . but why... if someone doesn't like anal. Or cum or water sports.. everyone accepts it as a preference but if you dont kiss your seen as a freak "

Why does anyone find anything interesting? And i certainly don't think it's freakish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't always kiss. It isn't a deal breaker for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not questioning your reasons, I just find it interesting . but why... if someone doesn't like anal. Or cum or water sports.. everyone accepts it as a preference but if you dont kiss your seen as a freak "

Equating kissing with anal etc really is strange and really misses the point, after all we all kiss our Mum, anyone sensible can understand why some people don't like anal or cum or watersports.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who kisses on swinging meets?? And if you don't why not?"

Don't think you'll ever get a true reason and why people posted who wouldn't give a reason kind of makes the debate mute eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moot*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moot*"

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums...."

Eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?"

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here....

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over a year ago


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here...."

That's alright, you've told everyone why they don't kiss

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By *lwaysASinnerCouple
over a year ago

North West

Personally we get turned on by kissing. Kissing is a route to sex. When kissing each other it's emotional and passionate. When kissing others it's a way to impress, a way to entice a route to sex. Each to their own though.

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"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here....

That's alright, you've told everyone why they don't kiss "

Expressed our opinion based on OUR EXPERIENCES that is all....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here....

That's alright, you've told everyone why they don't kiss

Expressed our opinion based on OUR EXPERIENCES that is all.... "

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here....

That's alright, you've told everyone why they don't kiss

Expressed our opinion based on OUR EXPERIENCES that is all.... "

Fuck me this non-judgemental judgement is still ongoing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really enjoy kissing and wouldn't enjoy play without it.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"ALL the kisses or you don't see my boobs!

Big snogs, now get 'em out missus

Mmmmmwwwhhhaaaa

(.)(.) "

Probably ( . )( . ) morelike

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"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here....

That's alright, you've told everyone why they don't kiss

Expressed our opinion based on OUR EXPERIENCES that is all....

Fuck me this non-judgemental judgement is still ongoing? "

It is. It is. I'm very judgy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here...."

Its surely everyone's right not to answer the question in the way expected by the person asking it. By saying we don't explain our reasons I "was" giving an anwer...just not the one that some might have expected.

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

we don't drink or smoke which seems the norm hence kissing puts Amy off so limits our meet opportunities

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"we don't drink or smoke which seems the norm hence kissing puts Amy off so limits our meet opportunities "

Does it? Me (f) not liking to receive oral sex puts more people off than us not kissing.

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over a year ago


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here....

Its surely everyone's right not to answer the question in the way expected by the person asking it. By saying we don't explain our reasons I "was" giving an anwer...just not the one that some might have expected.

"

By that logic why enter an adult debate at all if all you do is deflect the question? Oh blimey why do we bother? We wouldn't get a straight answer anyway

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here....

Its surely everyone's right not to answer the question in the way expected by the person asking it. By saying we don't explain our reasons I "was" giving an anwer...just not the one that some might have expected.

By that logic why enter an adult debate at all if all you do is deflect the question? Oh blimey why do we bother? We wouldn't get a straight answer anyway "

Here is my straight answer. I entered this adult debate because I am able to do so on an open forum. I explained why I answered the op as I did and you believe I am deflecting which is your prerogative. I'm not but I think we're probably best leaving it here.

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over a year ago


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here....

Its surely everyone's right not to answer the question in the way expected by the person asking it. By saying we don't explain our reasons I "was" giving an anwer...just not the one that some might have expected.

By that logic why enter an adult debate at all if all you do is deflect the question? Oh blimey why do we bother? We wouldn't get a straight answer anyway "

Your level of eyeball rolling and insistence that people do things the way you want (i.e. answer the thread this way/that way) suggests to me that you'd not accept someone else's reason should they want to proffer it anyway. You'd write it off as whatever reason *you've* decided and decide that they're lying. Your personal butt hurt, judgemental and patronising stance is really bizarre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here....

Its surely everyone's right not to answer the question in the way expected by the person asking it. By saying we don't explain our reasons I "was" giving an anwer...just not the one that some might have expected.

By that logic why enter an adult debate at all if all you do is deflect the question? Oh blimey why do we bother? We wouldn't get a straight answer anyway

Your level of eyeball rolling and insistence that people do things the way you want (i.e. answer the thread this way/that way) suggests to me that you'd not accept someone else's reason should they want to proffer it anyway. You'd write it off as whatever reason *you've* decided and decide that they're lying. Your personal butt hurt, judgemental and patronising stance is really bizarre. "

Not at all, just find it bizarre that again the OP's question has not been answered, we haven't decided that people are lying on this thread at all, at no time have we accused anyone who had given a reason on the thread as lying, just find it incredibly funny how people cannot give a straight answer, putting that to one side, we know people have lied to us with regards to why they don't kiss from personal experience whilst swinging, if would have been nice to actually hear some more reasons on why people don't kiss in the thread that is all, the eyeball rolling pertains to the accusations thrown at us and movement away from the OP's question

We are not saying people should kiss, that is there choice, it would just be nice to hear some honest, adult and sensible reasons as to why people don't kiss so we had a better understanding of it

Everyone has a right to swing how they want but when it has a negative impact on others that's not swinging and in our experience, non kissers have had a negative impact on the play and at times have left us feeling used and made things awkward the expression "oh you want me to suck your cock but I can't kiss you" springs to mind.....

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By *regory-pecksMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"No kiss. No sex.

Amended. No good kiss. No sex. "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume that some couples don't kiss anyone else as it's an intimate act that they like to keep between themselves.

Something they want to keep back, not give their all so to speak.

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

I love kissing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here....

Its surely everyone's right not to answer the question in the way expected by the person asking it. By saying we don't explain our reasons I "was" giving an anwer...just not the one that some might have expected.

By that logic why enter an adult debate at all if all you do is deflect the question? Oh blimey why do we bother? We wouldn't get a straight answer anyway

Your level of eyeball rolling and insistence that people do things the way you want (i.e. answer the thread this way/that way) suggests to me that you'd not accept someone else's reason should they want to proffer it anyway. You'd write it off as whatever reason *you've* decided and decide that they're lying. Your personal butt hurt, judgemental and patronising stance is really bizarre.

Not at all, just find it bizarre that again the OP's question has not been answered, we haven't decided that people are lying on this thread at all, at no time have we accused anyone who had given a reason on the thread as lying, just find it incredibly funny how people cannot give a straight answer, putting that to one side, we know people have lied to us with regards to why they don't kiss from personal experience whilst swinging, if would have been nice to actually hear some more reasons on why people don't kiss in the thread that is all, the eyeball rolling pertains to the accusations thrown at us and movement away from the OP's question

We are not saying people should kiss, that is there choice, it would just be nice to hear some honest, adult and sensible reasons as to why people don't kiss so we had a better understanding of it

Everyone has a right to swing how they want but when it has a negative impact on others that's not swinging and in our experience, non kissers have had a negative impact on the play and at times have left us feeling used and made things awkward the expression "oh you want me to suck your cock but I can't kiss you" springs to mind....."

I've not said you *have* said anyone is lying, just to clarify that. Not everyone wants to tell you their reason. This doesn't make their reason not honest, not adult and not sensible. It doesn't make their post less valid. It certainly doesn't make their post unwelcome. Some people have answered. Some haven't. You've your experiences. They've theirs. It's all cool. I find your inability to grasp why your posts raised some heckles funny. Funny weird. But I take your point, you wanted a debate, you wanted people to open up to you, they didn't. You got the kiss off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I assume that some couples don't kiss anyone else as it's an intimate act that they like to keep between themselves.

Something they want to keep back, not give their all so to speak."

Also oral sex is a intimate act ,I think same as kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never kissed anyone in uk meaning some i did not know so i do not know

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By *regory-pecksMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"Kissing is a genuinely fair guide to how sex will go.... lovely, intimate kisses = good sex.

Kiss like a washing machine, then the sex will probably be a bit shit, too "

This

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By *regory-pecksMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Why is "kissing" not listed as an interest on FAB?

Just wondering...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is "kissing" not listed as an interest on FAB?

Just wondering..."

Very good point, as it seems a big interest judging by this thread.

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By *limj93Man
over a year ago

London & Berks

It depends on the scenario. If the couple swinging are keen and good at kissing then I'm 100% down for it. If they're not comfortable or it doesn't really seem right then it can be brushed over.

It can really improve the pleasure of a meet though in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worth pointing out that I adore kissing in case you thought I was adverse to it...don't think I've ever not kissed when engaging in anything remotely sexual"

OP's post got lost amongst the heated debates

OP sorry my post is way off topic. Nothing to do with kissing. I was just passing through and I felt the need to add what came into my mind when I read your thread.

Well you only started the thread, but then it escalated to much more then kissing.

Fab is full of surprises...

There is a huge change in the way 'regular forumites' post in threads. The transition has been going on for a while...

Newbies you won't have a clue, but people who lurke more then post will know some of the 'regular forumites' have flipped sides/opinions and the manner in which they engage other users was not how they used to...

Different groups and individuals go at each other over differences and are not able to simply let it go...

There is a reason why soo many people stay away from the forums. A few dominating personalities sometimes come across as bullies. Every now and again newbies dip their toes and the struggle begins...

The fight for survival...

Some newbies excel because they have equally strong personalities. Many do not survive because they get overwhelmed by the bullish posters... we never see them again!

For those who lurke and have not ever posted in forums yet please don't be put off. If you feel a bit intimidated by some of the heated exchanges that can go over the top...

Read the following:

This was in another thread. You will have a giggle at this. Amongst the chaos there was a witty reply... a golden nugget of hope...

Imagine it is exactly like in this thread... chaos/drama/politics... it is all kicking off...

Someone posts:

"I'm worried about anyone who only reads one book and then lives their life by it."

The reply was:

"Can we please leave Harry Potter fans out of the discussion?"

Pow have some of that!!

That was an exceptionally intelligent funny reply!!

Genius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh the how you should interact or not in the forum police have arrived - good stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing yes, it's vital (for me), best sort of foreplay.

What I do find weird though, talking as a bi guy, are men who won't kiss. I'm talking about guys that'll suck your cock and/or want to stick thier tongue up your ass but get all precious about kissing. One classic response to my question about a kiss (from a guy who'd just asked if I'd piss in his face I should add) was, "ugh no that's disgusting..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kiss. No sex. "

Snap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing yes, it's vital (for me), best sort of foreplay.

What I do find weird though, talking as a bi guy, are men who won't kiss. I'm talking about guys that'll suck your cock and/or want to stick thier tongue up your ass but get all precious about kissing. One classic response to my question about a kiss (from a guy who'd just asked if I'd piss in his face I should add) was, "ugh no that's disgusting...""

I know - preferences eh?

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By *pudulkeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Kissing is such a huge turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who kisses on swinging meets?? And if you don't why not?"

If I didn't kiss you. It probably indicates I didn't fancy you. If I dont fancy you, it means we are not going to get naked.

If you do t kiss me back, I kind of think the same way about you fancying me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I assume that some couples don't kiss anyone else as it's an intimate act that they like to keep between themselves.

Something they want to keep back, not give their all so to speak."

That'd be my guess too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think kissing is one of, if not THE most intimate thing two people can do together.

Personally I adore kissing, I love that intimacy and the build up to great sex.

And it's because of the intimacy I can see why some people wouldnt want to include it in a meet.

Is someone said no kissing it wouldn't stop me meeting them.

Equally I wouldn't judge them or question their preferences. I have preferences too, adults should be able to accept and understand that.

Seems simple to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? She asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here...."

FTFY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here...."
i have given it several times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here....i have given it several times. "

Nooooo, you haven't given the answer THEY want.....

Apparently saying "it's my business not your business" is deflecting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here....i have given it several times.

Nooooo, you haven't given the answer THEY want.....

Apparently saying "it's my business not your business" is deflecting."

I tried my best amswering my reasons 'if' I didn't kiss. I hope that fits how I should have answered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here....i have given it several times.

Nooooo, you haven't given the answer THEY want.....

Apparently saying "it's my business not your business" is deflecting."

My favourite part was when having a discussion about the subject was apparently disapproved by Forum Saviour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely love kissing as part of a meet. Such a big turn on. Somehow seems a lot less fun without it. I know people have reasons, one guy who I met who wouldn't do it because "it's gay". Admittedly he then blew that excuse out of the water by sucking my cock..... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not questioning your reasons, I just find it interesting . but why... if someone doesn't like anal. Or cum or water sports.. everyone accepts it as a preference but if you dont kiss your seen as a freak "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here....i have given it several times.

Nooooo, you haven't given the answer THEY want.....

Apparently saying "it's my business not your business" is deflecting.

I tried my best amswering my reasons 'if' I didn't kiss. I hope that fits how I should have answered. "

Probably not.

But don't go changing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here....i have given it several times.

Nooooo, you haven't given the answer THEY want.....

Apparently saying "it's my business not your business" is deflecting.

My favourite part was when having a discussion about the subject was apparently disapproved by Forum Saviour! "

I'm going to try and create an emoji for the forum police.

It'll look something like a helmet.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I do, love a good kiss , it sets the tone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moot*

Of course stand corrected

Deflection eh? Always works wonders on the forums....

Eh?

Most people have deflected the OP's question, would you not agree? He asked why people didn't kiss? Not seen a real answer here....i have given it several times.

Nooooo, you haven't given the answer THEY want.....

Apparently saying "it's my business not your business" is deflecting.

My favourite part was when having a discussion about the subject was apparently disapproved by Forum Saviour!

I'm going to try and create an emoji for the forum police.

It'll look something like a helmet....."

Perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still kiss

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